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slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright....

One is talented and the other one us untalented moda fuckkking frogged voice who uses too much voice enhancer in the studio and still dishes out dogg shitt to his fans

StacyO:
Please read through.

I'm actually in my early twenties, not that I'm too old for marriage anyway. One of my top clients who I'm trying to polish out a business with, went ahead to arrange a mini impromptu by fire by force relationship for me and his brother.

Like bethrothing someone to someone else without their full consent.

It was a men's arrangement cause, I was surprised how they all came to that agreement.

I tried breaking up with him the first time and he told his brothers about it. Guilt almost finished me cause, I was blamed for the excuse I brought up. His uncle who is in charge of the contract brought us back together again.

The main issue now is that I want to break up with the guy once and for all but, I don't want to hurt him and I still have to save the contract at hand.

The guy is very much attached to me already and I won't fake it, I'm equally beginning to feel butterflies in my stomach.

I want to go about it in a very simple way. So that at the end, we all go our separate ways happy.

Any idea is highly welcomed. Serious and mature minds please.

Thank you.


Modified:: I told him my own part of the story and my reasons of not wanting to be in a relationship with him.
I'm not ready for any relationship now and I dont like him. Most importantly, I dont want to chop his money while deceiving him.

He is still not accepting reality but, I'm sure with time, he'll move on.

PS: His uncle isn't aware of this yet and I begged him not to tell anyone.

iwaeda:
Reports of ongoing clashes between factions of the transport unions in the Obalende area of Lagos Island.

Eye witnesses have reported gunshots and use of various dangerous weapons.

The police have been drafted in.

Advice: Defer all movements towards this area and make a detour if currently enroute mentioned areas.

Source Eyes Witness



https://mobile.twitter.com/NotJustSalmanPR/status/1359768082470887426



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/02/breaking-lagos-island-boils-as-nurtw-rival-groups-clash-in-obalende-video/

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

Daddy46:
the earlier you realize woman are foolish and stupid the better for you my own experience then my babe way I they Nack steady sleep with my best friend everybody no about am he pain me but I acted normal till date,that is not enough got pregnant for our third paddy guy get those chat and nudes she keep sending as evidence first show your friend and if she is aware she might open up that the is the one at fault last last sorry as for me I no get any close friend ooooooooo

chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for NYSC on Abuja 2017. Unfortunately for me, I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bonded till one day she asked to know where I stay in Abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place....

One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rushed down to Apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. She didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after NYSC and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée has an event to attend in Yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her.

A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar (venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me.

SilverNorGold:
Nice!... That BASTARD Sunday Igboho MUST be TREATED the SAME way the USA TREATED OSAMA BIN LADEN! That bloody terrorist MUST BE VICIOUSLY DEALT WITH, together with those bloody SW politicians bankrolling him to DISRUPT the peace and stability of this great country.

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH ABEG! NO BE ONLY YORUBAS DEY NIGERIA!

NONSENSE!

Kapilta:
I knew it. I knew it's gon be Obembet behind the thread. Penaldo zombie. Penaldo with over 300 penalty goals and over 400 tap ins and they won't let us hear word. Let Giroud play in Real Madrid with Marcelo and Vasquez always doing the crossing like they did for headnaldo and watch him score over 50 goals season in season out. Nonsense. Late Diego Maradona and Lionel Messi remains two only greatest to have graced the pitch. QED

Serene123:
Please I will need your constructive opinion on this. Been battling with this thoughts for some time now.

I engaged my girl last year. Reason why I did engage her was because I saw her intent to be with me. I have seen her gave out her cash to help get somethings for our new apartment. She has even used her cash to buy some properties she wants in the house when we get married.
She has stood and defended me to her family on why she is getting married to me. She has really earned my trust and never regretted engaging her. She is one girl that every man will like to have as wife

In the course of our relationship months back, I noticed there is this guy that call her. I questioned and she said is just a friend. I have told her I am not comfortable with the call. Yes I have listened to the calls and it doesn't sound serious
On 25th Dec I place a call across to her phone and she wasn't picking. She later told me reason why she didn't pick.
While we were together I noticed she didn't pick cos she went out with the same guy I have been complaining about. I got to know via a pic.
She has insisted nothing serious is going on.
I was so angry and I needed to take her phone and check up something. We struggled with the phone and she injured her nails.. She is saying I am a woman beater and I have anger issue.
She started keeping to herself and phone and was bold to tell me that this action of mine has succeeded in killing the feelings she has for me.

