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I want to take this Opportunity to Apologise to All Igbo People. When I saw the headline, I was already saying how mean Igbo Women are, only to find out the Perpetrator is a Yoruba Woman. I Hope you all find it in your Heart to forgive me. Ps. This Apology is for Igbo Women only.

arewafederation:
After the usual arrogance exhibited by the "Eze-flatthead", one would expect an outright expulsion of all Ibo traders to their erosion ravaged lands, but the Oba is willing to forgive the ibos with these very mild conditions.

Deji of Akure is a very merciful Oba.

Ohaneze Ndigbo should reciprocate this kind gesture by sending at least 1000 redcap wrapper-tying Chiefs from SE to come prostrate and show appreciation to the Oba for averting a possible population explosion in the South East.

If Yoruba expel them who will sell Us Generators and car Parts abi are we suppose go to Asaba to go buy fuel pump for our cars ni. Leave the Igbos o Ejo. Just put them in Check .

The boys father Just died and they are Doing Wedding and Smiling all over the Place. When I lost my father I was not Well for 4months, even my Junior Brother Postpone his Wedding to 8months later.

I wonder when Lagos will get reed of this Omo onile syndrome. It's so bad that you can't tiles your house or raise your fence without giving them money. That is exertion

fart:
Rutgers is a top school. Where you there for grad school? How did you finance yourself? What score did you get on the GMAT?

Lol my X was the one in Rutgers, the incident happened back in 2002. I graduated from Umass Way back in 2000. Am an old man lol.

Fmartin:
Hmm... My girl friend is HIV/AIDS positive and we are into relationship not up to a month.

Though we have never had any coitus. She loves me soo much as do i.


It has not being confirmed in any of the laboratory that she is HIV/AIDS positive. But a reliable source close to her affirm to me that she is a victim. Yes! I would have Carried out a test for her but if she refuses the test, my relationship with her will be retarded. Because i will conclude that she is really HIV/AIDS positive.

Actually i don't want her to feel as being stigmatize if she realizes I know about her predicament and at same time not being close to her as before. Am a health worker, and I have also seen series of HIV/AIDS signs and symptoms on her.

Please nairalanders, I need your solemn advice. (advices..hehe) should I try and conduct a test for her or just quit the relationship?

And if am to quit the relationship, how do I convince her? Love y'all.

If you have not slept With her just tell her because you are a health Work, you will like both of you to do a test together, so that your relationship will not have any Old back. Don't tell her you know or that someone told you, just tell her u do test with everyone you date. If she refuses then she's a wicked person and you have no need to stay with her, she will infect you. You life is more important than Love, you will love someone else next month.

Imhotep007:
You nailed it! For those saying the man is heartless, you are not in his shoes. The experience was traumatic for both albeit at different levels. What he does need to do is recognize he has a problem, seek counseling/therapy to work through it. If he does that, there is a chance their marriage can be salvaged. What he shouldn't do is walk out on her because the trauma will likely affect subsequent relationships unless he deals with the problem.

Finally a sensible Nigerian. The Man need seriously Counseling not a Pastor. A professional. I was Robbed at Rutgers university Parking lot with my X gf once. No one was raped, but our relationship didnt make the Experience. She felt I should have done more, I felt her flashyness attracted them.

Manager123:
This happened to my Big Sis. (though not blood related) she's a Sister to me. I was one of her bridal train.

After four years of marriage with a child(3 years) armed robbers came to their home. They loot away all of their valuables and raped her (three of them). Her husband was made to watch the whole show.
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She was taken to the hospital and properly treated. And she was back to normal, No STDs.
But ever since, (it's been over 6 months now) her husband have refused to 'Touch' her.
When he was confronted, he said he couldn't bear to sleep with her after having to watch another man Making love to her. The family had set in but all to no avail.

Now, she's feeling miserable and even wish the robbers had killed her. I feel very upset and sorry for her.
Mummys and Daddys in the house, any advice on how to overcome this
Has anyone experience such
Please help, your advice are needed.

Cc. Lalasticlala, Dominique Abeg do the needful.

Don't blame the man , he's traumatized by the Experience. It's not about any man touching his wife. Touching her bring back the painful memory. He felt like he couldn't protect his family and in his mind his manhood is question. He needs serious counseling.

You can always trust an Igbo man to Employ everyone in his Village at NNPC, only Yorubas are Dumb enough to Hire from different tribes because they don't have unity

What you people don't understand, the Company's bought the rice together in other to save cost, the more they buy the cheaper the Price. Some company are already Established and they can sell their products for more money.

