₦airaland Forum

EVILFOREST:
NAIRALAND is interesting because it hides your IDENTITY, even before you make an attempt of doing so, unlike FACEBOOK, TWITTER, INSTAGRAM, WHATSAPP.
No one knows you, except yourself and possibly the people using ur device.
That things are discussed here, doesn't mean you have revealed yourself.
Your PRIVACY is sacrosanct to the Nairaland Family...
For me if you claim to be a CHRISTIAN and you are phucking your Girlfriend behind closed doors, I will advice you to STOP GOING to CHURCH

. Now listen, let me tell you about me a little bit... I have dated 3girl's, which I had no sex with any of them, this my present relationship also, I vowed and promise my God not to have sex with any girl until marriage, you think sex can keep our relationship, then you better get out from my life, don't want anything that will defile me, and I don't want to break the promise I made to God. Until marriage, no sex. Believe me or not. If am dating a girl and she started cheating on me, because I don't give her my dick to suck, if I find out, I will only tell you to go and continue with the guy. That's my life. Am a true Christian, not to brag.

EVILFOREST:
So you have been phucking someone's daughter outside wedlock, without the consent of her Parents....And that's not CHEATING to you...??
Hope if someone phucks your Daughter like that, right under your nose, you will be satisfied to call yourself a proud dad...

My dear. I don't want to come here and open myself to public. If I tell you about myself you will never believe me, so no need of telling you.

EVILFOREST:
So you have been phucking someone's daughter outside wedlock, without the consent of her Parents....And that's not CHEATING to you...??
Hope if someone phucks your Daughter like that, right under your nose, you will be satisfied to call yourself a proud dad...

. My dear. I don't want to come here and open myself to public. If I tell you about myself you will never believe me, so no need of telling you. Both let me burst your head,... I have never had sex before. Believe it or not

EVILFOREST:
So you have been phucking someone's daughter outside wedlock, without the consent of her Parents....And that's not CHEATING to you...??
Hope if someone phucks your Daughter like that, right under your nose, you will be satisfied to call yourself a proud dad...

My dear. I don't want to come here and open myself to public. If I tell you about myself you will never believe me, so no need of telling you. Both let me burst your head,... I have never had sex before. Believe it or not

I must see the end of this Drama. Let me kukuma follow her on Twitter. And turn on my Notification

9jaown:
We men cheat

please hold it there bro. Don't say "we men cheat" refere it to yourself "I cheat' not we... I have a girlfriend, and I don't cheat on her, some of you might not believe me, but only God knows. So stop referring to we men cheat, you cheat not we.

Shibaraba:
Met some village girls while I was serving and saw some solid ladies. They cook,wash and do all sorts of things. One even plaits my hair for free. I nearly marry one sef. Na God say make I taste the tow tow.

And I have four words for it

LAGOS IBADAN EXPRESS WAY

hahaha you get luck

RIP BUHARI... Chaiii,

And some idiots have accepted the fact that this is Buhari. Are you not a fool? Any spirit of Iberiberism invoked on you Guy's let thunders destroy it. So some animalistic idiots here have accepted that this is Buhari. Brain of an African most especially Nigerians is like a pounded yam. Your brains need restructuring. If he is the real Buhari as he claimed, why did he refused to remove his cap when he was asked to?? After 2months he come now to deceive the gullible animals. Shame on you Guy's that agreed this is Buhari. May God please rewind your brains to reason like hen, because you Guy's refused to reason with your normal brain.... Don't come her and quote me rubbish, because I know for sure, idiots and animals here will quote me.

But this Lady fine shaaa... I wan Bleep her small, I know she will like to suck Virgin boy's dick, I'm a Virgin. Chaiii see beauty. Juliet let me be your sugar boy na ����

People are very wicked. They didn't see him when he was hustling, now the man have suffered and make it, then returned to the village, they now remember him. Only God will punish this evil people

OpTiX45:
E be like you nor know the country wey you dey...nah your type go give gal belle when you enter skul

I send am back to you bro... Tell them say you no see me. Formication is a sin, Bible condemns it, so I condemned it too. May God be my helper and my director when I enter school, I'm happy my future wife is here already.

