One time I was dating a girl who talks too much. I mean a walking radio that doesn't know when to keep shut. And babe had mad insecurities too, but her pussy was so sweet it kept me going through the period we dated.
The day I knew her insecurities had gotten the better part of her head was the day she walked into my room in school then, saw me talking with a girl, and concluded she had a competition. Next thing she came, sat on my leg and was forcing me to kiss her. Just so that the girl will know who she is... like booking her space or marking territory.
Turns out the girl in question was my elder sister... Jeez! It was fuckn embarrassing mehn... my sis was just like "who is that frog? See how she's jumping upandan doing bebescout like mumu".
And then her mouth wey no get control. Shit! Then in school, I was actively into students politics and held a post as president of one of the social clubs on campus... Omor, this girl nearly used her mouth to remove me from office o...
The day I broke up with her wasn't easy o... We first had sex, then I broke up, then we had sex again... We were hooked on each other. Two days later, she came crying and asking to get back together. Made all promises to change and all. I couldn't resist her perfume so we bleeped again twice, then slept till night, woke up at past 11 in the night, bleeped again, and then I made it clear that I really wasn't doing again, then she got the message, and l told her to leave my room that night and go back to her hostel. It was crazy but a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do... and besides, my new babe was visiting me and passing the night, and I didn't need any disturbance...
Chai! Memories��
Are you sure the woman in your room that time was really your "Elder Sister"
Youngjohnosas: yes o, i received it in a thousand fold.
I will heed to ur advice, thanks a lot for your information.
Am glad you'll follow my advice,
When you are done reading and understanding his write-ups, ... Let me know, ... I will Recommend more people for you .... I can assure you, that you will be Filled with Valuable Knowledge about Women, their Manipulations and their Psychology
You will discover and see the True nature of Women and my brother I can assure you, ... You will never ever Loose guard again when it comes to dealing with women.
Youngjohnosas: it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.
it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.
I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.
that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.
two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.
last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland.
Am glad you have received sense,
Now, there is a guy here in Nairaland that you really need to read his posts so that you'll understand women completely, ... His name is Ubunja.
Search "Ubunja" on Nairaland and read all his highly educative write-ups and I can swear with my Masculine Balls, you will not regret it
A lady sees a guy that does not respect her,does not admire her,does not worship her beauty,does not desire her sexually,does not look at her body foolishly as most men do.
She is very shocked that contrary to the general behavior of men,this guy treats her as trash.
She suddenly feels the desire to possess this guy.
What she actually wants is to change the guy and makes him starts admiring and desiring her sexually.
That is why she wants to possess him.
She is astonished that a guy can ignore her so much.
Such a guy is worth having.Such a guy must be greater than her to be treating her like trash.
So to possess and change him into her taste(so that he would start running after her)becomes a goal to her.
That is how women reason.
Please go to the library and read on the psychology of women.
jayaim: Very true. A guy that is ready to treat a Lady like a Queen will be treated like thrash. I met a queen recently, wanted something serious. But a yahoo yahoo chap shows up flashed some cash she followed like a dog following bone. The yahoo guy later left her in a hostel after poking her & left huge bill after escaping. She called me to bail her out. What a life
ubunja: How you look determines how men respond to you. Look cheap and cheap men will respond to you. By cheap I mean basic, natural, "being you" . That's what is called being a Pick Me. You wear no wig, no makeup, no eyelash, etc. You are cheap AF. And only cheap/broke guys will swarm you because they figure they can afford you. Since you look cheap.
But rich men....never.
Rich men won't give you a second look because those type of men are after the Trophy GF that will look good on their arm. To show the world they've "arrived". They have made it. There's a reason male celebrities rotate the same chicks among themselves. Those chicks have that rich look already. And those celebs don't want a basic chick who will use them to advance their own profile.
Who is this girl that rich men are all chasing? Simple. Just go to your supermarket and browse the covers of fashion magazines. That's the girl rich men want. That fake girl. With fake everything. Fake hair, fake nails, fake eyelashes, etc. Rich men don't do real. Or normal. They want fake. And magical. That average dudes can't have. Because it's expensive to get. Fake girls are expensive to maintain and average Joes avoid them.
You might have seen how guys are afraid to approach high class chicks who look expensive. That's the look rich men want.
And how do you get it? When you're broke yourself or a student? It's possible to get the look on the cheap. There are shortcuts to everything in life.
EDIT: If that is you on your profile pic.. Atleast you have a level of pettiness to you. What you need is a good hairpiece that flatters your face. Not that one you have. It needs to be thicker, especially on top. You need the eyelashes and better makeup. Seems like you're a chocolate in terms of skin complexion. Then head over to YouTube and look for dark beauty makeup channels. They'll advise you on the colours for your skin tone.
That lipstick you have on isn't doing you any favours. Or did you just put lip gloss?? And tell me why are you not wearing any necklace? Hope its only on that pic that you don't wear them. Because jewellery is a big part of the rich girl look. Let me stop here.
She also has to be Sexually Attractive and Feminine so that she can attract with her "Rich Girl Look"
Humanoid01: Another one? China don drop another single o. These outbreaks cannot be a coincidence. Something is definitely wrong somewhere. It's either a cosmic irregularity or it's driven by mankind's doings.
supremenews: Doctor who spent past weeks treating coronavirus patients, dies of the virus (watch his last video)
A Pakistani Doctor who spent the past weeks screening and treating coronavirus patients in the Middle East country has reportedly died of the disease.
American-Pakistani activist @_SJPeace_ said the doctor identified as Usama Riaz knew there was no Personal protective equipment (PPE), but he persisted in treating patients with coronavirus.
Shindosky2: W.H.O predicts about 45million deaths in Nigeria if we handle this corona virus case like Italy, just the way we are are doing at the moment, this is from a reliable source, you'll never find it anywhere online, and note that the Government is not telling the truth about the virus to avoid panic, please the virus is real
I remember clearly when the Europeans were puzzled as to why the virus hadn't started dealing with Africa ruthlessly, ... The were Extremely Puzzled and very inquisitive to find out the reason why it's so in Africa, .. now the tables have turned,
Why do I have this "Feeling" that this Virus was deliberately Ushered into Africa Shores so that we can also feel the same pain and anguish of the Europeans, ... I also have this "Feeling" that this new virus in Africa has been tweaked to be more deadly than Before
Ladylite: Girls will never choose weak minded nice guys like you, you care too much.
You try to be there too much. Most girl love bad guys, whose niceness are rare and conditional, they see them as real MEN.
Boys are always trying to be in a girl's goodbook hence they get hooked into the fantasy that one day she will see their good deeds and choose them, Mtchew, when she ain't God.
Wake up and grow some hairy balls. Go and get rich, ladies are more loyal and faithful to guys who have options. Guys they know they can loose if they play with them. Such guys are alpha males, get successful, get rich, lead and be needed and any girl will dream of you and beg you to be hers but you must dignify yourself and turn her down, then go for the girl that knows she can never deserve you or you are wayyyy out of her league, choose her and she will forever be loyal to you.
Also you can search nairaland for "miseducation" by ubunja and your weak mind will be upgraded.
You are recommending the "MisEducations" ...yet you Females brutally attack the "MisEducations" always
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