Romance › Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Daeylar(f): 9:39pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
whitetiger511: it is NOT speculation and no I'm not making sh!t up, real life experiences of people close to me. most of them over 30 and desperate for marriage, once they hear I'll marry you like this-they stop thinking right. once money changes hands; brother starts to misbehave.
I hope op comes back with the concluding story. It's one of two things- the relationship continues with marriage in view while op is being milked, or uncle doesn't answer at all. Lol, I told someone about this and the person first of all laughed and then told me to forget it that the money is gone, lol, the part if your statement I bolded just reminded me of that, I hope she is able to get her money back, I also hope they settle and make up. nkwuocha, rosalieene, what do you guys think. |
Romance › Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Daeylar(f): 9:22pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
rosalieene: I am telling you!!
if it's a LAdy now, you will see them coming out enmass to insult ladies. Let it just be a lady that did want the man did. Sister you will fear the comments that day, LMAO  We have seen something on this nairaland sha,  I'm hoping and praying for op that she is able to collect her money soon, her boyfriend apologizes and hopefully they also make up, settle and better their communication, I hope she comes back to give us update. |
Romance › Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Daeylar(f): 8:37pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
rosalieene: exactly my sister.
nothing a LAdy does is good in the eyes of this guys.
Everything a guy does, good or bad is always good.
most of them, it reflects in their character offline. they don't waste time to criticize a LAdy
this are the kind of guys every lady should flee from. Don't mind them, look at how hard some fools are trying to make it seem like the lady alone is at fault or both are at fault but of course with more blame going to the lady, Mtchhhhheeeeeeeewwwwww. NONSENSE. Very few are saying the truth that the guy is at fault,(thank God for those guys) but let it be a lady that did what the guy did now, you will see how they will come out in full force to condemn it, rubbish. |
Celebrities › Re: Tboss And Uti Nwachukwu Hang Out In Abuja (photos) by Daeylar(f): 8:23pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Daeylar(f): 7:35pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
nkwuocha: Love your response. BUT, hey dude, that niggar is dubious. I'm a business man so I know how it goes. Almost everyone in Business owes,some still pile up more debts from same creditors. Why?Because trust had been established.
There's absolutely no need to dodge the lady or avoid her calls in the first place.Communication matters a lot in all relationships.She made a move to keep the business running by involving her company's engineer, that's kind enough. What stops the idiot from establishing same gesture by ensuring he maintains his honesty? Thanks for your posts on this thread jare. I don't know if he intends to dupe her or not but the lady has tried, it's not right to avoid her calls |
Romance › Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Daeylar(f): 7:24pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
TheRealestGuy: You are a callous and wicked person.
You aren't even sure if he's broken even, you're not trying to be supportive, you're not even giving him a few weeks to stabilize after some production problems. All you're after is your miserly 500k that you lent to him.
You don't ever deserve to be married cos your type will turn to Jezebel if your hubby ever has financial issues.
If he wanted to scam you, will it be 500K, don't you know he'll be looking for a way to get more?
I pray for that guy that he doesn't marry you cos you will make his life miserable if he ever has financial problems.
Funny thing is that most of y'all women are like this, always quick to collect everything possible but when it comes to giving it's a problem.
I hope you fall into wrong hands that will teach you a lesson of your life since you can't be supportive of your to be husband.
