₦airaland Forum

azuson:
Please God may all the men in this forum who wish to marry this year,if is money please provide it for them after wedding may they still have more to swag,if is lack of good girl,please God may you make the girls to be humble for marriage and may they not have high expectations to scare away the men that are approaching them,may they have patience to considered this harsh economic conditions and may the marriage list be few.

Please remove obstacle of inlaws rejecting the men and may they invite me when my prayer is answered . Amen

Amen!! Fire...ya, ya. Lol to join you in faith. hmmm... Marriage is a choice brother. But even at that, marriage is not the final stage of an achievement. Sometimes I ask most married friends of mine, after marriage what next? The answers is usually to have children, and I asked what next? They could say to care for the family. Then I ask what next again? Some will say party and celebration. Well to me, I love to be married, but what I probably see is just to be a positive influence to others. Because many feel it is important for everyone to be married, to me; I don't think it is! And because of such many young ladies and dude feels they're corse or under a spiritual influence if they dont marry. What is certainly important is to prepare your self for whatever course that seem imperative.

Sometimes people who seek counsel on social media knows what to do, but they just need majority to support their act even when it will lead them into destructions. Well let's hear from Jagugu88l, she has something more advisable to say.

Wow... Top of your day to you op! Thanks for this vital business insight. You're wonderful.

policy12:
Call them polithieifians u ar right:
If u call them legislooters instead of legislative u are not far from the truth:
If u say NASS means National Association of Serial Stealers my person u ar a genius.
Hmm if wl change their title from honorable to dishonorable 5stars for u.

Naija polithieicians does not worth fighting for so I pity an average naija like who do insult themselves on ppu who didn't care abt us. Nigerian won't av kno abt ds padded budget if not that there is misunderstanding btw Dogara and Jibrin.

My prayer is that may lord put confusions in the camp of any leaders who are denying us d basics need of life IJN.

On the behalf of Nairalanders we bestowed to you the political genius for today. Oya Seun, where you dey? come and buy this dude beer and take care of his feeding for the day.

Wow... "God bless Nigerians." If we have such mind to always master that quote it will do more to help leverage our tough time as a nation. Most people here typing poo. I don't know what brings you pleasure in someones business if he/she is not the richest. But I know he's still capable, as a little while from now to hit world 20 richest man. He currently has a cement project going on in kenya, while his refinary project in lagos. The only reason he drop out down to 101 is due to inflation . All we currently need is people of like mind to invest more in her nation, while govt create a better environment that would attract foreigners and state investors. No man is an island when it comes to nation building. So stop being ignorant! wailling at the downfall of a good man, who is trying to develop her nation. Cheer... God bless Nigerians.

jagugu88li:
I'm sure this idea started off a small thing, before he knew it the pictures where everywhere.

Waisted I suppose. Blame the person who was taking the pics

Third pic

So true. The only physical difference that could differentiate this dude from any other mad person, is simply because he did walk out side this way. Op do you know de person?

In as much I hate to see women being emotionally or physical hurt, I don't think anything should justify why a lady should kill her hubby. If she can't cope, it wise to walk away rather than strategising evil.

Wow... That would be great. I love my composure, focus, calmness and bravura attitude towards life. Hmmm... But if it happenes anyone become like me when I was a kid, hmmmm... Alot of spanking and daily routine punishment. This remind me of the days of pick pin, abacha chair, pumping tire, forg jump, lick monkey sweet. Touch your toe Ha... Let me end here, cos I taste almost all of the punishment ever existed. Lol...

If apc as a party that represent change can't solve internal issues as this, then how do we believe they can bring peace to the nation. This was how pdp started. And we know the end...

All we hear and read on headline is efcc recovers luted funds of; Millions, Billions, Trilllions and zillions if that exist. Dollar keep increasing, and naira keeps depreciating. Nigeria is having economy crisis. Could it be that all this recovery money are fiction news, because if we should start to take analysis of all recovery funds as published by media, then really Nigerian should be happy enjoying what this govt said he can do. Enough of all news that is partial and selective in change. If a man prove to be just, then he should be a symbol of what he teach or preach, being equity in judgement. Guardian headline today, obj made it clear during his lecture at oyo yesterday that Nigeria is having economy crisis, the president and his ministers should have standard policy and motive about what they want to do. I'm not anti Apc, but if a man want to work, then nothing should be his excuse. And yet some who could barely afford three square meal still come here to spit trash, maybe this is a defination of change. Never the Less we want to see what they promise. Cos even Fashola spilling trash why he wants to take nigeria to stone age few days back. Well, God Bless Nigerians. Wailers don't quote me if your information is not articulate. I don't respond to beer pallor talk.

