₦airaland Forum

Gerrard59:
The problem with this post is that should you get a job of 150K per month, you will rush to[b] marry and bore three children within two years[/b]! You people don't learn from your parents' mistakes. The advice I have is for you to improve on whatever money generating skill you have or get trained at it. It is not easy but that is the only way to improve on your finances. Don't listen to riff-raffs who would suggest one mumbo-jumbo business for you to start. No be so dem dey do business. You need finances, experience, network and time for the business to thrive. As it is, you do not have them.

Gerrard59:
Have you asked whether if he is from Benue, Ogun, Ebonyi or Ekiti where marauding Fulani herdsmen are ransacking people's farmlands and making them refugees in their ancestral lands?

CharisEleos:
It's still not enough reason to tell him to ignore his family's please for help. That's callous.

CharisEleos:
Keep quiet!
He should man up and abandon his family?

How can you say such about the parents that trained him in school?


Did the parents die when they were starving to send him to school?

In your mind now, you're smart.. mtchew!

Moxil:
Good day lovers of Nairaland, sincerely speaking, am writing this with sadness in my heart
I graduated from a federal polytechnic last two years, while I was in school, I hustle hard to train myself by running assignment, projects and seminars for my fellow students, sometimes I missed classes just for me to meet up in financial aspect as nobody to help, then I finally graduated 2019...
Though during my stay in school, from the little I gather from hustling around I still send some money to my parents in the Villa for them to eat and buy what they need to buy as nobody to be of help...

Now it happens that am working in a place that am getting 40k as salary, the responsibilities now become so terrible that I can't even save a Kobo at the end of the month
Mumsy keeps calling, siblings keeps calling, feeding, clothing and other minor expenses, am just like is this how am going to continue living my life....

Am so tired of everything right now....just imagine getting to know that am still having like 2400 in my account in the morning and mumsy called around 12pm that she has not eating since yesterday....I don't have any option than to send the 2000 to her just now left with nothing...

Everything seems to be going worse...why is this life so harsh, a lot of plans to be great but no help to meet up.... expenses all day without a better of getting income

KillMNKnow:
what's the meaning of headslammer I saw it several times?

Iamdbull:
So few years ago after I completed my Nysc, I came back to my parents house and decided to pursue my music, so the 41k they paid us after service completion I carry am enter studio for Lagos to go and record what I was envisaging as my breakthrough single.

I came back after the successful studio session, then I met my mom and I told her about it, that was how my mama yab me o she said am just wasting the little money I suppose gather do better thing. To be honest I cried that day.

Couple of days later I traveled to ife where my sister had a room she's no longer using in order to start a new life after service. Luckily I got a job and 6 months later I was contacted by globacom to come and perform at a show they organized in my hometown.

This was nearly impossible because I had to go to work but then I can't miss this for anything. So I pretended to be sick at work, this was very easy for me because am always dancing and singing at morning devotion so all I had to do that day was to be quiet and my bosses at work and fellow staff that I used to entertain during morning devotion started showing concern. I told them I wasn't feeling fine and immediately they told me to go home, that's how I entered bus to ijebu ode ooo for the glo ojude oba festival that will take place that night.

I got to the show and performed before they brought the guest artiste which I think was slimcase, idowest and Mr real, shaku shaku just came out then so they were the hottest artistes then. I left for ife to resume back at my place of work and Everything was back to normal. The clip of my performance was out and I shared it to my family.

That's how I jammed a lecturer from my mom's university he was doing his ph.d in ife, he saw me at work and started talking about the show, fear dey even catch me make my Oga no hear because everything go cast be that.

That's how he talked about how my mom was going around and showing everybody in the university, the video of my performance.

I was touched for the first time in my life mama could show me off. This was even more touching because have always embarrassed her by being the number one Olodo at school when I was young lol.

That made me more determined in my music pursut that if being a successful musician will make mama proud I have to achieve it.

I stopped music then in 2018 so as to hustle because I need money to push my music, I hustled 2019 and 2020 and now 2021 am back.
Please kindly support me by streaming my new music, it's the best song released this year. Link below

https://audiomack.com/dbullofficial/song/dbull-complain

If you want to watch the 2018 clip of my performance at the glo event you can check it on my I g page, link here

www.instagram.com/dbullofficial

KillMNKnow:
and who do you pray to.. Which God do you believe in?

KillMNKnow:
Ok

The Eke-Obinagu road market has in the recent time brought about perennial traffic congestion, made worse with the menace of petroleum tankers and which in several cases resulted to road crashes, including the recent death of the Ebonyi state commissioner for Infrastructure, Engr. Fidelis Nweze.

WeRblessed:
I have a prophecy to make for Nigerians.

Buhari is getting ready to go on a two thousand years vacation,

This vacation is different from what he usually goes.
His vice will become the president of Nigerian.
The military will try to fight him but will not succeed.

Osinbajo's COAS is coming from the SW
Yoruba will take over NNPC and customs
Igbo man will be COAFS

Osinbajo will grant Biafra's refferendum

Betty1000:
Good day Nairalanders,

My fiance proposed to me three months ago. Before that, we were in a relationship for six months. Everything seemed perfect, he has been good to me and I never had any reason to doubt him.

Last week, a friend of mine told me that she heard my fiance has a son and she already verified this information before telling me. At first, I was hesitant until she showed me pictures of the boy, he looks exactly like my fiance. So I decided to go deeper and found out that my fiance is indeed the father of the child.

I confronted him and he accepted that the son is his but he has no relationship with the mother anymore and he planned to tell me before the wedding.

I'm heartbroken because before I agreed to date him, I asked him if he has been married in the past or has children, he said no.

I don't trust him anymore. I feel like I have been deceived because not even his family members told me, I am close to his sister but she never opened up to me.

We have everything planned, in fact, we have our wedding card sent out to everybody. The wedding is in July.

He has sent his friends and family to beg but I don't trust him anymore.

My family has assured me that any decision I make, they would support it.

How do I call off this wedding without going through the embarrassment?

I'm so confused.