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Car Talk / Re: I Want To Buy My First Car Is Lexus RX 2008 A Good Choice? by Dammytrager(m): 9:34pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
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Car Talk / I Want To Buy My First Car Is Lexus RX 2008 A Good Choice? by Dammytrager(m): 9:29pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
So I have been looking forward to getting my first car, and I just found someone who wants to relocate and is willing to selling her Lexus RX 350 2008 model. We both negotiated and the price we settled for was N4.5m, I need to make a decision on if I want to get the car or not, I would have preferred to go for something more classy but since it is my first car it's not bad to start small. I intend to go with a mechanic to inspect the car if I eventually decide to purchase it. Please gurus in the house, is this a good car for a first time buyer, I really don't know much about cars. Also what are the car documents to look out for to avoid Nigeria Police wahala. |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 7:40am On Mar 02, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 4:29pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
ubunja:Perhaps you are getting me wrong, I am not asking men to attain success and SIMP for women, men chasing success or value in life is not to please women, it is for us. Fine, it is good to have an understanding of the female nature and learn how to avoid their manipulations, I am definitely not against that. But If we keep preaching that Alpha is about satisfying women's lust, then it is still about pleasing women, we still put pressure on us men to satisfy women. Bearing in mind that satisfying a woman's lust is will not stop her from cheating, she can still cheat hypergamically. At the end of the day, the only winner here is the woman. She uses the fuckboy to satisfy her lust and the SIMP for his resources. The fuckboy is still all about pleasing the woman, which is still SIMPish. No matter how well you put it, the major value of the Bleep boy is to be a Love Machine for a Hot woman. My major message is for men to do things that please them, to focus on their happiness, to have a purpose and chase it, Success and wealth will make it easier for you to navigate this life, I don't know why we keep making it seem as if chasing success is beta, Success is Success while Beta is Beta, they are two different things, It is the mindset that differs. If a man wants to look good and go to the gym, he should do it for himself, and not because of women If a man wants to be rich, he should do it for himself and not for women The Alpha should be the man everyone wants to please and not about him pleasing people. One of the core reasons for the red pill is to give us knowledge on how to avoid female manipulations yet we still keep preaching that the red pill is about being the best dick for a woman, which is still all about pleasing and satisfying the woman. What about being the man that the female will want to please. 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 12:54pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Seems a lot of guys here are students or in their early twenties, if y'all focusing on how to control women or Bleep women to be alpha at this stage of life, you'll be in for a rude awakening after school. I have always said that women are not the cake, they are just the icing on the cake, Your life, your purpose, your ambitions, your goals and your success should be your cake. If you get it right in life, there will be a lot of things that come by the side and women is one of them. A lot of young men here have reduced masculinity, alpha and the red pill to just dick and sex. You feel your dick is your worth and satisfying female lust is your purpose. In the old days, the Alphas were seen as men who were strong and could defend their territory from invaders, wild animals or even nature. Any man who was weak will have his territory taken, his wife and daughters will be taken from him and he will be killed. His wife will be given to another strong man either as a slave, sex slave or even as an extra wife. These strong men don't care about satisfying the feminine lust, they bleep the girls for their own pleasure and dump them. Today's world does not rely on physical strength any longer, but rather on what you have, what you can do, either in money or capacity. Women are not your primary goals or your success, they are just for short term enjoyment, to relax or cool off the brain. You become Alpha when you have attained something for yourself; each time you rise after falling, that is alpha; When you set goals and achieve them that is alpha; There is no glory in bleeping women, the real glory is when you are able to stand as a man in this cold world, especially if you started from the bottom. A few guys are misinterpreting my message as securing the bag and simping for women, No! that is not my message My message is simple, as a man, focus on your purpose (definitely not women), when women come, use them for whatever you want (could be sex, marriage, baby mama or even friends). Apply the redpill accordingly when dealing with them, but don't forget your purpose, women are short term and there are many of them, there is just one of you and your life is long term. Act accordingly! 53 Likes 7 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 8:48pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Martinez39s: So being Alpha/red-pilled aware is all about satisfying a woman's lust rather than attaining success, building a legacy, impacting society? The whole point of this thread is to satisfy a woman's lust 9 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 8:43pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
