₦airaland Forum

TrackerSK:
Why are Nigerians this wicked?This is another man's loss here .The person that have this beer will be groaning in loses.And these idiots are just here drinking the rest

Make man drink forget Naija problem fes

oz4real83:
Behind this issue will be another "strong woman" that wants to 'enjoy' what the wife has been "enjoying", this is a typical scenario of the voice of Jacob but the hand of Esau. Women have always been the enemies of other women

I agree with you, absolutely 😂😂😂😂😂

tochez24:
From ALL indications, your wife doesn't LOVE you⚠️⚠️⚠️

You MOST likely bought her over with money.... You see, with women it's not about money!! If a woman doesn't love she doesn't love you, she can still open her legs for you.. but she wouldn't show you that love and tender care women are naturally known for!!

I'm not even sure your kids are yours, and please forget about her praying life style (rev fathers still Bleep rev sisters everyday). If not for your money, your wife would have left long ago, is that the woman you wanna spend the rest of your life with

My advice:

1. Halt any holidays and family get togethers for now, stop showing your wife love, stop loving who doesn't love YOU, man up and start giving her the silent treatment she dishes out to you... Ignore her like she ignores you!!!

2. Take all your kids for DNA test asap, if any of them is not yours.... File for a divorce and get rid of her immediately.

3. Start seeing that your colleague if you truly feel a connection with her( your happiness matters )

🚶🏾‍♂️🚶🏾‍♂️🚶🏾‍♂️🚶🏾‍♂️

He shouldn't do 3. He should focus on his kids instead. That's is after the DNA

Savedday2:
Oh! I pity this guy. You never know 9ja girls! They are very good in hiding under religion to commit great havock.

Trust me, you wife is seriously cook something for you. Divorce her now before she will serve you what she is cooking.

Don't go to any councilor, they will only make you tolerate your wife till she finishes what she is cooking for you. Infact, let me tell you the truth, those children aren't yours.

If you are a married man out there, go and divorce you wife now before is too late.

The bottom line is that all 9ja girls are not marriageable. They are all ashawo. Some do it codedly others do it openly. Even the church girls, if you know how them they jump from prick to prick , fear go catch you.

That you haven't caught you wife/girlfriend doing ashawo work doesn't mean she is not an ashawo.

When was the last time you check those hookup apps?

U started well but ended up being a joke

tomi4life:
Not sure if this is the right forum, but I am unhappy, as I type this message, I think it is usually too late to cry when the head is cut off, but i will cry anyways.

I have been married for 6 years now and brethren it has not been easy, I think I married a wrong person, am not a perfect neither is she, i just think we are not compatible. There is is no love between us. Our values are different. Me and my wife dont get along, well.

We have just been tolerating each other. I only realize what i am missing because i recent caught feelings for this colleague of mine. So there is this colleague of mine, we have worked together for almost 2 years now but more related to work. I have started catching feelings for this girl o and it all started in a party we attend together. I know she too has feeling for me. I see it in her eyes. She comes to sit with me, and we talk about alot of private stuff. She tells me all that is happening in her life, i also do same. she knows I am married with kids but i am sure if i make a move she will agree. I never could imagine I will find myself in a situation, tempted to commit adultery. When i have a wife at home, this opened my eyes and push me to want resolved the relationship issue with my wife. I approached her some days ago to voice my concern that the marriage is not working, we dont communicate, there is no love, what can we do to resolve the matter. My wife said she is used to our situation. I asked what can we do differently and she says we shd go see a marriage counselor. I said fine but can we even discuss and she tells me she is tired she wants to sleep and then stops responding to me.

My wife prefers to sleep alone, despite me telling her we shd sleep together as a couple. if she is in the room and I come to the room she will immediately goes to the parlor, we rarely have body contact. The few times we have sex she never kisses even when i try, she puts her mouth away. Even in the car we can be on a drive for 1 hr, without mentioning a word to each other. Most times it is either the car radio or my kids that break the silence. What surprises me is she is very comfortable with it, you just see her on her phone. The only saving grace is I have a source of income and provide for the home that why she listens sometimes.