I'm planning to buy my Jamb form this month end. Hope I won't encounter this rubbish strike if I enter school? Talk more of what you're missing. They said sex is sweet, but have not done it before. And won't like to do it until I marry, even if girl rape me, I will never do am.... ASUU or whatsoever, call off the strike.

So this shithole of a country called Nigeria get passport? Haha haha haha haha haha haha haha haha haha, who wan buy the passport? Americans can come in at anytime and go out at anytime. In Nigeria Africa died.

To have a peaceful mind and rest your self and have peace. Just post the videos and pictures you received on your mail, post them on Twitter, WhatsApp status, Facebook, Instagram, etc. Remember to tag the idiot, that your so-called girlfriend, tag her. Give it a real caption. It's part of your revenge to her. Get that into your head man. Do it, believe me you, you will be a happy man again.

Wait ooo... Na Yoruba you wan use play? Lazy people, all they know how to do best is Yahoo+. Afonja. AFO sagbu kwa unu...

Teddy why na Answer me... See as you suck this girl's breast in BBN into forming a flat pumped tire... Upon that she no learn, she still go dey Bleep. Breast don fall now. Ana dara ada, adago

LET ME GIVE YOU A PIECE OF ADVICE IN CASE HE OR SHE COMES AGAIN IN YOUR DREAMS... ACCORDING TO MY LATE GRANDMA WHO DIED LAST YEAR, SHE USED TO TELL ME THAT HER CHILDHOOD FRIEND WHO DIED AFTER GOTTEN MARRIED. SHE KEPT VISITING HER IN HER DREAMS AR NIGHT. SO MY GRANDMA MET THE MOTHER OF THE DECEASED AND EXPLAINED TO HER,.. THEY BOUGHT FOWL, COOKED FOR HER, WRAPPER AND FEW ITEMS, WENT TO WHERE THE DECEASED WAS BURIED AND HIT THE FOWL THERE 3TIMES, DROPPED THE FOOD, THEN THREW THE FOWL IN A FAR AWAY BUSH, BUT BEFORE THEY HIT THE FOWL ON THE GRAVE, THE MOTHER OF THE DECEASED SAID TO THE DAUGHTER, YOU'RE DEAD, GO YOUR WAY, YOU HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON WITH YOUR FRIEND, AFTER THEY DID THAT, THE LADY NEVER COME AGAIN TILL THE DEATH OF MY GRANDMA LAST YEAR......

E.G 2) IF THE DEAD KEEP VISITING YOU ON YOUR DREAMS, SHOUT TO HIM OR HER, LIKE ( I THOUGHT YOU'RE DEAD, GO YOUR WAY WE HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON. OR YOU KEEP CASTING HIM OR HER ON YOUR DREAMS, BELIEVE ME YOU, IF YOU DO ONE OF THIS THINGS I MENTIONED ABOVE, HE OR SHE WILL STOP COMING. THANK ME LATER....

LASTLY IF YOU CAN'T DO THAT, THEN PRAY HARD WHILE GOING TO BED.

Annwrites:
If a husband can buy a property in his name so can a wife.

She doesn't even need his consent or support except she feels like it.

A woman will misbehave because she has the tendency to not because of some properties she acquired.

If a husband would not let his wife know of any step he wishes to take he doesn't even deserve to know about his wife business.

Your type are those that don't have sense. You have head but no Brain. Chop my shit nigga... How can a lady like you say such a thing? This shows you don't have respect for your husband. I guess you're not yet married. And you're saying all this, and your future husband is looking at you.

I'm coming please... Where are the Yoruba's here? Afonjaaa.... See your pastor

Forreellinc:
She no even fine sef

please where did you deposit your sense?

jinkab:
I don't know how empty brain u carry. Calling islam a useless religion. Try islam and see its beauty. Fornication and adultery totally forbidden.

what about the killings happening now? Is it not Islam that are killing and burning down of churches and house's? Raping of our girls and mother's in their farm? Killing of father's? Answer me, no religion is as useless and heartless like Islamic religion. Rubbish

No be small thing my brother... Islam is a useless religion.. We keep hearing old people raping under age girls or cow.. Tufiakwa

dokyOloye:
Islam and underage pant sef.
He's just following the footsteps of their prophet who married Aisha at 6 and started kpanshing her at 9

So Nairand and Linda you want Freeman to read another person's problem? Your left yansh..... Linda ikeji your yansh Don sour ... You rortine full. I no get time to read. I have other thingz to do. DUH

MrNollyzone:
Meet My Son Jayce And Yes, Sholaye Jeremi Is His Dad! - Linda Ikeji Opens Up On Her Relationship



Finally Linda Ikeji Opens Up on her relationship, she shared this on her blog...

