₦airaland Forum

MITCHELL96:
What the f#ck! Nigerians like this keeps disgracing this nation, they don't represent us well, making us look odd, I remember telling a white man I just wanted to be friends with on Facebook I'm from Nigeria, he blocked me even after we chatted for a long time and knew ourselves well, it came to the part of "Where Are You From Mitch" told him Nigeria, he blocked me, you see what yahoo boys has caused ? Americans now categorise every Nigeria as Scammers and I don't think this yahoo of a thing is ever going to end.

Funny how you are pained because a white guy blocked you.

I'm sure there are many Nigeria guys in your inbox trying to get your attention but you won't reply their messages.

Here you are seeking the attention of a white guy. Tell me what your end motive is if not to bill him either with dating or marriage guise?

He did well by blocking you as such relationship with you does not and will never benefit him. It's just you looking for an easy way out through him.

Brawlscartel:
I have a friend who took postinor 2 twice a week...

Her period was to happen 1st July this is 4th July no period yet..

But she is having signs of period.
Cramping, acne..

Note: no sign of pregnancy

What's the problem

Asking this question here shows you didn't read anything about the drug before administering or taking it (you could be your friend hiding under a male moniker).

There's no drug on earth that does not have a side effect. Know this and be cautious of whatever drug that you take.

One of the side effects of Postinor 2 is delayed menstrual cycle due to distorted hormone system.

And taking it twice a week is wrong. If you are not ready to give birth to a child, stop unprotected sex instead of hurting yourself with drugs.

The guy doing this to you may not marry you only for an innocent man to marry you and be suffering consequences of your past life.

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys I leave alone and I don't know how to cook soup but can cook stew and others so I called my ex girlfriend yesterday and she is married last year so she came we went to market and buy food stuffs and she cooked for me. I want to know if is wrong for a married lady to do that?

The way people here think is different from the real world.

There's nothing wrong if your married ex visits and cook for you as far as you are certain you guys aren't having anything romantic.

Nairaland is the least place you should take comments serious. They are all hypocrites and people with damaged mentality.

dru23:
All these years that u have been doing uber .. I don't see any progression in what u are doing.. It does not seem to me u own a car or increase ur fleet.......

Progression comes in stages in life..... I think you u need to sit down with ur self and be honest and see how u can move forward in life ......time is going

This is just my honest assessment of you ....... I am just been honest .... I can come here and joke etc ....but if you read between the lines.. am also sending out a message........

Bro, do you have Mobil 1 (5w30) engine oil?

psalms37:
This is me right now, I always wonder if I'm doing something wrong. Thank goodness I'm not the only one

You need a mentor. That's the problem some people trying to break into the freelance space don't know.

I once charged a guy a meager 20k to teach him Fiverr and he was like, that's much.

I laughed him because I know his first job on that platform might be 50k.

You think coming online to rant will change anything, keep deceiving yourself.

I am sure if this list was given to you by a community in Ibadan, you will not come online to show your hatred soul.

But since it's coming from an igbo community, a tribe you are already bias about, you want the whole world to see it.

And to think you displayed the phone number of the man in a public forum without any form of confidentiality shows the kind of person that you are

Mrachiever:
I'm Yoruba....I plan to have a company dia

Tell us the size of the plot of land. You want to build a company there means it's like you bought an industrial size of land and are planning on building big.

They are honest with you that they will not disturb you again and trust me, they won't.

Yorubas are worst, trust me. Who are the CEO of omo onile? Their own is that they will continue to disturb from foundation to decking, etc.

Yorubas are wicked!!!

You want to build in a place that you hate the tribesmen. Man, go to Oyo state and build your company then.

Bigot!!!

trutharena:
Widowed mom of five accuses her brother in-law of demolishing the house her husband left behind in Imo state and cried for help.

Mynd44 Lalasticala OAM4J. Let’s move this to front page to help this woman.

Next time, put a link even if it is the link to the Instagram post.

