Budline1: You are absolutely right and I agree with all you said. I can't count the number of girls that have asked me out, an IGMB student came to meet me some few days ago and wooed me instantly, a small girl like that didn't even fear to woo an OG like me... some will come, sit beside me and start a conversation and get my number, one saw me few days ago at the lounge with her friends, they started laughing when they saw me and she said she feels like eating me, I've been wooed by a lot of girls... my current girl made the first move on me..this happens all the time BUT I only notice that they aren't as beautiful as I want them to be....
I talk to fine girls a lot but their pride no be for here, I can't put up with it. Eventhough man isn't lazy, I'm doing good on my own. Fvck naija fine girls (Especially those ones with big ass or fine face, too much pride).
Here's what I do, ... I always go for the average girls with good height, .. nice legs and a Fat ass,
I swear with my Masculine Balls... Having a big ass is the "definition of Beauty" for me in a woman.
Those girls you feel that are pretty, I can swear their sex game is really poor,..the don't know how to Bleep and Satisfy you, but you see those average girls with big ass the are the real deal bro,..they'll Bleep you so good because the don't want to loose you.
Learn to appreciate average girls bro, ..the are Facially above average and always have sexy bodies than the pretty ones,..that's my observation
justnock: OP still dey learn work. If you want to knack a chick with ease, play cool...act like you want it but you don't need it. Guys wey their houses na "Slaughter house", can relate.
TechCapon: I was in court today during the trial of serial killer Gracious David west and it was quite funny. He said that the confession he made was made at gunpoint and that the signature on the statement was not his signature. However, the judge Justice enebeli gave him a piece of paper to sign his own signature.
He denied that he never lodged in any of those hotels where the girls were murdered. He also claimed that he never met any of those girls who were killed in the hotel. When the prosecution asked him if he would apologize to the public for his actions, he said he has nothing to apologize about because he did not kill anyone. The case was adjourned to 23rd of March.
johntraffic: The Nollywood legend has proven to her fans that you can be a star and be yourself as she releases a non filter and non make up photo. She is clean and flawless!
laka2016: Your concern for our safety is much appreciated. But the fact remains that performance in the bedroom has always and will always be a concern to men. And like I stated in the thread, its a search kind if thread for possible solution. You know if natural products are available to people and its found to work then people Will keep off the synthetic product that are harmful. And also there's no overdose with most natural products. And if you know any product that will equally swell the banks accounts too kindly share. It will be counted for you as service to humanity.
koife: Hello fam, I'm not used to writing about my personal life. I try as much as I can to keep it off social media. On this very instance I'm tired and I desperately need honest advise, I'm also ready for insult. I met my wife and we got married less than two years after our meeting. I must say my wife is a quiet and slow person by nature and very churchy. I won't forget to add that since I met her I've had many blessings come my way. We are blessed with a 6 month old daughter.
My main issue with my wife is that she sees home upkeep as my total responsibility, yes, I do it but she hardly contribute anything and any time I'm coonstrained fin. She would say all manner of things. My wife isn't that a smart person, she would wait for you to give her direction in the simplest of things and shys away from taking charge and ownership.
I got a 6 digit job few days after introducing as her my fiancee to my parent and I'm often at sea for three more than 6 months. I've observed my wife isn't prudent with money no matter how much passes through her hands. At some point I'll get her attention how much she has spent without knowing and then she would go " wow, I didn't know it was that much" after doing some addition. She works with insurance firm and her pay is within 60k (Max)/monthly...with that, she still get home support from me and my sister who is in USA. Recently I gave her her usual home support money and my sis did too....her allowance and commission came too. My wife had over 95k total in less than two weeks.
I was surprised barely a week and, I asked my wife support fix the car I left with her at home with just 5k since and i was yet to be paid salary. Note, I bought this car to ease her movement at her instance oo, she suggested the car is idle and we should get someone do bolt( taxify) just to get us additional cash.I got the driver do agreement with my lawyer via my coy and travelled shortly, the car alternator shut down and wouldn't charge, it was at that instance I asked her help out and she said she had no money on her and that she was barely surviving. I was shocked and Drew her attention to how much had gone through her hands in less than two weeks. Don't get me wrong, it might not be much to some peoples financial cash flow but we are Young family and less than two years in marriage. My wife believes once money comes, it's time to solve all her outstanding problem and ive told her she needs to prioritize.