This man once dress like a Woman to escape England, when I see he's body I will believe he's dead. Maybe he faked his death to Escape prosecution

The Sun is the only News paper that write opinion like it's facts. Can never spend my kobo buying that Blog call News paper.

Calebsky:
Very typical of an average Niger deltan, especially the ijaw political class.

Must of them Grow up Poor, Democracy Made them Rich. All the Enjoyment them missed out on as a child, the live it up as an Adult.

OrlandoOwoh:
Rubbish! Why do people just like matùrbating over Tinubu?

Because Tinubu have the Biggest D!ck , so the sissy wailers must Masturbate over him

This Idiot of a writer used up 4 PARAGRAPHS for introduction. I lost interest at PARAGRAPH 5 someone please summarize.

The Man Enjoyed and he made a lot of runz girls rich, by givien them State Contract. He was the Best Maga that ever liveth.

Anyone who believe this Sh!t is an Idiot. Sun must be own by PDP

ashmanpolo:
This girl in my area was hanging out with my friends and then she started bitching on me. That she hates me. I like forming. "Everytime he's dressing like an Americana and he doesn't even greet people" That, what am I even feeling like sef?

"Why is he not with you guys today? I always see him here everyday, drinking Heineken and always Laughing out Loud with y'all" She told my friends as she feigned obsessed.

The next day my friends told me about all the swearing so I saw her some days later and greeted her first. The girl is quite pretty BUT not my Speck. I don't do 'yellow paw-paw'. I started the conversation this way:
"Halo swit, my name's Ashman. You' so beautiful"
The young girl started laughing. Every word I said was countered with laughter.
"Are you laughing at me?"
She stopped, whipped her face. Looked straight into my eyes and said:

"I'm laughing because you don't even know how long I've been trying to get your attention" whew!!! I was flattered. For once in my life I felt like the Emperor of Rome. BUT one thing was sure, I can't date this girl. No NEVER.
We exchanged contacts and it's barely two weeks, she walked up to me and handed a parcel to me. "I got this for you"

I got home and opened it this morning. I swear, I saw a brand new Swatch wrist watch; Original Malizia Perfume and a foreign Pee-Jay. That girl must have spent an estimate of 30k. Right now I feel perplexed. I really don't need such gifts from a girl I can NEVER date. I mean NEVER and I also wouldn't want to be indebted to her.

'I know this kinda girls. If they fall in love, e don be for you na. They will remain in your life like Mount Zion that can never be moved. Love go taya you na'

How do I politely return her gifts.
Thanks. Mature responses needed asap.

CC: Farano
Lalasticlala
Ishilove

No mind all this yeye people with no Experience. Just tell the girl that you Just met her and you can't accept gift from her yet. Tell her once you know each other well it should be fine. Samba the girl Toto , you might be surprise she's got more to offer you

androidroot:
This should be Alligator

Nigeria don't have alligators only Crocodiles

Uniqueness01:

What could that be

It's a Crocodile

wasak:
We started dating in 2011 after a year of asking her out. I just love her naturally not for anything. Admittedly, her stubbornness might be partly due to my over pampering at the initial stage of our relationship, I was naive but I think 4 years is actually a long time for the love to be balanced. At every point in time she claims she loves me more, but no evidence whatsoever to show for it. I don't want to venture into crazy things I've done for her, that's a story for another day.
It appears she takes delight in frustrating me due to my simple nature, actually I can be stubborn too, but not with regards to relationship because I believe it's all about compromise. She's inconsiderate and selfish, always wants to have her way at all time even though I have to sacrifice my convenience for her umpteen times. I'm scared of settling down with a woman who'll finally kill me, I love her no doubt. But it appears love is not enough. Someone talk to me pls

So why are you with her?

JAZES:
This list comprises of Nigerian A list Musicians who don’t joke

with their ‘MACHINES’ and they are ready to spend any amount to acquire them…..After all is their money., abi na your money?…lol

Most of these guys started from ground level or from nothing but work hard to get to where they are today

and trust me they know how to spoil themselves because ” they work hard and then ball hard”.

They don’t drive cars in heaven, good cars are made here on earth to be used by man….so guys whatever you are doing now keep at it till you can spoil yourself with good things here on earth.

So how about you inspire yourself and enjoy the list we compiled of your favorite Nigerian artistes and the expensive fleet of cars they own.

