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Kobojunkie: I didn't say anything about discussing EVERYTHING . . . you are here suggesting you have to hide your text etc from your spouse, and I am trying to understand why you have to make such an effort to hide these things from someone you plan to spend 50 or more years with. This is a person who BELONGS to YOUR Family. She is a part of you, closer to you than your cousins, brothers, sisters, etc. Your shadow in human form, and you instead choose to HIDE information from her?

Also, We all know that it takes effort to hide things from people than to have it out in the open.

Just like the spousal bond is special so also is the bond between parent and child. If I receive texts from my parents, I would want to vet it and decide if I want to share with my spouse or not. But if she is allowed unrestricted access to my text messages, then that purpose is defeated.

Just like I wont share all what transpires between me and my spouse with my parent, I wont also do vice versa.

I would hide such text because my parents issue is not her business until I decide to involve her hopefully with their consent

Kobojunkie: WOW . . so you will never discuss what is going on with your parents, even when it bothers you with someone you are going to spend 50 or more years you have left on this planet with? WOW!!!
You people get liver ooo . . .

I dont see why I should discuss EVERYTHING about my parent with my spouse. No need for it in IMO.

My spouse doesnt have to know everything going on

Kobojunkie: Why exactly can't your spouse know of these? I mean what exactly is worth hiding in the examples you gave? Are you sure you understand what marriage is about? If you trying info on your parents fight or is it . . . what do you think is worth hiding?

Personally I wont want my spouse to know what goes on between my parents, Or between my siblings

Is that what marriage is about to you?

Kobojunkie: Your dad is not sharing your body with you. Your dad is in no way directly affected by decisions you make in life. Neither is your mom. Your wife is not your friend. Your PERSONAL is someone else's PERSONAL and that is your wife . . so find better excuses and reason bo!

My dad and mom are a couple and I am using them as examples.

If my dad text me complaining about my mom, If my mom text me to report my sister, My friend teling me about his new girlfriend,

Which of these does my spouse deserve to know about?

Many ppl send different kind of text messages to me which I wont want my spouse to read.

E.g My dad complaining about my mom or vice versa, My mom reporting my siblings to me, My friend telling me about his new girlfriend, My colleagues sharing an office joke etc

There are personal reason why I wont want my wife to know about whats going on in the scenarios above

When In school My dad pays fees, feeding and what he deems necesary, Its my mom we mostly go to meet for other stuffs like clothes , shoes, watches, phones

I wont want my dad reading a text intended for my mom about how I need to buy clothes and shoes. If my mom should hide such text, Does she mean she is cheating with me and my siblings?

berem: if bill clinton had one child, probably its an agreement between him and his wife.unless they might have fertility problem.but in this case the wife wants more kids but the man said no!supposing the child was a female,do u think the man will not think of having another child immediately?

Your point is she should just have the child to satisfy the inlaws.

I think a child is supposed to be wanted by both parent, So what justice are you doing to the child when the father already doesnt want him/her.

So the child would be born knowing the father didnt want him but the mother deceived him into having a child.

No wonder some kids are not loved

berem: why would he not be responsible? Is he not the father of the child? C'mon let's be realistic here! The pressure is coming from the inlaws for them to have more kids.now the woman might get the heap of the blames because they might think she can't have more kids.what type of flimsy excuse does the man want to tell both his parents and inlaws? Having one more kid won't make him become poor.

Are they having kids for the inlaws? ARe the inlaws the ones who would change diapers at night, stay awake, pay the fees and other stuff involved in child rearing

Bill Clinton has only one child, Is it that he is unable to have more or too poor to maintain more?

If you want more children and your husband goes to do vasectomy

Or you dont want children yet your husband put holes in his condom

berem: If both of them are finacially stable,what stops them from having more kids? The man must be hiding something from the woman.probably he has kids from another woman.if I were to be the lady,I will stop taking the pills and get pregnant! Simple! Of course he can't tell me to abort it.

So would he be held responsible for the upkeep of a child you had on your own accord?

armyofone: i will never use pills.
she should invent some weird illness and tell her hubby it is side effect of using pills then stop to have that '1' more '5' more

as long as she has a job, why not.

Hope she wont bother the husband with the upbringing if it was her sole decision to have a child

Billyonaire: I dont hate Tinubu, I hate his greed. I hate his ugly thuggery lifestyle. I hate his wanton quest for billions against the wellfare of all Lagosians. I want INEC to be obeyed as pertains the Primaries. Let the best man win the candidature in an open primary, and not a charade in the den of the lion of Bourdillon. ACN is for all Nigerians who is interested in the politics and polity of Nigeria.

Wetin concern you with INEC? If INEC is not obeyed why cant the INEC chief complain or what is your own business with INEC?

You can apply for the INEC job and do whatever pleases you but you now

Obiagu1: The moment you are cut off from Nigeria, not a single Nigerian will remain in Yorubaland. So far, everyone is still moving around but I bet you we won't waste a second before we declare Lagos/Odua Must Go!

Why not Simply pack your asss out of Yorubaland and we can talk then

You parasites cant even stay in your land, you must always leech on people thats why all young Igbo men must be in Kano, Ibdan Portharcourt, Lagos before they can make it

Bloody leeches

Billyonaire: Stay on the thread M0r0n, this thread is about 'anointing' of candidates by the grand 'dogfather'. Anointing mustt stop. INEC must be obeyed. ACN is not a personal enterprise. It is not Alpha-beta.

Did the PDP conduct a primary in Ondo? Have you trogolyte addressed that?

