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pu7pl3:
One hour huh?

Hides face

I love the way she stated that it is her opinion and she is not here to debate it. Hold your own girl
And she is right, women in the bible didn't have equal consideration or power at all.

At the end of the day,

Her choice. She'll find people who think the same as her and relate with them.

Meanwhile.

Why is this thread full of men attacking the girl? (Except the first poster, lakeside or so, who asked for maturity. )
Why so upset? She doesn't think men are the head of house. You guys should find women who think men are and get with them. Problem solved. Whatever she thinks doesn't affect any of you.

nanakgh:
Some people on this forum are stark raving mad. it's like any chance is taken just to abuse women. and you still get some no self esteem women backing them. sometimes some of you ladies deserve to be treated like trash since you have no respect for each other and your gender.

Any chance at all..
If they ( those who do this) can find a way to insult all women they will take it.

Nice post.

Lool I burst out laughing.

See anger in her soul,

If they want to die they should die. LMAO she should take it easy abeg. Let her calm down.

That's so sad, heartbreaking. Was really happy only to read further and find out that it was a dream, hope there is more coverage on this story so at least pressure will increase on the FG.

Really ridiculous that the FG haven't even spoken to her about her daughter at all.

I pray she is still alive.

As for all of you interpreting nonsense.

Please don't kill this woman's daughter before her time for her.

Nice that she got him together, but he couldn't even apologise well, he had time to tell us that he wasn't born yesterday. Was his DOB ever in question? Was that the point?


Stupid "so called" joke but good she dragged him and made him apologise.

sanpipita:
Struggle to be seen a moralist blocks some people's senses in Nigeria,

And it's especially at someone's expense, it gets tiring pretty fast.

as if its not in this country rape victims are victimized more than the rapists themselves, tomorrow these same people will traumatize not only the mother the child too

True,
if we weren't told that armed robbers came to their home. Some people would have come here to ask, where did she go, what did she wear. As if that would have justified the rape.
And they do shame single mothers.

pu7pl3:
I had to mention you for you to remember this thread...smh

It's not like that, haven't watched in a while.

Just watched Mondays raw. That's all I've watched in weeks. Will be back soon.

BlackManta:
Most people are against abortion.
But no one wants to adopt or raise an unwanted baby.

That's the irony.

When the girl is pregnant they will encourage not to do abortion.
By the time the girl gives birth, the same people who advised her against abortion would disappear.

And the poor girl is left to carry her cross alone.
The child may end up as a begger on the streets cuz the mother is unable to take care of him.

I can tell you that some of the children you see begging on street are products of unwanted pregnancies.

If a girl is not capable of raising a child.
She should abort it.
It is better to abort that child than to bring him to the world to
suffer.

All these people screaming NO ABORTION.
Ask them how many unwanted kids have they taken off the streets and watch them go silent.

I support ABORTION, especially in the case of rape victims.

Hypocrites only know how to preach.
When the baby is born, you wont see them again.

Exactly, the people who keep shouting no to abortion act as if it's spirits that are going to raise the child. I don't get it sometimes. Especially in this case. It's extremely insensitive of them. Instead of comforting a grieving girl who has to deal with rape and pregnancy. They are busy trying to impose their will on her. Sad. Even her mum is failing her at this time where she needs her mum most.

Better an aborted pregnancy, than a child born to parents who don't care or in this case of this girl, someone who has been raped and maybe cannot deal with the trauma of a baby gotten from rape.

pu7pl3:
Sorry bout the stress bro....but its not just you..everybody left the thread hanging even morata and daeylar

I'll be back in a minute. An hour though.

Solstar:
So who are they cheating with ? Is it not men ?

Lol,

What will she tell who?
Your so called God that was callous enough to watch and allow her to get raped by armed robbers. Traumatising on it's own, yet let her get pregnant. More mental torture, Now she has to choose between raising a child of rape or aborting her child.

Is it that same god?
Your God better go and sit down somewhere.

alBHAGDADI:
There goes the satanist some deceived fools are hoping on for the word of God.