All the harshness was duly intended and I exercised restraint not to call you names. Op immee please ignore this comment I quoted and the poster who made it, someone who had read the topic wouldn't had made such a contribution. Please ignore, even if you want to take anyone's advice, Don't even take this one into consideration, ignore, it's part of what happens when you bring your issues online, pretend you didn't see it, it's not worth your time at all You know nairaland is full of misogynistic men who are forever against women in issues concerning a man and a woman, this is clearly one of them. Just ignore |
Romance › Re: Is virginity over-rated By Mitch-ihejerika by Daeylar(f): 6:16pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
stephenmorris: I'll say that again for those of us who didn't read that well, virginity is OVERRATED. On a serious note, virginity is just a social construct that developed out of religious and cultural fundamentals. The ugly side to virginity is that it is mainly attributed to the female sex alone. It has so degraded the value of women to the extent that the society sees a deflowered woman as a failure but nothing is said in the case of men who are no longer virgins. The society has so systematically induced the concept of virginity, that some men have grown over bloated egos, and see their female counterparts as inferior beings. I came across a guy's comment on a post where he said, "women have a price because of their virginity but men are priceless because virginity doesn't apply to them." I was so disgusted at those words, they were so demeaning. I wouldn't want my sisters or daughters to be seen as inferior simply because they weren't virgins before marriage. And while I blame this guy for his public display of stupidity, I blame the society more for placing the value of women at a lower pedestal simply because of "Virginity." My advice to women is never place your self worth on virginity. You are worth more than a lining covering your vagina. by mitch ihejerika I love this |
Family › Re: Photos Of A Man And His Adorable Triplet Daughters Who All Look Like Him by Daeylar(f): 5:55pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Cute, the man is handsome too |
Romance › Re: Two Nairalanders Are Getting Married Next Weekend by Daeylar(f): 5:08pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
littlewonders:
Thanks for showing concern.
I just finished using my scanner on her. My report
1) She does not know cooking much except fry-fry.
2) No hustling spirit. She's the dress to kill type.
3) A typical example of slay Queen who is scared of washing the toilet.
4) Our first month of marriage, she's going to hire a house maid.
5) she lack motivational consciousness.
6) A party freak.
7) Divorce is the opposite of endurance.
I don't even tire....
Try to get me another with a P.O.Box address.
Cheers!! Na wa, just from one picture
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Romance › Re: Two Nairalanders Are Getting Married Next Weekend by Daeylar(f): 4:52pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Emexicoman: Emexicoman and Woman of Peace ... You all are invited to our wedding but before then. ..
Enjoy the pics below I love this picture op, happy married life Congrats, Op where and when na?
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Family › Re: "You've Added Weight O" Is This An Offensive Remark? by Daeylar(f): 4:31pm On Sep 21, 2017*. Modified: 3:26am On Sep 22, 2017 |
Very offensive, It tends to make people unnecessarily self conscious, The person already knows whether he or she has added or lost weight. Therefore your comment on the person's weight is not needed nor necessary.
Furthermore, whether the person has added or lost weight doesn't concern a soul, find better none offensive ways to compliment someone, if you feel the person is looking good, you just say that.
No need for the extra "you've added or lost weight" |
Crime › Re: Yahoo Boy Used His Girlfriend For Yahoo Plus Ritual - Facebook User Says by Daeylar(f): 3:42pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
lilmax: this country is not terrible for anybody....this just prove all that glitters, not gold.....
when we are disciplined we avoid things like this.... the boy acquired dhol illegally, so as the girl selfishness got her where she is
we are responsible for our consequences, there's nothing like Nigeria is terrible for women..... got it? I guess you get.. Nothing to get, your type is explained in the 1st and 2nd part of my comment. |
Crime › Re: Yahoo Boy Used His Girlfriend For Yahoo Plus Ritual - Facebook User Says by Daeylar(f): 2:18pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