Read below....


Two days before my 38th birthday on September 17th, I welcomed my first child, my son, Jayce. I look at him and I wonder why I waited so long to have a child. I’ve never known love like this. I literally have tears in my eyes every time I look at him. I can’t believe he came out of me. He is by far my greatest blessing and I’m looking forward to navigating him through life!



Now to the reason why you are reading this. I argued with myself for a long time whether to put this out or not…and finally decided it was a story I wanted to share. I've always been open about my life but I'm sharing details about my personal life mostly because of the girls who look up to me. The girls I have mentored, mentoring right now and plan to mentor in the future. I’m very particular about our young girls and I have personally tried over the years to be an example in some way; tried to teach these girls how to fight for their dreams, how to live right and do right and then I go and have a child out of wedlock and that must be a little confusing to some of them and especially with so many untruthful stuff out there about me. The most hilarious is that I had a child for a married man. Lol. Here’s my answer to that! The married man that I will sleep with has not yet been born. If he’s been born, he will die, be buried, rise and die again before he will lay with me. I don’t do married men. The father of my child is a single man and his name is Sholaye Jeremi. To be honest, at some point I thought he was my final bus stop but you know how life happens...lol. Unfortunately he and I are a completely closed chapter. Sadly for our son Jayce, it’s the kind of chapter that can’t ever be opened again.



One of the things many people have asked me is how I met this man because we don’t run in the same circle. Well, I met him 3 years ago at Wheatbaker Restaurant in Ikoyi in December 2015 shortly after I moved to my home in Banana Island, Ikoyi. It was a day after Christmas and I was having dinner with friends when he walked in. He saw me and the rest is history. He claimed at the time that he had never heard of me which was seriously a turn-on for me because up until then I’d only been meeting men who behaved like fans. At the time we met, I was 35 and he was 37 and I’d been single for nearly 4 years. I was definitely searching and I fell in love almost immediately and so we became an item.



At the time I met him he lived in a 3-bedroom flat at what used to be 5th roundabout in Lekki after Mobil. I used to drive for almost two hours in traffic from my house to go see him. Most of the time, I carried my laptop to his home to enable me to work and at the same time spend the whole day with him.



It was a whirlwind romance. He was the funniest and most romantic guy I’d met up until that point, so it was easy to fall in love and I truly believed the feeling was mutual. A few weeks after we met, it seemed like we were planning a future together. This man was already calling me Linda Ikeji Jeremi and making all these plans but then just like that, it was over between us. I went from waking up every morning to love text messages from him to no more calls. I was just thanking God for finally sending me my own man when all of a sudden we were no longer talking to each other. Later he would tell me what scared him off. My public life. He claims he’s a private business man and didn’t want the attention being with me would bring to him and I told him I understood and we went our separate ways. We tried to get back together in 2016 but it didn't work out so much so we separated again but stayed in touch (mostly him to be honest), stayed friends and that was how our back and forth started.



By mid-2017, we were both still single and we started seeing each other again quietly. There were times it was very intense and we talked about a future together, and there were times that I couldn’t figure out what exactly I was doing with this guy. We were not suited for each other. Totally different lifestyles. And there was the problem of my fame. I walked away from this man a million times and he came after me a million and one times. No matter how much I pushed him away, he kept coming back and me, because I couldn’t find anyone else, I kept going back. Lol. So I was basically going back to my ex because I couldn’t find anyone else. *sigh*.



