 Travel › Re: Traffic Gridlock As Truck Overturns On Otedola Bridge by dawnomike(m): 8:57am On Jan 23 |
I wonder what it is about this bridge that always make trucks and tankers to fall... |
| Celebrities › Re: Moment Ishowspeed’s Bodyguard Bundles Peller Away During Lagos Livestream by dawnomike(m): 7:36am On Jan 22 |
Well, you can not blame the bodyguard.... He had to do his job for security sake.
Peller's management team ought to have worked towards requesting a meet and greet session before such stunt. |
| Phones › Re: . by dawnomike(m): 10:34am On Jan 21 |
Nanauju2:
The specifications speaks for itself
5G network
Dual sim
Wi-Fi enabled
Quad Core processor
Android 15 OS
18GB+512GB memory
Keyboard pouch
Mouse
Super bright camera
Very large battery capacity
Different colors available
And many more
Price: 120k
Delivery worldwide! Where is your location and is it negotiable? |
| Sports › Re: Moroccan Politician Demands AFCON Final Referee Suspension by dawnomike(m): 8:43am On Jan 21 |
The tournament is over, the champions have lifted the trophy, they should all rest!!! |
| Pets › Re: I Caught This Big Owl This Morning by dawnomike(m): 9:57am On Jan 20 |
OriOko88:
Does anyone know where I can auction this big 🦉 owl? Today's early morning rain made it lose its bearing,so it was found hibernating at one corner of my compound.
I attempted to handle it but it fought back aggressively,so I used a basket to capture it.
What specie of owl is this? It's a big one. Can anyone buy it? Please, let the poor bird take it's flight at night in peace... |
| Sports › Re: Morocco Wins Fair Play Award In AFCON 2025 by dawnomike(m): 9:44am On Jan 20 |
Hehehe! Well, they can have the consolation award even though the world knows that from all the drama that came to play, the Morrocans were far from been fair in their play on and off the pitch!!! |
| Celebrities › Re: Leaked: Destiny Boy Mother's Voice Record Cursing Him Before He Passed On! by dawnomike(m): 9:42am On Jan 20 |
This is a conc yoruba curse accompanied by maternal congugal swesrings backed by Islamic religious ascertions!!!
This is more than any form traditional incartation at a deity shrine or spell cast by a Harry Portal like witch!!!
No matter the provocation...for no reason whatsoever, should a woman curse her own child!!! |
| Politics › Re: Nigeria’s Diversification Drive Pays Off As Non-oil Exports Break 50-Year Record by dawnomike(m): 9:37am On Jan 20 |
Sounds like a good news... We how the upward renegade continues and reflects in our economy at the long run. |
| Crime › Re: Twins Charged In Revenge Killing Of Man Who Forced Them To Strip On Camera by dawnomike(m): 6:27pm On Jan 19*. Modified: 11:52am On Jan 20 |
They carried the pain of the mockery for years till it turned into murder... |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: US Says Canada Will Regret Decision To Allow Chinese Evs Into Their Market by dawnomike(m): 7:53pm On Jan 18 |
Canada saw a cheaper full option and went for it |
| Sports › Re: AFCON 2025: Senegal Refuse To Train, Send Complaints To CAF Ahead Of Morocco Fin by dawnomike(m): 10:26am On Jan 17 |
They have started... There's no time to waste. |
| Celebrities › Re: Kolu Begs Carter Efe For ₦7m To Bail Portable by dawnomike(m): 8:29am On Jan 17 |
Na Kolu wan com help bro Portable las las!!!... By the way, how come portable is unable to raise 7m for his own bail?
And why is bail fee up to 7m? I thought bail was free!!! |
| Crime › Re: Anambra Police Rescue South African Returnee Abducted In Enugu by dawnomike(m): 8:08am On Jan 16 |
What a misleading report... Dude escaped and not rescued. |
| Family › Re: ‘i’m Not Your Father,’ Davido Rejects Alleged Daughter’s DNA Test Appeal by dawnomike(m): 5:45am On Jan 16 |
This is seriously crazy to say the least... Iz called attachè by coercion |
| Politics › Re: PMS: Importers Face N1.77trn Loss Over Marketers’ Preference For Local Products by dawnomike(m): 12:55pm On Jan 15 |
Importers will have no choice but to align eventually... We must support local production that fuels our economy and provides employment opportunities.