DEMZEE: Perhaps this is what I have been trying to explain since. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 8:10pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Martinez39s:Ubunja was all over the thread that the redpill is all about sex and women so If I am red pilled and broke as Bleep, should I chase something else (Success/Money) or focus on my red pill mandate which is women and sex 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 8:08pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Martinez39s: My question is should I care about who a female lusts for or what I want? I think what is important here is what I want, If I am getting what I want and I have my way, then that's what matters. Whether she gets what she wants or not is not my stress to worry about, the moment she flakes and can't fulfil my desire, I move on to the next one since I have plenty of them as a successful man. 11 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 7:56pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
ubunja: Thanks for the compliment once again. But as a red-pilled aware man, if my life is not going in the direction I want and I am broke, should my focus still be on women and how to bed them or find a way to put my life in the right direction first. 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 7:52pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Martinez39s: Thanks for dropping a point without first insulting me I would love to make a point from what you have said. Let me paint two scenarios. First with a woman and then with a man, For a beautiful red-pilled woman getting a lot of attention from men, she is aware of why most of the men are chasing her, for sex, now she uses this knowledge to her advantage to get what she wants, if she wants his resources, she can bait them by giving them the illusion/hope of having sex with her while she drains them of their resource (This is common these days - friendzone), she also baits them for attention and ego boost, if she wants relationship, she can easily get it from one of the men, this is easy for her because she has options. For a successful red-pilled man get a lot of attention from girls, he equally understands why they are after him, for relationship and commitment, now he can use this to get whatever he wants from them, sex, baby mamaism, marriage, he also gives them the illusion of the commitment and get what he wants. Now as a man you can get what you want from women and you're also successful, it's a win-win. Caveat: I am not invalidating other factors like looks, looks matters a lot too, I am an advocate of hitting gym, taking care of yourself and all, these will be easy if you have money. girls will get wet for you if you look good too. But you don't want to be in your 40s and all you have to show as a man is your looks or digging stick. I am also not invalidating the redpill by saying become successful and simp for women. I am just saying as a man success should be your priority with or without the redpill, not how to solve women sexual dissatisfaction problem. 7 Likes 4 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 6:48pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
ubunja: Redpill awareness will not make you rich or successful, red pill just let us understand women nature, we know women are hypergamous, they will always want to go for the better man (Better man might not necessary be the rich man, it depends on the interest of the girl). With this knowledge you as a man have two options, 1. Chase women 2. Chase success Women hypergamy will kick in when you are successful, successful here does not 100% equal to money, but money cannot be underestimated. Just be a badass in whatever you do, look good (looks matter), have a nice aura and all, some women will see you and be attracted to you (you are the better man in her hypergamous eyes). Now you are red pilled aware, you understand why she is there, now the ball is in your court, do you want her for sex, dating or marriage. Apply your redpilled knowledge on her and get what you want, if she flakes, you forget her and move on with your life (abundance mindset), other girls will come (hypergamy never fails). If you are red pill aware and not successful, life can be very dicey, because even as a man, how can you be so comfortable living in mediocrity, girls will run from you. The goal is to become a man that women will chase. 23 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 6:25pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