Reflecting back on if i had to opportunity i wont have married her, she has caused me alot of pain. she doesnt play that supportive role expected of a wife, she has this feminist tendency. She also has this ego issue and find it difficult to take feedback, whenever i raise an issue, she just get very upset and in many times it turns into a fight. There are days I fall sick, my wife no send o. Even cooking for me is like stress. She goes out without telling me, does things without getting my consent or even carrying me along. When she brings people to the house, she wont even introduce them to me as her husband. she doesnt send respect or regards me. I tell you an example of something that happened last year, we were travelling November last year to the UK on holidays with the children, because of our luggages we took two uber vehicles, I sat in one with my daughter, my wife sat in the other with my son. While on the way to the airport, do you know my wife asked the driver to take a detour to shoprite that she wants to give someone the left over stew and food items we had. Shoprite is not on the way to the airport, we had less than 2 hours to go for an intentional flight. It was me that noticed their car going a different direction, I had to call the uber driver to tell him to turn back immediately. When the uber guy came he told me he had asked my wife to mention it to me, but she said no need, I dont need to be told. We got to the airport while offloading the luggage from the car, my wife suddenly disappeared. I had 8 boxes , 2 children to move with. Thank God for those people that help with the luggage at the airport. I passed through customs and NDLEA and began to clear with the airline before she showed up. I was so mad, even a custom lady was yelling at her, how can you just disappear leaving your husband with all the loads and children. My wife didnt even apologize, she said she went to drop the food items with the person she asked to come to the airport, after i asked the uber driver to reroute to the airport. That is how disunited we are.


The good side is not cheating, and she is spiritual, she can go to church 10 times a week, currently serves in 2 units and hold leadership roles in those unit. I have told her if she give 20 percent of the time in church to our relationship and family we would be happier. The major complain she mentioned from my side is we shd go out together more often, she wants me to organize morning devotions, that we shd pray more with the children, this was something I believe her dad did when they were growing up, the experience is different for me. I have told her I will try. She also mentioned I like to complain, which is not true.

This whole thing is hitting me hard cos I dont want to cheat with my colleague and i just experienced a glimpse of what we shd be enjoying. I also have the chance of relocating to the Australia but i knw if we do, I will enter one chance.

Does anyone knw a good marriage counselor, that can be recommended, I saw one done by one of this popular pastor they are asking for $150 for a 1hour session, I also dont want to involve my family or her family.

I am tempted to just leave the house for 2 weeks and go stay in an hotel, but how will that help it will only make matters worse.

Download the book "secret of family happiness,". It's got all the answers u need. That's your best marriage counsellor. It's on JW.ORG

saphiere:
A fool like you thinks everyone worships celebrities. A fool like you will believe that everyone is moved by money.
A fool like you will not believe that a barber in Abj rejected Davido aid.
Nobody is a freak like you. Not everyone worship celebrities. Not everyone will do anything for fame or money.
God punish you and your entire generation.

Truth hurts. It hurts more when you are psychotic

immortalcrown:
Not the first of its kind.

You quote the Bible after deceiving your mother. A prodigal son.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

eedimo:
This guy made falling in love in 2006/2007 a pleasant adventure.

I remember how "Ogechi my girl..." was always on my lips and coincidentally na Ogechi been dey on board.

Wishing him well though

That stupid song abi?

fyzaila:
In your last post you said you were enjoying your marriage to the fullest, now watta gwan??

Exactly 😂😂😂

SyrusdeHansome:
Let's raise our hands to praise baba God while we begin with the song; "e go favour me and my family."

Baba go slow leave baba bulaba enter
e go favour me and my family.
Whether baba lick mic or baba tif money
e go still favour me and my family
Baba bullion van don move fuel from
#200 to #850
e go still favour me and my family
Baba get certificate or baba fake certificate
e go still favour me and my family
Baba move naira From #500 to#1500 per $
e go still favour me and my family
Baba sabi economics or baba no sabi
e go favour me and my family.
Amennnnnnnnnnn
Amennnnnnnnnnn.
Thank you.