She has asked for time to get her mental health back and for close to two weeks now we haven't been flowing well..

I have tried to talk to her so we fix this shit but she said she needs time.

I have decided to give her the time she needs while I focus on something else. Yes, I miss her

I won't lie, is emotional for me and someone is currently trying to fill her vacuum by being all nice. I am getting closer to her, but my heart still yearn for my fiance.

I don't know if I am doing the right thing by being close to another lady. I don't know if I should belivee her that she has lost feelings for me and move on.
I need your advise.

Sorry for the lengthy thread

Infolenka:
Can you just shut up. The question I asked is directed to ladies. Take your stale crap to another thread.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Mohit won't accommodate untalented moda fuckkking frogged voice for long especially those ones that uses voice enhancer in the studio and still dishes out dog shitt to the Public or rather to their fans
When they discover you ain't got talent then you were shown the heave ho

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Mohit won't accommodate untalented moda fuckkking frogged voice for long especially those ones that uses voice enhancer in the studio and still dishes out dog shitt to the Public or rather to their fans
When they discover you ain't got talent then you were shown the heave ho

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

Kriss216:
School fees since 2018 = N200,000

Sent her mom =N100,0000

Phones, laptops, bags, clothes =N250,000

Outings/Drinks/Food/. =N60,000

And she took my... =N600,000



Total = N1,210,000 in just two years on a fish brain!

unity004:
my backup have been poultry farming but I have been facing challenges from chickens getting sick where some will end up dead to people buying on credit and not paying not to talk of expensive feeds. just hoping on God

mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

adenigga:
https://m.guardian.ng/News/Buhari-Zulum-mourn-53-slain-Borno-farmers-victims-seek-help

LaEvilIMiss:
Jonathan was corrupt to the core and he allowed corruption to fester in PDP and in his cabinet

KhalifaJnr:
Good day Nlers,

I don't know how to start my story it's so bad that I am ashamed of putting it down in writing
I had a business worth 1m, was doing great until my closed friend introduced me to betting - that was the downfall of my career...betting made me a begger. I staked 200k on "sure" 5 odds but it went to shred, tried recovering; staked 500k - same story

I was depressed, could not eat, started going to different websites and forecasting games, but same problem - lose
I sold my car, used the money to gamble, won 400k, d nxt day I loss 600k.

Yesterday I staked 200k on 3 matches ; Juventus, Dortmund and Real madrid...everything red. I'm tired. I wanna quit.

Bash and insult me, no p. I need advice(s) please.

Yenefer:
We keep saying it. This whole Lekki mascara is a fake news and propaganda

sammirano:
CNN NO SERIOUS. How will one media oversee tell us what happened in our country? It is obvious, it is some misinformed and unscrupulous youths that are feeding them with whatever info they may have. FG should just ignore them outrightly. Better matters at hand.

JAMO84:
DJ Witch is a member of IPOB Terrorist organization

NGpatriot:
Don't you mean as she shares her lies and fake news?

Just imagine, she's going everywhere with her lies and fake rubbish, bet she won't go to the judiciary panel with her story, obviously, she
s dodging hard question under oath.

Why is it that most of the people peddling these fake rumors are ipobs.?


Nigeria is bigger than you lying bigots and enemies of Nigeria.


God Bless Nigeria

DenreleDave:
The only football and soccer player we have..



The others are rubbish especially that one dt is like pole called Ronaldo




Characteristics of Messi Fans
1. Loyal 2. Humble, 3. Respectful. 4. Avoid violence. 5. Accept defeat and make corrections 6. Celebrate with people. 7. Considerate

Characteristics of Ronaldo fans
1. Deceitful. 2. Rude. 3. Pride. 4. Evil minded . 5. Betrayals. 6. Too much love of money. 7. Lavishiousness 8. Inconsiderate 9. Don't care abt others 10. Violence is their watchword