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This drama is a season movie...

Auxtan:
I faced the toughest time of my life weeks ago after my 3+ years relationship ended at the particular period I was about making things official with my ex.

I came to Nairaland to pour out my heart, a forum I have found refuge for my deepest thoughts, thoughts that looks weak I couldn't tell anyone else but due to Nairaland is a faceless forum I always found it to be my best friend to get both the rude and kind lessons from others.

I feel so great now after my failed relationship weighed me down for many weeks. It was like my testicle was buried in my ex' body then. I couldn't stay hours without thinking about the memories we shared.

If not for the messages I come here to read and the replies to my posts, I would have been deep into my own emotions that would have kept me depressed till now.

But thankfully I feel so great now eh.. omooo is crazy!

Thank you great people

Welcome back to life brother!

Testiebobo:
My brother just recovered himself from the hands of malaria previously. He was admitted to a nearby clinic. In the cause, my sister suggested we should have a private doctor as in family doctor. To reduce the cost of admitting ourselves to general care for minor sickness. I think having a family doctor would be fairly costly. Is this necessary? What are the benefits of having a family doctor?

Well, I would advice you get a health insurance instead as some of them offer consultancy with a doctor/specialist in their package.

nwarosa:
3 weeks old. 7 available
Location Lagos

WhatsApp: 0706…6103523

Where's your location in Lagos and how much?

Lovely... nice work

prospernoah:
Good day guys

Actually I was connecting with a lot of guys in my neighborhood we talk a lot, hangout, do stuff together but recently while I started evolving, I noticed I'd have to limit my friendship.

The reason majority of my neighbourhood guys here are into Yahoo.

Mixing up with this kind of guys pose a lot of risk.

Like recently them been break one guy leg here, just imagine if I tagged along..

Do you suggest still keeping the friendship or cutting off? or probably consider moving out (Relocating) because I've gone deep being their friends.. almost every area here in my estate they all know me.

I've also tried to create new healthy friendships but each of this person is also linked to one of these guys one way or the other, so it's hard to connect with them on a deeper level.

This has been messing with my mental health for a while now. I'm thinking about creating new friendships but most of them do not stay in my area.

I'll appreciate your input guys.

If you can, relocate... I don't judge people, but still you have to be mindful of your association.

ProjectsCityNG:
How did TyY Danjuma make his money sante ?


Does it ever occur to you that Danjuma is trying to atone for past devilish acts and that Obi is rather giving from hard earned money ?


This guy has chosen to ruin the entire goodwill he once had with people. I feel great pity for him

I've learnt to Ignore Reno.

He uses Obi to trend to grow his SM handles and make money on his channels

NeckingNgulping:
If i arrest someone who stole my money, can the police release him without hearing from me, whether or not he's capable of giving me back my money?

What course of action can I take if he's released behind my back?

If he is not charged to court after 24hrs in custody... Yes! They can if you do not stay in touch

lonelydora:
So I saw a lot of comments made out of ignorance on this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/8096708/why-does-petrol-colour-differ#130020767

Let me clear all doubts and fears by explaining it.

You see, when PMS (petrol) is produced in the refinery or imported from abroad, it is colourless; very clear just like water. But for the users, you and I, to differentiate it from water or kerosene, that "pinkish" colour is intentionally added.

The process of adding that colour is called "Dye-ing" and it has nothing to do with the octane rating or quality of the petrol. It is just for safety purpose.

And Yes, you can actually have different shades of that "pinkish" colour because the petrols are coming from different sources with different amounts of "dye". That is, the "ppm" differs, hence the different shades. No need to be scared.


This is also similar to the "smell" you perceive in your kitchen when your gas is leaking. When cooking gas (LPG) is produced, it is odourless. (It actually has a smell but not that one you perceive in your kitchen)

That "smell" you perceive is intentionally added so that you can tell when the gas is leaking.

The process of adding that "smell" to cooking gas is called "Odourization", and the substance used for the odourizing is mercaptan. Usually Ethyl Mercaptan. (Only chemistry people will understand this )

That "smell" also has nothing to do with the quality of your cooking gas. It is just for safety purpose.

But is there adulterated petrol? Definitely yes, but it's not really what the masses assume. (I will talk about this on a different post)

Now you know!!!

Nice explanation...

Holiness2100:
Nlfpmod

https://www.timesofisrael.com/liveblog_entry/protector-of-the-resistance-hamas-hezbollah-mourn-death-of-irans-raisi/

No one lives forever...

The picture says a lot about life

lamboloosta:
Please do you have anyone that can lend up to N7m?

