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alexistaiwo:
How can Obafemi be 33 years
Do footballers and those in the entertainment industry also use the 365 days calendar or is there another calendar comprising of 5000 days in a year.


I am not understanding at all

whitebeard:
I really dont like anything Indian..especially Bollywood..I am not jealous or hating, it a natural stuff. I just dont like India.

Justiceleague1:
Meanwhile all coneheads are shaking like shakespear already

Movic1:
The same SE that once you arrived there, poverty will give you a dirty slap on the face? My brother the poverty in SE is very visible and clear! You Shout we don't travel, we don't travel? So you expect us to leave where some people are running to in batch and move to where they are running away from? The same brown roof and slums your brothers would rather die in than to live in the East?

Blue3k:
The most interstitial thing about this study shows NW is still more impovished than North east. Borno in spite of Boko Haram still in better position than many states in northern region. Yobe is missing from list.

Poverty rate by geopolitical region:
SW- 19.33
SS- 25.22
SE- 27.36
NC- 42.53
NE- 76.04%
NW- 80.96%

Front Page: lalasticlala

Source: http://www.dataforall.org/dashboard/ophi/index.php/mpi/download_brief_files/NGAive

Ps: do you guys find it interesting people from SE always bitter about statistics calling it fake. They won't debunk it the just go on emotional rants. Oxford and UN are Liars in their mind.

Sunnycliff:
There's a reason why it's called PRIVATE UNIVERSITY

I think Allafin is on some cheap drugs here!


When the Govt has not properly funded its own Public Universities, it should be spending our tax on Privately owned university?

Alaafin, if nor be for respect, l for swear for you this morning o.

Atiku2019:
Very Confused Government Fighting Corruption Indeed



Well I Stand With Atiku

Hahhaaaa, see this one!

From fry-pan to FIRE!

9japrof:
Aba is a terrible place cos situations like this keep popping up regularly.

Just pray you no enter their trap ni cos these boys no get joy walahi

allCopacetic:
All LED lamps are comprised of diodes (not bulbs per say) and a driver.
what you might have to change in the event of a power surge etc is the driver.
Good Quality LEDs have a life span multiple times that of regular lamps.

saydfact:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/4541923_wp20160216185826pro_jpege78c52533b67e943fe72c609145b7520

@ Mrkumareze:
the pics above shows shoprite walls (googled) with about 30 courses of blocks (to the right side of the pics) WITHOUT a beam dividing it. The distance between those columns are about 6-9m apart....

The method used in erecting those block is different from the normal block setting way - thats an info for another day and time.

Hope now you believe my statements earlier?

Thanks Bro...

bettercreature:
You obviously dont know anything,Banking app is not what you can just delete and reinstall just like that without verification beside i must tell you most of these thiefs are friends and family and in some cases the owners are too careless sending their info to fraudstars,without all these it's next to impossible to steal money from your account

godofuck231:
No need to run, he should be the dormant not the alfa, he should talk less, let her do the talking, don't go to her complaining, don't don't raise your voice on her especially when fuming, treat her with love,correcr her with love turn her into a new born baby, melt her with love, take her to the gym more often to work out her stress and frustrations, helps her loose the adrenaline buildup, e also has to be her minder,

After anger management she will be better, it makes her understand her self better and knows how to avoid meltdowns,

If she slips into a blood rage, find freezing water and pour on her head, pour lots of it,

Living is a cold region like Canada controls her blood rage, heat and discomfort is a no go for MAOA-A2, tell tale signs are sudden flash of red ring in the eyes, lol, that's why sango is said to have blood in his eyes " I see blood"

You are funny-die!
Can you imagine all those advice about MAO2 and MAO1, just so you can tame a crased woman?
When would the guy have time to do his daily job and earn a living, if he suddenly becomes a minder to a grown-up psychopath that is supposed to be his helper?

Some people think thi sis a video game where you can control all the actors, as you wish.

Belafonte:
Look for another babe. This relationship of yours should have ended already. Take it from me, I have learned a bitter lesson...people do not change. She will beg you because she doesn't want to lose you, not because she wants to change or sees anything wrong with in her ways. Leave that relationship now or cry bitter tears in the future. The fact that you've run away from your own home and live in hiding like a fugitive should be more than sufficient to instruct you on what to do.

They become worse after they get the ring. If she's unbearable now, think what she'll be when she becomes official. If you value your soul, exit that relationship now. Good luck.

mofedamijo:
Where was the MAOA-A2 when they dated for 2years,and friends 4 6yrs, where was it when she was been gentle and smiling to all family memebers,my dear that lady is on a mission........

armyofone:
Op,
You made a mistake beating her up. Break that cycle of domestic violence because it goes in cycle. The best thing is to end the union especially since you guys have no children.

TheKingIsHere:
This is a big lesson to all those foOlish guys that will come here to say "any man that lays his hands on a woman is a beast" without hearing the full story.