Then I fell pregnant. It wasn’t planned, it just happened; though we talked about having a child together just two months before I fell pregnant. He said something about putting a billionaire baby inside me and I remember jokingly telling him that I’m also a billionaire so our child was going to be a billionaire on both side...and we laughed. But after I fell pregnant, things became extremely weird between us. If I tried to explain what happened, I wouldn’t be able to because it was confusing to me. We went from talking about the pregnancy and being okay with it; he even suggested I go to Dubai for my pre-natals as he didn’t trust doctors in Nigeria, to literally not talking to each other anymore. Around when I was about three months pregnant, he did come to see my parents and actually became very cool with my dad. They were literally exchanging Whatsapp messages every day. He later agreed to a traditional wedding which he didn’t follow through and then he switched. He began to treat me with so much hate and aggression that I and my family had to cut him off completely.



To be honest if anybody had told me when we met three years ago, considering how deeply we cared for each other that I would fall pregnant two years later and he would completely turn his back on me for most part of my pregnancy, I never would have believed it but that’s what happened. I had to draw strength from myself, my family and close friends.



And Jayce...oh my son Jayce, he was my biggest strength. It was almost as if he knew his dad was acting up so he came through for his mum. He was gentle with me when I was carrying him. I had an extremely easy pregnancy. I pushed him out under 3 mins and was in the labour room for less than 30 minutes. And then my snapback was amazing. Three weeks later, it was almost as if I’d never been pregnant. Jayce was my soldier when his dad turned his back.



But still, I have absolutely no iota of regret meeting Sholaye. Gosh, have you seen Jayce? How can I regret that? God doesn’t make mistakes. If you believe that you’re always led by God like I believe then I have to believe that God led me to this man for whatever reasons best known to Him. I thought God sent him as my life partner but I guess He just used him as a vessel for my greatest blessing. Now his part in my story is over. I know when to put my hands up and surrender. That God brought someone significant into your life doesn’t mean they are supposed to follow you throughout your life’s journey. We should learn to know when people’s part in our story is over. Don’t fight for closure, don’t ask for explanations, don’t chase answers, just let them go and know that if God meant for you to have them in your life, He would have given them to you. Sometimes people just come to serve a purpose in your life and are not meant to stay and there’s no point holding on to them. This one is done and dusted. It’s just Jayce and I now moving forward and I know life will be beautiful for us.



Being a single mum wasn’t the dream I had for myself; I’d prayed for the kind of happy home my parents built for us (they’ve been together for 40 years). Nothing is more important to me than family. For years I’d hammered on how much I was looking forward to getting married, having children and building my own family and I believed God was going to come through for me on that one, but I have come to understand that we have no control over what life throws at us no matter how much we plan, pray, or work. And we also have no control over the actions of other people towards us. One of the things I have learnt in my life’s journey is that your idea of how life should go might be different from the way life actually goes. It’s called Life Happening. Sometimes it unfolds into something we never dreamed of but because we don’t recognize the route we find ourselves on our journey through life, doesn’t mean God won’t get us to our destination. Remember, an uncertain chapter doesn’t ruin the whole book. Life will happen whether we are ready or not. All we can do is keep our heads up and keep moving.



Family and close friends told me I owed no one any explanation about the circumstances that led to the birth of my son, but I knew without writing this, I could never stand in front of the young girls who look up to me and talk to them again. I could never go on my secondary school tour and speak with these girls again about living right and doing right. I would always feel like I have no moral right to do so. I went to 15 secondary schools in 2017 and talking to those young impressionable girls has been one of the highlights of my life. I cancelled this year’s tour because I was pregnant and I haven’t made any preparations for next year’s tour because I wanted to set things right first.



I have so many plans for young girls next year and in the coming years with the Selfmade finance and mentorship projects with international collaborations, so this was important for me to do, to explain myself to the young girls who look up to me and feel disappointed that I got pregnant and had a baby out of wedlock. For years, I have preached decency, morality and uprightness and despite what happened to me, I mean it from the bottom of my heart. That should be the only way to live. That’s the only way I live. Don’t ever compromise your values. With this, I was led by my heart and my clock ticking and even though I have no regrets, I’m sorry if I let any of you ladies down by the decision I made, and I hope you learn from my experience. I hope you do better than I did. The ideal thing would be to find a man you love, who loves you back and gives you stability, get married, have kids and raise a family, not being a single mum or a baby mama. I was 37 years old at the time I conceived and if I want to be honest, my age played a role in me allowing myself to be pregnant out of wedlock. I don’t want to be having kids in my 40s or struggling with fertility later in life. This wasn’t the plan but like I said before, life happens. You just have to find a way to make the best of what life throws at you. And so for any young girl this means anything to, I am truly sorry. I am not sorry I had Jayce, I’m just sorry I didn’t go about it the right way.



