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Business › Re: Unilever Nigeria Stops Production, Sales Of Omo, Lux by davit: 10:03pm On Jan 19, 2024
No wonder sunlight is no longer in the market.
Sports › Re: Egypt Vs Ghana : AFCON 2023 (2 - 2) On 18th January 2024 by davit: 10:39pm On Jan 18, 2024
Ekpekus:
Like Inaiki like Bukari... Gifting Egypt free goals
So annoying
Politics › Re: I Will Support Tinubu Without Apologies – PDP Chieftain, Bwala by davit: 5:16am On Jan 11, 2024
Interesting days lie ahead.!
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Suspends Betta Edu, Minister Of Humanitarian Affairs by davit: 2:18pm On Jan 08, 2024
A listening President BAT
Phones › Re: Partial disconnection: Glo Subscribers To Be Barred From Calling MTN Lines - NCC by davit: 2:13pm On Jan 08, 2024
In a sane clime, Adenuga can never claim a rich man!
Celebrities › Re: Loved Up Video Of Davido And Chioma On Christmas Vacation At St Kitts And Nevis by davit: 9:05am On Jan 08, 2024
dinkyicon:
So the place is a tourist destination too? it's visa free for Nigeria
Guy, cost of airline fare to that place na war o
Crime › Re: Total War Against Name Checkers On Nairaland by davit: 12:19pm On Jan 07, 2024
So Seun Osewa, when will you make comments on Christian thread solely Christians as you did for Muslims?
Business › Re: FCCPC Imposes $110 Million Fine On British American Tobacco by davit: 8:27am On Jan 05, 2024
coolcharm:
Okay.

I read this article and I couldn't figure out a single infraction by BAT.

What is the definition of various infringements?

Don't we deserve to know?

The writer was just busy beating around the bush.

If their actions or inactions have directly endangered the health and lives of Nigerians, how will the fine address that?

Information like this is necessary Incase we want to take class action wink

Well, that's how we roll here.

2/10
Same here
Career › Re: Is 400k Job In Nigeria Worth Staying Or Should I Japa? by davit: 12:30pm On Jan 03, 2024
Rant of someone who can't live within his means.
Politics › Re: Clerk Of Rivers Assembly Says Hon Edison Ehie Was Not Elected Speaker by davit: 11:11am On Jan 03, 2024
AntiWailer:
Once u do honorable multiple times u are Rt Hon.
Says who.??
Politics › Re: Clerk Of Rivers Assembly Says Hon Edison Ehie Was Not Elected Speaker by davit: 8:45am On Jan 03, 2024
But you guys still referred to him as Rt Hon in your letter
Health › Re: I Am 39 Weeks And 5 Day Pregnant. What Do I Do To Induce Labour Naturally by davit: 8:58pm On Dec 30, 2023
Let your husband mate with you. Sperms work like miracle in such condition.
Family › Re: I Want To Cancel The Marriage Plans. Is It Worth It? by davit: 3:40pm On Dec 30, 2023
FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?
You just sounded like a simp. Is she doing you a favour for dating her? Cos that's the way your story sounds to me. Wake up guy.
Politics › Re: Plateau: We Lost 20 Church Members To Attackers While Preparing For Christmas… by davit: 3:04pm On Dec 30, 2023
This is totally bad. These Northern Muslims are animals.
Health › Re: Please Help I want to gain some weight by davit: 1:03pm On Dec 28, 2023
Go get pregnant. You get weight by force. Confused gender. Mtcheww
Food › Re: I Made This Chicken And Chips. Rate Me! (pics Ins.) by davit: 9:43am On Dec 27, 2023
2

Nexg time chop the chicken into pieces, add cream too (mayonnaise). Let the chips be shredded too.

Ire i
Politics › Re: BREAKING: Former House Of Assembly Speaker Is Dead by davit: 8:27am On Dec 27, 2023
House of Assembly? These bloggers sef
Sports › Re: Ahmed Musa Dragged For Wishing Christians 'Merry Christmas' by davit: 1:24pm On Dec 26, 2023
Myhusband:
many northern Muslim need to be admitted in psychiatric



one
No be lie. Very sick people.
Sports › Re: Ahmed Musa Dragged For Wishing Christians 'Merry Christmas' by davit:
I'm sure most of the replies he got would be from the northern muslims. So backward people.
Politics › Re: How Much Is Gas In Your Area Today? by davit: 9:34am On Dec 25, 2023
I just bought 990 per kg at Mobil, Osapa, Lekki
Properties › Re: Lagos State Government Removes Illegal Street Gates In Lekki Phase 1 by davit: 8:56pm On Dec 23, 2023
Long overdue
Autos › Re: *toyota Land Cruiser Prado Gx 2009 Model Used* Automatic Drive Sound Engine And by davit: 7:50pm On Dec 22, 2023
Still available?
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland Is Partially Back; A Work In Progress by davit: 1:52pm On Dec 21, 2023
This is your cash cow. Pay close and good attention to it Seun Osewa.
Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by davit: 10:06am On Dec 16, 2023
tojahh:
Which kind of life wey be this?


Imolé
Tojahh, Why this picture con resemble you like this? cool cool
Celebrities › Re: Yinka Ayefele’s Triplet Asks Why He Can't Stand by davit: 12:34pm On Dec 13, 2023
Kingbenn:
Everything happening in any celeb's house will finally end up on the social media as per say there nah dumping site. I no just get!

Shee him wan tell us say nah today be the first time wey dem go ask am? Yinka Ayefele, you big pass all this, leave all this childish behavior to Davido and the likes biko
Abi
Travel › Re: Diesel Tanker Catches Fire In Ojota (Photos) by davit: 12:52pm On Dec 04, 2023
It has been cleared.
Politics › Re: APC Wins ALL Seats In Ekiti LGA Polls by davit: 8:21am On Dec 04, 2023
Wow. PDP is getting buried gradually!
Travel › Re: Ogun Community, Igbosoro Laments Poor Condition Of Link Bridge by davit: 8:17am On Dec 04, 2023
Ogun has the worst road Network in Nigeria even with its great IGR. Damn bad.
Agriculture › Re: I Killed The Big Rat (okete) Eating Our Cocoa pods by davit: 7:05pm On Dec 01, 2023
Better meat.
Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by davit: 2:00pm On Dec 01, 2023
Those of you attacking Pearl don't understand his modus operandi. Pearl skips trips alot. He cherry picks requests. And if you do that, it is very much possible to gross what he grosses with the amount stated.

The only clause there is if you know how to come back on your score and the likes when you go down.

Ire ó!
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by davit: 5:29pm On Nov 29, 2023
Boyhood:
16.5% pa
Is this a Commercial Paper?

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