₦airaland Forum

Akoja360:
with all our juju and religion we still backward in practically everything....african man problem is deep rooted and wired in his mentality.....

olaboy33:
SMH...

operation monkey dab fall on them

intruxive:
Family is family, business is business.
The guy realized the terms of business has not been fair all these while and he wants it renegotiated.
If jude is the manager, he has to earn a salary, that's the norm in music industry, not take a third of every income despite the fact that all he does is direct "some music videos" and nothing else!
If peter is no longer comfortable with the term of business is he not man enough to take charge of his life,must they malign and slander his family just to black mail him into submission, little girl everything about their issue is open, but u wont see it as long as u keep looking through your ethnic sentimental glasses
You should pray for a man like peter in your life, who will protect you from even his family if they seek to hurt you

bennyann:
Just as some decide to masturbate, have sex with animals, any objects, some even do so with kids just to gratify their sexual desires or lust. It's all a personal decision.

Just as some do not believe God exist, so also I do not believe that anyone is born gay. I realize it's all a decision.
Forgive me but I do not care whether there are scientific theories and facts backing up claims of gays so as to please their beliefs. In this specific areas I do not believe them personally.

I do not know how God protected me by still keeping me intact sexually, but I do remember how some ladies try to break me around my private parts when I was still a child because my mum do go about her business then. So I've learnt never to leave our kids in the trust of another be it relatives or not.

It's by God's grace some children are still morally sound.

It would be my decision if I want to be a prostitute, if I want to please both sexes. It would be one's decision to try both sexes and get to know the one that pleases you most. I believe a lesbian can be bisexual if she wants to, a homosexual can be bisexual if he wants to. Anyone can be if they desire it. So I find it funny when anyone blame it on science or creation.

There are friends around trying to lure one into any of these but it depends on you as a person. But as Christians, there are rules guiding us and normally we are to have these strong hatred for such acts since our God despise them.

If you do not hate the act as a Christian, then you have to watch yourself, go back on your knees and and ask God to renew His spirit in you.

Suddenly everyone has gotten a voice. It's now they remember they were born homosexuals. It's now they discovered they are lesbians by nature all because someone who decided to live like that gave them a voice.

There is nothing wrong if God test us to please Himself because He is God.

It seems no one understand the meaning of God yet but one thing I do know is that God tests His children to bring glory to His name, to encourage others, to make us know Him better and trust Him more.,to grow in Him and easily help others come to know God more. It all points back to our individual decisions. Whether God knows you would pass the test or not, He just can't stay idle not doing anything to encourage you to pass since the ultimate decision lies with you.

Let's remember God testing you doesn't mean you're the only focus. The enemy is there to know the outcome, followers are there to see if they would be encouraged by you or not because we are living for others and not ourselves, the cloud of witnesses are also there to cheer us on. The test isn't meant for only you, just remember others are watching to be encouraged or discouraged from your results. God won't leave you the same when you pass a test, it is also to take you to a new level.
So if you want a new level now, pass the test today or you can decide to fail it and pass it tomorrow as long as you don't fail it when it's too late. It's all on you, the power lies with you.

When we know the reasons God tests us, then this thread will make more sense.

If God still test you while knowing the outcome, it means there's hope for you, He alone understands the power He has given you. It means God believes in you to break every negative results attached to you. It's just like asking if God knows you wouldn't give yourself to Him, why did he still send Jesus to die for you. Well, it means there's hope for you and if you should fail it, it's entirely your fault after all He's done. If I fail, it is my fault.

OldBeer:
It is on this Nairaland that I knew that the vast majority of Nigerian men are potential rapists.
There are only very few decent ones here.
In fact when rape threads are taken to frontpage, I do not read past the first comment in order to preserve my sanity.
I just feel for women in this clime.

NLmember:
Na me pity them pass. From physical assault to molestation to infidelity of their husbands, they are blamed for everything. Anyway thats another topic entirely.

lilmax:
clothes got nothing to do with rape, it's more of being moral

so any guy that tells you he rapes because of clothes is full of crap

NLmember:
Yeah, a lot of guys and foolish idiot females still blame women for causing their rape because they dressed skimpy. Sad actually. I see it on Nairaland and Facebook, people advicing women to prevent rape by covering up.

NLmember:
Here's the original link with more stories
http://news.sky.com/story/amp/shocking-attitudes-to-rape-in-south-africa-10433820


[b] The most common theme in this is a sense of entitlement to women's bodies and an inability to empathize with women as human beings.
Men feel entitled to a woman & if a girl refuses them they see it as their right to use force.

Nigerian men are very guilty of this. I remember the big brother Naija 2017 scandal where Kemen crept into bed with Tboss while she was asleep and looked around to see if everyone was asleep, after checking for privacy, he started attempting to finger her vagina and she woke up immediately and turned away from him blocking his access to her private parts.
This was the same kemen who recommended ways to drug a drunk girl and rape her to his friends. Yet Nigerians consisting of males and females (with mental problems) showed him tremendous support when the scandal blew open and accused Tboss of seducing him with her beauty.


Worst part is that society enables this nonsense. Instead of putting more effort into sensitizing both males and females why rape is wrong, we see people telling women to cover up or blame themselves if they get raped.

Disgusting to say the least. [/b]

Prettyhurts:
AMERICANA man, even Jesus Christ wasn't loved by all.

cococandy:
He didn't even come when he learned she was dying? Wow. Did he explain why?

You're not obliged to forgive him. I hate when kids are blackmailed into forgiving horrendous parents. If you don't feel like forgiving him, you don't have to. At least don't force it. Let it come to you.

You only owe yourself success. Try your best to get successful and be your own person.
If you do eventually feel like forgiving him, let it be your decision and not something you do out of societal pressure or guilt.

Never try to physically harm him. Don't end up in jail because of him. It's not worth. You owe yourself that much. And nothing justifies physical violence on someone else except self defense.

lekibraky:
I see it coming because many people withheld their gotv subscription to buy this tstv on Monday myself included seeing how much multichoice will lose because they can't match this competition hence they try to frustrate its effort let us bombard NBC, dstv,gotv, lai muhammed, pmb
VP social handle in order to make this TSTV launch

Adaumunocha:
Thank God for Vacuum cleaner, poundo yam, washing machine, dish washer.... Person cannot comman go an die

Jethrolite:
Lol, why are you reacting like this? This is a public forum and shit happens with how people share their opinion. Get over it! They are not my people.

Kaymaxine:
Even if it was sold for 19.3 billion cowries,u CANNEVER afford it.
#lazybaga

Rajosh:
buy it for me

Zita55:
OK na

Jethrolite:
Lol, it blew your mind at first. Billion dollar sales are very rare, mostly corporations, large corporations at that.

Jethrolite:
Hmm...that was actually the purpose of my comment, naira or dollar, billion is alot of money. I just wrote it despite knowing you thought the quotation was in dollar not naira.

Jethrolite:
I got your point from the beginning.

Jethrolite:
if you're given just that 3 after the 19, you'll start seeing life from a perspective you can't even imagine.

trustyshoess:
Actually diamonds are not as rare as they're made to seem. There are tons and tons of them hidden in vaults and only a small amount is released at a time. The elites control this to make money off it. If they released all the diamonds that they have stored away into the market, I'd be able to buy a real diamond ring for as little as $50.

iamchybs:
Chai. Can't someone wake up and see this things while cleaning backyard on Saturday ni. Why's Everything hard in this earth sef