Recently when I got to nja I left 600k in her account and told her we shouldn't touch it in case of family emergency but I noticed each time we have little need at home she would pressure me go get the cash. Some how we kept touching the money till it got to 300k and I travelled again. I've tried my best to groom her and get her financial planning life better but she would not accept she has issue. I'm considering getting her family and mine involved but I dear it would out her in bad light before my family ( trying to protect her), I I decided to bring it here since it's faceless forum for candid advise
Need I also add that I can say one thing give times to my wife and she still gets it mixed up. I've asked her to read book and expand her intellectual capacity. It was just two weeks ago I forced her go defend her post graduate project after many years of abandonement....we quarreled. I later helped her arrange the work and pacify her supervisor allows her defend without paying school fees before I left. Pls is my wife just dull or does it have to d with her character with life and money? Pls advise me coz I'm getting sick, really sick already. I'm typing this onboard on my way to Japan. I can't even concentrate
You married her because of her Vagina, ...maybe because she gives you mind blowing Sex,
I can bet your wife also has a big Yansh that's why you were blinded and so Daft that you didn't see that your wife wasn't intellectually sound,
Are you even sure your wife works in that place that You said she works or are you trying to cover up for her?
Mediarero: PANDEMONIUM AS WOMAN RUN MAD IN SAPELE AFTER BEEN DROPPED BY SUSPECTED RITUALIST.
According to reports, this woman na runs woman wey dey hustle for Madam two bottles joint for Koko. Our findings show say some guys carry her go doke for Benin, and dem leave her with 200k and iPhone. Dem carry her con dump for Boyo Road Sapele, just as dem dump her nai she start to dey kolo. Boys don move with the 200k and iPhone wey dem see for her hand.
VanEFCC: “I can’t be living a lie” – Chacha Eke Faani explains why she decided to stop using so much makeup and filters
Chacha Eke-Faani has explained the reason for her massive weight loss and decision to go natural.
The actress, in a photo shared in January, encouraged her followers to dare to be themselves.
She accompanied the advice with a makeup-free photo of herself.
Since then, she’s been posting photos of herself without makeup.
She has now explained in a new video why she chose to go natural and stop using filters on her photos.
The mother-of-three said that she became desperate to meet the societal standards of beauty that she was using almost any product recommended to her.
But the products made her suffer breakouts, made her skin lighter, and dug a hole in her pocket. With time, she decided to stop and appreciate her natural beauty.
She added that she was also tired of living a lie by photoshopping her photos and using too much makeup.
She further said that most of those who look perfect on social media do not look anywhere close to that in real life and that she was tired of the “audio beauty and scam.”
WilliamsTheGrea: Hello everyone, my name is Williams, I'm a young guy of 26 years old currently engaged to a very pretty young lady who is 24 years old
I do business online and earn good income before I decided to find a lady and settle down with and luckily I found a good one who is decent and don't flirt around or do social media's like whatsapp or Facebook. Hardly receives calls, not friendly with males lol (I managed to woo her through a church member)
We have been 1 year into the relationship now and we are to get married next month but guys the problem I am having now is that she has a child for another man which is her ex she was with when she was young she gave birth at age 20, we dated for about 7 months before she told me this.
Ever since then I haven't really been myself, the child is a male child who lives with her mother but recently the mother called her to come carry the child as she can no longer look after him due to him being a very stubborn boy, the child is 4 years old.
Now she has gone to bring the child to our home, a two bedroom apartment, I'm a kind of guy who loves peaceful environment with no single drop of noise, now ever since the child came in about a week now, I have not had peace, we have quarreled several times because of the child, I'm not really comfortable with the child because I can't love another man's child as my own
My girlfriend is yet to give me a child of my own, the child runs around and doesn't listen except when beaten and each time I beat the boy up when he does wrong my girlfriend looks at me with hatred like I'm maltreating the boy because I'm not the father.
Please guys help me I don't know what to do but I can't cope with the child, I remember paying the child school fees about 3 times since we are together because the child's father isn't doing anything at all.