Women are very dangerous and can hide their true character for years.

Even King Solomon the wisest man that ever lived said that it is better for a man to live in the wilderness than to stay in the same house with a nagging wife.

OP, it is well.

Brugo:
This is why I am careful around spiritual and religious ladies. They can pretend for Africa.

Mr man, I am happy you are alive. At least you can type this sad story here. Some men became popular on Nairaland after their wives or girlfriends stabbed them to death.

I don't blame you for hitting her. She assaulted you repeatedly like a man so she shouldn't be surprised by the slaps.

There are some situations where walking away is death. You must subdue and discard such maniacs. Let her family come and carry their daughter or better still, go and dump her in her father's house. This girl is not ready to be a wife.

Beware of church ladies. Many of them are green snakes under the grass. They are just waiting to ensnare an unfortunate guy.

Chai! Woman shoe? For my head? It's straight to her father's house for good. No looking back.

NDelta:
Op, pls divorce SHOULD BE ONLY A LAST RESORT. Do not divorce her, it is not advisable, call a family meeting involving your parents and hers including respected extended family members and narate your story, allow people/her family to talk to her about her attitude. Also try and be nicer to her, turn quarrel into jokes and make her look bad. For instance, ah madam na everything we go de quarrel about? Na wa for you oh, see as your blood de hot, this my wife, u be stuborn woman o, abeg leave that thing etc those are de-excalation techniques

wrongchoice:
COURTSHIP DAYS AND MY HATRED FOR WOMEN BEATERS
During our courtship days I have always reiterated my stand on men that do beat their wife. I was of the opinion that they are not lesser than a beast.
She is very quiet, she hardly finishes her words, and she was full of smile that my grandma named her “smiling smiling girl”. My family members were thanking God for me because of her gentle nature. She doesn’t have friends, she goes to church regularly. I went for her because I have seen a lot of unhappy homes and by all means I wanted to avoid such situation. Before her, I had seen many girls that I love and they equally love me too. I leave them immediately I see a sign of anger in them. So, I told her that all I wanted in my life was happiness and I will make sure I keep the home together and going smoothly in as much that happens.
She has her trust issues which I thought they were necessary and not out of control (that was my greatest mistake), but aggressiveness and hatred ,I never had that thought a bit. She didn’t even look it.

MY FIRST SHOCKER
After the introduction, she was eager for the wedding despite the fact that I hardly got employed in a small firm barely a year. We fixed the date and arrangements were going.
3 days before the wedding , I told my wife to-be that one of my friends promised to bring event ;ushers for our wedding just to add glamour to the day, she didn’t allow me to finish when she started shouting on top of her voice and with this kind of never seen before aggressiveness. I never saw such red eyes before in 2 years of our courtship and over 6 years as friends. She said my friends and I were bringing oloshos to sleep with for bash eve which I never even plan to have. Her argument wasn’t a concern but I never see her reacted that way. I cried and I knew I was in for a big trouble.

THE REAL SHOW

Fast forward to after wedding. To my surprise, before any argument she would hit me, sometimes slap just less than 2 months in the marriage. I discovered she has the strength of 3 men. We are talking about a lady that never misses any church program as a youth and when we moved to our new area , she became more popular than myself in the church. This went on for a while coupled with terrible issues that I would be taken one after the other.

THE DAY OF LESSON
There was this afternoon that an argument ensue base on (what I will share latter) , she took out knife, I collected it from her, she brought out fork I collected it from her, she resulted to my belt and she started beating me with it ,I didn’t even struggle with her just like before. She took her shoe hitting it on my head ,I didn’t even move, I wasn’t even angry self. She bite me on my shoulder and thumb which nearly had that finger off if not for quick medical attention. At this point a question flashed through my mind, “would this be how my live would be going?”. This woman may even ask me to lay flat to receive some lashes if I didn’t make attempt to stop her. I concluded that I have to do something. Then without any iota of anger in me. I raised my hand up and gave her 2 thunderous slaps across her face. She opened her mouth for complete 5 minutes she couldn’t close it. I knew she would be thinking she has over stepped her boundary. She started shouting that I have killed her and all sorts. People that never had me speak in that street for good one year I stayed their plus close to a year she has spent with me were aghast. Since that day many things changed for the worse. Though she stopped hitting me after that, except sometimes when she would push me against the wall and i get some bruises.
I later travelled home and my siblings were asking me if my hands were tied to my back while a woman was inflicting all these injuries on my body. They saw both the fresh ones and the old bruises. It was a very big issue that families, church members had to intervene. I can tell you since that day things had never remain the same again. It was the beginning of trouble and unhappy home.

