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Good for her, congrats

LastMumu:
They show off because they are also human like you and I. Everyone one way or the other show off, the only reason why theirs is more noticeable is because they are celebrities and celebrities are easy to pick on.

I'd bet if we should do a run through of your social account we will find photos of you too showing of something to your friends.

Call them out
Everybody here acting like saints.

But this your signature

Yuji:
We are equal. Argue till you faint, nothing can change that! My opinion though and its role not roll.

It's the truth, we are equal. You're right.

Nice work op

Your point is that people should go to church for the true reason of going to church and not to turn the church to a fashion show where they dress to show off,
That's true


However just adding this part below shows you as a mean, judgemental person

I was coming to church today and saw two women going to church as well. The other one was wearing a very high heel while the other was wearing something comfortable. Am sure they knew pretty well that the road was not that good, yet the other person wore that kind of shoe.

You are sure they knew, so how did you know?
Why is the shoe bothering you like this? How do you know that it was not comfortable for the girl? Some people are comfortable in heels

Now reaching where the road was galloped and sloppy, the one with the high heel.. Started shouting; 'Oh my god, I can't work on that side. Oh poo and I didn't bring slippers.
The other woman was telling her to take it easy that she won't fall.
I turned back and I didn't know whether to get angry or to laugh. I just turned back and noticed she wasn't even that fine

And you think you are better than them? you saw someone wondering where to walk and you couldn't help, all you could think about was whether to laugh or get angry? yet you think you are better than them
.,
"noticed she wasn't even that fine" what does this statement even mean?

I'm a girl quite alright but I prefer to wear what I can walk on and be comfortable with. Most people just have to understand somethings and stop the forming rubbish. If you want to go to church you go with your heart and not to pack make up full your face that it's even hard for you to laugh well. I'm not criticizing anyone but saying the truth

You're actually the one that needs to understand that some people can walk in and are comfortable with heels? ,some even dance on heels,
It doesn't mean that they are "forming rubbish" they just prefer to wear heels

Everyone can't be like you, stop judging people by your own standards, everyone is different.

Maybe you should go to church with you heart and stop being excessively critical and judgemental of people just because they don't act they way you do and the way you expect the to. Just saying the truth

Priest69:
That's a horrible way to talk about women, what of you that had sex with someone you just wooed? Don't you have home training? Your pensioner mumu

Don't mind the immature baby,
Insulting someone for the exact same thing he did, he thinks he is better just because he is male, sexist human being

kojusoluwa7:
that doesn't label her to be a bitch broda,just cos u laid her same day u wooed her. bro, grow up now. even if it takes a year before u laid her,if na bitch she wan be,she go be and d one u laid with might even be holier than d one who gives u tough time.

Don't mind him, he that laid a girl he met that same day I wonder what he will call himself, sillyness everywhere.

johnydon22:
So either way Jesus needs to die !!!

Sounds like God planned to kill him from the very start shaa

I don't know, he may not have

sonofluc1fer:
Thanks for the attempt.

You're welcome

I think religion forms a core part of a person's life, views, ideologies, and thoughts, whether consciously or unconsciously.
One who claims to love God should also have a love for truth, not fear. We are higher animals, not because we walk on two feet, or have nice shiny hair, but because of our ability to reason. To remember the past, and learn from it. To walk past the veil of ignorance and into light. It's why we dominate the world more than any other species.
Like a new phone, we come into this world clean and empty. Just a skeleton, a little brain and some other essentials. The mind is basically clean of ideas, nationalities, tribe. A new being in a strange world. You open your eyes to a new world, and based on geography, an OS begins to be installed on your system.
Language - which you will use to describe and appreciate the world.
Culture - habits and behaviors that would separate you from others.
Sometimes, the decisions we take were influenced by our parent's and we continue with them through life, never questioning them, rather assuming them to be true by default. We inherit not just physical property, but ideas, behaviors, and traits.
It is normal, as one matures, to begin to ponder and ask why we act and think the way we do. That's the sign of an educated mind.

