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so whatever has a price has more value. Funny

is this a joke?

You are never going to find a white person with tribal marks, it would be seen as self harm or child abuse.

Seun:
Love, to me is:
- When she's obviously not perfect, but you don't care.
- When you want to spend the rest of your life with her.
- When you want her to be happy all the time.
- When she's cheating on you and you still want her.
- When you want the very best for her in all areas of life.

@Seun
I gotta give you props for this, this is really sweet. Definitely my idea of love.

this topic is very laughable, does it matter if she is rich or poor is she one that would be funding and footing your bills?

The only time i'll see this topic as reasonable is if you are talking about a rich or poor girl's general attitude. A rich girl has more poise, class and sense of awareness.There is also high tendedncy for her to be spoilt and rude. While a poor girl has less going for her, she is also more of a people's person(knows everyone in the area), a whole lot more friendlier and has a killing nagging attitude and knows lots of bad words a rich girl would have to much sensibilty to use. The rich girl has less tendedcy to be nagging she can get what she wants when she wants.

i wouldn't say i would marry or date anyone who was physically challenged. But beauty is only skin deep and so i would not say that anyone physically challenged is out of my range. If i happen to be crazy about such person then i would go for it. Half the time those who CAN hear don't actually listen and thoses who can see don't often do a good job with their sight. It all depends on the individual.

I didn't say you can't request for money from your of the opposite sex, what i said was that it is not his duty to do so, so you should not automatically expect him to pick up the tab.

I personally don't think it's a guys duty to assist grils financially, except the both of them are married if they arent' then he has no obligation to pay up.

@Coco if your friend is in need of financial help then i think she should let the guy know of this, some guys are pretty slow and others like to act oblivious of the situation, If she doesn't spell it out to him then the guy would be non the wiser.

well they have not done much (actually that's not true) they've not done a single thing. But placing the younger generation there would make things even worse. Though theses days kids are getting wiser and are learning things at a faster rate it's only a little while before the younger generation learn from the failures of the old and so called mature minds i just don't think the time is now, every young person's mind is still on getting rich and so would be pushed to indulge in selfish endevours.

I quite disagree with the idea of a young person as the next President of Nigeria depending on the age group you are considering. Younger people are filled with fairy like ideas of how nigeria would/should be they are unrealistic, dreamers also inconsiderate and selfish and such a responsibilty would be beyond them. I also think nigerian would benefit from a persident who lives locally and is aware of what nigeria need and not a man who who going to make it a duplictae of another mans world.

I also disagree with deep soul, if Nigeria is not ready for a female leader when would it be "if not us then who, if not now then when" if you really think the men are doing a good job then you really need to think again. I just think the women need some more confidence and support.

hi how ya doing. I am sure everyone on nairaland will be glad to be your friend, and incase of next time don't place a post like this on the romance section, there's nothing romantic about this.

Have fun. 

i think this style of asking a girl out sucks. I think a guy comes of as more interesting when he approaches a girl with more humour in tow. More like

Don- You look stunning
Lady-(smiling) thanks
Don- oh sorry, i wasnt talking to you i was taking to the girl on your left
Lady- (embarassed) oh
Don- (smiling) just kidding

or

Don- I'm sorry i am going to have to ask you to leave
Lady- you can't do that this is a public place.
Don-(smiling, moves in a little closer wispering) I know but you are making all the others girls around look bad.
Lady-(Smiling) what do you want?
Don- that's for me to know and you to find out,

These techs might not apply to all girls but if a guy approached me with this kind of line he would get my full attention cause it's unconventional and i'd find him very interesting. I hate it whne a guy sounds rehearsed.

just look her straight in the eye and say there are so many people i love and many more i probabaly would, but there's no one i'll ever love the same way i love you.
If she does not fall for that then she's probably made of stone.

don't worry i wasn't flirting with him, just having a go as usual.

I just realised you wrote you think so, aren't you sure? you waiting for him to ask or what?

retro:
*coughs* He's taken.

@retro
by you?

if someone is not in need of deliverance, threating or dying. Then this not an urgent issue, you are still twenty six why the rush you'll definitly find someone take your time.

i don't think they are put of by your looks, what do they want you to do get an extreme makeover. To me you are fine just the way you are and if a girl is too shallow or selfcentered to realise that then she really isn't worth your time.

none of this has to do with talent it's all about what you do off the cameras, is this ALL that makes nollywood famous?

@eveshe
18 and 30

Okay when you go back to nigeria why don't you just meet a girl and have her on hold for you that way you wouldn't have to be in a relationship with a girl you barely know. Unless you are really living in Nigeria and are a flipping liar why does your mobile number have a nigerian code (080).

i think this just depends on how sensitive a woman is and how badly affected she is.
But as the saying goes 'it's love not time that cures a wounded heart'. She should either gain a hobby or get to meeting people, she shouldn't let the dude get to her.

no 1. i like you

hilarious ,

No 4- you're cool.

new in what sense?

why would you want to ask out your female freinds who have lovers? If you do care for one of them let them know how you feel in a very subtle manner don't come on them to hard, and hear how she feels.

You are probably still really hurt from your last relationship and are just finding it hard to move on. It isn't actually hard finding someone, but it's definfitely hard loving someone cause it's an emotion we can't control. Take your time you'll meet someone soon.  

PS.
Girls lie a lot so, the girls you've met are probably just trying to play hard to get i'm sure if you went a little deeper you'll realise one of them feels the same way you do.

why does the Lover have to be long distanced, what's wrong with the girls in your locality. And in accordance to the use of LOVER in your topic, I don't think much loving would take place.

I think this is just the idea of people wanting different things. A woman (ususally young ones who haven't learnt much) like to hope and believe that she can change and mold a man according to the way she wants, when it finally hits her and she realises that she had been wasting her time it usally creates a big yawning hole in her life the way to fill that hole becomes her problem.
some search for a better career and find themselves young boys to feel better about themselves
some never learn a thing
and others have people who advice them on what to do
This process usually takes a while causing for time to run, these women then realise the mistakes they have make. But picking up the pieces is easiser said than done.

Though i don't believe that everyone has to get hitched at some point in life, this is what keeps pushing women to believe that they have to have that family life that everyone is having. I must admit it's facinating i've seen my aunt and uncle but for some people married life is more of a burden.

i don't think so. Actually let me rephrase that NO. You are just infatuated that's all, you are hung up on the idea that somone apprecites what you do and think you are attracted to her. You just like her because she liked your perfomance.

It happens all the time a guy saves a girl and she think it's love at last.
Actually you might want to watch out, since you are a perfomer, i'm guessing there are going to be a lot of girls on your trails.

Oh and can i get your number [/color] just kidding.