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I don't even know why this should be a topic that the mods feel should see FP. Why someone should open his mouth to say this kind of BS And why some people even feel that what this idiot said is up for debate.

Why do people love telling women what they can or cannot or should or should not do?

The gall of some idiots masquerading as male human beings.


I'm just tired of the misogyny in this forum.

You've tried abeg, been reading your posts on this thread.
You did very well

Both are wrong in this case. The lady is wrong by not being able to pay for herself, so she could have walked out of there immediately he started that nonsense ATM card talk.

The guy is wrong for every damn thing he did. Like you said. He must have been forming dangote's nephew
He should have been able to pay or let her know what's up so she knows how to order.

How can he invite someone on a date and start all those rough play jokes of I left my ATM card at home? Like the girl said, who does that? That's where the girl should have paid for her meal and walked out. Block the fool's number and his entire existence and move on. But unfortunately, she fuckêd up by not having cash to pay.

Anyways you're on nairaland. Where as long as it is an issue involving a man and a woman. Even if both are wrong or the guy alone is wrong.

Only the lady will be blamed. While the guy will be made to look like a saint.

proffemi:
That is all well and good. But take it from me, unless there's more to it (the guy forming much?), he would tell her to tone it down, not wait till after the fact and then, ask her to pay because - was it ATM he said he forgot at home? I mean, what sort of decent guy does that?

If you think she's pigging out and you know you don't intend to (or can't!) pay, call her to order. That he asked her to pay at all ("testing" her, abi?) is a fail. What sort of big boy asks a girl to pay because he doesn't have N11k on him for a date?

Of course, the girl also failed on an epic scale, but I'm hard on the guy because he's the one who came online to crow about what amounts to shameful behavior.

Abeg make I pass joo. You guys are trying too hard to justify obnoxious behavior, and make out a broke-azz nigga into a he-man.

nanakgh:
13 years? That's longer than most marriages last today

Lol very true

Look at the cute fat baby

nahzyla:
You too dey lie.

Reduce am abeg.

proffemi:
Guys no longer know when to hide their faces in shame.

If you want to be the alpha in a relationship (most guys do), act it.
If you take someone out on a date, pay the bills. Your date should be decent enough not to pig out, but if she does, make a mental note, and don't take her out next time. In any case, act the alpha. Alpha men are gentlemen. If you're okay haggling over bills with a woman, then you really aren't an alpha. Don't come sobbing if she disrespects you.

Don't take a date to an expensive eatery and hope she will restrain herself. Don't hide broke-azz status behind fake indignation. Don't give gentlemen a bad name, and for the love of God, if you do all the above, don't crow about it online!!!

Thank you jare.


The men really don't know when to hide their face in shame. Same as the people supporting him.

Amazing comment.

I don't understand all the people blaming the woman or complaining about how much food she ordered, and so what if she ordered N11k worth of food ?? ?? ??

It so irritating to do that "left my ATM card at home so can you pay for both pathetic joke" when you take someone out.

That part in bold is the truth.
Last paragraph is the whole truth.

Don't take someone out and start policing how much they can order. Na wa. If he doesn't have it he should chill, it's not by force to take someone on a date.

childish men and ladies everywhere. Defending the useless behavior of the man


The only part where the girl messed up is not having the exact amount of what she wanted to eat with her. So she could pay and walk off.
She really messed up there.

These pictures will never not make me laugh

So cruel to use them when he invited you to Lords chosen. the savagery
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hopefulLandlord:
To come and do what? to do like the people in the below pictures?


No but thanks for the offer anyways

maureensylvia:
lunch... who cares to join

This is so cute

I don't know about him being self hating but I agree with your post. The girl is doing her best and yet seems he is still trying to find fault with her. He even admits to trying to push her buttons. That's not funny at all.
Like you said, he really shouldn't spoil her good nature, he better leave and walk away and find those Nigerian girls he wants that will give him the drama he feels a naija girl should give in a relationship .

And if he comes back after leaving. I hope the girl finds the strength to keep walking away and never look back.

LivingFree:
I have a feeling you are the problem. It seems you don't feel worthy of her treatment. Everybody has good and bad in them. She's showing you her best side so why dig for her bad side? You wanna see the 'real' her that you're looking for? Give her an STD and when she cuts your D off then you will be satisfied. Enjoy and appreciate the good in her. If you don't like love and patience then let her go instead of spoiling her for the next man. You are self hating and don't believe you are worth a good woman. You will find what you are looking for 'a typical naija girl'

HonSuQMaDIQ:
That motun like an exhumed body

People get mouth sha

hopefulLandlord:
That's fair sir but it begs several questions which would be raging in Deeper Life member's minds but they wouldn't say it out

"What other things are Kumuyi preaching now or has preached before that he would apologise about in the future?"