Screenshot of an Instagram post is too vague to make a news.

Klass99:
Lol.

At the bolded parts, I am curious about you too, how did you get to see a beautiful Nairaland female for the first time?

@Oliviajones, is this your first break up in life? If it is I'll understand all your drama but if it's not you need to get a grip and get it real fast.

Reality check - you may never get back together and right now you should focus on recovery, your personal recovery and not focus on winning this guy back at all cost.

Do this IF you want to heal and recover fast - cut off all contact and communication, don't even text or call on birthdays, no checking up on him and no stalking him on social media platforms to see what he is up to. Do not respond to his texts or calls either, block and walk!

You drew my attention to check her out. I wouldn't have done that.

The not so beautiful ones I've seen are those that I've had business with. I don't go about checking profiles with the F tag as majority are males.

Oliviajones:
I am.

Confess ma'am. Tell us the full gist what transpired.

You might be helping some young girls reading this.

SportsHD:
Damn, mami. You fine asf!

For the first time I've seen a beautiful nairaland female even though I don't take camera beauty very serious.

But, do you go about checking the profile of any female moniker that drops comment here? Just curious how you got to see her picture

Xbee007:
922 offers . That is just insane!

Very very.

Most old sellers rely on their existing clients to survive. Otherwise, Fiverr competition now is mad ooooo

Ephraimryder:
So I've been sending buyer requests all this while but I've not been getting any orders from Fiverr which Is strange to me.

So today I was in my account only for me to see that buyers have been responding to my request but Fiverr in all their glory has been marking it as spam.

Has this ever happens to you?

Those are Indian spammers. Is that what you call messages?

Meanwhile, I also have problem receiving messages after sending too many offers. In some cases, I don't exhaust my 10 offers because the buyer request is filled with Indian and Pakistani requests that either put ridiculous prices or keep repeating the same request day after day.

People should stop advertising Fiverr oo. There are too many sellers already.

Imagine 922 offers for a job that requires one person

Folorunsho15:
My brother you're on the right path, like seriously what would 54k do for you in this current economy, don't waste your time on that job my friend, for now continue learning and horning your skills at graphics designing and once you feel you're good to some level, open a gig on fiverr or any other freelancing website, after 2-3 months, nobody will tell you to quit that slave job. Trust me this is exactly what I did back in 2016 and today I'm better for it, for me I didn't even start any job, I rejected all those low life job offers and instead went on YouTube and downloaded videos on graphica, I focused on cartoons then, I learnt Photoshop, AI and how to draw cartoons all on YouTube my brother and after like 4 months then I opened my first fiverr account and the rest is history.

Fiverr is already saturated. You guys should pity those of us that are already in this business.

Too much buzz causing excess competition

How can over 900 people apply for a job that requires just one person

tunbosun002:
Thank you for this response, I plan on going with a soldier to create a scene.

Next time, don't buy diesel or anything that you intend to pay with a POS until the transaction marks successful. When the transaction fails, go to another station.

Secondly, never allow them to go out of your sight with your card. It could be that the transaction failed the first time and they tried it the second time and it was successful but they only brought the receipt of the failed transaction to you just to defraud you.

Never pay into a personal account when dealing on any business. Your bank cannot refund you because the account that you paid with POS is different from the account you made the second transaction (transfer) so there's no proof that you paid the same business twice, else people can easily get their money back after paying for goods and services.

You may end up spending more than half the money with the soldier or other extreme measures you may want to take.

The best way forward is to take the manager or any of the attendants to their bank and let the customer support print out the statement. Go with a guy this time, maybe a family member or friend that will not cost you.

Good luck!!!

Onyi22:
From a sisterly advice, Learn a skill, education in Nigeria has done more harm than good

HND is just two years. An OND holder should not consider herself as educated. Half education is dangerous.

OP should go back and finish up with her HND.

