PrayWills: Our court wedding was supposed to be on Friday. I caught her telling a married man I love you and calling each other all sweet names. I confronted her and she said she was telling of proving to me she was faithful that I should draw whatever conclusions I wanted to.
I went to work on Monday and came back and told her I wanted to pause the weeding until we could sort our issues and she said we should call it off totally.
As we speak she has moved back to her mom’s house with the two kids, what do I do?
PS: she was raised by a single mom
Move on my brother till you guys resolve the matter if it will ever get resolved
patrickdmitriy: Hello house. please I am in a state of Dilemma. My girlfriend told me she is pregnant, and we went for scan. it shows she is 5 weeks and 1 day pregnant today and we met exactly 4 weeks ago. today make it exactly 4 weeks. is it possible for me to be responsible she is someone I trust and hold In high esteem and I am trying to understand how it's possible because it doesn't make any sense to me.
It is possible as there is always an error margin of +/- 2weeks in pregnancy scans
Smartdoctor: Good evening guys, please I need an urgent legal advisors in the forum to assist my cousin brother. He had divorced and sent her wife back to the village for the past six months ago.
But the court asked him to be paying a certain amount of money monthly for the child's wellbeing which he has been doing.
But unfortunately the effect of the money has never been significant by looking at the physical appearance of the child.
He always sends relatives to check on the child of which several reports have reached him about how the boy is always been abandoned to be wandering about alone while the mother will be hanging out with friends.
What strucked him to his nerves was the recent report about the child been seriously sick and rumours that the mother now deals with several sexual partners while still breastfeeding the child.... He travelled from Abuja immediately to his hometown to retrieve the boy via court order but unfortunately the court denied him because the baby is believed to be too young at 1 year and 3 months old.
Now that the court had adjourned the case till 28th this month, he however decided to stay put in his hometown to treat the baby. The baby was taken to the hospital. the doctor took off his clothes and to our greatest suprise, the child's body looks so rough, rashes and boils all over her armpit down to his genital region.
Laboratory test was carried out and the report showed that the child have sexually transmitted infections. Fungi infection (,jock itch) and candidiasis.
All these evidences have been push to the judge phone and what we are afraid of, is the possibility of the judge cautioning her to take care of the child and allow her to continue taking the child's custody. Can he take the child forcefully after having all these evidences against the mother?
He has enought evidence to win custody of the boy already
Holawoyin: Pls house today make it 15 days my 3month old female dog isn’t parking yet and the level of fear 😧 she show if me or my mum coming with any objects she just run away like we are her enemies.even to eat she will be looking here and there ..pls what should i do?
Since your dog is still relatively young, it's still trainable. Try to play with your dog regularly. Dogs like to run, try to run alongside with your dog; this will creat a for of pack mentality in your dog and whereby it's always looking forward to see you for fun. Also, let your dog begin to exercise with jumping of obstacles and always reward it for every task achieved.
payaseriy: Febraury this year, my friend advised me to open a new business with 1 million nd that it will be profitable because of the location.
I have other business locations in abuja, lagos and Delta State, and they are not doing too well but i don't care much because i am living just fine without those businesses.
So i decided to take the risk, 1 million was worth it. I took the land and bought woods and zinc and constructed a new shop in a village. A charging center with pes 4 center. The first few days of the business boomed well until i started noticing i was still running at a loss. I spent over 1.7million to start that business and in a month time i closed down the shop because i was spending money daily to run it while i was making nothing from it.
I decided to sell it off. But even for 500K d folks in the village wouldn't buy it. They don't really have much there though.
My friend suggested i get people from the wood market to tear it down and even if it 200k I get from it, it is better than nothing at all.
I am still sceptical about this idea, i know i will renew the land rent when it expires even if i am not running the business.
lalalista: Please does pregnancy make things shock you? A friend is complaining that she can no longer use her hot plate because it's shocking her and it's not shocking other people. Even TV antenna is shocking her. Please what is causing this? Is it the pregnancy? And why is that?