But you know, despite this crazy love experience, I still believe in love and I believe in happy endings and I can’t wait to one day, God willing, have my fairy tale ending. The father of my child is the only man I’ve given a chance to in 6 years. Lol. I swear. I’m not really a relationship kind of girl. I’m more a career girl. I can go for years without a man. I’m one of those women who don’t need a man to validate their existence but biko, I’ve done the single life enough in the past…lol… going forward I’m looking forward to giving someone else a chance and try this love thing again. I was raised in a happy 2-parents’ home and that’s what I want for Jayce. So I hope I meet a great guy soon until then I’m enjoying motherhood. It rocks! Life has never been more beautiful!



I’d also like to address a few other issues. Number one is this celibacy issue. So many people have trolled me over it and I’d like to correct the misunderstanding. I have never ever in my life said people shouldn’t have sex before marriage. NEVER EVER have I said that. I have even argued with quite a few people that it is not feasible in this day and age. What I have always said and I maintain till today is; Do not ever sleep with men for money because any woman with a brain and determination can get her own money herself. And there’s nothing sweeter than your own money. I am 38 years old and I recently bought a N100million+ car; what the heck do you need to be sleeping with a man for? For designer bags, first class tickets and luxury holidays? GTFOH with sleeping with a man for rent money! You can give yourself all that and more if you apply yourself, fight for your dream and work your butt off. Men don’t have the exclusive right to create wealth; women can also create wealth. Money is not male. Wealth is not male. Success is not male. We women just need to believe in ourselves more and get off our butts and stop relying on our looks and charm instead of our brain, mind, will, and our God given talent/gift. We can be rich, we can be successful, we can break barriers, do what was formerly termed impossible, do what men can do, be CEOs of conglomerates and billionaires without ever having to lie on our backs. Please ladies, we are powerful beyond measure and can do anything and be anything we want to be.



The other thing I’ve always said is; do not sleep around with multiple men who just use your body for their pleasure; that is; too many one night stands, casual sex, many sex partners in a short period of time all in the name of relationships. Your body deserves better. I feel sex should only happen when you’re in a loving, committed relationship with someone you love. I was celibate for many years until I met my son’s father and fell in love. And instead of increasing my body count, I just went back to the same eggplant…lol. My mistake was I should have walked away when the relationship became a waste...lol... but then again, Jayce wouldn’t be here today if I had. So really, there’s nothing that I have preached that I didn’t practice. So you guys stop trolling me over this abeg! Lol.



Thank you for reading and thank you for your understanding.

Love and kisses to you and yours

Hugs

Linda





Source: https://nollyzone.com/meet-my-son-jayce-and-yes-sholaye-jeremi-is-his-dad-linda-ikeji-opens-up-on-her-relationship/

This is serious. I'm telling you.

LuciferOluwaWah:
Feminists have now added watermelon to their list of sexually abused fruits since cucumber can no longer satisfy their sexual starvation.

This desperation for preeq is getting out of hand.

Soon, feminists will start using pineapple and soursop to quench their konji.




*spits

simplycarro:
A grandpa that has refused to act his old age

Bad mouth..����

South Africa God will punish you. For this barbaric act you committed.. You will suffer for this

What else do you expect from Yoruba, I mean Nigeria Rather than killing, raping little girls... God please divide Nigeria and let Biafra go please

she no even fine self,metchewwwwww,my dick,cannot Even erect when I see this one ,,.....but waitoooo that boy na lucky shaaa... she no even fine self,metchewwwwww,my dick,cannot Even erect when I see this one ,,.....but waitoooo that boy na lucky shaaa...

igbo amaka,igbo amaka igbo amaka oooooooo.umu 100 kposa for you.biafra got talent

what do you want him to do..the deed is already done..the child is dead already so there is nothing he can do about it

Administration1:
THAT FOOL IS BUSY SNAPPING PICTURES