₦airaland Forum

kunyeo:
Where does Dangote make bulk of his profit? SW! Yet no university in the region deserves anything. Quite unfair.

emmatok:
Their is noting like unconditional love in a my relationship.

Azibalua:
There's peace in this nation in every nook and cranny
The educational sector is getting better
Everyone has access to the gospel
Our leaders are operating with the wisdom of god in the affairs of the country
Prosperity abounds to us

emmatok:
What man will be running  around hospitals for fertility test after three Kids.

okz8:
Jenny, I accept all the blame on this issue. it's all my fault, if only I have the type of sense I have now when I married him maybe I won't find myself in this condition. we met when I went to stay with my aunt for holiday and it happened that they were staying in the same compound. when i met him and his kids, his only son that happened to be the last fell in love with me, he was such a young loving boy. prior to that I had one guy I was dating which later impregnated another girl. my husband is a very nice man and then been my first man and the fact that I felt if I don't marry him the boy will suffer. I decided to go ahead. we have our differences and even sometimes I feel like leaving him to start my life all over again but i don't have the courage. somebody said earlier that I married him because of his money, that's not true because he is just a civil servant.  The question of why did I marry him, I will say I married him because I feel I have very strong love for him and the children and if I leave those lovely kids, another woman might maltreat them. Then I thought that's alone is enough reason to marry, now I know better.

mutter:
debrief, I did not in anyway attack you personality and as you did write, I have a right to my opinion, even if it is about you.
Besides succumbing was referring to all options not just cheating.

debrief08:
I clearly stated that there are options but she musnt work herself into depression. I cant stop you if you feel you are right to attack my person and not my oppinion, I can only tell you I dont find it nice. i have made my point feel free to attack me if it pleases you

enyojo:
[s]MY-PASTOR-BETA-PASS-UR-OWN SYNDROME[/s]

mutter:
You know the feeling!! The tears each month when the flow begins after you must have dug your hands up there a million times to see if it started.

mutter:
dare2think
for better for worse
not for best for worst and certainly not for better for hell.

mutter:
My dear some people would advice you to pray, others to go discreetly and look for a Fluid donor outside (free of charge) the option is yours.

If i were the husband I would close an eye and let you fulfil your dream, he probably has three times already.

okz8:
@all thanks. Jenny, my doctor told me that the sickness that leads to him having low Fluid count might have started after he had the children, that was the reason for the test in the first instance. The problem is not with the children as they are very wonderful and can't even do without me. I really love them and I have never treated them like my step children but I still want to have my own children.

Kutey:
Or where your fellow monkeys joined you in quoting jigga (ignorant idiots use rappers as references) rather than people that actually have successful relationships and families. Thats why the babymamas continue to breed things that are more close to animals than humans prone to violence because they have no fathers or good examples in their life.

FXKing2012:
I'm not comfortable with a Christian brother coming out in public to claim or try to show himself as better than another Christian brother , such sows seed of division in the Body of Christ.

Pastor AIO:
Joe Igbokwe spoke the most sense.  Nigerians, it seems, are not aware of how interdependent they are.  The south cannot survive without the north either.  Where is the south going to get it's food from?  Abi na oil dem wan chop?  

These issues are exposing nigeria's pastors for the fakes they are.  The most disgusting is that Oyedepo guy.  I used to think the worst was Adeboye but my disgust is shifting to Oyedepo.  What an ignorant rodent!!

chaircover:
At 20 this boy will probably live with you for the next 5 or so years before he gets married himself.

You have a choice; you can live like cat and mouse and gradually go mad from constant strife and erode your marriage or you can do what I do and that is to befried all my husbands aburos. I am so friendly with them that they will feel uncomfortable doing any wrong. Of course they are decent people to start with. They all have nicknames and I joke, play and tease them a lot and I tell you that they all more than happy to do things and bend backwards for me.

They tell me things that they wouldnt even tell their brother and I also seriously advise them. They are like my own brothers. They are not going anywhere so I have a choice on whether to embrace them and we live in peace and see them as welcome additions or I push them away and the day I need them they are not there for me too.

No one is perfect and there will be a few people that will drive you to distraction, but I came to understand that they are family ad they are going no where just as a few people in my family probably drive my own husband cray too 

Please be wise. Whatever you sow in the early years of your marriage will be reaped later on.

I know of a girl in your situation whose husband was living with 3 kid siblings and she was married into the house. She took the "I am the wife and oga in this house" stance and the marriage broke up within 11 months. She was the one who moved out last last. The siblings and the husband have all remarried and living their lives while she is still looking for Mr Right all these years later.

Sam Milla:
@debrief08
offering this lady the kind of advice she wants will make her become hostile to the boy. I believe she wants her husband to drive the boy out of the house.Typical wicked nigerian unfaithful ladies. We know ourselves, i am sure the boy will tell us a different story if he shows up on this thread. People dont just hate people, something usually causes hatred. Before i give a useful advice based on experience, the lady must tell us the full story.

Sam Milla:
Hahahahahahahaha! You tell your husband and he tells you to KEEP QUIET. Nice , that means you left a huge chunk of the story out. Especially the part where we should have blamed you. Since you told the story in a way that we can only condemn the poor little guy, and crownd it by telling us that your husband who brought you to south africa never said or did anything to the boy, i must say that you are even more wicked than you know. Liaaar.

buzugee:
Those poor sickly children in ethiopia are recieving judgement for their past sins. the ethiopians are the ancient babylonians and nebucadnezzer was one of their kings. they had the israelites in slavery for 70 years and were very cruel to them. those children house spirits that are thousands of years old. just cuz you are a 5 year old child does not mean your spirit is 5 years old. spirits are recycled into new bodies every 3rd or 4th generation. john 9 vs 1-3.