The pregnancy has caused her body to have more of free ions... It is not a general occurrence to pregnant women but it is a possibility
There are Some Guys ,I Suspect to be Armed Robbers in my area , Honestly, I want to Report them but I'm been Careful,I don't want to call the Police with my Number .
About 9 years ago ,An Incident Happened in the Area we lived Before ,There was an Armed Robber suspect that was Reported ,the guy was picked up ,the police Ransacked his house they found a Gun ,To cut long story Short ,The Guy was Released after some Months ,The Guy with His Group came for the Reporter ,Robbed Him and Injured him ,He Lost His Legs. He was lucky they almost Killed Him ...
We later found out that it was one of the Police that Pointed the reporter ,The Armed Robber and Police belongs to Same Cult Group .
This is the Reason I'm been Careful ,I want to report these guys but because they Pose a Threats to us in this Community.
I have number of some Police Officers ,I have not called them before so they won't Recognize my voice .
Will they Entertain my Call if not
Does Anyone Knows how I can Report a Suspect Anonymously?
Please don't crucify me yet, just advise me please. Had to utilize a new moniker for this.
I got married last year June and by February 2024, I was transferred to another state for work. I was bored in the city and probably made a mistake. The girl stays in same hotel, and works for a bank, also on a course. So we started talking and one thing led to another. This girl had her phone on audio record the two times we got down and recorded all the audio of the shit we did.
My wife came visiting and of course I defined boundaries the moment wifey was around. A few days back I got high and dozed off, my wife got into my phone saw our chats. Her last chat to me, was regarding the audio. My wife followed through the convo and she sent two 24 minute audios.
Before I could wake, Wifey was already gone from the hotel. And when I checked my phone I saw a long epistle and screen shots of what happened. Now she has called my entire family, friends everybody I know. I am so ashamed of myself.
Is there anything I can do to have her back. Can she ever forgive me.
I feel so bad having betrayed her.
Just keep begging and apologising still she forgives you
Proudman1: Personally, I prefer whatsapp without all the distraction of feeds and updates.
So, it was surprising to see Mark trying to turn whatsapp into another Facebook with these channels.
I wish I could remove or hide the channels from my WhatsApp. I've never clicked to look at any of the channels merely out of rebellion.
Hopefully, I believe if no one touched it, I believe they might phase it out.
If we want to be bombarded with contents we know where to look at, not whatsapp.
Another feature I can't seem to understand or feel like it's useful is the community feature. What exactly is the point?
I feel it's redundant and not useful at all. If you want more people in the same group then just allow admin to add more members to the already existing group.
Why ask them to bundle different groups just to achieve the same aim in a more clumsy manner?
CSBN: I need your advice on how to pay this man back. I am 30 years old now, I started dating this married man 4 years ago when I was 26, at first he told me that he was divorced, so that was the more reason why I accepted him. About two years later, I found out that he was still with his wife.
So, I confronted him, but he apologized with an iPhone 13 and promised not to let his wife know about our affair. This man has been really helpful to me, he takes care of all my needs. All this while he begged me not to date anybody apart from him, that he will provide everything that other men will give me.
Although, he has kept to his words. I don't lack anything at all. But something happened recently, and I cried my eyes out. Last weekend when he came over to my place, that was when he told me his intention to relocate outside Nigeria with his family permanently, their papers are ready, and I need to move on with my life, and look for a man because he wouldn't want his attention to be divided anymore, he needs to focus on his family. These were his words to me. After that, he sent me one million naira as a payoff.
I feel really hurt because all these years I never dated anyone else not even a single male friend. Where do I start from to start looking for a boyfriend that will take me seriously? Baba, I feel used, I was very very faithful to him...
I am thinking of reaching out to his wife because I took her number from his phone long ago. Or use a parody account to chat her up on Facebook.
What do you think?
Please what do I do?