So helpful and informative. Thanks dude! Do have a winning day.

midasbliss:
Made me cry

really, sorry about that. Doe it really emotional, even while I read through. It also showed we had just military men who went extra length in pain to secure her nation.

Randyhot:
I have this issue that i have been pondering on for sometime now, and the more i think about it, the more i get confused.

Its about this man my fiancee always call's her uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both parents are divorced.

My problem is this, everytime this man is in town, she goes over to his house to clean up, and will spend the night over there as well, and this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on phone, and she happens to be anywhere expect her house or in school, he will start accusing her of sleeping around, something i am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring my mind to rest when he stoped paying her school fees for a while when it was reported to him that she was caught coming from a guys house by a friend. I knew that day in particular , cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's bossom friend, it took the intervention of her mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that if you dont know well, you might think that they where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was thinking, what must be running through her mind for saying all these? I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around the house.

Now today, the man is around and as usual she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but what is worrying me this night is the " swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got from her after all the missed call i gave her earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call eachother and say our goodnights every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about my fears and suspicions.
Your advice is kindly needed, as the imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.

Have you ever seen any young lady who date her father's age mate that will boldly say to you he's my boyfriend? They're always classified as uncles, family friends or sponsorer. Dude wake up! Your article simply express pity, because you're much devoted than her in the relationship. It's not about marrying, but having a balance relationship that have and share same value interest. Don't settle your self for less, and what would lead you into temptations in the future, if you still go ahead to marry her. Forget about whither you love her or not, she is cheating. And if you claim to have responsibility over her as a real fiance, then what should stop you as a man to see her uncle, you could initiate with her that you love to know this her generous uncle? As having good relationship with him aswell. Cos I don't see what stop you from such, except you plan to marry her without due process. And secondly, which lady can't answer a call from her fiance at the time of the night when she is not with another man. Pardon me to say: What I learnt from your writtings is that your girl friend is not only a runs babe, but a cronic liar. Run from her, I don't mind adding my legs to yours if you need extra leg. Have a great weekend!.

jagugu88li:
Really now? You though....

sure

jagugu88li:
Happy weekend!

Glee to read such

jagugu88li:
The worse ever...on second thought, he must stop going anywhere. No vex Dajugba

not vexing, just astonished. Happy weekend! To you :*

jagugu88li:
The worse ever...on second thought, he must stop going anywhere. No vex Dajugba

not vexing, just astonished. Happy weekend! To you

ayotrey:
i am always hornyy every time of the day..anytime i see a girl with big asss or booobs or pantyline or clevage or short dress or short skirt i am turned on!! the worse part is i have a disorder that disables me to have sexx..im always hornyy yet i cant even have sexx. wat can i do?

Asking what to do in such situation, is like asking how to drink poison. Get down on your kneels, and start to pray dude. You're Suffering from lust, as a result of channeling your thought energy to engage in sex. Only view the right materials, and read the right content. If symptom persist, maybe the people in your village is at work. Oya my 15cent

jagugu88li:
Find as many girlfriends as possible, they will control it for you

hmmm... Omg. Is that a nice counsel to a young dude?

jagugu88li:
I'm very sorry that you had and still have to witness your mother being ill-treated, but one thing is for sure, you will be a better man. It is a pity that the human kind behaviour is unpredictable, hence it is very important that we learn from everything that is happening around us. As Dajugba says, you are partially the man of the house. Unfortunately in situations like these, the abused always behave in such a way that one can conclude that they have been hypothesized.

What I am saying is, your mother is in no position to make any worthy decision for herself. Trust me I am no psychologist but, the abuse has been going on for too long that she has learnt to suppress the pain. Infact the pain is automatically supressed. I am not trying to give you bad advice, but hey, if talking to your dad has not help, force is the ultimatum.

The one person you should fight is your mother. She won't want to come stay with you because she is now immune to the situation. I say find a way of convincing her more, you know her buttons well. Move her else one day you my friend will post a different story.

Nice one... Learnt from your words aswell.