Very true

somegirl1:
Even women who are the sole breadwinners of their homes are physically abused.
An abuser does not require a reason or justification for being abusive.

Thank you, it's just disgusting the way goats who posted on the FP were trying to turn it into a joke or to subtly (in some cases outrightly) blame the woman for being beaten.
It's tiring

True, I agree with the bold.

mediclife1987:
Prostitution is legalised in some countries that are far more developed than your useless Africa/Nigeria will ever be. What benefit has ur "moral chastity" brought to Africa, save for hypocritical condemnation from worse people?

The shame lies on a famous rapper who carried the poor girl trying to eke out a living for herself, used her, wasted the time she could have used to make money somewhere else and dumped her, his mate are giving babes #assurance, he's there forming sharp Warri boy....

#brokeassmofo!
#scumbag .

"his mate are giving babes #assurance, he's there forming sharp Warri boy....

#brokeassmofo!"

Looool

2 people in the picture. Some people decided to use the opportunity to show their sexism and disrespect towards women by bashing the woman only and as usual, use it as an opportunity to bash all women.

And.... what's really the big deal about the picture? Why does it call for bashing? People in the pic are having fun, wondering what's nairalands business there.

AnonyNymous:
So? When I was little used to dream I was taking a piss and then I'd wake up with pee all over my bed. She better go to a hospital to figure out whatever medical issue she's facing. Her body is facing pain in real life so her brain makes up something for her to dream, its really that simple .

Those fake dreams of being in the toilet


I think part in bold is also true for the mind.
I used to have terrible dreams, and would wonder why. Then found that it only happened after I had a really bad day. Or was extremely upset during the day, so just told myself that I no longer wanted such dreams, stopped it.

For the dreams

So she has an issue with her eyes, I stead of her to rush to a hospital she is busy asking for prayers.

And nairalanders are actually recommending churches she can go to?

People ranting and raving foolishly here.
She wanted to celebrate her birthday how she pleased and she did so. Not my cup of tea, but she can do what she wants, after all, she isn't hurting anyone.

If the picture brothers you so much, jump and pass.

KGMAgent:
To the moderator that keep banning my account, May God forgive you, God knows na wetin I go chop I dey find, u dey dey ban me till 2028.

Who tell you I go still dey Nairaland by that time?

LOL!!!!

Very true,
I'm getting tired of the willful ignorance of some people with regards with how they foolishly say homosexuality is a choice.

now watch them call both of you gay.

Finstar:
WTF! She's what? A psychologist? She just spewed trash and her level of ignorance is highly appalling. This is what happens when you bag a degree in Nigeria.

Everything she wrote is laughable and has no scientific backings. I mean, what sort of a psychologist is this?

Homosexuality isn't a choice. These minority group grew up only to discover how different they are. They didn't choose to be gay, just as we straights never choose to be straight.

It saddens me when graduates are homophobic, and sardonic when a self acclaimed graduate of psychology make such illogical statement publicly. Folks like that are the reason Alan Turing committed suicide.

If not for western influence, we would have still be wallowing in darkness, killing twins because they seem unnatural. Because something is different doesn't make it evil. Enlightement is what we should all ask for.. I'm outta here mehn

SMH!

StevenScott:
She talks absolute nonsense!!

If being gay is a choice then ask yourself, when did you CHOOSE to be straight? That’s right, you didn’t choose. You’re just straight and that’s it the same as some people are just gay.

This kind of talk makes Africans look retarded and uneducated. Thankfully not everyone shares her views.

Why don’t we just live and let live. Why be in everyone’s business??

Nigeria has many economic problems. People are poor and even the highly educated aren’t paid well or given the opportunities of say those in Europe. It’s not fair. These are the issues we should be tackling, not worry about who goes to bed with who.

She talks like an idiot. If a man and woman wanna do anal sex then that’s THEIR business and doesn’t mean anyone is gay.

Please think before you agree with this idiot. I will end where I started..

You didn’t choose to be straight and others don’t choose to be gay.

Why did people attack her? Foolishness of the highest order. By idiots who think cyber bullying is cool,
What was her crime? They didn't attack davido who has a G.F and 2 baby mamas, they went to pick on her

LMAO

Chioma 2- 12


These girls eh. Loool Even guys

Kaycee7:
Billie Kay is the one in black, while Peyton Royce is the one in purple.
To me they're better than Carmella on the mic but I cringed at their promo before the match with Becky and Asuka. It was too diva and petty for my liking.
I agree with you. The fact that Charlotte was ready for Asuka shouldn't mean that everybody else should be ready for Asuka

pu7pl3:
Its the one on purple im talking bout...the one on black is billie kay and she is aiit too but peyton royce is smthn else...
Thier in ring skills make carmella look like a dancer
Im waiting till they introduce the new womens tag titles maybe thats when becky will get a lil push...im sorry for her tho she is being wasted

Asuka will be aiit...she will hold the smavkdown womens championship this year

Thanks guys.

