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carefreewannabe: I don't know what it's like to be a guy and have to do all this approach to a a girl thing but I am a girl and I also know what it is like to be disappointed with the other gender. Pls, don't become bitter, the right woman is out there for you somewhere. Never allow your past to make you bitter, let it make you stronger

Yea,you don't know. That's why the topic say: "when the roles are reversed". You gals don't know what we guys go through in order to approach and woo you gals. Anyway,I have let that incident slide,and as I said earlier,rather than let it bog me down,I'm rather moving on,stronger.

princesa: hmm...Girl power. Ability to deflate male ego like pin to a balloon










but seriously Dan, this is from a friend: let girls be for now, they are just gonna complicate your budding life.

Word...Take it or leave it

This is a good advice,coming from my Princess. I would be doing myself no good if I reject such advice.

Ofcourse,you are right. I guess I have to re-organize my priority and put the issue of dating on the sideline.

ITbomb: You are free to apply, the vacancy is still very much open.
See you at the top or below

ITbomb,stop being sarcastic!

Acidosis: .

Nice write up. My religious inclination doesn't support wearing ring.

[quote author=Ms_Steph]woman don turn goat wey man dey buy.. loool[/quote]Na so I see am ooo

demelza: Danny wake up, you have slept enough.
Join us in the 21st century if you care..

I probably was dreaming when I posted that. Thanks for caring enough to notify me. Ofcoz,I do care to join you people,so make una wait for me.

Of what use is an engagement ring to a man? He 'buy' the woman to himself from her parents. The engagement ring on her finger is a sign of ownership. That someone owns her and as such prospective 'buyers' should stay off her. It is the man who 'buy'(woo,married) the woman and not the other way round and as such,the woman wearing the ring shows she is somebody's possession.

Apollos

Normandy

Member

carefreewannabe: @poster: So what do you expect? That she decides to date you out of pity? She doesn't feel the same way and that's it. It doesn't mean she is heartless. It's sad for you but we all get disappointed at some time in our lives. Life goes on!

I guess you are right. I've move on. Just that this isn't the first such thing is happening to me and I sense a growing wall of resentment toward gals building up in me.

Many government agencies reeks of scandals,and in the coming days,more and more scandal would be unravelled.


They want to set up a committee to investigate the leaked report of the scandal,and sack whoever is responsible. This is pure hypocrisy,selfishness and executive recklessness. There is nothing criminal in exposing mass scale corruption in public office. I understand that the national security could be endangered if such scandals are leaked,but is that an excuse to allow corruption to continue to reign? And if the whistle blowers are sacked,then the working of the FOI bill would be greatly inhibited.

In a true democracy,there is the freedom of the opposition. But how the opposition carry and behave themselve is what matter. In the case of the new PDP,they have accepted the court decision in good faith. Then why go to the extent of demolishing their property if this isn't a clear case of political persecution?

[quote author=Mynd_44]Chemically, the feeling you get when "in love" is the same as you get when you consume a box of chocolates.[/quote]You mean that feeling of satisfaction and happiness? If that is what you mean,then I agree with you. But what I'm saying here is that feeling you get after being turned down by a gal you love and admired. Imagine,after all the courage you had put into expressing your feelings toward her,only for her to turn you down in the split of a second. Such dread feelings is what I'm talking about.

Iaz93:

This brother is really down!

Stop laughing at me and say something!

[quote author=Mynd_44]And love?[/quote]He say he doesn't believe this whole love bulls.hits,atleast at the moment. It's more like saying he doesn't like being in love.

Jumizie13: hmmmmmmmmmmmm. Easy guy

I'm being easy,Jummy. You and I know that.

If what happened on this Forum few weeks ago,where members almost shutdown this Forum in order to press their demand for the de-activation button,can be replicated in real life,and the government force to a standstill,then I see us making headway in finding solution to the lingering ASUU strike and developing our comatose educational institution.

[quote author=-Mr Cork-]...ok, my first advise to u homebased 9ja guys is to please please please (we beg u) start using perfumes...women r not attracted to guys who smell like engine oil ( no offennse) [/quote]Chai! This guy don finish we home-based guys.

