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Nickname: Yem-yem, Angel (I can't help it i'm a goody-goody)
Location: uk
Age: 19
Hobbies: sewing/drawing designs, writing, reading, going movies with friends.
Love: everyone i know, and every baby in the world.
Best male and female on Nairaland: Seun(highly ambitious it's quite inspiring), Davidylan(really smart guy) Kiki and Oracle(great sense of humour, also can't help but love them)
Secret crush: i don't keep secrets 

Hey how you doing , welcome to the site

i'm sorry what is it that ugly guys have again

how are you aware that your friend has hiv, and why are you in the position to tell him?

(Unless you contaminated him and are feeling very guilty, not romantically involved my foot)

sorry bout that  just a little high

well as a divorced woman i think she just needs someone to talk to and your husband seems to be the only person she feels she can relate to probably cause they've both known each other for quite a while. And he is a guy who can build back her trust in men.
I personally feel that you reading through your husbands mail is a big invasion of privacy. As a wife i think you are in the position to trust and believe your husband unless you have due reason not to, and since none of the woman's replied mails have any hidden agenda you probabaly should have stopped repling earlier. I personally beileve that you should tell the woman you have been the one replying her mails and invite her over and you can have a chat with her as a friend.
It's called keeping the enemy close that is if you have any reason to doubt her advances on your husband.

LOL , gee and i've always thought men were quite complicted

I love that song just as much as i love her new song 'long way to go'

I think the babies are soo adorable, and should be highly offended by you refering to them as freaks.

And fyi the black boy is not the only one with the issue the white boy is going to have to explain that his mum is black.

It's probably just you and not the woman.

dabby:
that groom is pretty slow.
hope i don't get that kind.

Looooool, trust me you wont get a guy like that, those kind are not made anymore.

loool, sorry but this is funny. Please don't kill her how about going for another girl who doesn't fuel your anger, cause clearly your like for her is not enough to diminish your thoughts of killing her.

okay so your looks are good enough to be spoken about yet your picture is not worth posting? gee, that puts my mind to rest about your identity.
I am sorry about u loosing the love of your life but when it comes to cases about love and religion, i think the end is already known right from the start we all just like to turn a blind eye to it.  You said you can never find a woman like your Bukkie but u want something close which means that any woman you end with, will have to learn to live as second best. I don't think many women like that if u are not ready to give it all then u are not ready to give at all. You should probably wait a while and not rush things.  

@ casper
lol

LOL, i'm going out to make some friends .

Three to be exact. , hope you have fun on the forum.

Hey how you doing. Welcome to the forum.

LoL . I am hoping this is a joke cause it's hilarious.

candylips:
D-A-M-S-E-L

Actually it D-A-M-S-A-L

[quote author=b-girl link=topic=22895.msg628916#msg628916 date=1159358180]am in nigeria and wants to learn the act of dressmaking. i have a fair knowledge but want better tips, can someone help me fans[/quote]i'm sure people will be willing to help you, i mean i will.

When you are in a loving relationship and see yourself spending the rest of your life with that person. To be truthful i don't think there actually is a right time, there never is.

Oh so sweet. Number five almost makes me feel quite sad it's so horrible when you are so close yet so far from someone. But i love number six, it actually makes me smile .

kiki:
@ Damsal
i am really dissapointed so what if it is a kid don't u know kidz remember things alot and it makes them hate u tho i know she did an bad thing but she need to make her realize what she did is wrong by delayin her sistaer and that she didn't mean to slap her and for her saying this doesn't mean next time i ain't gon whoop u but be cosiderate it takes a lil talk to make a child feel bad because if she continues slappin her like that it will get to a point the child will change and u will not like it

Okay em, i've been beaten for not wearing the right shoe as according to my mum, i've been beating for my brothers not flushing the toilet in their room, i've been smacked for accepting money from my mum's friend, i've been locked out at midnight when i was going to school the next day and once my mum caught me talking to a boy in our nieghbourhood (whose mum is my mum's friend) and brought out a cane and decided to give the two of us the beating of our lives FOR TALKING.

i can't remember occassions on which my mum has beaten me when i was little but trust me she has, casue i do remeber a time when my bother and i were going to teach her a lesson and so we tied a string to a chair so when she was going into the kitchen so that she would trip but well that plan never worked casue the string was very thin and we had not planned well.

My point is this kid is in primary school these are memories she's going to forget, all the ones i remember happened to me at a teenage level, and as Mamaput said the girl later on hugged her all these things have absolutely no effect on her casue they are very minimal. Now my mum has aplogised to me only once ever and that was casue she beat me so hard the neighbours came over and had to stop her. These certainly have dire effects cause now when i sit in a room with my mum the conversation is often onesided casue i tend to watch what i say to her. Now my point is this is far much more than just a slap, if you think Mamaput should apologise what should i do take my mum to court for a sentence.
I mean i once vowed never to hit my kid but after coming here i realised that if you don't give a kid a warning you as a parent would just be taken for a ride.

Hey , how you doing hope you have fun on the forum.

I didn't say mamaput should slap her daughter for every wrong she does i'm just saying there are right circumstances when it is necessary. I know a kid presently who everytime i see her she brings out the worst in me cause she is rude, obnoxious, undiciplined, fat and has the most untrained mouth ever.

Okay i apologise for the use of the word fat, i told u this girl brings out the worst in me . But i do realise that beating a child consistently wouldn't make them any better. I just don't believe that mamaput should apologise.

This is so not true, my close friends are Eritreans i know they consider themselves to be from the horn of Africa, and do consider themselves to be beautiful but they under no condition consider themselves to be superior. I might just be saying from the view of my friends but i personally to not see them to be arrogant about their ethnicity.

wow inspiring

yeah it happens that way often, casue naturally as a first time father you are really excited about being one at all that when you happen to realise that it's a daughter you feel more protective cause well girls are frigile and feminine and you want to protect your baby girl it's also the same way around with mothers except that of Seun's whose story always manages to be different.

don jazzie:
after u slap am she come early ba?u nor do well mama put.make u go apoilogise sharply

I want to believe that you wrote this statement in a hurry and didn't read through it before posting it, cause clearly you missed that fact that this is a KID Mamaput is talking about.

If she is going to grumble over the issue that she has nothing to wear when she clearly does or get angry and not go to school becasue she does not like the bag her mother picked put for her then she has got a lot of learning to do, Mamaput you have absolutely no apology to make. You are the mother and your daughter has to realise that you make the rules.
Maybe next time you shouldn't hit her so swiftly because on the occasions i've been slapped trust me i could curse in words i'd never use on a normal day but this helps her in the long run to learn about satisfaction. What about kids who have to learn to work from childhood for what they have to eat should they grumble and blame their parents for not having the money No, cause not everyone is given the chance not every one can be a lawyer or Doctor actually not everyone gets what they want

She's priviledge and should learn to realise that. I'll just suggest that next time maybe you should be a little slower with the slaps(Okay,and no slaps keep it to the butt) Please

Do you call her often, hug her when she's around you tell her you care about her or buy her little gifts. If not then you might want to try doing that. 
And please don't call girls kokolets, i don't know what it means but i'm sure it's not a very polite word.

candylips:
really

Yeah

twinkledew:
lol. where do you think i live?

u don't have to be bitchy about it

i live where you live in uk.