A voice note would have done justice to that song. I was singing off tune😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

BlueStripper:
So sorry for your loss. I know how it feels because I have been there and lost a dog under such circumstances.

You just have to forgive and wish Ashley a peaceful rest in dog world.

😊😊 Thank you

ravensckar:
Looks more like a Crocodile tears to me.

That was how my wife was crying on our wedding day when she was escorted into the car to be taken to our honetown. She held on tight to her parents and refused to let go until my mum shouted at her.

In my mum's words; "stop all these pretentious tears, you've been coming to visit my son and had even spent weeks with us despite telling your parents that you're in school. If you don't stop all these drama now, I'll tell them the rest of the story...." My wife immediately wiped her tears and gently entered the car. How her tears magically dried up remained a mystery.


The very first advice that my mum gave me about marriage was to never be swayed by a woman's tears. In her words, it's "mere acting".

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Your mama suppose be egbon adugbo

Sabadon:


probably jumped through the space in between the burglary proof while chained. a sad way to go.

from the position of the chain dog died from decapitation not strangulation😥

If it died from decapitation, why is its head still on it's shoulders?

Denko2721987:
U just took these words straight outta my mouth.. Nigerians are very poor in logical analysis and this is part of this reason why we in this collosal mess as a nation and people..

I agree with you. Na sawdust full many of our heads

BlueStripper:
This is such a hard way to die.

If you are a dog lover, you will feel this pain to the bone.

Please give him a befitting burial.

Lost a dog under such circumstances. Till date, I cry in my heart that I could just have coincidentally travelled home that night and rescued her in the nick of time. I never forgave my mum and sis in my heart till date. I just act like.it didn't happen but I cry inside every time I remember that that was her last moment on earth. It's been more than 13 years and I'm still bitter about it. I felt like I failed Ashley, for being away in school

Nodogragra4me:
You guys should stop advertising your ignorance here....


50inch or 200inch is the same


Thr video format is what determines the data consumption


SD
G
HD
UHK
4K
8K
1MK


The videos are done by production companies with different formats.


The sizes are fixed so even if you down it and plug it with flash drive to your Almighty 50inche ultra ultra ultra the TV will still play it a downloaded. It won't recook it to a higher gig.


If you want to save data switch to SD OR HD

STOP SPREADING YOUR IGNORANCE AS KNOWLEDGE because of 50inch TV

I'm lost @ the bolden

Porksupplyib:
Nice one. Congrats to him. May his investment yield bountifully. Dem kuku don say plenty prayers on top the dog head already. 😆

Well, i truly hope Nigerians will learn that not all breeds of dogs are perfect for our climate here.
The huge fluffy coat (which is the true appeal of the Tibetan Mastiff) is very difficult to wear for the dog when it lands here in Nigeria. Tht coat is grown to insulate them from the extreme cold in their country of origin.

Only few Tibetan Mastiffs in Nigeria are really doing beautifully well.

So heat fit cook the dog. Chai

Obierika:
I'm sure they're professional dog breeders so they want to use the dog for stud services and charge money for it.

The dog sef no know say dem wan use am as sex slave

Nodogragra4me:
The size of the TV is inconsequential. It is the standard you decide to watch the movie that counts .....


There is standard
There hd
There is 4k


The same movie on the different standards requires different data with 4k eating more


For me , either standard or hd is enough and with 20g for 3k from Airtel you won't even finish It


How many hours do I have to invest in TV ....right now, nobody is at home including my kids

In the evening everybody just wants to eat and sleep


Basically TV is for Saturdays and Sundays relaxation

Oga with that 20gig, u won't finish half a movie series of 10 episodes.

Rich4god:
Even as a family, there is every tendency that you won't finish 40gb data in a month on streaming. And to get 40gb, ot cost averagely 10k.