We can only hope Dangote will not turn up price on us later on. |
| Crime › Re: Photos Of Street Criminals Caught In South Africa And Their Weapons by dawnomike(m): 9:20am On Jan 15 |
Badt guys on da streetz |
| Sports › Re: Ghanian Referee Daniel Laryea Deactivates Instagram After Online Backlash By Nig by dawnomike(m): 9:18am On Jan 15 |
Lol... Baba had to japa from social media  |
| Sports › Re: Jose Mourinho Tips Morocco To Beat Super Eagles In Semi Final, Lift AFCON Title by dawnomike(m): 11:31am On Jan 14 |
Jose wants Nigerians to bombard his SM with comments... We are coming |
| Crime › Re: Missing Teenage Girls From Ebonyi Found In Anambra In Alleged Trafficking Case by dawnomike(m): 11:20am On Jan 14 |
All these traumas because someone somewhere wants to make money... |
| Family › Re: Can This Marriage Work? by dawnomike(m): 11:16pm On Jan 13 |
Nahimm:
I turned 29 about a month ago. I met my wife in the first quarter of 2024. We dated for a short period—about three months—before she became pregnant.
At that time, I was earning very little and living in a face-me-I-slap-you single-room apartment. My wife, on the other hand, was working, had a side hustle, and was also in her final year of a part-time academic program. She earned more than I did then. I was almost done with my own part-time program and was hopeful that completing it would help me secure a better job.
My wife is from the South-West, while I am from the Middle Belt. I loved her deeply and did not want anything to make her unhappy. I agreed to marry her, but I was not financially prepared for the traditional marriage list her father gave me. Because of the pregnancy and the need to be married before the baby was born, we opted for a court wedding.
After the baby was born, we moved into a one-room self-contained apartment. God helped me secure a new job, and my income improved, although it is still not enough to say I have full financial stability.
After childbirth, I began noticing many issues. I cannot say they were unusual because we had never lived together before—she only used to visit me occasionally. My wife comes from a family where her parents are separated. When we started living together, we experienced frequent misunderstandings. She was often unhappy, easily provoked, and at times verbally insulting toward me. I also noticed challenges with hygiene and other domestic concerns.
People around me advised that these behaviors might be related to postpartum changes, so I tried to be patient. At the time, I worked from home, assisted with household chores, and made conscious efforts to make her comfortable and happy, but it remained difficult.
Whenever we had issues, she would invite her mother and sometimes her mother’s friends into our home. They would speak in her language, which I do not fully understand, and she would describe me as wicked and complain about finances. At that period, I was indeed struggling financially. I had debts from securing the apartment, which cost close to two million naira, and although she also supported during that process, the financial pressure was intense.
My wife does not talk much, but when she does, her words are often very hurtful. She has made statements such as threatening to curse the water and salt she used to cook for me and calling me broke and proud. I overlooked many of these comments, believing they were influenced by postpartum stress.
One pattern that concerned me over time was laundry. She would not wash my clothes. Personally, I do not see washing my own clothes as a major issue, especially since we do not yet have a washing machine and I have time to do laundry. However, when I wash, I wash everyone’s clothes—hers, mine, and the baby’s, including her underwear. Over time, it became concerning that even when she did laundry, she would not wash my clothes unless I complained.
Financially, I give her close to ₦100,000 monthly, which is about 60% of my salary, to cover feeding and the baby’s needs. I also take care of other household bills. Hospital expenses are covered under my HMO.
Despite this, she often makes it seem as though the money I give her is insufficient and that she spends far more.
I have tried to communicate constructively. For example, I suggested that she buy food items in bulk instead of in small quantities, but she does not take this advice.
One issue that escalated matters significantly was intimacy. She often reacts aggressively when I touch her at night. I have tried explaining that I understand intimacy cannot happen all the time, but when she declines, I expect politeness rather than kicking, shouting, or asking me to leave her alone. On the rare occasions when she responds more calmly, she gives reasons such as needing to wake up early for business or to prepare the baby.
She sees her mother almost every day and regularly shares details of what happens in our home with her.
Last month, following a serious disagreement, she left our home with the baby and went to stay at her mother’s house. During efforts to resolve the issue, her mother told me several things I had not previously known, particularly complaints about the amount of money I give my wife. I eventually settled the issue by stretching myself financially to satisfy her family.