Imagine him blatantly supporting abortion. No Church in the history of Christian has ever supported abortion. America is even currently working on ways to stop the evil act which was put in place by the league of Bill Clinton, Hillary Clinton and Obama. All thanks to VP Mike Pence and the US evangelicals whom God is using to influence Trump.

This evil Freeze is advocating that the raped girl should go for abortion. I can assure you that if God should open the eyes of so many rich and famous people as to how their lineage came about, I'm very certain they will pee in their pants and praise Him. So many top and famous people in our society came from parents that were mad or cannibals. Some came from the lineage of a woman that was raped but refused to abort the baby. Who knows, some presidents of today might be from such stock. Yet, the products of such affairs have become successful in ways that their evil past has been erased.

Haven't we heard Cristiano Ronaldo's mother giving a testimony of how she almost aborted him while she was pregnant. Today, her decision not to do such is paying off. The son she didn't abort is now almost getting worshiped by children of women who never contemplated abortion. If she had aborted him, football as we know it today won't be interesting.

What about American rapper, The GAME? His mother also wanted to abort him. But today he is a famous star. I think there was even a lady whom many think was a prostitute in the lineage of Jesus Christ. Yet, we got the savior of the world through her lineage.

Freeze is here even telling the girl to not only ignore the advice of a Church whom Freeze claims to be trying to make perfect, but also that she should ignore her parents too. There goes your FRee The Goat movement leader.

What are the dangers of abortion? Killing an innocent life who desrves to enjoy this world regardless of whether its father is an armed robber.

What if the girl should lose her life? What will she tell God? She will tell God that Freeze said she should ignore the Church and her parents cos her body is her own. What happened to ''honor thy parents''? What happened to your body is yours but still ''the temple of God''?

Continue being fooled by a demonic cultist.

All these people against abortion, I wonder if they will be the one to carry the baby in their womb, give birth, and then raise the child right.
Freeze is right. Her choice is most important.

LMAO at freeze saying the guy should take his respect back,
Clap back was strong.

Such a gorgeous baby, so fat too

She shouldn't have bothered.

They even go out with the same outfit.

Too bad.

[quote author=emmabest2000 post=67766110][/quote]Lol. What kind of meme is this,
I guess it can be and should be applied to men.

This is so nice, I wonder if he had surgery to help lose some of his weight.
They both look good.

All true op, @ drezzyx very nice one advice.


Don't be discouraged those on this thread writing writing trash.
Trying to get women to accept mistreatment.

If you had written don't marry girls who have these 10 habits and wrote the exact damn thing you wrote but changed the male to female, you would have seen millions of post hailing you, then doing their favourite, calling women all types of names. And launching into tirades about how women are this and that's

But they don't want to accept the post because it's against men, and as far as they are concerned, women are supposed to accept the BS of men, because it is part of being a man or a "human being" but would quickly change tune if it is a woman who had these attributes, after all, the women should be saints.

See men complaining

So you guys cannot cook and do fine presentation of eba?

Nice thread op.
The 7-10 mins is too long for the eba I see in the bowl, never looked at the time when doing mine but a minute will do, 2 at most,

That 7-10 mins you are using to wait,
Someone would have finished eating lool

eyinjuege:
Its funny comparing the thoughts of both men and women.
A woman said something, and probably dont be surprised most women feel the same.
The men countered it, and believe they can decide to choose how women feel.
Love is beautiful with the right person sha

Agreed

These are all useless men
Who cannot imagine that a lady would dare say no to them. I'm sure he always wanted to rape her and was just waiting for the perfect opportunity. I hope he is killed.

cyborg123:
Don't generalize. I don't have and will never have a devilish spirit.

Rape should carry capital punishment. It showcases the maximum level of wickedness. How do you derive pleasure from someone else's pain and still be allowed to live among human beings?

Lorrrd have mercy

The what did she do crew have arrived, stupid bunch

sisisioge:
Jisos! First and foremost, SA guys got no chill. They have no qualms killing or maiming. There is their hate for foreigners cos they are doing better than them, there's the bf killing gf cos she's no longer interested, there's crazy crazy news coming from them mehn!Whew, they are mostly such a hateful lot.