On a 50 inch TV screen abi? Dey play

Rich4god:
I used a live football match app on my phone, then casted the view on my smart TV.

Apps like Yasine, livefooty and plenty others stream football live on your mobile phone.

Unfortunately, I don't think Nigeria has the device for casting Netflix on TV from phone

decatalyst:
You just dey discover say it saves cost to stream?

I have successfully stopped subscribing on GoTV since 6-7years now. Why did I stop?
I remember I subscribed that month and discovered that the channels didn't fully load. I called their contact center and I was told they have removed the channels.

The lady that picked the call sounded so nonchalant, and that the remover is their choice and no need to inform the customer. I stopped subscribing the next month. They have called me tire since then, offered me incentives and inducements, I haven't changed my decision.

Monthly, I simply activate MTN's 200GB on my 5G router and enjoy movies of choice, YouTube, football etc.

I like the be in control and doing streaming gives me control cuz I have not subscription running whether I watch or not. I can also control my data usage. Some months, nah 110GB I use, some 150GB and I just roll over the data.


Since I saw the increase in bouquet I just dey laugh 😄

How much is this MTN 200gig

Chicagograduate:
The accused should be compensated for illegal detention

What's illegal about his detention? Wasn't it pursuant to the order of the court, either as a result of him not been able to meet the bail conditions or the court refusing to grant him bail? Una go just dey open mouth dey vomit nonsense

illicit:
That IPO don collect riba

Messed up d case


🥵

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Zooposki:
Exactly what I said a few days ago and someone insulted me. 👇🏾👇🏾

Don't bother yourself about the insult. He's just another irredeemable f00lish illiterate

ForValour:
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FTC press ur neck dia🤣🤣🤣🤣

Sad

Efna55:
I have 20million naira saved from my remote job, I want to invest in properties or any physical business but the problem now is: I don't want my business to be destroyed by the government one day, anything can happen in Nigeria no matter the paper work you have, I initially wanted to save in crypto, but we know the crypto thing in the country..
What can I invest this money in, pls advice..

I have a 2.6bn property I would want u to look into. I assure u a turnover of 80m minus your capital of 20m

Arafat1:
Lol


Don't take out the pain of your miseducation on me.. Take your L and move

Such a pity

Arafat1:
When I said "the court", I didn't specify which..I meant it to cover all the courts which heard the matter

Yes the High Court is the first cost to rule on damages being the court of original Juridiction.. but the appellate courts can review both damages and costs award upward or downward depending on the facts of the case, as they have done in a plethora of cases

Furthermore, exemplary damages are imposed for the purpose of setting an example..Depending on the transgression, exemplary damages have no limits.. and my point is that the Courts won't have been out of line to slam PSquare with hefty exemplary damages that they won't recover from in their lifetime, because what they did was beyond despicable

As per costs, that's basically costs of litigation (appearance fees, professional fees, cost of coming to court by litigant, etc) , which in law they say costs follow events.. So. I know what I said when I said "damages" instead of costs.. There is no such thing as exemplary costs, but exemplary and even punitive damages.. So yes, I know the full import of my choice of words in my earlier comment.

Long story. The report said the Supreme Court. No dey misyarn

Arafat1:
A pyrrhic victory

After Mr Patrick has deducted his SAN's legal fees, and other monies he spent on logistics pursuing this case since 2011, I wonder how much he will have left.

This is one of the reasons why people have lost confidence in the Nigerian Judiciary. Justice delayed is almost always Justice denied

Even the PSquare guys are extremely wicked.. They couldn't pay off Mr Patrick when they failed to show up at his event after being paid, but they had money to pay lawyers to frustrate him and drag the matter right up to the Supreme Court ...

In this kind of situation, the court further awarding exemplary damages of like 300m against PSquare would have set a deterrent against such disgusting behaviour...

Isn't the award of damages within the purview of the trial court (i.e, the high Court)? If u are referring to award of cost, I would understand the choice of words but even at that, 300m for cost? Not a chance in hell