Despite my efforts, my wife did not return immediately. She stayed at her mother’s house for approximately one month and returned only when she decided to do so.
My own mother, who had not yet met my wife, initially encouraged me to be patient and make peace. She supported the steps I took to resolve the issue so my wife could return home. However, after I had done everything requested and my wife still delayed her return, my mother became more protective of me. She suggested that I relocate and inform my wife of my decision—if she agrees, we relocate together; if not, I should proceed alone.
My mother’s concern is that this pattern might repeat in the future, possibly many years later, where my wife might leave with the children, disrupting my life and delaying my progress.
I have not acted on my mother’s suggestion.
My wife has now returned, and things appear slightly better, but her manner of communication has not changed significantly. She remains very defensive and does not welcome open, healthy conversations. When I feel overwhelmed, I go silent to avoid becoming aggressive. She also tends to withdraw and remain quiet.
At present, I am focusing on improving myself, particularly financially.
At some point, I considered divorce and discussed it with her. However, our nine-month-old baby is a major concern for me, and I genuinely want a stable and healthy home for my family.
I would appreciate guidance on how to handle this situation. I am glad to know you're investing in yourself to get better financially. I pray fortune smiles on you soon. Please, her patient in your marriage and at the same time, do not be foolish to the point where you lose been the head of your home. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: How Do You Feel When A Male Doctor Attends To Your Wife During Child Labor by dawnomike(m): 11:02pm On Jan 13 |
At that moment, all that matters is the delivery of the baby and nothing more!!!
When labour pangs starts, na the woman go troway the wrapper by herself. |
| Crime › Re: Bello Turji Is Back! Orders Sokoto Villagers To Leave Their Homes Or Die (WATCH) by dawnomike(m): 3:01pm On Jan 13 |
Here we go again... Another repeat of the same drama |
| Car Talk › Re: Which of these cars would you advise I buy? by dawnomike(m): 2:57pm On Jan 13 |
donareal:
Hello
What do you guys thinks about these two cars as a first time buyer and driver.
The first is Peugeot 307 and the second is Toyota Corolla Obama.
Which would you advise I go for as Nigerian used and why?
My mind is tilted more to the Toyota Obama but I hear most of them usually develop electrical issue due to them being converted from right to left hand driving when they come in Nigeria. But the toyota corolla that was not converted and have peace! |
| Sports › Re: Caf Employ Moroccan Fan As Referee Against Nigeria by dawnomike(m): 9:53pm On Jan 12 |
Freshtruth:
Omo! 😰Anxiety Grip Nigerians As CAF Appoint C0ntroversial Dahane Beida For Morocco Vs Naija Clash🇳🇬🦅
Dahane Beida is a Mauritanian referee, and will officiate semifinal game between Morocco and Nigeria.
What you should know...🙆🏿♂️
(1) Beida was recently knocked out by fans who accused him of being partial in the Morocco game Vs Cameroon. Especially, as it appeared he denied Cameroonians a penalty after forward Mbeumo was brought down in the box.
(2) Few months ago, he was also alleged to have favoures Moroccan club RS Berkane to beat Simba of Tanzania in the Confederation Cup final.
More Interesting, Beida was also the official in charge of the 2023 AFCON final in Abidjan, where Nigeria lost 2-1 to hosts Cote d’Ivoire.
Should Nigerians be scared?🤦🏿♂️
#NPFLUpdates #WeReportYouDebunk
https://www.facebook.com/100066371726197/posts/pfbid0jHFJbMwrnkz1Jk333RUfMzqTbH1F6SuYLExhPtCwjBZHSBvxo8YFVYTMPXZPR8zrl/ Even if he becomes the 13th man of the Moroccan team, if we play well behind doubts; victory will be ours!!! |
| Politics › Re: Two Rivers Lawmakers Make U-Turn On Fubara's Impeachment Plot by dawnomike(m): 6:19pm On Jan 12 |
Alright... Good to know that common sense is gradually been dished out |
| Education › Re: Career Advice by dawnomike(m): 3:17am On Jan 11 |
Nosa0012:
So I'm a second class upper graduate of Uniben mechanical engineering and after school I knew suffer,so I dedicated a year and I was able to accumulate skills from the Google data analytics programme,learnt SQL,excel, tableau and python.
