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[quote author=Baybiibee post=101834278][/quote]Can't you see I just love talking to you. Like minds attract each other.

Baybiibee:
... Pele o Mr. Objective... The truth is bitter abi... Confused being...

That means we were both confused. Alawada

GboyegaD:
You don't need to reason it, he just needs to follow his heart.

For me, as of today, I will pay. I stopped for some years and no one needed to convince me to start paying again. The very reason I said he should decide.

hhmmmm

NamelessOGBENI:
No go looseguard dey form Nice Man..

Lass lass, na Awnnnnn and he's gentleman and premium tears go end una episode..

maiquel:
While she's not the type that cheats, and I trust her, I'll be waiting if anything like this happens.
I know how to handle it.

hmmmm. Nice

maiquel:
Lol... honestly my babe asked me this some months back, my answer was simple.
I told her if she cheats, I'll fall outta love for her... she got angry with me and we didn't speak for days.
This is because, she recently forgave me for "cheating" after going through my WhatsApp.
But I never cheated on her sha, I just had this crazy chat with my ex. She considered it cheating.

hhmmmm

Nonexisting:
She has collected the outside dick for the first time, likes it and wants to continue. Your facial expression not necessarily your answer will determine her next course of action. Firmly remind her that the domestic animal that wants to go wild should remember to shut the house gate behind it when it leaves because there will be no cage for it in the house anymore.

I love that adage.... the domestic animal that wants to go wild should remember to shut the house gate behind it when it leaves because there will be no cage for it in the house anymore

SmartyPants:
Shut up you filthy jobless animal.

Your a pathological liar and you have been caught.

Caught by who? Nairaland Police? lolz. Olobe!

Now I see how senseless you are! Talking to you is a waste of time.
Thank you for your contributions once again

Baybiibee:
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I missed the point? For reals ... Did u discuss with your wife what her expected responsibilities will be in marriage when you were courting/dating... Ordinarily, the society has given each gender a role to play and you clearly don't know yours... You were never enlightened and prepared to be married even with series of topics being pushed to the front-page about marital problems on a daily...


The worst part of everything is that your European culture, that you clearly dont know about, suits you when you want it to favour you... When a woman starts being a Feminist, or fighting for equality all rounder, you will still complain that a woman you "married" with your money is trying to emasculate you in "your" own house. "Me An African man"...


Lest I forget, you are debt ridden and still thinking and talking with an Ex that rejected you and you tell me you don't want to be unfortunate... Oga Rest and think abeg..

So you want to spew trash here and don't want my brutal opinion, then u shouldn't have made it public... Below the belt kwa, You are not ready for anything... You want me to pet you abi so u will think your stupid ideology is ideal right... You have a problem in the house, you discuss with your wife if she can help out with the fees not you trying to make a stand on a stupid ideology in Lagos, Nigeria (AFRICA).

Lunaretta:
I have many male friends. All of these men cheat on their wives. Can you imagine? When I ask them why they do it, I get the answer "I'm bored". I don't understand how you can be bored with the man you love. That's why I don't get married and my relationships are always short. Now my brother has started attending christian dating and I want to believe that he will be faithful to his girlfriend.

hmmmmm. You see!

dochenaj:
If he didn't cheat in 10 years, then he will not cheat especially if he doesn't want to.

The truth is that cheating is a conscious decision, it is never a spur of the moment action. Only weak men will argue with this.

God bless u

streetzdreamz:
it's really not a big deal for some men,men who have self control,men who don't go blaming the devil or some hormones after desecrating their marital vows, I see keeping multiple ladies as a waste of emotions, resources and time. If ones union isn't working, it's okay to take a walk rather than cheat,men like you deserve medals, may God keep your home.

Amen and Thanks

DEMZEE:
My point is men and women see sex differently

Men see sex like taking a piss while women see sex as a value loaded exchange

Men must become to gain sexual abundance while women just are and have inherent value and get sexual abundance just for existing.

So why wud u use the feminine lens of cheating to judge men

hmmmm. This is another twist.
Nice one.