Pu7pl3 I'm talking about their mic skills reminds me of Carmella's the divaness. Lol, Kaycee that's why it reminded me of her. Seems of something she would do.


They shouldn't tie Becky down to tag team though, I don't know it I will like for her to be in a tag team.

As for asuka, Kaycee my point exactly, those girls can't compare to asuka, but maybe they just needed them to make an impact.

Purple if you say so.

Kevin is great on the mic, I even forgot jinder was there,
I'm starting to like sami though..

pu7pl3:
Err first off its just you missing edge

He has a lil bit of cm punk in him but thats it...he never won the universal title tho he was always in contention...against balor and against kevin

And that brings me to owens...kevin owens universal title reign has been the best soo far...he was constantly defending it...having makin sense feuds with roman and seth...there was a time he even defended it against BRAUN and even in a fatal five way...it was great daeylar...his reign gave us a renewed chris jericho with the list and an entertaining partnership\friendship

Kevin owens made that belt mean something before brock came along

As for roman...he can actually make a good heel

His music is already a trigger for boos
He likes complaining
He can be cocky sometimes but this needs work
Charisma needs total absolute work...maybe giving him a valet or pairing him with another heel will mask that till he improves

He needs to engage us. Or maybe I'm used to miz and Alexia's heel promos,

Anyways let's see. If he fails at that then it's a wrap.

Awwww see love for sami zayn, a heel for that matter
Why roman gets boos constantly. I'm sure he even gets boos in his home town, LMAO

The bold is spoken by a true Kevin Owens fan. nice to see that you took him back after her disgraced you thank me I made sure you didn't give up on him .

All I remember is that he never wrestles alone
Even applause for Owens, are you proud of your boy?
I like using him to troll you, looool

pu7pl3:
There are diplomatic tensions between syria and saudi arabia and with some of em being extremists may try to harm sami zayn....cos they know...and its in the contract

All right. Thank you.

Saw a review of the GRR it looked amazing though. At least women could watch.

I'm glad they brought out the fire works for GRR.
Can they use it every show now?

OK mike work. Manageable

Lool, can they please stop booing him? I'm cringing.

pu7pl3:
Nekua come and answer madam ooo

Looool



Watching raw right now. The repeat.


The boos immediately his song comes on is painful

And they kept it up till he entered the ring.

They just keep booing him, chaii, I'm shamed for him.

Anyways the way they boo him already show that he can be a heel, he already has the boos

Where is Nekua?

pu7pl3:
Someone said kevin owens and sami zayn speaking french have more charisma than roman speaking english

The person didn't lie that's why I said roman can never be a heel, too damn boring on the mic, can't generate any heat. People will probably fall asleep when he tries to cut a promo. And Vince trying to make him a face has been failing miserably.

Damn i just remembered when kevin was universal champion...it was soo fun

You're remembering this with your Kevin Owens fan mind I remember a very annoying heel that could never wrestle alone. LMAO

Imagine if this awesome rivalry between balor and seth was for the universal title..while other superstars with nothing to do feud for the ic title

Well all i can do now is imagine

I think this could be cool, love love love valor.
Hasn't seth held this title before?
Instead of Vince to keep working with Seth. He ditched him for roman, now look where we are.

Imagine, the most hated heel Seth, now a beloved face.
While we are still struggling with roman.

Does Seth remind you of a young edge. Not like edge, but like a version of him, the build. The hair. Even the theme song. Or maybe this is just me missing edge.

chuckdee4:
WWE made between 100 - 200m for that gig and apparently they signed some sort of 10 year deal, in the end money talks unfortunately

Sad

pu7pl3:
Vince is about his money above all else...but he aint a misogynist im sure...besides there were soomany matches to notice...even sami zayn dint compete cos he has syrian backgrounds

I'll take your word for it.
Forgive my ignorance, how does him having Syrian backgrounds prevent him from competing?

Kaycee7:
Oh! Not you too

Yes me too

Me too what though?

Perfect. Not monetization at all.

ziego:
I don't think that's monetization
He did according to his status

It's only a stupid woman that would want a Porsche when her man can't afford it.

If i can afford private jet at ease I can get it for my woman.

As I can't for now if she is not contended she can leave.

It's as simple as that.