About your mission... Just let him go in peace. You should know a day like this will come
bendaniel1616: Good morning people of God , I've been praying about marriage cos I'm getting old , God always reveal whatever that will happen to me though dreams so I believe in dream, the first dream I saw a chubby lady trying to have a relationship with her which is my kind of lady , second day I dreamt I took the lady to my parents that's where we got to know she is a street lady ,during the morning devotion in our house we saw a very thick tattoo on her harm which I've not been seeing because I'm not too close to her like having sex or seeing her body , so in that dream I noticed I married her like that because we've already planning for the wedding, but my step mother was telling my daddy that why I married that kind of lady a a Christian home , it's like bringing a shame to them , I my self wasn't too happy about the tattoo, but I was happy I got married because people I didn't invite or expect to come were all there eating and happy with me , I was just thinking she might still be a good woman but people might tag me as inresponsible man too for having such woman , in that same dreamt I had a boy one of my siblings was trying to close door not to allow him enter my house , I had to shout on him to let him come inside in the dream can someone kindly interpret the dreams please and steps I need to take .
I'm not a dream interpreter. But well, from your dream; it means your family sooner or later will not be too okay with you marrying the lady or anyone around you at the moment that you are considering to marry. You'll need to stamp your feet and pray your way to sustain such marriage in your family.
#Cheers
Disclaimer: The above submission are my thoughts and mine alone.
Beeb1e: Hello everyone, I got a call from a man in the Village (Elele, Rivers State) on Tuesday night, that we should look for a way to come and carry our mother as she has slumped and was rushed to a hospital, where she was in coma.
He explained to me that my mother went to demand for the payment of the debt the man is owing her and he angrily beat her up, he stripped her , tore her clothes, her underwear was torn too. I’m literally crying as I type this. Everyone that tried to stop him he chased with the machete. Now my dad is late , else he won’t have tried this.
I am in Lagos so I’ve not seen her my sister that was able to travel to Elele to see her sent me the pictures.
She is out of coma now, but still unable to sit or stand or talk. We also noticed she is bleeding from her private part.
We arrested the evil man with the Elele police but the community Igwe bailed him, he is a known person in the community and owns a hotel there.
I really want this man to receive this level of Physical pain or more, because my mum almost lost her life.
I don’t know what to do or how to go about getting justice for her.
Gbadugbakun: In my compound, we are 5 sharing the prepaid meter. We uses to contribute 5k per person to recharged it when it finishes. So since last week we have been contributing because the units were low and the meter was making noise. By Monday this week it went off around 10 pm. And only one man hasn't paid yet. And he wasn't around that night.
He sent me a WhatsApp message around 11 after he was contacted by the guy that does the recharge reminding him that he's the only person that have not pay. He told me that I should pay for him that he didn't deposit the sales he made into his account that when he comes the following morning he would give me cash.
I transferred the 5k to the guy and we recharged. Do you know that when this man come back the next morning he did as if nothing happens between us, the whole of Tuesday he didn't even tell me anything. Today is Wednesday I was outside when he come he just pass me and enter his house. am just holding myself because if I enter his house I will damage something. why is Nigerians like this. why do we like to cheat people at any given chance. Does he know if the 5k is my last card.
ProjectsCityNG: I need to buy herbicides and grow my maize. I need a one month loan of 100,000 Naira. If you can lend me, I will hand you a collateral worth twice it's price. Oyo State residents preferred
Lagos residents are welcome
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Of course I will repay with interest
What do you have as collateral and at what interest do you want the loan?
Bowale447: Mike Tyson vs. Danny Williams, billed as Return for Revenge, was a professional boxing match contested on July 30, 2004. Although former heavyweight champion Tyson entered the fray as a 9-to-1 favorite with oddsmakers, the fight was won by Williams by knockout at 2:51 of the 4th round. The 2004 Williams fight would prove to be Tyson's penultimate appearance in the ring.
Efna55: I have 20million naira saved from my remote job, I want to invest in properties or any physical business but the problem now is: I don't want my business to be destroyed by the government one day, anything can happen in Nigeria no matter the paper work you have, I initially wanted to save in crypto, but we know the crypto thing in the country.. What can I invest this money in, pls advice..
Buy a 2or 3 bedroom flat in ibadan and rent it out.
Politics › Re: Those Who Warn Against Voting Tinubu Were Well Guided, We Apologise- Mahdi Shehu by dawnomike(m): 2:56pm On May 08, 2024
What do you think?
Please what do I do?