ubunja: Thanks for the compliment If your definition of the redpill to you is all about sex and women and your definition of Alpha is someone who probably has the biggest dick or the person who has conquered the way to satisfy women sexually then by all means, you're right with your submissions. But for me and some other folks here we believe the Red pill refers to becoming enlightened to the truth about reality, especially a truth that is difficult to accept or exposes disillusion. In this context the truth is about women nature and even humans in general. With this truth the ball is in our court on how to navigate our lives with women, in our schools, our place of work and the society in general. The sky is big enough for every bird to fly, you can preach your ideology of the redpill and how you apply it, those who are interested in it can definitely pick it up and follow it religiously, let others with a different angle also preach theirs without you feeling threatened or irrelevant, the world does not revolve around you. Take care 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 4:51pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
ubunja: Hmmn!!! �...I find this so difficult to grasp that someone who is not successful at anything or stricken with poverty will start claiming he is alpha. Perhaps success in this context might not necessarily mean money all the time, it could be a function of the environment, for example - In a university environment, the girls who are academically driven will definitely be attracted to the guy who seems most intelligent, he is Alpha to those girls. - In the gym, the girls who are moved by aesthetics will be attracted to the guy with the best body - In the contemporary world, most girls are moved by money, fame, influence and power, A man who has one or more will definitely attract girls. To the men who attracts these girls, they are seen as alpha to these girls. But one thing is that the men were not 100% chasing after these women but rather they achieved success in another domain and these woman became attracted to them. The redpill knowledge then teaches us how to handle these women when they come, because we have the understanding of why they came, we understand their nature, so definitely we will know how to treat them. Wizkid, Davido, Burna boy and co don't have the best body or the best dick, they will can sleep with almost any woman in this country, and it will be a great pride for such a woman to be bleepe.d by any of them, not because they have the best Dick, but rather because of the success aura about them. DIck is cheap for women, they can get sex very cheaply, so your Dick is not special, majority of men cannot even satisfy women sexually but what is special about you is your aura, your success, your charisma, these are what makes you Alpha and that makes her wet already, so it is not really about the dick, it is about you as a person. Fine we have some rich simps, these are people that lack the abundance mindset, they lack the redpill knowledge, but it doesn't mean they cannot be Alpha in their domain, being an Alpha is not all about women, they can suck at the women game and they'll pay for it definitely, that is why we are all here to know how to handle women, but definitely our purpose is not to be chasing women or talk about their whoredom all day, they will bring the whoredom to you if you are Alpha enough. I will advise you to watch Tinder swindler or read about Simon Leviev, he was alleged to have made over $10m from women between 2017 and 2019, he made these money from dating women, how did he do it? he didn't have the best body or the best dick, he understood that a man's weapon is his success, he pretended to be successful to these women and they could not help it but become attracted to him, and he conned them for it. If he made that much money from the women, think about how much sex he would have gotten from them or what amount of sodomy they will be willing to commit for him. If as a man you're broke and claiming red pilled, you might come off as a sadist to people, the red pill will make sense when you are successful and you have the harems of women coming to you. Success is not the icing on the cake for a man, rather it is the cake, the women that comes after he is successful are the icing on the cake. This life is objective enough though, we all have some knowledge of the redpill, what we choose to do with it is our choice, you could chase success and let women hypergamy kick in and let them come you, then you'll know how to handle them. Or apply it in other ways. 26 Likes 6 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 10:45am On Feb 23, 2022 |
DEMZEE: I don’t quite agree that women are not redpill aware, women understand hypergamy and they understand that the more beautiful they look, the more guys they will attract. That is why they invest a lot in the beauty which is their primary weapon in the sexual market place. There is an industry dedicated to women beauty, cosmetics, hairs, surgeries, all this in a bid to make a woman more appealing and a lot, in fact majority of women are consumers in this industry. Also women try to flaunt their body or beauty on social media, to better advertise and position themselves to attract men. Of course there can be blue pilled or beta women, but that is relative to the kind of man they are dealing with, if a woman meets an alpha that is red pill aware, there is high probability that she will submit and be beta to him. But with the man who doesn’t have a purpose in life and pedestalizing her, she will drop him and find the next available man above him (hypergamy). Since women are working hard to position themselves in a favorable place in this market, we as men must also do the work to better our lives and put ourselves in a good position. The red pill is a knowledge anyone can have, but it is the application and how you live your life that determines how well alpha or beta you can be. And as far as I am concerned women are doing very well in this domain. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dammytrager(m): 9:39am On Feb 23, 2022 |
