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Petriaa:
This can happen to anyone but you just have to force yourself to do the needful.
This can be me and my ex few years from now if we do not end up together or are not careful.

True talk

Xilsbridalhouse:
Fictional ?

Kai una don use Nairalanders play football tire o! Why do you guys always bring up fake stories? Is it boredom? And usually men all the time!!!

No rule for Nairaland wey stop am.

SirMichael1:
Hahahaha. I wanted to insult this op but when I saw this, laughter overwhelmed me. Like TF are you taking this so damn personal?? Na people like una go die on top fake story.

I beg. @Ginaz na my person

77up:
If you believe this is the said wife , gather here .

Madam you are actually right, that guy need someone to talk sense into his rat sense it's just that you are taking it too personal ma'am

na wah for all of una

KEKONweezy91:
What is Wrong with you, You asked?
Selfish "LUST".
And I advise you cut yourself; off that shit or else you do be ending your marriage by your own Self_Satanism!
Be wise Bro!!

hhhmmmm. Self_satanism. thats a new word! You are right though

Mustiboy:
And you think it's okay to post fake stories here? And to think you're even proud of it.

It's your type that make people doubt Nairalanders who have real stories of themselves to share.

One thing you should learn is the ability to know a true story. Also, the fact that it doesn't happen to me doesn't make it true. As you can see, many people under this thread came out to talk about their experiences too. So, relax my man.

NamelessOGBENI:
Matter heap o...

But this your lamba upandan no bi here o

U too sabiii! na thief dey fit recognise thief

hassan4:
This is what happens when you stay friends with your ex. An ex means a past, you do not live in your past or you get caught up. It is never wise to stay friends with an ex, just let go. Emotions can be tricky.

hmmmmm. Thanks

Ishilove:
You are emotionally cheating on your wife and coming here to ask questions.

I bet you even saved her name is "Kunle mechanic", or "Abazu rewire"

Kwantinue. I hope your madam catches your cheating ass

hhmmmmm. Emotional cheating! thats true oo.

Karozy:
I can relate, you guys bonded well before and it’s not always easy but now oga you’re married, I see no reason why you are still in contact with your ex, it’s totally stupid, what do you expect the more you keep talking to her definitely feelings will start coming back, she rejected you so why are you still friends with her now that you are married.
If you continue talking with her you will might end up destroying your marriage, be warned, you are the problem here, cut all contacts and communication with her.

Hhmmmmm

xtervaganza:
have sex with her once and carry face

PrinceGallant:
It is normal bro, it happens to almost every married man. Time will soon fade the love off your heart. Stop calling her, try everything to avoid her, though it will be hard, just try.

However, if you allow yourself to enjoy phone calling with her, I see your downfall and regret in a nearby future.

Be careful bro

Sense will not kill You. Thanks

Thinktwicemybro:
Sensational stories full of lies

You get am

Rubbiish:
@bold na wetin dey vex me for am!
The guy no get shame at all

@daylay7 Someone that rejected u, now she feel she has exhausted all her option and now coming back, u are here smiling, not knowing u want to betray the one person that accepted u which is your wife! I believed when your wife accepted u after this Jezebel rejected u, that acceptance gave u some level of confidence! See the pain u are about cause her because of one foolish woman who rejected u when u were worthless! Fool!

I must be very lucky oo. Three replies from you on this same issue. Mr. rubbish! relaz small I beg.

Yusufisraelj:
So you use us day catch cruise. Seun pls arrest this guy!

Na for fun bro. Thats why it is called Nairaland

dammybrite:
Bros, you only know the beginning of the battle, no one knows how the battle will end. This war/fire you are playing with has destroyed many. Think of everything you value in life, imagine them getting destroyed by your current direction.

Wisdom will not kill you. Thanks

Yusufisraelj:
@daylay7

Read this again, though the writer was above board with words, but the message is clear.

You are married for fvck sake, ogbenni receive wayo

I did

Rubbiish:
She rejected u Because she knew u were foolish!!
The one that married u, see what u are about to do to her!

Continue in your folly according to your profile name since you can't see what is going on here.

ok

AbiodunDagogo26:
tell your wife about her she will have best advice for you bro

IYANGBALI:
or better still, let him poison his wife and marry this one outside

I think u are from the Uduak family

Rubbiish:
U got no point fool!
Someone who rejected u probably because she felt u weren't good enough for her? Don't u have shame?? U still went back to her? Shameless thing!

Continue in your folly if you can't read between the line.

Omoluabiii:
If you loved her so much, why didnt you get married to her?
If she loved you so much like you claim, why did she reject when you propose to her?
You re only looking for excuse to cheat,
oga face your marriage & dont ever think of it, or try to cheat,
you both ve made a lifetime choice, respect it.
She reject you,
you got married to another, and now you want to gamble your marriage,
the devil is trying to lurn you into purnishment,
the choice is yours tho,
buh i ll advice you to be wise and shun her or whatever affection you had or re having for her and face your marriage.

Okay. thanks

amazingspiderma:
Too much Zee World......
Reduce the time you spend on telenovelas and you will recover within a week.

You are not ready for marriage, if you still flirting with the idea of another woman.

Don't sacrifice your marital destiny on the altar of sex.

Marriage is Discipline.

But This is not the case of many men out there.

luckydion:
"What is wrong with me", Your Mind set; Inability to control your mind, feelings and emotions. If U say U can't 4get or stop chatting her amorously, I will tell u to deep your prick in hot water for a test, if u can stop that because it hurts so can also stop chatting her... all is mind set.

U need to develop love and care for your wife, see your wife as better than her, Even if your wife is not as good as she is or as beautiful as she is, see those things and features of your wife that are better than hers, develop on those features and u will see your self leaving and boring when ever u see her number or herself.

Hhhmmmm. You are right. Thanks

KunleyY19:
OP you sure say no be your wife be this.

I dey think am sef

Atlas9:
I swear. By doing this you are openly declaring your preference for the one you didn't marry over the one who went all the way, changed her surname and hitched her destiny to yours. It's not love, it's immaturity.
If she was all that, why on earth did she not go all the way? Is she the type who strings many men along, and plays men for a fool, and she has successfully played you, or are you the one seeking to have your cake and eat it too? Either way, it will not make you look good if this egg you are incubating hatches.
Oga, the overwhelming majority of us who are married have one or more exes.
We are dealing with our realities. Snap out of this fantasy world, before it transforms into a nightmare, which it will, if you nurse it to fruition.

Hmmmm. Thanks

kingyang:
For some reasons , make need to marry two to 3 wives, I got same fellings to, the nature of my job keeps me far away Sha

You be Yoruba man?

OlaMiki:
that shows u no go ever hear word or take advice contrary to u feelings for her. go hammer her till u are tire

wizod:
be a man for once.
Pretend you're not seeing her
Respect and love your wife.
Don't allow your erection to control your direction.
My little contribution biko

you are right

samuelson06:
You know some people feel it's only when they advise and abuse at the same time that the person the advice is meant for would take it. I can't imagine listening to someone who insult me in the name of giving advice.

People dey different

Theboss100:
Then this will help you.
My help is not easy. It took me enough research to come up with this.
This will really help reset your brain.

Brock lesner punch? guy! u wicked!

wizod:
who provoked this beauty without brain of a girl?
Must you advise him using derogatory speech?
Go and learn good manners else, YOU WON'T MAKE A GOOD HOME.

Make una relax small oo. I think she don realise her mistake. I beg, free her.