Now today is the child's birthday and she is asking me for money to get him cake and take him out.
My people of nairaland I cannot accept another man's child no matter what I love the mother but not the child the connection is just now there because the boy isn't of my character I'm a calm man, very calm but the boy is very radical and stubborn children irritate me so much.
I don't know what to do.
Each time this child topic comes up between I and my girlfriend she becomes bitter.
She says she will never take the child to the father or the family of the father that she must raise the child herself.
I don't think I can help train anothrr man child whom in the end will go and find his father after he is all grown.
Please I need advice, she says over her death body will she return the child to the father
I'm not comfortable in my own home.
A lot of things running through my mind like to break up with her for peace to reign
Or rent another apartment for her and the boy to go live in.
AlexReports: Nigerian Lady Somuvie Sonia Holds Jabi Lake CleanUp Exercise To Safeguard Water Bodies, Reduce Dumps
A young prospective and patriotic Nigerian lady Miss Somuvie Sonia, the Executive Director of Ecosmart Services has extended her passionate concerns to the devastating conditions of the Jabi Boat Club. She has therefore held a clean-up exercise as a personal project from her personal resources to reduce the waste in the waters and create awareness on the need to maintain a safe and clean water environment.
This initiative was birthed when she discovered how the lake was been polluted both by Passersby, sanitation workers, park visitors and local sellers who dump trash bags and empty their wastes in the water. She was aroused at the condition of the water bodies when she visited the Jabi Lake only to find a pond of plastic trash, with refuse dumped around and inside the water, creating futuristic problems both for fishermen and consumers of seafoods.
To her greatest surprise the 22nd Saturday February Cleanup exercise organized by Somuvie Sonia and her team through efforts of the local fishermen and the community head recorded an impressive turnout of participants who practically supported and joined the exercise.
The exercise which commenced at exactly 8:00am yesterday and lasted for about 2hours may have achieved a lot especially with reducing the waste and sensitizing people on why they should stop dumping refuse in the water. Speaking with Somuvie Sonia few minutes after the exercise, she expressed appreciation to everyone who extended their goodwill by participating in helping to cleanup the water environment.
She however noted that it wasn't a one-day job, though resources may be limited but the exercise will be continued in due time. She remains one of the few passionate Nigerians who craves an undying interest in nature, the environment and especially the water bodies.
From here I can Tell that OP is a Self centered and a very Entitled woman, all she thinks about is herself,
She says and I quote "He doesn't tell me He loves me any more" ... Aunty do you even tell him you love him, from here I can already tell that you are a boring Wife,
God In Heaven Knows I'll Cheat On My Wife when I get married, i'll not allow those Younger Succulent girls to go Scot Free Once The Cross My Part
Timson01: We have only been married for three (3) months. February 12 was my husband’s birthday, but being that it fell on a Wednesday, we decided to mark it on Sunday, February 16. We hosted friends to a-get-together in our home. I did a lot to make the day memorable. The last group of friends left around 9:30pm and by the time we were done cleaning up, it was about 11pm. We had our bath and all I could think of was sleep, but my husband was thinking differently. He wanted sex, but I was just too tired for anything so I said NO and asked him to wait until morning. My husband angrily left the bedroom and I drifted off to sleep because I was too tired, but I was woken up with a slap in my face. I thought I was dreaming, but I wasn’t. I was startled when I saw that it was my husband who actually dealt me a slap! As I wanted to ask him what the issue was, he gave me another slap and said I had no right to deny him sex. I was forced to slap him back, but that made him angrier, he hit me back and pinned me down- I struggled with him, but he overpowered me. He tore my nightwear and RAPED me to his satisfaction. I still do not believe this happened. I was too tired- was I wrong to ask him to wait until the next day? Was he right to have slapped me? Was he right to have raped me? SEX! Should it have been because of sex? We still had sex a night before- in fact early that morning- three (3) hot rounds. It’s been three days after the incident, he’s still feeling fly like he was right.
Somebody please advise me on what to do?