Anyways, I don't argue too much when guys ask for my number. Once I say no and they keep pestering, I give and block them afterwards. The talk is overwhelming enough, never thought beatings could come out of it

Na to block sure pass

Exciton:
Assuming we weren't retârds and we could self-organize into a proper society with a well structured and accountable govt, most of the money in African churches should be in govt's coffers in the form of taxes paid by the people --- for amenities accessible to all citizens, as in other developed societies.

But since we have a broken society and critical thought is absent, we'd rather pay tithes than higher taxes in exchange for "miracles" -- funding Yahoo Yahoo men. It's easy to see why African churches are among the richest globally, despite the ravaging poverty and low wealth of African countries.

Also, it's quite fücking annoying that intellectually dishonest educated Nigerians give examples of the few schools, roads etc built by churches as argument for their wealth. This is meant to be one of the primary duties of your govt, not some fücking church! In reality, almost all Nigerian churches are very shady profit making rent-seekers disguising as non-profit NGOs. They're of little to zero value to any society.

We are so fücking stupid, it's painful to read Nigerian news.

Gotdamn ,
you've been slamming Nigerians mercilessly with each new comment I see from you,

No matter what sha, Tonto seems generous. She gave Nina an iPhone X just because someone insulted her phone. Now she is offering N1m or an iPhone X to gifty because gifty defended her.
Nice of her.

The hate as far as I have seen is only on nairaland. I first saw this on Instagram. And people were defending and trying to comfort her. With only one or 2 goats trying to drag her there. But nairaland and it's imbecilic posters pride themselves on how disgusting and misogynistic they can be. This forum is seriously pathetic.

It's the typical case on nairaland, on Nairaland, in A Man verses a woman issue, No matter how right the woman is, Nairaland misogynistic idiots will always judge her to be wrong and then proceed to bash her.
I'm not surprised with what I'm seeing.

She is complaining that she is the only one playing both roles ( a mom and a dad) in the child's life and she is damn right to complain. She shouldn't be the only parent raising the child.
How can a man and a woman play their roles in making a baby, the father gives sperm. The mom gives her eggs and carries the child, Yet when the baby is here only one person ( the woman) is taking care of the child?
If a baby father can go raw then he can step the fùck up and take care of his child. That's all she wants. And she isn't wrong for asking of that.


There is nothing cute about an absentee dad.

Josephamstrong1:
Nobody's talking about the father here.
What a warped generation!
She never asked Wiz to nut into her. Wiz knows the implications and must have promised her heaven and earth before she took in. And girls at her age then are so naive and so live a fantasy~imaginary life. He took advantage of her nativity. At her age, who wouldn't want to associate with success? Just like the internet sensation about Oma and bro Dave. Are we going to blame Chioma for associating with Dave? Dave might as well have an ulterior motives.
It is not easy to be a single parent in this part of the country while the father whores about.
We all are judging. Are we righteous either? If it was a mistake on her side, what happened to our sense of sympathy, love and advice? Why the so much hate and vile talk? In as much I don't like all this media paparazzi, she should lead a quiet life while minding her business. Stay away from media.
Why so much hate on women on this part of the country? Why call her names, why so much hate?
Even hawkers open legs for hawkers too. Now we celebrate and applaud the guy to be the Man for being irresponsible?
Moral decadence in our society has reached such a level that calls for concern.

This is sad.

Responses here are very funny, all subtly supporting the man as usual, while trying to make this seem as if the woman is wrong.

I'm sure if it was a man that dumped a woman because she couldn't cook this thread would have burst into flames with posters coming out to bash this woman and( all women as usual using this woman as an excuse.)
Here they know he is wrong but as usual. In a case of a man vs a woman on nairaland. The lady must always be wrong

As much as I feel this is made up. She didn't leave because he couldn't cook, she left because he asked her if she was a good cook and when she in return asked him the same question.
He said he is a man and the question does not apply to him LMAO Gosh

One of the things that make me tired of nairaland.

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2PAGES ALMOST GONE AND NOT ONE REASONABLE SUMMATION!!!

INDEED I TIRE FOR NIGERIA