Ghozye: I'm so so so happy abt ds thread!

Best couple=Serena n Dan, they were so perfect 2geda!
Best xter female=Serena,I luv her happy-go-lucky attitude *n her figure mks me go ooooooh*
Best xter male=Chuck gee! I luv his bad A.S.S attitude,,lik "I'm rich,so d rest of d world can go 2 hell"
Best couple (d parents)=Lily n Rufus;they mk a superb team!

Don't u jst luv Vannesa's catty eyes??
I luvd d gud old Brooklyn jenny,nt d rich 1 hu's dad got married 2 d almighty Lily Bass
U guys v 4gottn Eric huh?
I hated Georgina n I luvd d way queen B "re-united" he wiv her parents. LoL!
Nate 2 me,wz jst toooo cool n scared of adventures,bt he wz a great guy shaa.
N watever happnd 2 dt studio guy dt gave Serena his ring wc wz 7 or 8 yrs old hu's father got married 2 Eleanor?
Blair wz jst 2 fake n always felt inferior whneva she z nxt 2 queen S ( I no blame her shaa).N she wz so so so stiff @ d photo shoot @ her mother's boutique

Gosh,I cld go on n on 4eva...
I LUV

Wow! Nice description you've got there. You can go on and on,gist us about the show. That's what this thread was created for. You are welcome.

Fynestboi: then i think mixing kunu with viju would do

Wow! That's one hell of a combination.

Rayaso: Dan so you left sexty alone there? with those Hot men??

Nah! I didn't left her. Would be right there with her. Are you still serving your ban?

Fynestboi: ok boss welcome to my abode hoping to learn from you sire. what can i get for you mention them

gflakes
kunu
viju milk etc

Anything would do.

Nomski0: Poor you. You're a great guy, any sensible girl will be happy to be with you. Try forgetting about her......it'll get better in time.

I'm trying to. This just isn't the first time it's happening and a wall of resentment toward gals seem to be gradually building up in my heart.

homesteady: HA HA HA HA #wicked laugh
Me fall in love! Not in this world

Why?

mukina2: sex = Female
Nationality = West African
Religion = Islam
Relationship = Doubled
Etc =Etc

Lol.........you tacitly evaded the "Nationality" part abi? Which West African country are you from exactly? And also,the relationship status,I undastand what you mean by "Doubled",so I won't prod further on that. Which West African country are you from?

ITbomb: Is she reading this ?

I believe u probably did not give her enough time to feel relax with u. Next time try friendship but be careful not to enter friend zone.
.
As for that love thing u mentioned , forget that thing , u see girl , u pr¡ck stand , u come think say u don fall in love .
Oya find another fish as that one no gree enter net

Itbomb,you are funny. It isn't a matter of seeing a gal and my prick standing. It goes beyond that. As for the gal,I gave her enough time. But,I don't know what happen,and the whole thing came crumbling down. I just seem to have this feeling that chasing a gal is worthless. This isn't the first time.

Thavik: oh i"m sorry, was i typing too fast?

No! I get what you are trying to say.

Thavik: love is bullshit..dosent and will never exist...brain fools you to thinking that your simple but escalating physical attraction for someone is more than what it actually is....

Oh! Is that true? That love is just a mere illusion?

Guys go through alot just to woo a lady. They sacrifice somethings,e.g,their pride,ego,time,etc. And at the end of it all,only to be turned down.


Consider if the roles were revised. Guess the number of gals that would have given up trying to woo a guy.

homesteady: You fell in love? eya! Sorry!

Come on,don't be sarcastic. Don't tell me you are immune to falling in love.

That moment when you have been admiring a gal for sometime,but for some reasons you didn't had the courage to approach her and express your feelings toward her. But gradually,you start building up courage to approach her,to express your feeling to her. And after telling her,expressing your heart toward her(which obviously took you alot of time,sacrifice),only for her to drop the bombshell within the split of a second.

Real men don't cry,but though I'm bleeding inwardly,I have learnt not to do anything silly. I just move on.

Just wondering why gals could be heartless like this.