It’s a pity this thread is becoming something else, approximately the last 5-7 pages is all about sex and women's whoredom. Fine, we all have little understanding about women's nature and how hypergamy works. Women's primary weapon is their beauty, their body and their looks, the more beautiful a woman is the more men she attracts, the more her ego and confidence is boosted, what she chooses to do with this, it's her choice, she can decide to LovePeddler around with it, choose to listen to her hypergamous nature and find the best man she can get or find a man that she can be loyal to (this could be rare though) but the thing you as a man have no control over what a woman can do. But the question is what do you as a man have to do? You want to become alpha correct, be the best version of yourself and attract women and even men ( who doesn’t want to associate with a successful person). Just as women, men also have a primary weapon which is success (influence, fame, power, money), the more successful you are as a man the more attractive you become to women. Do you think the likes of Davido, Wizkid will actually really care about threads like this, hell no, they have women in abundance, so the success automatically makes them alpha. Why do you think it seems women are naturally red pilled, it is because they have options, when you have so many options, you don’t place too much importance on one of your options. When you have a lot of girls dying to have your attention or sleep with you, even if you haven’t heard of the red pill it will be difficult for you to simp, it is common sense. The reason many of us are here is because are not at that level yet, most of us don’t have that abundance yet, that is why we are here to improve, become the best version of ourselves, if we keep talking about sex or women all day, it won’t make us alpha. The red pill teaches us that women are hypergamous and will always go for the best men, also men are polygamous too, we will always want to taste and have different kind of women. You know what a woman’s weapon is and how she can use it, but you as a man also have your weapon. The only unfair advantage is that women’s weapon(beauty, looks, boobs, ass) comes by default, they don’t work for it, but you as a man have to work to be successful in life, you’ll fight your way to the top, and then you will have the abundance and your polygamous nature will kick in. With the red pill knowledge, what we as men are left to do is to always strive to become better and try to be at the top because that is where the real deal is. If you are the top already trust me, you will not be whining or being scornful about women whoredom or hypergamy on this thread, rather you understand the game, you’ll use it to your advantage. Focus on your bettering your life in all aspect, women will chase you. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Programming / Re: How Did You Land You First Job As A Self-taught Developer? by Dammytrager(m): 6:42pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Chrismentor3: Visit https://flowcv.io 3 Likes 1 Share |
Programming / Re: How Did You Land You First Job As A Self-taught Developer? by Dammytrager(m): 6:35pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
The company had only one mobile developer, their backend was built by a contract dev that left already, they needed to do some updates on the backend, so the mobile dev who was my friend came to me if I could help. I was able to help them and to be very honest I didn’t know node very well at the time, I just googled my way through to get it done. The following week the CEO called me and I was interviewed and I was given the role. The pay was 30k. 2 Likes |
NYSC / Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by Dammytrager(m): 9:16pm On Apr 22, 2021 |
HadeedHarry:how are you so sure about this date cos I don’t. Think the date is on NYSC portal yet |
Programming / Re: Why Nigerian Apps Are ALWAYS Buggy by Dammytrager(m): 2:23am On Nov 22, 2020 |
There is no app built that will not be buggy even the ones in Google and the top tier companies, that is why there are QAs and processes to things. If there is a bug in an app in production, it is not the developer’s fault, rather the QA is meant to detect bugs and different test and edge cases. Also a buggy app is not peculiar to Nigeria, it is a general to any app built any where in the world. OP’a generalization of buggy apps to Nigeria shows he is inexperienced and lacks knowledge about the full processes involved in developing an app. |
Health / Re: No Masturbation Nairaland. by Dammytrager(m): 9:08pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Day 11. The clarity of mind is awesome |
Health / Re: No Masturbation Nairaland. by Dammytrager(m): 9:45am On Sep 22, 2020 |
Day 6. I got the urges yesterday night. It was tough but i overcame. I have been clear headed from the last 5 days, although I had a little brain fog on the day I relapsed. 1 Like |