My question is this? If you were in my position what would you have done differently?


you can check the previous post here
https://www.nairaland.com/4126638/how-wife-been-terrorizing-me

If l were you, l would DIVORCE HER right away (File for a Divorce and show the Court all these evidence of Domestic Violence).
It is not a crime and dont worry about what people will say, they would not say more than that if and when she kills you eventually
Those who blame you now will get over it with time, when you do beter in future

I suspect your are still young and you still have many decades of "suffering and agony" (or happiness, if you act now) before you.
I counsel people in church and l can tell you that almost all Men who are in a troubled and violent marriage always see the SIGNS, SAME SIGNS as you have seen and they always think IT WILL GET BETTER WITH TIME........ But it GETS WORSE WITH TIME (excluding brief period of "hold fire" when she needs tome to plot her next move ).

I always ask the women: Honestly, do you think you will change from what you are today or you just need to buy time?
And their answer at times, shocks the husband who is probably stil lthinking they can mend fences

If it suits them in future, to reconcile and re-marry, good for everybody though that is alway smostly a farce!
Dogs always go back to their vomit, is a time-proven cliche.

So, @Wrongchoice, your life is in your hands now, your decision is your own.

saydfact:
Firstly we didnt do conduit its all surface
secondly pillars at the corners for what? - did u see the heavy rocks we dug out of that floor? even gravel sellers were asking me to see to them.
lastly putting pillars where we have blocks on the terrace and beam - pls what function wld this serve?

i just told you we didnt put any load on those blocks - THE COST SAVING I WAS REFERRING TO IS DROPPING THE UNNECESSARY AND FOCUSING ON THE NECESSARY..

If we didnt have any block on the terrace wld the building fall? NO - we only introduced it to separate the apartments - its has no other function, remove that singular function and its a waste of time and money.

thanks for your sincere concern and advice.... maybe u shd check out my post on properties sections - I dont compromise quality

saydfact:
I went with different colours for the flats, to give it a unique look different from all other hostel in the area.... at this stage everyone wanted a room in our new hostel.....

I was also busy with new works in Lagos and couldn't travel to take final pics of the project; but what we have here is close to the final pics.

Lalasticlala for a project in Ilese, Ogun State beside the School of Health - what do you think?


Thanks for following - Let's discuss.

saydfact:
I agree with you 100% but when u consider u're spending 8m on a building in Ilese - hmmm
that been said, we brought the best quality WC for that type, we wld have changed the system inside if the client wanted to spend more..

saydfact:
its a cost saving technic - the beam wld only add to the aesthetics since we didnt put the roof load on the terrace but rather on the main walls....

and we still had our aesthetics thou

saydfact:
Our wiring was done with Nigeria Cables.....


this is one product you cant compromise on - for whatever reason..

Dont just try it...

PenisCaP:
So u wrot e this long poo here for us to do what kwanu?.

Anywas enjoying my novel "when olosho takes over instagram"

SalamRushdie:
So you have loved PMB since 1983 ....I swear its that 67 IQ that is doing you strong thing oo

Yes, l did when he overthrew the corrupt and useless Shagari/NPN regime with Tunde idiagbon.....and l bet you were not even born by then.

Anyway, all miscreants are terrorists.

SalamRushdie:
Sorry to digress but you caome across as gay from yiur write up

HungerBAD:
This is sad.

98% of infected females on earth, especially the married ones, get infected by their husbands.

It was just yesterday night i was advising a secondary senior of mine,that has a philandering joke of a husband who is hell bent on getting into the Guinness books of Records for the amount of women he has bedded.

Why the man even got married is puzzling, he should have remained a bachelor and slept around as he wants.

I hate divorces. But when a woman walks away from a cheating husband to spare her life, then i have no problem with that.

The " STAY BECAUSE" of your kids in the marriage mentality in Nigeria should be discouraged. I mean, a woman is faithful to you the husband, and you go carry incurable " WakaWaKa Diseases" then pass it on to the innocent woman.

Shame on you if you are a man, a married one at that, that only does not care about your well being, but to put your wife at risk?shame on you.

Now to the women. If you have a cheating husband, and you know he sleeps around a lot. Especially if he now has a love child(children ) outside his matrimonial home,and you still make excuses for him because you want to remain a MRS. Shame on you too.

Modified: to my favorite IPOB spokesman SalamRushdie quoting me below. I am sorry you are a product of your family. I am also sorry you were not brought up in a family that taught you the values of being faithful to just ONE WOMAN like us.

I am sorry you grew up in a family that taught you that to be a man, you must sleep with MULTIPLE WOMEN.

So you are a woman......and so uncouth!

When a woman gets a raw deal from her hsuabdn or Boy friend, she becomes "adviser" to all women, like her man is like all men and she is like all women herslf.

Abeg, leave ALL other women alone and go treat your personal issues.

greatman247:
That's a legend right there, happy posthumous birthday sir. Continuetp rest in peace.

SLIDEwaxie:
Why u go involve ekiti police?

Which civil service for ekiti dey chop well?

rozayx5:
Nwamaikpe beats explanation




some days he is funny

some days silly

some days a nonentity

some days sensible

science cant explain him