Upon it all they will still say Yorubas hate Igbos.

Corridon:
I'm still with the 2k they shared. I was there live.

That Tinubu must be very rich to have paid this crowd 2k each.

Obi is definitely been threatened by Ashiwaju candidacy. See a man that has been jumping from one church to another, a known religion an ethnic bigot

Igbos killing igbos, small time they will blame Buhari.

People from a certain tribe displaying their toxicity both within Nigeria and outside. They are so much infested with hate that they can't hide anywhere.

Peter Lienus Obi just like being in the spotlight. Is it EU that will vote for him in 2023?

He's truly senseless and arrogant. A man that sleeps with his wife's maid.

Thank God this did not happen in Lagos or any part of the SW, they would have accused Tinubu of sending his boys.

So, Miyeyti Allah can beg. I thought all they know to do is to threaten everyone as if they own Nigeria.

I will accept the offer on the condition that the money is paid before she embark on the adventure. Once cash is paid I will release her and that ends the marriage.

07kjb:
Talk to her that it is not all rosy as she thinks

Never cut a good relationship with your blood

If the blood is an enemy of progress is better you cut the relationship, achieve your purpose in life then mend up the relationship.

See the height of blackmail Peter Obi supporters has entered, even their little kids in politics of hate.

If Obi and his supporters are confident of winning they don't need to beg old men.

Even if you bring all families and your generation to kneel Obi must face election.

This is part of Tinubu vision for the new Lagos, he's bring a new vision for new Nigeria.

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Obi is the rapture now, churches now preaches about Peter Obi, Jesus has been put in the church boat to sleep now.

Nigeria can never win if Obi wins. Let me tell what will happen if Peter Obi win the election though he will not win.

If Peter Obi wins the election, Nigeria Treasury will be Pandora, Nigeria find will be stolen to invest in beer and other family businesses, IPOB wins, UGM will take over every part of Nigeria.

Does Igbo youth listen to or respect their elders?

Am just asking though.

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

See mumu post and mumu question. No don't take a bow, die there. Mr mumu.

I see a major break up

Lastborn0074:
Please I need honest suggestions. My wife has had several male platonic friends ever since we met. She became friends with others through me. I trusted her because she's a very sociable person, so I wasn't bothered because I know a lot of ladies that have male friends too. She's been open to me about them.

Recently, something happened. A close female friend of hers (also married) started keeping her at arm's length. My wife didn't know what the problem was until information got to her that this friend of hers was going about telling people that she could no longer be friends with her because she's sleeping around with men indiscriminately.

My wife confronted her with this information, for which she denied. But the informant, who was also invited, insisted that she actually said it. Before this time, my wife would always complain that each time she visits her friend, she would knock on the door but nobody would respond. This happened repeatedly until her tenant told my wife in confidence that his landlady was always around each time she visits.

Recently, I discovered that my wife was actually having amorous relationship with her male friends. I have access to her messeinger and I have seen those amorous chats. She would delete the ones that could implicate her. A male friend of hers even sent her adult videos and she told him to send more, that she was enjoying it. This man went further to send her his masturbation video.

I confronted my wife with these and what people told me, but she denied. After putting much pressure on her, she said she was about to do it, not that she actually did it. I asked her the reason and she said that it was because of the hardship we were facing. Since her business collapsed, it's been very difficult to survive with our four children. I'm the only one fending for the family. Even after confronting her, I discovered that she's still into the act.

Given the above scenario, what should I do? Please I want only healthy comments that will help me make my decision. Thanks.

The case and the state of your wife is like a dog that is destined to go astray that won't pay attention to the whistle of the hunter. You can't stop her at this point because if she has started sleeping around she's determined to do it except for these few measures.

1. Improve on your income

2. Report her to her family and yours

3. Exercise your authority over her to delete those contacts, seize her phone, destroy her sim cards and get her deactivate her social media accounts even though she may have to get new ones. Don't forget to deactivate her Google Account.

And Atiku see it as what?

You see them, they came from the SE to commit crimes in lagos and still abuses and blame Tinubu.

People wonder why Peter Obi is such a liar. Lies and falsehood runs in their blood. If 10 news is coming from an igbo man hardly will you find 2 that is true.

See their names o, and an dem their families dey shout pass say Tinubu an ex drug dealer.

H0711:
I got married two months ago. I am 7 months pregnant my husband didn't tell me he had a child from his previous relationship and the child has a disability celebral palsy. Her mother came to dropped her off in my house saying she has done enough and she's tired it is now hubby turn to take care of her.

The child can't do anything for herself she can't sit, talk, walk and she does toilet in her clothes. I can't do it anymore I love children because I have taken care of my own nieces and nephews before I would have taken care of her if she was normal but taking care of a child in this question is hard and if her own mother has had enough she abandoned her and why would I kill myself taking care of her in my condition.

I want to divorce and go back to my village I have told him i am leaving next month. He is pleading with me not to leave him that he will take the child somewhere else but the place is not free he has to be paying like 200k monthly for them to take care of the child and he doesn't even have that amount of money because he is not financial stable.

I will stick to my decision but I want to know what will other people do in my situation.

Anybody advising you not to quit do not have idea of the situation you are in. Taking care of a cerebral palsy child is a whole lot of burden. Your decision to leave is in order.

Nothing will happen. Ohanaeze is a toothless dog.

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Obi joining the party will resolve the issues,same way he will resolve Nigeria issues when he becomes President

I guess same way he resolved the issue in APGA.

FFK is a fool

There's no need for the protest. The protesting delegates has one votes as every other delegates, they should use their votes to prove their point.

Whiteangel1234:
Seems finally Ndi Igbo have hijacked APC party

In 2015 Ndi Igbo voted for Our South South Brother they accuse us of being emotional and not sophisticated

Fast forward to 2022 we decide to play National politics and adopt Ahmad Lawan , they accuse us of being selfish

Wetin Igbo man do for this 9ja?

Igbos prefers to remain slaves to the Fulani masters than to lead.

I have experienced it too and still under treatment but I am over 80% recover hopefully as I complete the treatment I will be back on too of my game.

The advice is that don't try any self help medication, just go and see an experienced gynaecologist.

julie90:
I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.

Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.

Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.

I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.

I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.

This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.

Is it now a crime for a woman to be ambitious?

Let him be, for now, he's just feeling insecure. If you still love him space, he will come back. But don't drop the job you got because of any man.