Sports › Re: See How Ladies Welcomed Atletico Madrid Players After Landing In Uyo. Photos by damtan(m): 11:53am On May 22, 2018 |
koma1: Why not Barcelona or real Madrid so that dem go beat us 99 - 0 abi |
Health › Re: #DoctHoe: Pretty Slay Queen Doctor, A Perfect Combination Of Beauty & Brains by damtan(m): 11:38am On May 22, 2018 |
Amarabae: The picture is unnecessary and out of place. I hate it when some ladies continue to make women look like intimacy gadgets. We are not. She is beautiful but the pose and picture is unnecessary you sound like a doc. |
Crime › Re: ‘you Must Marry Corpse Of Our Daughter’ – Family Tells Killer Boyfriend by damtan(m): 11:35am On May 22, 2018 |
make the guy kuku stab himself too |
Crime › Re: Retired Yahoo Boy Exposes Ritual Methods, Speaks On Eating Poo, Sex With Ladies by damtan(m): 11:28am On May 22, 2018 |
adekennis: Everything he said there is actually true ,but believe me some are not using anything but plain luck..You may want to argue this but I know what I’m saying. Also 1.8 billion is even too small compare to what some other guys have made.. I have my fact about all this. Say no to Crime. i piry you. you might be next person a yahoo boy who's your friend will use. A G-boy making billions na luck?? chai!!! |
Sports › Re: PHOTOS: Super Eagles Train Ahead Clash With Atletico Madrid In Uyo by damtan(m): 11:17am On May 22, 2018 |
this match na over 6.5 go finish am. stake high. |
Celebrities › Re: Chika Ike Slays In Blue Bikini by damtan(m): 11:14am On May 22, 2018 |
From ocean, then, to the promised land. God dey. |
Crime › Re: Young Wife Who Was Gang Raped In Cross River Gets Help From Governor. Photos by damtan(m): 11:12am On May 22, 2018 |
youngest85: You covered her face, what about people beside her? If I want to know her, I can do that through those people beside her E concern you?? why would you want to know her?? |
Politics › Re: If You Could Prevent One Event In Nigeria's History, Which Would It Be? by damtan(m): 11:09am On May 22, 2018 |
independence should have been prevented. Maybe naija for don become England by now. |
Celebrities › Re: I Was A Bus Conductor For Years - Small Doctor Reveals by damtan(m): 11:05am On May 22, 2018 |
Abbeynomics: No wonder he always climb speakers and canopy in any show As in ehnn...you've also noticed. |
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Romance › Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by damtan(m): 11:12pm On May 21, 2018 |
Dear future wife, please don't mind this shisha blazing girl; i don't joke with breakfast. |
Romance › Re: Angela Nwosu Smoking: "I Am Not A Wife Material, I Am Not A Feminist" by damtan(m): 11:09pm On May 21, 2018 |
BoneBlogger: A Nigerian lady has got herself trending yet again after revealing why she's not a wife material. The social media influence, Angela Nwosu took to Facebook to share her reasons as she smoked shisha.
Read her lengthy piece below;
I am not a Wife Material!
All of the pictures I’ve seen on social media depicting wife material are of women cooking alone, doing all of the cleaning and doing their “womanly duties.” Don't get me wrong, there are two different roles in relationships that one partner will be better at than the other. Me, proudly smoking shisha and not afraid to post it on a platform as big as Facebook, shows that I am not a wife material, I hate that word, with reckless abandon. Girls are forming and pretending, not being themselves, all to be termed a wife material and land a husband living their lives just to please the society and painfully, publicly stand on a morality higher ground, while doing terrible things in secret. The only way I survive on earth is being myself and not what society wants me to be, na only me waka come. And yes, the shisha pot belongs to me.
No, I am not married and no, I am not a feminist, but I’m a firm believer that relationships are a team effort. To make a relationship work, responsibilities of the household must be shared. I’m all for cooking and burning down the house together. This is the 21st century and there are so many more opportunities for men and women than there have been in the past.
Like I said, I’m not a wife material. If I ever get married, I’m not turning into your slave just to be ‘a perfect wife material’ I’m not your mother, nor will I ever be. I’d much rather call in a pizza and watch movies than slave over a meal that requires 3 hours of my time to prepare. If your friends are over to hang out with you and watch the game, I’d rather be sitting on the couch yelling at the T.V. too, than catering to you and your friends. I also won’t expect you to be the only one supporting our family. I’m not broke and Amadioha isn’t taking care of me for nothing, ighotago?
I’m not your typical girl or typical girlfriend, I am extremely different and I definitely won’t be your typical wife. I won’t wake you up with the smell of breakfast, because chances are, if it’s a weekend, I’m sleeping until 12pm. I will probably burn at least one piece of food every time I cook for you and then proceed to tell you we’re going to eat out and do shisha afterwards. For your birthday, I’d rather buy you Play Station 4 that we can play together, than buying or making you something more sentimental. When you wake up next to me, you won’t see Sleeping Beauty. You'll see that my mouth will be dry of no lipstick from the previous day, you will always see my spots clearly, my eyes will be partially open and my hair will look like ike okuko.
I don’t have unrealistic expectations for a husband to be “hubby material,” and I don’t want someone to have unrealistic expectations of me to be “wife material.” I know that people have their faults and it’s hard to live with someone no matter how much you love them. I don’t expect my future spouse to have to pay for everything we have just like I hope he doesn’t expect me to cater to his every need.
