₦airaland Forum

Rokiat:
I knew from the get go it was a lie. marjorie harvey Is hypergamy queen she would never date down ever.

We talking about Lori Harvey mama for God sake.
This woman raised Lori Harvey on how to finesse all these men and never settled.

But people like to grab fake news and run with it like their lives depends on it smh.

But she previously openly said Steve could no longer meet her sexual appetite. What u make of that?

Newborn27:
Being logical here means to help or watch him in taking his own life....but I said I'd live with the guilt of being aware of how he died...I might suffer greater depression for letting him go.

I don't pray for such pain that would require suicidal thoughts to anyone close to me cos I can't handle the trauma...I guess I'm too timid .

Wow! So it's all about you and your possible guilt?! The fact that he is meaninglessly suffering greatly to certain death means absolutely nothing!
Besides, the discussion is NOT about you or any other person, only the person suffering - wether it makes sense for that person to end his suffering by committing suicide. You haven't given ONE logical reason why not.

There was this guy that almost scammed me with puppy sale.
FOLKS WHATEVER YOU DO, PICK UP PUPPY B4 GIVING UP YOUR MONEY!!

cenaman:
When will Ebola Agbado Tinubu kick bucket?

You go wait tire. Such people never die. Bubu ought be a lesson😆

Newborn27:
Number one reason is..... it's not biblical


Secondly... I'd live with the guilt of advising him/her to commit suicide when I eventually see people healing from same pain he suffered from in the future......cos... nothing is new under the sun...some people would have gone through same thing he's passing through and others would still go through it.



Thirdly.... I'm a fighter...I don't like quitting...I believe the doctors should know what is best for such person than I do.

Non of the reasons you gave is LOGICAL.
I'm also against suicide biblically, but this is an intellectual exercise. So you have failed to give one logical reason why someone in great pain and guaranteed to soon die should keep on suffering

As for doctors, their advice would be euthanasia, but it's illegal

Newborn27:
Hmmmmmmm


Humans are social being... there's no way he/she wouldn't have someone who would truly care.


Despite the hardship and hurdles in the country...we still have people with big heart.

Suicide will never be my advice to anyone.

My friend "social being" will not bear the horrible physical pain that makes you wish every second you were dead and would give ANYTHING to be dead and rest.
Ok, here's another question for you: what exactly would be the point of not ending the pain if you could?

Newborn27:
Physical and unbearable pain... like disease or cancer?

I don't still agree to suicide.... physical pain is more endurable than pain from within.


If such victim has a loving family who truly cares and loved..... they'd help make the pain bearable through genuine love and care coupled with pain relief medications until he dies a natural death.

And if they don't have a "loving family who truly cares"?

Newborn27:
I don't know how to attach pics on Nairaland...I typed is euthanasia legal? An read.

See below

Newborn27:
I'm not making up stuff...I rea up whatever I don't know about.... euthanasia is allowed and legal based on the country terms and conditions.



You can enlighten me more in what I don't know....we learn daily.

I thought you said you asked Google? See below

Newborn27:
Euthanasia is carried out by a professional after several failed attempts to heal or cure the illness


But suicide is done personally and are usually in a cruel manner.


The victim wouldn't know the excruciating pain he'd leave his family and loved ones... especially his/her mother.
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Suicide is tragic and happened unknown to the family members of the victim

While euthanasia is carried out after several consultations and consent of the victim's family members.




So...I doubt they're same words although synonyms to one another.

Euthanasia is illegal and doesn't necessarily involve family. You are making up stuff

Newborn27:
Pain as in medical ..like health?.... I'd suggest the person sees a specialist... they'd be the one to decide if he'd be give euthanasia treatment or not



If it's spiritual... nothing is impossible for God... I'd advise the person to seek God's intervention with faith.
..


If it's emotional ... I'd advise the person to see a counselor for up to date mentorship on ways out of it.


.if it were mental.... I'd advice both psychotherapy and spiritual.



If it's financial... I'd advise the person to change his/her job or business then invest in his/her intellectual for greater success.



If it's relational....I'd advise he/she take a break or walk away as no human is worth dying for.




There's always a light at the end of every tunnel....I believe!

It is PHYSICAL unbearable pain. And euthanasia is illegal. So what's your answer?

virginboy1:
I doubt ooo... na those wey go Uk on school level i dey see say e dey tight for them somehow. But for now shaaa...earning in pounds is far far better than in Naija and one cant really compare the standard of living over there to this place.... here wey be say upon say dem dey comot tax from my salary...i no fit get better health care for govt hospital.... over cast dey worry naija

But you have one BIG advantage: you are in your own country and no one can look down on you or think they doing you a favor letting you experience wonders not available in your country!