I understand this part above, I also agree

Stories are powerful. A great story can lift your emotions, a bad one can spoil your day. The story of Adam and Eve teaches about Original Sin, the concept that their disobedience brought terror, conflict, and suffering to the world. By disobeying God's instruction, they forever soiled our relationship with God.
It is based on this story that the Christians claim a Messiah - one who would die to reunite them with God.
The Jews predicted a Messiah, one who would come to save his people.

I understand and agree with this

Let's ignore for now Jesus' legitimacy as the Messiah. If there was no ORIGINAL SIN, there'd be no need for GOD to come down to save us from HIMSELF. The story of Jesus and the disciples would be a good story, not a great one. What makes this ordinary story so powerful is the idea that THE CREATOR died to save us from DESTRUCTION. We forget this destruction wasn't coming from the Devil, it was coming from God himself. What does that say about GOD, that his unforgiveness caused his Son to lay his life for us? Who showed the greater act of love? God or Jesus?

In my opinion, Christianity provides the POISON and the ANTIDOTE. The first story administers THE POISON (original sin). Christ is an ANTIDOTE to a fake POISON

Hmmm I see your point

Let me attempt

If there was no garden of Eden and no Adam and Eve,
There could have been another reason why God would need Jesus to die for our sins,

So answer, I don't know

Why did you ask this question op?

myking95:
I want to assume you are kidding, else I can categorically say you are a cocktail of evil and stupidity.
I am a guy, and if I'm in a relationship I don't cheat, not because I'm some beta, approval seeking, insecure guy, but cuz I have principles. If she doesn't appeal to me physically, I can't ask her for a relationship cuz I don't want to become and emotional liability to anyone.
If I just want sex, I just tell her straight up.. .(u will be surprised some very pretty ones are cool wit it), but I'm a guy and if I commit, I don't cheat.

This is nice to see

I just wish I did put a bullet in your head

Ah has it reached that level.

Don't mind the silly dad, the daughter is a lesbian, nobody has done anything to her, but he went to sign a useless law
I hope his daughter is in jail now

johnydon22

You can also ask here

supersystemsng:
You have a fixated mindset that's why i chose not to quote you.

I still maintain my position, which is that a man cheats doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife..

Any other thing you asked is too technical for me....I told you howmy folks divorced when i was Nine and the effects it had on me..

I believe my simple positions clarifies everything...

The beans don don, make i go harvest cassava i want take chop am

Story,

Did I say anything about the man not loving his wife? , I just asked a question

Just small question you say it's too technical

Anyways enjoy your beans

izzou:
You haff started again

So what's up?

How's today doing you?

What I do?

All good

Today is doing me good , how about you?

supersystemsng:
Wetin you want make i talk naa?

I dey come, make i go cook beans

I give you question make you answer na wetin I wan make you talk

Na now you remember say you wan cook

Una no go quote me again

I don laugh tire

supersystemsng:
Na wa`

LWKMD
E pass you abi

izzou:
I complimented her naa

Am not the jealous type. I celebrate with those who celebrate

No hating

Lol, I wasn't referring to you, just your people
I know

supersystemsng:
Mum and Dad parted ways when i was 9. They have very good reasons when they say for the sake of the kids... Was always flocking with the best academically, everything dropped, i stopped caring about life, it's much, can;t even remember....but, who knows sha....It wasn't easy...so yes for the sake of the kids, moreso the op loves the man and isn't contemplating living the marriage...

Too many people were hasty with the thought of she quitting the marriage, she loves him too much even though he cheated

As long as you and they all agree that when your wives cheat for the sake of the kids you all will stay.

Abbbeeeegggiiii,
my point is that why didn't the cheating man think about the kids before he cheated knowing fully well that his cheating may lead to his wife divorcing him thereby leading to his kids growing up in a broken home,
Why did he do so? Is it because one?, 1) he takes the wife for granted and thinks she can never leave him?
2)he didn't care about kids and wives?
Why is the pressure on the woman to think about the kids when the husband didn't think about them? Why?