Health / Re: No Masturbation Nairaland. by Dammytrager(m): 5:05pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Went 8 days of no fap and relapsed. Went for another 15 days before relapsing Now on day 1. Going minimum of 30 days now. What I noticed in my no fap days. Before I started no fap, I was always lacking motivation to do anything, when I wake up, I am not encouraged to even stand up from bed. No motivation to clean my room, cook or even work. I force myself to work everyday and my relation with my co workers is bad as I always feel weird and hardly able to hold any conversation with girls around me. Then I always had a brain fog, always difficult to concentrate on something or even assimilate. During my 15days before relapsing, around day 10 I realized I was becoming more jovial in the office, I found little things funny, my conversation started going well among the coworkers especially with the females. I do a light work out every day (I would never have done this during my fapping days). My focus increased and I enjoy little things. The little benefits I experienced are pushing me for more. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Proposed To My Girlfriend But She Doesn’t Wear Her Ring by Dammytrager(m): 10:05am On May 27, 2020 |
Wrongs you are making 1. Do not get emotionally attached to a girl at your work place. This is a huge red flag. 2. She earns more than you and you’re spending on her. Man you should be investing your money and making your life better. 3. She will never marry you unless there is no more option for her again, women follow hypergamy, they wan someone richer and better than them. You are obviously not her ideal man. 4. If petty issue such as wearing a ring could get you thinking, you’ll get depressed if you enter the marriage or continue the relationship. Work on your emotions. Don’t be a weak man Things you should be doing 1. Stop spending on her and start investing your money, find how to better your life. 2. Keep your options as a man open, have other girls in your life 3. Emotionally detach yourself from her, because this girl has other options. Relationship is all a game the one who is more emotionally invested lose at the end of the day 2 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: Does First Class Degree Guarantee One A Job? by Dammytrager(m): 8:42am On May 11, 2020 |
omenigbo96: If you’re still a student, I advise you work towards making money before you graduate either through a skill or starting a business. It’s good to network too but the most important thing is to be valuable, that people will be ready to pay you for your value. If you expect to graduate and get a Job, you might be shocked with the reality you’ll meet. 1 Like |
Education / Re: Does First Class Degree Guarantee One A Job? by Dammytrager(m): 8:44pm On May 10, 2020 |
So I see a lot of people downplaying the efforts of first class graduates. First Class graduates might not be the smartest people in the class but they are the ones who have put in a lot of work, consistency, discipline and many other traits into their academics. Which to me that attitude is more important than talent. If it was easy, everybody would graduate with First Class. Nonetheless, with the present reality of things in Nigeria, A First Class degree is not an automatic employment visa, you would have to work hard as much as those who graduate with other degrees. I feel the present Job market is a skill driven market and hence what makes you stand out is not your degree but your skill. If you can apply the same level of work and consistence you put in your academics into your business or developing a high valued skill then definitely your First Class attitude will lead you to success 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: Buhari: Lack Of Foreign Investments Denying Youth Employment by Dammytrager(m): 8:36am On Jan 20, 2020 |
Foreign investment will not develop the country capital is not the basis for industrialization Study how hitler brought Germany out of depression, recession and unemployment after world war 1, before going to conquer Europe between 1939 - 1945. Or how countries in Europe which fought WWII that drained their economy massively recuperated after the war. And here we are as a country still depending on foreign investment to develop the country. The foreign investment might help build good roads, airports and some infrastructure but these alone cannot sustain the country because all these infrastructure depreciate over time and is not the solution to unemployment or the problem of Nigeria. We need policies to enable the rapid development of the country. 2 Likes |
Gaming / Re: Lets Play Age Of Empires 3 Online. by Dammytrager(m): 5:35pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
GrayBeard:Let’s talk on WhatsApp 07010450449 |
Gaming / Re: Lets Play Age Of Empires 3 Online. by Dammytrager(m): 8:01pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
GrayBeard: Haven’t seen you around, Do you play Asian dynasties |
Gaming / Re: Age Of Empires 3 Thread by Dammytrager(m): 11:18am On Dec 11, 2019 |
Adedokunworld:You will be surprised. We can have a match tonight if you’re in |
Gaming / Re: Age Of Empires 3 Thread by Dammytrager(m): 11:10am On Dec 11, 2019 |
Adedokunworld:Hehe!!!...you’re missing out a lot You can play multiplayer with people online. Follow the instructions here https://eso-community.net/viewtopic.php?t=11250 And about data it doesn’t consume much data About 10mb for a match 1 Like |
Gaming / Age Of Empires 3 Thread by Dammytrager(m): 7:31pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
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