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Hi my good people, How una dey Long time

I have been very far from reach, have been on vacation, just got back to work 2day
Yes I am alive and doing very great and the little one is bubbling too.

@tsmith and all, thanks for showing concern and wanting to know how we’ve been fairing.
Actually to be very candid my husband never molest our daughter, like I said I only accused him in the heat of the crisis we had. Though he has proved beyond doubt that that he didn’t do it still I am being very careful cos that doesn’t mean the child wasn’t tempered with as TSMITH said. I also met my younger sister during my vacation and she said my husband never slept with her nor harassed her sexually. Then I asked her why she left my house angrily kinda, she said since she had gotten admission into university she needed time to sort out some things b4 resuming in school, that she knew she wont have that time in my house so she decided to start acting up and eventually left. I inquired if there was anyway my hubby may have behaved to suggest that he was up to something with her, she said NO. In all the tempo is so calm now.


@Rhea, I could help but laugh . . . . . . . . .mennmm u are badddd. . . . u sabi am no bi small

@seyibrown, yes no househelps for now not even a house boy. I will manage. Baby is older now so the stress is less for me. Have gotten some gadgets to make things lighter for me.

Thank u guys

thank u lawyer

action! action!! and action is all we want. no be 2 talk

oisehumen:
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So, what about RCCG?

Because so many scandals have be traced to Redeem pastors lately.

But it baffles me why RCCG is bent on taking over the whole world at the detriment of the church itself. why? ? ?
u see about 2 branches in just one street, about 50 branches in a small locality, then they start scampering for people trying to pull u out from ur church even if u were already an RCCG member all in the name of let's go a fishing or wotever they call it.

These pastors are not properly groomed or trained before they are being dispersed, then they go about committing of manners of havoc and atrocities.

The question is why open more churches when u cannot control the ones u have.

heeeeeyyy Jenny that's so good of u to have 4given him.
I wish u brighter days/years ahead in ur matrimony and I pray u dont suffer anymore setback

hmmmmm that's so selfish of ur dad. yes hope he realises his mistakes someday soon.

who is caring 4 the son now, where is he. God is already punishing that man by not giving him children from the other wife. and yet he still didnt learn.

hmmmmmm somethings dey happen sha. na waohhhhhhh

Analytical:
Let me make some sense out of all these. I will be back. . .

Analyticalllllllllllllll quite a while, I was really hoping you would stumble into this thread and here u are
Dont know while the moderator brought it here - crime section, anyways it's all good. though the tempo is cooling will still want to hear from u.

of the total money u need how much do u have?

I hope say some people no go die because of this matter.

As I dey see so, exchange of blow go soon start.
wey the sledge hammer

ayescopy:
contact;

018945123

Icescopy, the person picking this number says it is wrong number.

Pls confirm ur number and also tell us the price

@poster, tell ur sister to follow her heart. With all u've said there seems to be a mutual understanding between them and that's all that matters. I see it's for a good course, it will be selfish to advice otherwise but they have to be very matured about this, I hope this their love is not infactuation oooooh

I must tell u weather together or apart problems will still occur. there are couples that lives 2geda and fight everyday.

Before I say anything poster need to clear the air

Where are u poster ? ? ? Tell us how he has always treated u
has he been hostile before now or is this the first time.

What can u really say about him as per temper

Such a sorry story, have taken pain to read and digest everything.

This is coming to me at the right time, have been having some family issues, this will sure help a great deal.

Thank u poster for sharing this with us.

Helping one's parent is not a bad idea but parent too should try and consider their children.

Poster should be sure the dad is not squandering the money otherwise that is not good

wot happened to the Nmillion u gave him the other time?? be sure he is utilizing the money well.

obailala:
I think i've watched that same movie and the "mother" was none other than the evil "Patience Ozokwor" 

Yes exactly and the dad was pete Edochie

See, this movie was repeated again last night on Africa Magic, I couldnt help but cry. My mind just went to his topic again. That poor innocent girl has gone through suffering, pain and  now one would ask isn't better to have left her in the orphanage??

Now the  girl have found refuge in the hands of  a childless widow. She is about to be married and no one to pay bride price to. (think there is a part left to be shown)

Pls poster be sure u are totally ready for this, cos once u are in it it's a different ball game when your children starts coming cos I have a conviction u are going to give birth, I dont just know, I just feel u will have ur children, may it be so in Jesus name.

ifunayam:
Congrats on your up-coming wedding Mr. BEE444,

Yep 2million naira should be enough, try and make it moderate and simple. Remember a successful marriage is not based on how much money that was spent on wedding. Be prudent, save the rest for your new home.

Just curious was it through your other thread on;[b] I'm Coming Back To Nigeria Soon, Need A Decent Girl To Marry! Hook Me Up Pls! May 03, 2010, 03:34 AM » that you found her?[/b]

haaaaaaaaaaaaaa am also very curious too, pls tell us oooooohh or are u just kidding about this marriage stuff

How come u have found a girl so soon and are already preparing for marriage hhhmmmmm

too much story. . . didnt  know I could read all the comments from page 1 to the end. . .