Newborn27:
Hmmmmmm


Irrespective of all.... suicide is not still an option.

It's tragic!

So if someone is in constant terrible pain and guaranteed to stay so till they die, say, in a year, what is your answer?

Newborn27:
I know...but the medical term isn't suicide... let me ask Google for the term.


Modified:

It's called euthanasia, also called mercy killing,

Euthanasia, ekanesia, they all same - ending someone's life before natural death!

Wainey:
Oga, just forget it, only someone who has been there before will understand how it is.
Those who have been there doesn't blame those who commit suicide, it's only those who haven't felt depression that blame those who commit suicide.
Some of those who didn't commit suicide always have one thing in life they hold onto, something they look forward to and that is the only thing that gives them strength.
Not everyone is fortunate to have something to hold unto.

Go sit down oga. One thing about life, things always change - sometimes for no reason.
No one is blaming them, just don't hail them or say they are strong to commit suicide!

virginboy1:
Una don start, my cousin wey enter last year.... Don fresh up, dey leave life wella..e just buy correct ride.... Abegi... Naija don cast jare for legit hustlers...

Problem is, UK don cast too! For every one like your cousine there are 3 regretting moving there

FireUpNow:
Can someone learn handwork like carpentery, welding, plumbing, mechanic , car refurbishing and water treatment in the UK and come back Home to start?

Why would you do that? You should do the opposite

[quote author= post=125419429]Canada Still Remains The Best Country To Migrate To, Especially If you are coming from Nigeria, Lovely And Neat Environment to Stay.[/quote]Yet Canadians dream of moving to US. Most Canadians who can, move to US!
This life no balance

iCauseTrouble:
Stop discouraging people that want to come

Why should he stop discouraging them? Give us a reason

Newborn27:
The medical practitioners would know the term used for ending such excruciating pain... not using suicide.

Nothing is new on earth... whatever we might be going through right... Some people had thread the path and others are coming.


Learn your lessons...make corrections... outgrown the situation and it'd become a previous memory.

There is no way of permanently ending the pain except suicide.
A person is guaranteed to die within a year, meanwhile the only thing they experience is constant unbearable pain

Wainey:
have you ever felt depression before?
If you haven't, then you will not understand the suicide thought from a depressed person and suicide thought from others.

Yet vast majority never commit suicide and eventually overcome depression. That's why those who actually go through with it are NOT to be hailed!

Sooo, all these Naija wey full UK be mumu?

MrsTwrite:
Suicide is not an option.

Newborn27:
Whatever the situation is.... suicide is never to be considered as an option Sis.

Ladyclara002:
Exactly

How about a terminally ill person in constant excruciating pain?

Wainey:
Suicide was not anyone wish, but until you have gone through depression and scale through it without the thought of suicide, then you have no right to judge them, call them cowards or weak.

Depression is a serious mental illness that can cause long-lasting and severe feelings of hopelessness, you will begin to hate your very existence and most times suicide become the only escape.
It's a feeling you can't even explain.

I don't think there is anyone who has never thought of suicide. It is one thing to consider suicide, it is quite another thing to actually do it

killsmith:
When he dies, he'll be inducted into the hall of the Gods as the God of criminality and corruption.

😅 To the extent of hiring fake BISHOPS! I mean, who else can do that?? I honestly don't think any other Nigerian politician is corrupt enough to do that!🤣

😅You got to hand it to Tinubu
He is TOTALLY corrupt, not half-and-half, like all these half righteous, half corrupt Nigerians!
To the extent of hiring fake BISHOPS🤣

Ibrahimcoomasie:
God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Minus the THIEVES at the top!

barojana:
However, I hope they don't turn around and start promoting homosexuality and transgenderism when they've banned other religions from expressing themselves.

Religion of homosexuality and transgenderism

I think there are thousands of better qualified minister materials in Nigeria with valid NYSC certificates. Why must it be her who has NYSC issues??

Ilamina:
white peoples plane don't crash. .I sleep very well and watch movie, all the time

But nigerian plane, I pray from the beginning to end

But when it comes to white people boat and black people boat, I am scared, don't know why
. .maybe because I haven't entered one before

And people don't use the toilet that often

Oh really? See all the white people plane below. Notice How ALL the passengers are always dead, unlike cars!