Who makes these rules anyway? These rules for what is wife or husband material and what is not? I’m not even “feminizing” here, just wondering why we tend to subscribe to the notion that a certain set of qualities are desirable for marriage. That a girl doing shisha is wayward, an ashawo and a disgrace to womanhood, therefore, will never get married. There’s a statement my mother says “as our faces are different, so also are our needs different”. What Mr Okoli requires in a wife may be completely different from what Mr Okonkwo wants and for Miss Angie and Miss Doris, their list of requirements will also differ by a sharp margin.
Dear future husband, I will be your best friend, your support system, your spouse, your partner in crime but more importantly your ashawo. I won’t be your second mother or your babysitter. And we definitely won’t just exist in the same house. We will be 50+ years old and still be attending concerts, watching Boondocks, while drinking cheap wine and taking spontaneous trips to the beach.
Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/i-am-not-a-wife-material-i-am-not-a-feminist-lady-says-as-she-smokes-photos.html blood of Zechariah |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Caption This Photo Of Queen Elizabeth And Her New Grand Daughter-inlaw(Meghan) by damtan(m): 11:00pm On May 21, 2018 |
vikkimimi: lols you're funny than the word itself chai...all these ladies will be seeing someone as a comedian when one is serious |
Education › Re: I Need Help, I Have A Cgpa Of 3.45 Can I Still Make 2.1 by damtan(m): 10:58pm On May 21, 2018 |
Monopoly123: I didn't say I didn't believe I can't, I sọ much believe I can, just needed to hear from others what I need to do, advice an all, not telling me wat kind of question is dis. Thanks. oga you're a finalist o. this is the kinda question junior colleagues or fresh students are supposed to be asking you and here you are asking people. since you already believe you can, why should other opinions matter?? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: TOTAL E & P Nigeria: 2018 Massive Recruitment!!! by damtan(m): 10:54pm On May 21, 2018 |
This is serious. 25 years ke. That was 25years ago. |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Caption This Photo Of Queen Elizabeth And Her New Grand Daughter-inlaw(Meghan) by damtan(m): 10:49pm On May 21, 2018 |
vikkimimi: how sure are you about that? Extremely sure. infact, more sure than the name i bear self. |
Education › Re: I Need Help, I Have A Cgpa Of 3.45 Can I Still Make 2.1 by damtan(m): 6:20pm On May 21, 2018 |
what kinda question is this. It would have been a different case if you were a fresher. You won't make it if you believe you can't. |
Romance › Re: What Do You See? (photo Inside) by damtan(m): 6:09pm On May 21, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus:

Hahahahaha.. Exactly.. Juz like what my hubby told me the other day.. Im so EXPLICIT when i talk RAW..  he's not wrong at all. Too Explicit. |
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Romance › Re: What Do You See? (photo Inside) by damtan(m): 3:04pm On May 21, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus:

Hahahahaaha . well I don't know him but meeehn he can turn every girl into a pornst@r once he started stroking that HUGE THANG into their moist cave  this your description no be here oo |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: TOTAL E & P Nigeria: 2018 Massive Recruitment!!! by damtan(m): 2:45pm On May 21, 2018 |
Jadesolam: I created an account with total in the past but my account is temporarily locked when I tried logging in. I tried creating another account but it seems to be the same. Can someone kindly help To create another account, provide a mail address different from the first one or better still click on forgot password and create a new password |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Caption This Photo Of Queen Elizabeth And Her New Grand Daughter-inlaw(Meghan) by damtan(m): 2:35pm On May 21, 2018 |
vikkimimi: The queen be like ......... "this daughter in-law fine shaa" Vikki how far nww. when will you marry me so that my mum will think same?? |
Health › Re: Disabled Beggar In Lebanon Died A Millionaire.photos by damtan(m): 8:25am On May 21, 2018 |
she's just a fool |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Federal Fire Service 2018 Recruitment: How To Apply by damtan(m): 6:13pm On May 20, 2018 |
clily: Pls what are the documents to be downloaded, Secondly wanna ask was born on Sept 1987,does it mean am not qualified cause the age requirement is 30 years and I will 31 by September this year, need answers.. Thanks You're 30 as at time of application. i think that shouldn't disqualify you |
Politics › Re: Female Staff Gets Epic Reply From Her Boss As She Tries Flirting With Him by damtan(m): 3:44pm On May 20, 2018 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: BAT Global Graduate Marketing Recruitment 2018 by damtan(m): 3:36pm On May 20, 2018 |
Becca01: Yes since I've not gotten a reject mail, means there's still hope |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: BAT Global Graduate Marketing Recruitment 2018 by damtan(m): 3:36pm On May 20, 2018 |
Becca01: Yes since I've not gotten a reject mail, means there's still hope |
Phones › Re: What Does Oversize Mean To You - Meet The Smart Phone With An Over-Sized Storage by damtan(m): 11:30pm On May 19, 2018 |
correctBlogger: Chai... jesus oh... why Nigerians get bad mouth like this na..?
This thing is powered by a Snapdragon 845 Processor oh.. alot dont know what processor means |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Woman Wore Her Aso Ebi To Meghan Markle And Prince Harry's Wedding. by damtan(m): 11:26pm On May 19, 2018 |
PDPGuy: The poster meant to say “first kiss as a married couple”. berra |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Woman Wore Her Aso Ebi To Meghan Markle And Prince Harry's Wedding. by damtan(m): 4:55pm On May 19, 2018 |
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