1. Davido
One of the most popular celebrity on our list is one who has quite a fleet of cars in his garage.
The “Aye” crooner, who has a flair for luxurious living reportedly has over six exotic vehicles.
The super star has a
1. Mercedes G-Wagon worth N30M- $150.8k
2. 2015 Range Rover Sport SUV worth N35M – $175.9
3. 2012 Audi Q7 worth N10M – $50.3k
4. Chevrolet Camaro worth N6M – $30.2k
5. 2012 Honda accord worth N5M
6. Porsche Turbo worth N22M – $110.6k

Talk about luxury!

http://onlineleaks247.com/index.php/2015/10/04/top-12-nigerian-musicians-with-expensive-fleet-of-cars-in-their-garage-pictures/

In Which Country in Range Rover sport 175$ dollars? Google is your Friend, ask and you shall receive

uselessgoat:
R.I.H

ROT IN HELL

It's your mothers That will rot in Hell oloshi.

He Was A great Police officers, his Name send shivers down armed Robbers body. You Will Surely be Missed Broda Tunde

tido77:
I am limping between decisions, I need your piece of advice to buoy my wobbling senses. A well educated lady is in my radar, I like ladies that control grammar very well, in fact I am a sucker for such ladies. This my lady controls grammar so well and she is beautiful, a graduate.

Now, I also have a young lady that comes around, and I observed that they are both different in manners. She is not a graduate, she stopped at secondary school level due to finance problem.

When this not so schooled lady comes around she always notices disorganized things and would arrange them, would notice dirty floor and mop up,wash dirty dishes etc. She would not greet me without bending her left knee slightly to show respect. She is not as beautiful as the educated lady though.

The graduate lady do none of these things, all we do is just gist.

Lately the school cert lady makes me feel the warmth of a caring lady, I am beginning to notice her more.

I am a graduate with tastes, I don't know what I want again, I am confused, somebody advise.

My Guy sounds like you are Confused, listen you can not marry someone that's not educated because she cook n clean, you can always get a house keeper for that. Your other options is pay attention to the why your educated girl friend treat people around her, because done the line when you get use to each other in marriage that's how she will be treating you. You can take your time and look for an Educated girl with Good homely personality that you like

VickJames:
Do you think so?

If you think I think so then you believe everything you read.

Why some African Country because a Country I will never understand, this is 2015 for God sake. If you can't give your people Electric in 2015 then you have no business being a Country.

VickJames:
An errand boy will always be an errand boy. A governor having more say than a vice-president shows the inability of the vice-president to maintain his status as the vice-president.

His charisma doesn't even show a man that can be respected nor feared. For Saraki to call him "mere commissioner" shows how people in APC see him, a puppet.
They see him as Tinubu's baby.

The only thing we see or hear about him are:

1. Going to IDP's
2. Visiting countries with no clear intentions.
3. Visiting universities to lie to students about invisible 5000naira.

When you look at the ways they have treated this man since the beginning of this tenure, you'll know that if the vice-president wants to come out as a president, he will be pushed to the corner and will not garner a vote.

A good lawyer doesn't make you a powerful man. Power and law are from two different worlds. The powerful give laws, while the lawyers quote the powerful.

Why do Easterner always believe everything they are told. Yeah Jonathan is the greatest President that ever lived..... Clearly everyone know the article is Just Tabloid press to sell paper. And speculation.

If the constitution and the political behaviour of Nigerians had allowed it, Buhari could have preferred to have a Northern Muslim as his vice president, just as he did when he and the late Major General Tunde Idiagbon, a fellow Fulani Muslim, paired for head of state and deputy in 1984. But for political expediency and to brighten his electoral chances, Prof. Osinbajo, a Christian cleric, was ‘foisted” on him. I remember the day Osinbajo was unveiled as Buhari’s VP late in 2014. He said he was “proud” to be Buhari’s running mate.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/el-rufai-insults-osinbajo-deja-vu/[/quote]The Fact that this guy Called Tunde Idiagbon a Dukakis Muslim, Means he doesn't know anything about politics, he's Just Writing a Tabloid Rumor. There Was never a rumor about Vp Osinbajo and Govt Elrufia.

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

Find out why Shes leaving you for another man 1st then decide if you want to Win her back. If the love who she's getting married to don't bother

Uchexxy:
I almost cried as I read the first few paragraphs, especially when he said our fair share of d national cake? Hausa ppl have been feeding off u for a long time and d idiot is talking of fair share. the only thing ndigbo will get from Nigeria is d peanut which d British have told buhari to give u lots to keep people like okechukwu talking trash. he even said it will be our turn to produce a president in nigeria, when was d last time it was our turn? or it takes 55years for us to get a turn bunch of money grubbing pri.cks. my fellow igbo youths, u people should look into the matter carefully and decide within your hearts what is really best. presidency kor, 55yrs for a turn ni. mtcheeeeeeew

Ignoring will never be the President. Everyone know they will loot the Treasury, even igbos will not benefit from an Igbo president. He and his friends alone will get rich.