The issue with our people here is that they see education as a means to get a job after school and when they fail to secure jobs, they will tag education as scam.

The essence of education is to help make you informed and conscious of your environment and whatever you do in life. An educated person is supposed to do things differently from an uneducated fellow. It is not to get a paid job only.

Going to school should also depend on what makes one fulfilled and how intelligent academically that you are. Someone like me will never trade education for anything simply because of the fulfillment I get knowing that I have schooled to a certain level.

shakir0802:
Call both of them and give it to her and it must be cash or u give the woman separately and tell her not to inform her husband that u give her the money

It seems like you don't know women. She will still tell the husband and also state clearly that the OP requested that she keeps it away from him. This alone defines ill intention / ulterior motive.

My advice Mr. well-to-do guy is to mind your business. No matter how much the lady cares about you, it might just be her nature and has nothing to do with you in particular.

My landlord's wife is a very young woman and does almost similar thing to me. Because of the way the compound is, very close to the street that is as busy as a main road, she will be quick to jump out to stop vehicles crossing the street so I can drive out and when I want to drive in as well, once I get close and a car is obstructing me from driving in, she will be instructing them and all. Always inform me when my car has a dent that she suspects I don't know or basically trying to help.

But in all of these, I just tell her thank you and move on. Unlike in your case, I don't consider them poor and I wonder how you reached the conclusion that they are poor.

Please, just appreciate the woman verbally and mind your business.

Welovekids1:
I don’t think there’s much you can do here, since you failed the test (identifying your friends). You can try again later with the get started button.

Or simply set up a new account and tag your friends to help you share it. While at that, try set up two factor authentication, with that no one can hack your FB or email.

I have two factor authentication enabled but yet this happened.

I was actually identifying the right people, don't know why it didn't work.

I got email notification that my email was used to sign in somewhere else.

Immediately, I tried to change the password, I got Facebook log in code to log in to my Facebook account. By the time I was done with changing my email password, the hacker has already logged in to my Facebook account.

I immediately changed my Facebook password. Facebook brought the list of my friends which I knew and identified yet I got an error message that I chose the wrong people.

Then Facebook proceeded to block my account that I cannot use Facebook. Please, how do I resolve this.

Hi people, so I noticed that when I am chatting on messenger and the 50mb data they give exhausts, I can no longer send nor receive messages.

This is very embarrassing as I have a lot of data on my phone.

Please, how do I disable the messenger from using free mode so I can use my data.

patorial:
Isn't black market supposed to be costlier

Not in this case.

Black market car (stolen car mostly) is far cheaper than going to the car stand to buy car of similar condition.

Black market fuel is way cheaper than filling station.

Black market organ business is mostly from illegal organ harvesters and ritualists so it's cheaper.

Generally, black market is cheaper and that's why it's called black market.

Why it's different in the currency world is because, the official market has limited supply and restrictions, otherwise, the price would have been cheaper.

SALLYBERRY01:
Boss wetin concern me now is how you made that small change, also a student like you, abeg please put me through I will appreciate

In all you do, pray to God to bless the work of your hands.

Fiverr, Upwork, peopleperhour, freelancer.com, etc and good places to start with. You may not need to wait to become professional in any field before starting, you can always learn on the job and Google should be your best friend.

Walkee:
Lol you are a creep. You collected someone's number and started stalking her everywhere demanding you both meet, in this dangerous times. I don't know why you people somehow believe someone owe you a good conversation. If someone I don't messages me I will not even dignify you with a reply

Nobody is stalking anybody. Don't come here to form woke.

I stated we connected from telegram to WhatsApp and Facebook. She gave me these details to connect with her. We started chatting and at no point did I force a reply from her.

We were to meet inside the school so there's no security threat here.

BabbanBura:
Guy, you no talk about the fake ass nah, kilode?

This is funny

But I mean fake-ass not fake ass

talk2hb1:
obviously, She just want to catch fun, What do you want from her?