The borrower is willing to use his Landed Asset in Lagos as Collateral.

Kindly reach out if you have any link.

Thanks.

Does the land have a CofO?

And what's the purpose for the loan?

wittywriter:
Interesting and edutaining write-up. Bigups.
NLFPMod how far...FP worthy.


Wittyness.

Hi! Finally downloaded Lichess
dawnomike

tomi4life:
Not sure if this is the right forum, but I am unhappy, as I type this message, I think it is usually too late to cry when the head is cut off, but i will cry anyways.

I have been married for 6 years now and brethren it has not been easy, I think I married a wrong person, am not a perfect neither is she, i just think we are not compatible. There is is no love between us. Our values are different. Me and my wife dont get along, well.

We have just been tolerating each other. I only realize what i am missing because i recent caught feelings for this colleague of mine. So there is this colleague of mine, we have worked together for almost 2 years now but more related to work. I have started catching feelings for this girl o and it all started in a party we attend together. I know she too has feeling for me. I see it in her eyes. She comes to sit with me, and we talk about alot of private stuff. She tells me all that is happening in her life, i also do same. she knows I am married with kids but i am sure if i make a move she will agree. I never could imagine I will find myself in a situation, tempted to commit adultery. When i have a wife at home, this opened my eyes and push me to want resolved the relationship issue with my wife. I approached her some days ago to voice my concern that the marriage is not working, we dont communicate, there is no love, what can we do to resolve the matter. My wife said she is used to our situation. I asked what can we do differently and she says we shd go see a marriage counselor. I said fine but can we even discuss and she tells me she is tired she wants to sleep and then stops responding to me.

My wife prefers to sleep alone, despite me telling her we shd sleep together as a couple. if she is in the room and I come to the room she will immediately goes to the parlor, we rarely have body contact. The few times we have sex she never kisses even when i try, she puts her mouth away. Even in the car we can be on a drive for 1 hr, without mentioning a word to each other. Most times it is either the car radio or my kids that break the silence. What surprises me is she is very comfortable with it, you just see her on her phone. The only saving grace is I have a source of income and provide for the home that why she listens sometimes.

Reflecting back on if i had to opportunity i wont have married her, she has caused me alot of pain. she doesnt play that supportive role expected of a wife, she has this feminist tendency. She also has this ego issue and find it difficult to take feedback, whenever i raise an issue, she just get very upset and in many times it turns into a fight. There are days I fall sick, my wife no send o. Even cooking for me is like stress. She goes out without telling me, does things without getting my consent or even carrying me along. When she brings people to the house, she wont even introduce them to me as her husband. she doesnt send respect or regards me. I tell you an example of something that happened last year, we were travelling November last year to the UK on holidays with the children, because of our luggages we took two uber vehicles, I sat in one with my daughter, my wife sat in the other with my son. While on the way to the airport, do you know my wife asked the driver to take a detour to shoprite that she wants to give someone the left over stew and food items we had. Shoprite is not on the way to the airport, we had less than 2 hours to go for an intentional flight. It was me that noticed their car going a different direction, I had to call the uber driver to tell him to turn back immediately. When the uber guy came he told me he had asked my wife to mention it to me, but she said no need, I dont need to be told. We got to the airport while offloading the luggage from the car, my wife suddenly disappeared. I had 8 boxes , 2 children to move with. Thank God for those people that help with the luggage at the airport. I passed through customs and NDLEA and began to clear with the airline before she showed up. I was so mad, even a custom lady was yelling at her, how can you just disappear leaving your husband with all the loads and children. My wife didnt even apologize, she said she went to drop the food items with the person she asked to come to the airport, after i asked the uber driver to reroute to the airport. That is how disunited we are.


The good side is not cheating, and she is spiritual, she can go to church 10 times a week, currently serves in 2 units and hold leadership roles in those unit. I have told her if she give 20 percent of the time in church to our relationship and family we would be happier. The major complain she mentioned from my side is we shd go out together more often, she wants me to organize morning devotions, that we shd pray more with the children, this was something I believe her dad did when they were growing up, the experience is different for me. I have told her I will try. She also mentioned I like to complain, which is not true.

This whole thing is hitting me hard cos I dont want to cheat with my colleague and i just experienced a glimpse of what we shd be enjoying. I also have the chance of relocating to the Australia but i knw if we do, I will enter one chance.

Does anyone knw a good marriage counselor, that can be recommended, I saw one done by one of this popular pastor they are asking for $150 for a 1hour session, I also dont want to involve my family or her family.