As usual disgusting comments blaming the girl for being killed, #victim blaming. No sympathy for the victim at all No outrage for the crime and the perpetrators of the crime. No outcry to bring the perpetrators to justice, indirect acceptance that it's acceptable to kill a girl for money rituals, after all she will be definitely be blamed. This country is terrible for women. Mods why don't you guys hide such inhumane comments and enforce that such foolishness and wickedness are not welcome on this site? Cc seun, Dominique, lalasticlala, mynd44 Don't hide my comment or ban me  |
Politics › Re: Herdsmen Werent Labelled Terrorists, They Are Criminals Unlike IPOB- Garba Shehu by Daeylar(f): 2:11pm On Sep 21, 2017*. Modified: 2:35pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Ezigbonmadu: IPOB ticks all the box for your definition. Add to the fact that like ISIS and BokoHaram, IPOB 1. Have flags (heardsmen don't) 2. Lay claims to geographical area within a sovereign nation (heardsmen don't, they're nomadic) 3. Have expansionist agenda. Kanu boldly claimed that he has been offered 5 south east states but that wouldn't do, he wanted Rivers and Benue. I'm sure Delta would soon follow, then cross rivers etc. Let me know if you're still not convinced IPOB is a terrorist group despite it's many similarities with ISIS and co. There is only one box, the bolded one, use of intentionally indiscriminate violence as a means to create terror, or fear,
That is why I brought out that definition for you, So is IPOB still a terrorist organization |
Politics › Re: Herdsmen Werent Labelled Terrorists, They Are Criminals Unlike IPOB- Garba Shehu by Daeylar(f): 2:03pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
P0intBlank: The fourth deadliest known terrorist group are not terrorists - Garba Shehu, PhD (Confusion and Incompetence)  |
Politics › Re: Herdsmen Werent Labelled Terrorists, They Are Criminals Unlike IPOB- Garba Shehu by Daeylar(f): 1:57pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Herdsmen Werent Labelled Terrorists, They Are Criminals Unlike IPOB- Garba Shehu by Daeylar(f): 1:57pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Ezigbonmadu: Armed robbers also raid cities, towns and villages to steal, rape and kill people. Does that make them terrorists? Your not knowing makes your educational qualifications questionable. Because you have failed to acquire knowledge and shamelessly admit it. Any group of states that ask for restructuring or secession are terrorists? This is a definition of terrorism by the way. "Terrorism, in its broadest sense, describes the use of intentionally indiscriminate violence as a means to create terror, or fear, to achieve a political, religious or ideological aim. |
Romance › Re: Woman Goes Mad After Sex With Rich Man In A Hotel In Delta, Strips Herself Nude by Daeylar(f): 1:52pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
hopefulLandlord: This is simply a fallacy called Post ergo proper hoc" [ Learnt something new |
Christianity Etc › Re: A Thread For Christians - Let's Put Critical Thought To Shame by Daeylar(f): 1:34pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
johnydon22: So either way Jesus needs to die !!!
Sounds like God planned to kill him from the very start shaa Just looked at this thread again, Well, I don't know If Jesus would need to die, according to the op, there was no Adam, Eve or garden of Eden, so there may not have been any need for Jesus, or there may have been, I don't know. As for the 2nd statement, I don't know what to say |
Politics › Re: Herdsmen Werent Labelled Terrorists, They Are Criminals Unlike IPOB- Garba Shehu by Daeylar(f): 1:25pm On Sep 21, 2017*. Modified: 2:29pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Herdsmen that kill people aren't terrorists, but IPOB are
How do these people even say these things without shame |
Celebrities › Re: No Go Marry!! Fans Blast Don Jazzy After He Posted This Photo (photos) by Daeylar(f): 1:07pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Lol, That was really funny Just a little joke meant to brighten up the day, the so called fan carried his frustration there, looking for who to make as miserable as him.  The fan should mind his business |
Politics › Re: PYTHON DANCE II: Ebonyi Rejects, Snubs Military Medical Aid by Daeylar(f): 11:07am On Sep 21, 2017 |
littlewonders: Free healthcare indeed. The only sickness in the body of south east commoners at this moment are 'depression!' Emotional instability, after killing their brothers, raping their sisters even going as far to tag them 'Terrorist'.
How do you convince such people your healthcare services isn't a dead end service. My fore fathers use to say; 'A man who doesn't like your brother and sister does not like you!!'
One man went to UN and said Dialogue is important but in his house 'Violence' is the best approach.
Hypocrisy begot more hypocrisy.