My aim was to build career skills in data analytics which I did .Now my parents wants to give me #20million to pursue a data analytics masters abroad .I don't know how to go about it,my preferences are Ireland,Scotland and Finland
I would appreciate all inputs,most especially on partial scholarship position and any other benefitial inputs 🙏 make use of applyboard.com. In case you get stucked at any point in navigating your way through, you can reach out. |
| Phone/Internet Market › Re: Swap My Laptop For A Phone by dawnomike(m): 8:18pm On Jan 10 |
miraclemas420:
I want to swap my Asus ROG Zephyrus G15 Nvidia 16gb ram for a phone
If you're interested let me know Samsung A55 5G |
| Literature › Re: My Girlfriend Stole My Generator, Can I Arrest Her? by dawnomike(m): 1:42pm On Jan 10 |
tonystark007:
My girlfriend was supposed to return from the village in the last week of January.
So yesterday, I was very Hot and decided to call one of my talking stages over.
She came and spent the night.
Very early the next morning, my babe started calling me. I didn’t want to pick up because I had lied to my talking stage that I was single.
So, I opened my WhatsApp to text my babe and ask why she was calling so early—only to see a message saying she was outside my house.
Ahhh!!!
I jumped out of bed and tiptoed to the sitting room because my talking stage was still asleep.
Thank God my generator was on. Since this new year, NEPA has been showing us shege, so I had bought 20k worth of fuel and filled my gen to give my talking stage a good time.
I called my babe and pretended I was still asleep. I told her she should have called before coming because I had travelled to Abeokuta and wouldn’t be back until night.
Next thing she said, “So who turned on your gen? And who is talking to me now in boxers?”
I turned and caught my babe peeping through the kitchen window.
Immediately, I dived flat on the floor, but it was too late. She had seen me.
I told her I didn’t know what she was talking about and hoped my friend hadn’t brought a woman into my house. I even asked her to take a picture and send it to me.
I was vibrating and swearing, saying this is why I don’t like giving my guys my key. I said if I found out he brought a woman to my bed, I’d never allow him or any of my friends into my house again.
My babe was quiet. When I finished, she asked, “Are you done?”
I didn’t reply.
She said, “So ur friend wears ur boxers? I saw u lie down flat with my two eyes. And I know u’re with a woman because u only put on ur generator when a woman is around.”
I still maintained my lie. I swore I wasn’t at home and that I was in Abeokuta.
She said, “Okay. Call your friend to open the door or send me his number.”
I said, “hello hello, mehn network is bad here o. Bae if you can hear me I can’t hear you. I’ll call u back.” Then I hung up.
As I was calculating my next move, my talking stage woke up and called my name from the bedroom.
I crawled inside quickly before she came to the sitting room, then stood up fast at the door so she wouldn’t see me crawling.
Omo, I was sweating. My heart was racing. I was going through a lot and this babe said she was Hot, she wants to knack again
Women can be very insensitive and wicked. Madam, read the room. There is fire on the mountain and you’re Hot.
Ahhh… Calabar girls and segz.
But as a sharp guy and a gentleman, I still had to play it safe and satisfy her.
I was thinking ahead: if my main babe broke up with me because of this, at least I’d still have this one as backup instead of losing two sure odds.
I told her to give me some time to sort out small pressing family issues.
Meanwhile, my babe was already knocking. Thank God for generator noise. The way my house is, unless you’re in the sitting room, you won’t hear anything from the bedroom.
Next thing, I got a WhatsApp message.
I went to the kitchen again, closed the curtain so she can’t peep again, and checked my phone.
She typed: “I’m taking your generator unless you come out. I’ll also take the girl’s slippers, so you better open the door.”
I thought she was joking.
Brothers and sisters, the next thing I knew, my generator went off.
I knew it couldn’t be fuel cos I had filled the tank the night before. So I waited to understand what was happening.
My talking stage came out and asked if fuel had finished. I said maybe the plug had burnt. She said it was fine, let’s just go and knack so she can go
Luckily for me, I was able to get my preeq up and stood on business.
When she went to the restroom, I called my useless security and asked if my babe was still around.
He said, “Ah oga, she don go o.”
I said what of my gen?
He said, “Ah, madam say you ask am to carry it go repair because the plug burn.”
I weak. Like who employed this incompetent man? How can you allow a woman carry my gen when I didn’t give you approval, and I’m at home o. U can call or come and ask me!
As for the missing slippers, I had to give my talking stage one of my girlfriend’s slippers and lie that it belonged to my sister. I even sent her money to buy a new one.