Please answer these questions if you want to quote me again,

This picture made me laugh

izzou:
As in ehn

Don't mind them
They can't even pretend just pretend small ;Dcompliment the girl that her room is fine, they no wan gree
Izzou this your people ehn

All these men that keep saying for the sake of the kids,
Did the man think about the kids before he cheated?
When the man went out to cheat thereby causing problems in their marriage did he think about the kids? Did he care about them?
When he went to cheat did he think about the fact his actions may cause the wife to want to leave thereby making his children grow up in a broken home?
Did he think about that? Did he care?

Nonsense

I hope when your wives cheat you guys will think about the kids,
When she cheats think about the kids, you have to stay with her so that the kids won't grow up in a broken home
Always remember the kids

Tpappie:
You might be assassinated. Watch your back abeg.

True,
That's a dangerous game.

Sure, This crocodile looks very big and terrifying
This will be very scary,

CountCarter:
Well, what do you think she should do about her husband? Because, it seems to be every male on this forum is a misogynist to you. How about you give your own piece of advice, an advice that won't lead to the destruction of her home.

Nope, not every man, not at all
and the person I asked answered me
Further more. It's not my advice nor whatever she does that will lead to the destruction of her home. Her husband was the one who brought about the destruction of her home when he cheated, he is the one that led to the destruction of her home, he has already destroyed the home, so please don't try and put it on me or the wife, stop shifting Blame, hold the man responsible for his actions.

The only thing she can do is to either leave it destroyed or try and rebuild it,
Whatever she chooses is right as long as she is happy.

If she chooses to leave, fine
If she chooses to stay, she can start by taking this advice,

nkwuocha1:
Then let her drag him to the hospital for a medical test to be conducted, both must run a test.I will advice she avoid any sexual contact with him until a full test is conducted.

She doesn't even need to drag him, he must be willing to go, he must show remorse. He should do everything to appease her. She was the one that was offended, pet her, baby her. Cook for her, do everything

nkwuocha1:
I must first commend you for the slaps.Its very deserving.
Madam,you need to carry out your threat. Your husband is definitely not the only man she is cheating with. There are people that need to be taught hard lesson so they can learn.please let her fiance know,so she can change her philandering decision for good.

What should she do to her husband? If you advise that she deal with the girl what will you say about the husband? Does the man need to be taught a lesson?

dingbang:
seun oya ban mynd44 ...


He said you are a demon

Mynd44 has entered problem today

babyfaceafrica:
you can't know people..people will show you what they want you to see...a girl will pretend to like you because she knows you are sponsoring her education,once she is through and has a good job..she will show you herself.. We can't read peoples mind...prevention is better than cure

I meant know the person before you start giving or show any intention of giving, before you start carrying yourself as someone who can feed everyone in nigeria,
Take time to observe and then give only because you want to.

majekdom2:
The mentality of some here amazes me. Little wonder HIV is on the rise in Africa despite the awareness. Put simply hypocrisy and unintelligence. I am very sure your husband is n ot the only man that stupid whre is sleeping with. How can you be engaged to to promising guy nd still mess around. Save th next man from a promiscuous woman!

It's only the woman you saw,
It's only her that's messing around, it's only her that's a whorê
you guys are clowns I swear

Mindfulness:
What did i say? They will try to blame you.

I hope you will give the same advice to the lonely wives who got weakened when they were waiting for their husband and decided to fvck some toy boy.

Irritating men, look at the silly advice one tried to give, give your cheating husband a good treat, don't raise your voice,
men should leave cheating wives

I'm tired of reading this type of trash, I'm tired
Let misogyny not kill Nigerian men one day

iamtardey:
can someone let's know and see how our own people doing in makurdi pls

True. But who will do so,? It's media houses, news outlets that went to get those pictures you are seeing, which media house wants to go to markurdi?