I learnt from this government that if anybody, group of people make me uncomfortable in a debate or through issues, I need to use violence(Physical approach) to reset them to my own quest. Don't mind the clown. |
Celebrities › Re: Kevin Hart And Wife Unhappily Step Out For Lunch (photos) by Daeylar(f): 4:59pm On Sep 20, 2017 |
boostdom: Yo, I see you on that one thread in the hidden section. Yeah |
Crime › Re: Naval Officer Infects His Wife With HIV, Charges Her To Court In Ogun (Photos) by Daeylar(f): 3:54pm On Sep 20, 2017 |
I can't believe this  Wicked demonic man. Very few posters are condemning the man, hmmm, if it was a woman. |
Politics › Re: See What Al-jazeera Did To Buhari ;D by Daeylar(f): 3:22pm On Sep 20, 2017 |
EmperorGE: Aljazeera has Finished Mohammadu Buhari, this is laughable They said his UN speech is watery, unpresidential, uninspiring... "He pretty much talked about every other country except his own. It shows lack of focus"   |
Celebrities › Re: Kevin Hart And Wife Unhappily Step Out For Lunch (photos) by Daeylar(f): 2:02pm On Sep 20, 2017 |
She shouldn't be unhappy, that's exactly how she got him, so she shouldn't be mad. |
Celebrities › Re: “Our Society Is Harder On Women Who Cheat” - Simi by Daeylar(f): 10:14am On Sep 20, 2017 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by Daeylar(f): 11:15pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
BraniacX: the books are richer in details and far more interesting than the TV adaptation All right thanks BraniacX: grrm's style of writing is giving points of view. Meaning each chapter describes what happens from a characters point of view or perspective that is why the chapters have names of characters as titles and relax when reading it, reread each line again, some statements have either or and multiple meanings or deeper significance which you will get to appreciate as you go far in the books, many statements are cryptic and you won't understand them until about your third attempt at reading the books (I'm saying you'll go back to reread the books again and again trying to solve mysteries) Thanks for explaining  are you saying that if chapter 1 is from sansa's point of view, which is why it's named sansa, and maybe chapter 2 is from cercei's point, I won't get to read chapter one from anyone's point again? All right, I will |
Family › Re: Housewife Takes Rat Poison In Jigawa To Protest Husband’s Plan To Take 2nd Wife by Daeylar(f): 8:58pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
anitapreeti: From the story, the first attempt was by her sister. Thanks, corrected it |
Education › Re: Is It Legal For Teachers To Flog Students In Nigeria? by Daeylar(f): 8:29pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
abike12: I don't know if it's legal or not but I personally don't support it. Disciplining a child is not just about beating them because you are frustrated or to show seniority That's what most of them do, just to show who they are it should be done with intention and communication with the child - you are getting your behind whooped because you did xyz, do you understand why xyz is wrong, do you know if you do xyz you will get your behind whooped again, etc. Then a show of love to reassure the child, that you're not there to hurt them but to make them do better. Absolute truth No teacher gets paid enough to do all this, my child, my responsibility to discipline. Add to the fact that a lot of teachers in Nigeria are frustrated (thank you underpaying government), and it's a recipe for disaster. Your child's cane will be extra because their parents have money. Don't touch my child. If a school feels a child's behavior is unacceptable then expel the child but don't discipline other people's kids. If they can't teach without cane then all of them need to go back to school to learn. Nice piece |
Romance › Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Daeylar(f): 8:20pm On Sep 19, 2017*. Modified: 10:02pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Goodlyhrt: Do you think you knw what am hurting from? Not really, and it doesn't have anything to do with IQ either, I think you should take divay's advice, and you don't have to fill anxious to say something or to try to force a conversation, you don't have to try, not to talk of trying hard to be funny or to have a witty response, you don't have to. there is nothing wrong with keeping quiet sometimes, don't put pressure on yourself, if you don't feel like speaking you shouldn't. What is a delightful manner ? Can you try talking to people that won't make you feel like you are boring them? Maybe you can also read up on different topics or issues, read widely, on those that interest you. You can also read up on others just to have a general idea of them. You can try all these and see if it would help |
Romance › Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Daeylar(f): 8:05pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
TINALETC3: U ar jst being an introvert, am like dat, dat y I prefer punching my keyboard to physical talk. Physically, wen somebody is around me wt talk, I always feel like shunning d person off jst 2 b alone bt I jst hv 2 pretend and silently pray dat d person leavs It has nothing to do with being an introvert |