See why it’s very expensive to be a bad boy. It’s not easy for us. One lie leads to another and another. To be a bad boy and stand on business, you have to be very sharp and God fearing
After I saw my talking stage off, I prayed small, did the sign of the cross, and went to my babe’s place.
This girl locked my generator inside her house and told her security not to let me in.
There’s nothing I did not swear and beg this girl with. She refused to even come outside and reason with me
First, I told her it was a test to see how she’d react if I ever cheated, and that the girl was an actress.
When that didn’t work, I said it was a prank video and that when we came out to record her reaction, she had already left.
My babe is very stubborn, she didn’t believe me.
Now it’s been two weeks, and she still hasn’t returned my generator. I’m starting to suspect all this while she’s been eyeing it.
Haba. Ontop small cheat I cheat, she carried a whole generator. My new generator I got for Christmas.
Abeg, she’s not wife material. If I marry her, she can sell my house.
So now I’m confused.
Is this not stealing?
Should I arrest her or just let it go?
Please advise me.
The End
Ajebo Writer
©️Kingdavid Chinaeke Ofunne Thanks for making me laff 3 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Ex-Abia Governors Move To Sue Otti Over Operating From Private Residence (Video) by dawnomike(m): 6:45am On Jan 10 |
Jobless fellas... the governor chose to work remotely ratger than wprk from his official office. How is that their problem and how does he affalect the common man ? |
| Romance › Re: Share Your Experience Dating A Single Mother by dawnomike(m): 8:41pm On Jan 08 |
Sirchiboy:
Share your experience dating a single mother Meet a nice and well mannered single mother and you'll be grateful you did. Meet a mad One, and you'll nearly curse the day you were born!!! I believe so it is for every lady you meet... It all depends on the personality. |
| Properties › Re: Can Ceiling Fan Be Used With POP? by dawnomike(m): 8:39pm On Jan 08 |
Biodun556:
A client is insisting on using ceiling fan after the POP ceiling have been installed. Is it save to use ceiling fan? provided the hanger of there ceiling fan is not attached to there pop ceiling... the hanger should be attached to of of the roofing logs. Other than the above, it is a big NO!!! |
| Sports › Re: Nicknames Of African National Football Teams by dawnomike(m): 8:37pm On Jan 08 |
Redstorm:
Here are well-known nicknames of African national football teams, commonly used by fans, media, and CAF competitions:
🇳🇬 West Africa
Nigeria – Super Eagles
Ghana – Black Stars
Senegal – Lions of Teranga
Ivory Coast (Côte d’Ivoire) – The Elephants
Mali – Les Aigles (The Eagles)
Burkina Faso – Les Étalons (The Stallions)
Guinea – Syli Nationale (National Elephants)
Guinea-Bissau – Djurtus (Wild Dogs)
Sierra Leone – Leone Stars
Liberia – Lone Star
Gambia – Scorpions
Togo – Sparrow Hawks
Benin – Squirrels
Niger – Mena
Cape Verde – Blue Sharks
🇨🇲 Central Africa
Cameroon – Indomitable Lions
DR Congo – Leopards
Republic of Congo – Red Devils
Gabon – Panthers
Equatorial Guinea – National Thunder
Central African Republic – Wild Beasts
Chad – Les Sao
🇪🇬 North Africa
Egypt – The Pharaohs
Algeria – Desert Foxes
Morocco – Atlas Lions
Tunisia – Eagles of Carthage
Libya – Mediterranean Knights
Sudan – Falcons of Jediane
Mauritania – Lions of Chinguetti
🇿🇦 Southern Africa
South Africa – Bafana Bafana
Zambia – Chipolopolo (Copper Bullets)
Zimbabwe – Warriors
Angola – Palancas Negras (Black Antelopes)
Namibia – Brave Warriors
Botswana – Zebras
Eswatini (Swaziland) – King’s Shield
Lesotho – Likuena (Crocodiles)
🇰🇪 East Africa
Kenya – Harambee Stars
Uganda – The Cranes
Tanzania – Taifa Stars
Ethiopia – Walya Antelopes
Rwanda – Amavubi (The Wasps)
Burundi – Swallows
Somalia – Ocean Stars
Djibouti – Riverains de la Mer Rouge
Eritrea – Red Sea Boys Nice compilations... Some team names are absurd |