Dec 17th

Wow... Read your story. There is hope, but above all, take it to the Lord in prayers. And always show your mum the maximum love she needs. You're partially the man of the house, you've much roles to play. But at the same time, you can't not go beyond your parents decisions as long your mum still truely care about him. What you people should be concern about is try to convince your mum to stay with any of you, atlest a little while, for if she continue like this, we don't pray to hear the other side, her health comes first. And as for your dad, I guess he should be at is mid or late 40's or 50's from your explanation, and probably when he get to 60, that is probably when he would get things right if he can't get it now. By then he would ve come to realized he has destroy his Godly mandate to build his family with proper love. But never the less, like your mum had said, try to forgive him, and if you don't, you could develop some of his attitude. Because anger make people function without love. Cheer Brother.

happyjolly:
Morning 2 u all am a kogite 2, its nice been here

Top of your day to you! Good morning

jagugu88li:
Very healthy thread!!

And same should be implemented in Nigeria. It would help a long way

tomquest:
I earnestly pray Leo survives this.

Now this one has nothing to do with Leo. Its a known fact that many music and movies artistes see alcoholic drinks (Moët, Hennessy etc) as a symbol of enjoyment, affluence and class. Organ damage ultimately sets in leading to death. If you drink heavily and smoke like tomorow doesn't exist, one day your internal vital organs would pack up and shut your body down permanently. Transplants are 50/50. Do the right thing now!

The right words for this thread. And yet they won't hear! Because they believe inspiration comes from such. simply because they are not innovated to get inspiration from God, rather weed and alcohol becomes their best source to creativity. And when it happens they start calling on Nigerians who didn't drank or smoke with them to pray. Abi na Buhari still cause this one? Well, I pray he get well. Amen.

miisy:
thnxx alot....ah had a nice nyt rest....seriously how did u know...ah actually had a weird dream.. hmmmmmmm

next time dream about me so it won't be weird. Hmmm... Top of your day! Good morning

No More Children Toy Guns: Afghanistan
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Children tend to imitate adults. And in Afghanistan, a country ravaged by violence, it seems they particularly like to play with toy guns. This led the Afghan government to ban their sale in early June.
The Interior Ministry has asked the Afghan police to seize all plastic weapons they find being sold. At the same time, the Ministry has asked that parents stop buying the toys for their children.
The move has pleased children's rights activists, who believe that a "culture of violence" is so deeply engrained in Afghan society that it must be fought beginning in childhood. It remains to be seen if the ban will have any measurable effect, and if it will be accompanied by any further preventive measures, says our Observer Zakia Ahmad, a children's rights activist.
"The more they look like a real gun, the better they sell"
zobaiada Akbar
"At Aïd el Fitr, the celebration at the end of Ramadan, parents buy gifts for their children. And in Afghanistan, toy guns are among the most popular toys. The more they look like a real gun, the better they sell.
Children in Afghanistan really play a lot with imitation weapons, and this can be dangerous. Last year at Aïd el Fitr, dozens of children played with BB guns in Kabul, which resulted in more than 100 injuries, including some serious eyes injuries.
After several decades of war and tensions, violence has become normalised here – it's part of daily life. People live with it so constantly that they don't realise they ought to be doing all they can to prevent their children from coming into contact with this culture. When we see that the Islamic State organisation or the Taliban are succeeding in recruiting young children, we can suppose that society is partially responsible.
Our observer Saber Hosseini, who distributes books to children , asks kids to trade in their toy guns for books.
But the government can't be alone in addressing this question. Neither in the schools nor in the mosques is anyone taking an educational approach to the level of violence in Afghanistan. And yet these are the two principal places of learning for children. We need to develop a policy to improve.
In short, this ban seems to me like a good thing, but it's far from enough. There are weapons in most homes in Afghanistan. Imagine how many Afghan children see their parents holding real guns, and touch a real machine gun even before they get a plastic one. We've taken a first step, but there will have to be many more if we want to have some impact on the perception children have of weapons and violence."
According to Human Rights Watch , the Taliban have recently increased their recruitment of child soldiers in Afghanistan. They train children starting at the age of six. The number of children killed in combat is said to have risen by 18 percent in 2015; accordingly, one in four fighting-linked deaths in the country is said to be a child soldier. The Islamic State group in Afghanistan has also published various videos featuring children undergoing military training and learning to use weapons, in various locations around the country.

Source www.hkitnob.com/viewtopic.php?f=15&t=3114

Vincent000:
Hello I really appreciate your reply. It's nice having people like you in NL.

It a privilege Brother. You're wonderful.

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darkenkach:
For 20 years, I am yet to know what my talent is. Do I really have one?

Dear Friend, I like your sincerity. But I'll let you know that everyone has a talent. But you need to acquire skills in other to reflect your true talents, and also be in the right association that encourages you to become the best of you. Don't talk down your self, rather add values to your self and discover you hidden potentials. No one was born with talent, but we only discover what joy we got from acquiring skills that became our talents. Have a winning day.