I am tempted to just leave the house for 2 weeks and go stay in an hotel, but how will that help it will only make matters worse.

Where is your location? I can recommend a counsellor to you if you're in the southwest.

EreluRoz:
Thanks a lot, we are about leaving now.

Halos!
Good morning to you and wishing you a happy Sunday!!!
Trust you'll be able to make it to church this morning... Waiting to hear from you after church service.

#Cheers!!!

Electricbikes4s:
Even Blord is enjoying our electric Bike CityCoco, you can be like Blord, make your order now and say bye bye to fuel issues or prizes, we deliver to Lagos in 48hours and any other state in Nigeria in less than two week, buy your own electric Bike now, charge the battery once and ride around the city, chat us on Whatsapp 08103909568

It is pay on delivery and what is the cost?

Keedyreal:
Pls fellow nairalanders am in desperate need of any kind of driving job on the mainland be it private or commercial

By commercial, what do you mean precisely?
Do you mean cab e-hailing, or driving public transport vehicles etc?

DSC7:
Someone told me his best meat are Snake,cat, Tortoise,pork and Elephant meat...

Since then whenever i see him,I always have so many wild thougts...

The weirdest meat i can manage is Dog meat,,

I've tasted snake, rabbit, squirrel, aligator lizard, duck, dog, pork and grasscutter... The sweetest are snake, rabbit, dog and aligator.

flyinnizam:
I was on my own going home last night when I heard someone shouts snake but I couldn't resist because killing snake is my hobby. I hate that creature. while others without mind where looking for long stick, I just look for block instead since it's easier to see block in that area and the rest was history.

You destroyed the snake's destiny

DatoDatuk:
Man destroys power company vehicle after its officials tried to disconnect his light


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=51ehxXPoU5s

The foolish wise man...

EreluRoz:
Are you really this good or just some online personality

Smile... Well, I am not always good. Sometimes, just like evryone else; I find myself been on the wrong side as well.
But I'm try for my age to be good in my own lil way sha.

goldyeyeife:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4PhVAII6qDQ?si=1UwC5z-kmnk8YMNA

Classic bout

Toonice:
Goodbye bro segun, please don't bother coming for me so you won't be disgraced even more..my offences is worth of death...I won't run , I'll just die... Bro segun, it's me they use to finish the family.bye

Please am worried

Do you need someone to talk to?

The dog committed suicide

LeeSmart:
As for me, for someone starting from the scratch. When you start making money, let's say hundreds of thousands ... never let your family or friends know yet, invest some of the funds into what gave you the initial money without having a second thought, and seek for more updates.

Let's hear from some of our elders in the house.

Mynd44
Nlfpmod
Dominique
Promise land plss

Chasing after Network Marketing (MLM)

Nice job

ExcalibursWrath:
I'm in great dilemma, I recently gained admission into university I chose Electrical Engineering but was given Industrial Mathematics. Now that I've been hearing some nice things about the course, I don't know if I should stay or leave.

Another variable to take into account, is that I want a course that will allow me to pursue a side hustle on the side, and I really don't know if studying Electrical Engineering will afford me this opportunity.

Please I need your inputs.

In my own opinion, if Electrical Engineering is available to you right now; go for that please.
And as you're schooling try to look out for students internship programmes in the following companies: Shell, Exon Mobil, Total Energies, Schlumbeger and Haliburton.
Who knowns, you might just end up in the oil and gas industry. That will give you both money and time for side hustle.

I admire your mentality.


If at any point, you in a side hustle while schooling... Reach out to me.
All the best...

payaseriy:
Hello,

I'm new to where i am at the moment and i want to meet the local government chairman. In Delta State, i was very familiar with my state executives but i have left that area for long now.

Now in a strange land, i don't know how to start my political journey. I don't want to contest, i just want to be familiar and usefully contribute my quota in government.

Simple, visit the local government secretariat, create rapport with the staff, dash the LG chairman's secretary something.
Gradually, you'll work your way through...

Mboi2:
I created an account on cac website and did a name reservation for limited liability company.
Can I do the registration myself? I'm planning of having just one director.
Though I don't know how to get some documents like memorandum of association and other things.

Yes you can do it all by yourself... For the memorandum of association, once to get to the bridge, you'll cross it.
Just put in all you want to do in the organization

nokia1000:
Any single lady or girl that I'm close to want to have sex with me.
I'm married with children but they don't care.
Yesterday one walk up to me and told she will catch me. Let me keep running.
I need help.

Just start seeing them as witches after your life in your mind... The thought of that will keep you away from falling into trouble.