We're all catching fun. We both are students remember!

gregyboy:
Omo me as a broke nigga i dey feel d heat from useless Nigeria ladies with their demand


So automatically you became handsome prince charming

Bleep her and give not even transport money

I use God beg you, if you don't show then reality they will keep doing it

I want to plan her bro. I am not going to rush it but she'll definitely go down.

The work is 70% done!

NewDawn2O21:
same here bro, all girls are the same.
Last session I've been trying to meet up with this girl in my school but she's been turning me down and says any conversation I need with her should be solely discussed on WhatsApp.
I just kukuma deleted her number off my contacts.
This session after the corona and strike break I resumed but this time around with much cash and everything about me changed, my roommate off campus also got a car and I occasionally drive it to school.
A certain day I drove his car to the school premises, when I came out of the car I saw her, you could see the way she was rushing and shaking to greet me, Omo I snub am, she now texted me on Whatsapp and spammed me wit lots of messages of which I read and gave her no response.
Naija girls are very useless

I hate to admit that saying that Nigeria girls are useless.

I will rather say Nigeria girls are not useless but some of them are.

LikeAking:
Enjoy ur new P.

Don't know what your P. means

KingDash:
bros which kind car you dey drive??

Bro, forget the car that I drive. To these girls, car na car and anyone driving a car is "rich".


Girls don't know anything about cars, as far as it has four legs, you're good to go bro

So, I added this girl up through the school telegram group and we started chatting. Let's call her Tomi.

Connected on WhatsApp and Facebook. Lectures were held online at that time so we were only chatting.

Fast forward to the second semester and school resumed physical classes.

I tried meeting up with this girl severally but each time I chat or call her, she will tell me that she's busy. In some cases, she will end the call on me.

So, I decided to let her be as you can see in the chats below.

My last chat with her was May 27, 2021 when I told her that she lacks the character to be my friend and honestly she does. If she had come off as a rude girl that she later turned out to be, I would have deleted her number on the first chat.

Fast forward to Friday last week on June 11, 2021, I went to their female hostel to see another girl. Amina hostel precisely.

I was with the girl in my car when three girls came out of the hostel and I recognized the Tomi among the girls. We have never met in person before but I have seen her pictures a lot on Facebook and WhatsApp status, so it was easy for me to recognize her.

She wasn't looking towards my direction so I had to call the attention of the other girls to touch her for me. Immediately she turned, I asked if she's Tomi.

The speed at which this girl ran towards my car, she nearly entered inside gully water. I had to engage my reverse to get to a dry place so she could come closer.

At first, she claimed she couldn't recognize me until I told her my name. She was acting all nice and told me that she was rushing for a lecture.

Immediately, the girl texted me on WhatsApp at exactly 3:08pm. I read and ignored her message because I know she's been moved by what she saw. The boy looks fresh

And she texted me again with a dot around 10:26pm before I just decided to give her a reply with her trying to form stressful lecture day. Maybe I should promise to come and take her out. Lori iro!

Why do girls act cold or nice based on their perception of a man's worth? If I want to bed that girl now, it's as easy as ABC.

yesboss123:
You need to calm down sir. That you waited 19 years after service before you got married doesn't mean everyone else should. Check again, I didn't ask for the opinions of older people, instead, more matured people. Thanks for your CV, but mine isn't bad either. Worked for 5 years already; 2 in one of the multinational banks, and currently in one of the big 4 consulting firms. Being on NL for 8 years now, I have learnt from the stories of others; applied contributions from comments made on such matters to personal situations and I have been better for it. I created this thread, not just for myself but for others who might be in similar situation now or in the future.

You don't really have to go hard on him but I don't like the way people make assumptions on other's life status when they come here to seek advice.

Concluding that you have nothing going on for you

My advice is for you to commit with her if you think she worths it.

Otherwise, you may want to end the relationship now. Your taste of woman might change by the time you return.

Hope, you don't end up marrying out of pity.