Go and Stab him to Death ... After all, it's what you Bitter Cunts do
All I see is Highness from either Tramadol Or Some Cheap Liquor, ... Just look at the weapons that the are using to threaten Mr Shekau who is a Renowned WarLord
The Should Run Back to their Huts and Enjoy The Harmattan while the Still Can
You see why I always say "The Day The Society Decides to show you it's true Colors, ... That day you will Learn to Mind Your Business With Determination and Learn to Live In The Shadows"
That Woman should have Minded Her Business afterall where those So called "Yahoo Boys" being a Nuisance there, .. Shebi those so called "Yahoo Boys" where busy minding their business too.
Learn to Mind Your Business ... Minding Your Business is indeed Priceless
The DNA results (attached) are out February 10th, 2020. Our 3 kids are mine.
IS MY WIFE STILL CHEATING? (1)
I've been married for ten years now and we have three kids. My wife is everything a man will ever ask in a woman, but for her weakness around men. She's a great cook, a great home caretaker, and a great friend.
Four years into our marriage (2014), I discovered that she was always chatting errotically with men. I found out chats of:
"Cant wait to see you" "I'm taking my bath now" "Touch your boobs" "I'm feeling you inside me" "I will fvck you crazy"
She was reciprocating in all the chats with things like...
"I miss you so much" "I will svck u to cum" "I cant wait to see you"
Usually there are very deep ones more than these.
When I saw those chats I was shocked. I confronted her, she was furious that I dont trust her. I took her to our pastor for counseling, she initially refused going, but after much begging we went. After the counseling she apologised and we moved on.
But it didnt stop. Once in a while I would see things like that with other men, different from the ones we've trashed. She was always deleting her calls and chats. I would always be doubtful, but she would always assure me that she was just carried away with the chats and there was no real experience with any other man other than me. She knelt down one day and swore with her life, so I believed her.
Then this 2019 (9 Years into our marriage) around August, I stumbled on another chat. In this one, the guy sent her his penix. She thanked the guy for it. Then followed by many video calls. The guy then said, "I wont forget your wet Pvssy and fat ass." She laughed and said, "I feel like fvcking you. The guy said, I feel like drillin you too."
She forgot to delete the chats, and I saw it. When I confronted her she said that yes, the guy had licked her before but they didnt do it. That she didnt cheat. I was like, are you for real?
I took her to our pastor for counseling. She was mad with me, that i should just trust her and stop following her.
I've seen chats of: "I hope your husband is not around." She would say, "yes." Then they would begin to exchange chats of how they miss themselves, and kiss emogis and exchange calls
Sometimes I would delete all of them after she says I wont see such again. Around November last year, a woman forwarded my wife's chats with her husband and said she wanted to post them on facebook but discovered that I am a responsible man, and from her town as well. She told me to warn my wife and beg her to leave her husband alone. In the chat, you will see where the man said, "I cant forget the love we made in Lagos." You will see where the man says, "my dick is standing send me pic to view." My wife would say, "why not travel na, come down." The man would say, "I want to see you." My wife would say, " where and when?" etc?
I begged the woman and she promised she would not post it. I confronted my wife, she started crying and swearing as usual. Then she later said she has had sex with the man only 3 times, two times before our marriage and only once after our marriage, and that the last time was 2015 (note, that is 5 years in our marriage, that year, she was breastfeeding our baby o).
I always forgive her because I love her so much. And I dont want her to be disgraced. And she's really a great person. My family love her so much and revere her.
I opened a business for her last year. I do pay her motnhly salary too, and provide monthly upkeep for our 3 kids. I also buy food items in the house, and also give her cooking allowance
As we entered this year, 2020 we agreed to love ourselves more. But can you believe that on January 16, the cctv camera I put in her private office without her knowing it, showed her and one man (her former boss) handling themselves (their hands to be honest) and when the man was about to go, they got up and kissed. Note she worked for this man in 2014, 4 years in our marriage.
She came home and I confronted her, she cried and cried that I don't trust her. At first she denied ever kissing the man, but when I explained how it happened, she said, she cant remember. She is crying and blaming me for monitoring her.
Now on further digging I stumbled on horrible chats. Now this is the summary after confrontation. It took a lot of denials before acceptance:
Romance › Re: 5 Problems Every Handsome Boy Passes Through In Life by DaddyRochie1642: 1:41am On Feb 29, 2020