[quote author=Freestainworld post=101827036][/quote]Thats deep o. I have someone with such experience and it didn't end well at all. IF I give account of that now, some stupid people like @smartypants will say it is fictional. May God heal his family.

tpapi:
u r totally on point. Some married guys are suffering but d world wont bliv

hhmmmmm.

WetSmoke:
The devil has almost conquered the world. It is clear from all the comments here. Only few men of conscience are left, the rest are lost in their lust forever. It's sad so many of them will die in the sin.

May God help us all

hedonido:
Na mumu dry worry you. Your wife is certainly fucking one or two or three fools somewhere.

Nature abhors a vacuum.

bamisho:
You’re a Real Man

Thank you

hhmmmmm

Saao:
I guess you are not married. Married men are those most sex starve. Going for months without sex

SmartyPants:
Since you have decided to maintain the path of dishonesty, I will make you my pet project on nairaland. Wherever I catch you telling more lies, you will be exposed immediately.

Charlatan.

I don't know why you are this pained and bitter. Is it your story? is it your fictions? Must you comment on everything you see? I can't waste my energy on simp like you. Now I have given you work to do for your life time. Please, enjoy!

Nincompoop

Tribalism123:
I quarelled heavily with my friend because of this. We are both not married but he is fighting me already for saying I wont cheat on my wife.


Life NA scam

Imagine! He already had such mentality. May God help him.

cmecproblem:
Broke men hardly cheat. Become very rich and start attracting women let's see if you won't cheat in the 11th year.

Funny you

smasher1:
Show me your friends and I would show you who you are. Birds of the same colors flock together. Those people can't be your friend unless you approve of their conduct, then you are not way different than they are even though you have not done what they did.

Ytea:
You don't know your friends. You shouldn't have told them, they'll find a way to lure you into their wayward life. I pray you don't fall OP because only you will bear the consequence.

Thanks sis

God bless you my bro

lexy2014:
Many nigerian men are highly indisciplined. But d problem is that they expect that u should be as indisciplined as they are. Instead of them to ask how u are able to stay disciplined, they start calling u names because of d sense of guilt that floods their hearts. Most times, they can't contain their self gulit but instead of admitting they have a problem, they use their arrogance to try to make it look like it's u who has d problem

NA dem dem I like the confidence though. Not some pretenders like one @ smartypant

xtervaganza:
a wise man once said; if you say you won't fvck the wife of a man with big dick, what if a man with big dick fvck your wife?



That you choose not to have sex with other women does not make you better than us proudly community penis



Las las na we be legends

Exactly. Thanks

femi4:
They lack self control. They are always amazed when they see men that have such attributes

mapet:
17yrs straight and I proudly state that I have been faithful to my wife, never slept outside marriage or any relationship whatsoever....

I remember sometimes ago when a similar discussion happened in my office. On the whole floor only two of us raised up our hands. One egbon come spoil show and said out of the two of us if any can swear that we have never looked at a woman "inappropriately".....well our hands slowly came down...

Is looking inappropriately cheating too?

Freestainworld:
if men with low IQ cheats, how do they then convince their preys even when those ladies know the guy is married, I am not a fan of cheating, and have never cheated since I married, but the real answer would have been men who have sexual perversion in them, it's inbuilt, sometimes some wives gives room to this due to their unecessary nagging, and making the home uncomfortable to the man which results to the man looking for succour somewhere.

The woman's nagging behavior is not an excuse for cheating. Do you think for those 10 years, my wife never nagged? It has not been alway rosy for us and yet I didn't do it.

Ikea81:
papa Ijeomaaaaa, you can lie o

Cheaters association of Nigeria. I sabi u you be. Papa Ify

cosse:
only irresposible men do that

My thought exactly

hhhmmmm That means you cheat too

HRMK:
there culd be only two reasons for this ie if true:1.ur not sexually attractive to women.2.ur not a money bag.NOT BCS UR HOLY OR RELIGIOUS OR A SAINT!