@ poster like wot so many people have said, make the most of your relationship, try not to habour fear hence it might just happen. Try to establish a personal relationship with his family, call them, make them have free access to you and vis-vesa, they are your iin-laws I think his family might not be much of a problem since they always want to talk to you. . . I guess they want to know u more than just saying hello . . .Try this and see how it plays out.

All the best

@whiteone people calling u yellow yellow/Oyinbo pepper is not so discriminating neither is it an insult of a kind.

I have never travelled out of Nigeria but people still call me Oyinbo pepper just cos am a light in complexion

Nigerians generally refer to fair ladies as SISI, YELLOW, OYINBO PEPPER. To us here there is nothing bad attached to it.

@poster even though this question have been asked severally, I still want u to do a deep soul search for the Umpteenth  time why u wanna adopt and if u are ready to still love her/him unconditionally when ur kids eventually starts coming in by God's grace.

Cos I watched a movie few days ago where couples adopted and later started maltreating the girl. they were very poor and later became so wealthy since the girl was adopted. it was so evident that they attributed thier success to the girl. Later the 'mother' wanted the same girl dead.

This is only a film but it happens in real life too. I was terrified when I watched it. Please be sure u are mentally, emotionally, physically etc ready for this adoption.

Spyker:
What type of wedding are you proposing?
What's the size of guest you expect?
Are you doing bachelors eve or after wedding party?
What about traditional wedding? Are you also doing that?

Infact spyker na ur papa born u, how come u posted almost same time with me and we are advicing same thing too.

I hope poster find our comments useful

To me 2million is not bad if u utilize it well though things have gone up these days.

It depends the type of wedding u are going for ie Registry, church or traditional.
or are u gonna do all. this will determine how much u might need.

Try  to itemize all u need and write the prices against them
also make room for unforeseen cost as this is eminent

Mr & Mrs Siena big big congratulations for the birth of ur baby. . .

am so happy for u. . . . ooooh just saw this now

Hope the little one is doing great.

Great regards to Mrs Siena

nath01:
@MRbrownJAY OK!!!!!!!!! i just pray u will never fall a victim? but u never answer my question, ?may be ladies/women in the house can give me accurate answer.IS IT SOME LADIES WANT TO BE A SECOND WIFE,SNATCH OTHERS WOMAN'S HUSBAND ORWHAT IS IT, AFTER KNOWING THAT THE MAN IS MARRIED AND STAYING WITH HIS FAMILY.

What victim are u talking about here. things like this always get me all worked up.

u said in your initial post that the girl was warned, why was your brother not admonished too it means your family is even partial in this matter.
Did he impregnate the girl in his matrimonial home? who went out to meet her? your brother, who got her pregnant with the first issue, your brother. that same brother of urs after knowing all the consequences still went back to eat the vomit he spilled by getting her pregnant again and here u are playing a victim's brother.

This girl didnt snatch anybody your brother went to her. . . period!!!
u are asking why some ladies want to become second wife?? u should ask your brother wot he is looking in another woman that is wife doesn't have?? she has given him 4 solid boys and a girl wot else does he want in a marriage that's pushing him outside.

u need to call your brother for questioning cos he might as well impregnate up to 10girls at the rate he is going.

msssheww

There is nothing bad in a man assisting the woman in doing home chores, but it shouldn't be taken as his full responsibilities. the woman should wake up from her slumber and be a woman that she really is, who ever taught her that, is destroying her and doesn't mean well for her.

This Firearm and 190 must be very troublesome people

hhmmmmmm men and football

come to think of it . . . what if there wasnt a game like football

wetin una for do , Abegi

Boiled yam and egg

RSA:
I think Africa as whole played its part,all Africans where behind us,without this ambassodors,your Amokachi's,Okocha's,Roger Milla's Abedi Pele's,Kalusha Byalwa's,Goerge Weah's and many other African greats this would have not been this succesfull.

I was proven right once again by the love and support South Africans have on other Africans when we wore the coloures and flags of Nigeria,Ghana,Cameroon,Ivory Coast and Algeria.I was flying two flags on my car the whole month,South Africa and Ghana,and other South Africans have other African countries flag flying in their cars.

I am left speechless by what we did as a country and the continents and still get goosebumps whenever I think about it,this indeed was a special moment in our history as Africans,and now that we know that we've got what it take i think we should applied this lessons to our daily lifes and take our rightful place in the world.

Perception within us and to the out sider has indeed changed.Thank God I am African.

I am feeling African right now, is'nt it great to be part of this great histroy/race? wish this could be replicated in every thing we do.
waoooooooooooh u are making feel I missed being at the WC live.
Honestly am proud to be African

Thank you Nelson Mandela!!!!
Thank you South Africa!!!!
Thank you Africa

am not really a football fan but I must say I enjoyed every bit of the action in this tournament.

Congratulations to all the winners
Big Big congrats to Spain

Pls where is lakowe in lekki, what is the closest landmark to the area

more details will be useful. . . . .proper description of the area

Goooooossssh this is serious, even inspite of this u can still imagine the influx of people towards that area.