Tell us the primaries conducted for james Cameron, Gordon Brown, Tony Blair etc

afam4eva: You're right. But don't you think the same thing applies to the numerous PDP politicians that you've been calling for their heads?

Ibori has been found guilty, Alams has been found guilty, Dariye has been found guilty and so on All in the PDP name one ex ACN governor found guilty

[quote author=Mr.chippychappy] . Obiagu1 u dey kill dat e-library fraudster dayokanu with wisdom[/quote]Mor0n recognize mor0n

Obiagu1: That's Americans business. Our concern in Nigeria is that we don't want Yorubas and their evil ways any more. What is wrong in that?
Why can't you people just go and save us the time, at least "Igbos" won't bother you any more. What are you gaining from Nigeria if you are not parasites?

Then tell Retardeen and your leaders to evacuate Igbo parasites from Yorubaland.

You want Yoruba to leave Nigeria yet you want to stay in Yoruba land to leech on people.

Are you not tired of being parasites?

Billyonaire: Stop derailing this thread. I want ACN to follow the INEC bylaw as pertains mode of selection of candidates. Stop Tinubu from "anointing" candidates. Let there be primaries and let the best man win. No one will cajole me anymore. I need a piece of the pie and Tinubu's time is over. Enough is enough.

You know how to stop them? Go and report to INEC and also report the Ondo PDP for not conducting orimaries you bumbling oaf

9ja voice: We igbos don't have the same orientation and goals with them, even in this issue of regional autonomy.

1) Igbos intention for regional autonomy is just for equality,fairness and progress . but these guys have bad motives yet we careless,

2) yoruba intention for regional autonomy is just to tax igbo business highly and take back properties belonging to igbos in SW region.
awolowo did it to british and other foreign companies in nigeria in favor of the Yorubas. now they are scheming to hit it back on igbos.

look we know all thes things but we careless. "those that kill by swords dies by it" and "the measure you use to others will be used against you"
those are words from the person whose words are YES and AMEN.

to prove my point a yoruba man here has said it open. we knew about al these plans but if God be for us who can be against us.
PROPERTIES WE ACQUIRE WITH OUR SWEAT AND A HARVEST OF OUR TOILING.
you want to come and take because of hatred,envy and wickedness.

teach your young men how to be hardworking not how to wait for abandon properties.

Since you know the intention of Yorubas why cant you Igbo cannibals then relocate your business back to Alayibo so your relatives can use you for Okazi soup.

Obiagu1: Igbos are on the thread discussing what Kaita, a Nigerian, said. Kaita was insinuating that regional autonomy does not apply to you Yorubas, you should rather get the fu<k out entirely from Nigeria. So Igbos, a bona fide Nigerian group are discussing the fate of Yorubas, a non-Nigeria group attached to Nigeria.

You seem to be taking too much weed nowadays. Dont you realise you are the subject of ridicule even your clansmen would be ashamed of you

Maybe since Texas, California Alaska were not originally part of America, they should be removed

Billyonaire: INEC guidelines clearly states that all Political parties should conduct primaries that will produce their flag bearer. It is that same INEC guideline that I want ACN to obey and not allow a drug baron that has siphoned the welfare of all Lagosians into his personal enterprise run lagos as an ugly mafiosa. Obey INEC and let the best candidate of ACN contest against other parties and let the best man win. I want a piece of the pie

Why is ACN matter your headache, I have told you to contact INEC to lodge your complain.

While you are at it, You can also report the Ondo PDP for selecting a candidate through consensus

Ahead of the October 20 gubernatorial election in Ondo State, aspirants on the platform of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) have resolved to choose among themselves a consensus candidate that will fly the flag of the party.

The resolution of the PDP aspirants was disclosed by the State Chairman of the party, Mr Ebenezer Alabi at a news conference he addressed at the party’s secretariat in Akure, the state capital

http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/ondo-pdp-agrees-on-consensus-candidate/118194/

afam4eva: The problem i have with people like you is that you complain about PDP when they tend to do something somewhat undemocratic but you turn a blind eye when ACN does the same. is that not hypocrisy?

Tell me what you mean by undemocratic?

I think its time I take you back to school

afam4eva: I really don't care about his achievements. I'm talking about corruption here and nothing else.

What corruption is Tinubu guilty of?

Tinubu has been out of office for 5yrs and no charge against him till now. He is a free man everywhere he goes whether Nigeria, US Britain or anywhere

9ja voice: ABOVE IS THE DISCUSSION TOPIC:
BUT THESE GUYS MUST FIND A WAY TO BRING IGBOS IN ANY ISSUE THEY HAVE WITH THE NORTH.

How did igbos ended up into this discussion for Gods sake.
if an igbo man make a progressive point for us to follow as a nation,
these guys will put their bad belle into it to stop the move hence igbos we take the glory.
if the make a progressive point and igbos gives support it yet a problem for them.

PLEASE ALL MY IGBO BROTHER HERE STOP RESPONDING THESE GUYS.

You said the thread is about Hausas and Yorubas, So what the Hell are you being a Igbo cannibal looking for on this thread?

Are you looking for someone to roast for dinner like your ancestors used to?

Billyonaire: I do not care about the history of Yoruba people, what I care about is ACN, a party registered in Nigeria for Nigerians of all geographical location, it is not a Yoruba party in its registration with INEC, except you are daft to just believe anything. Every Party according to INEC guideline must conduct Primaries to produce their flag bearer.

Then Tell INEC to sanction ACN.

ACN conduct their own selection process and brings forth a candidate if you dont like it go to www.inec.com and complain

afam4eva: I guess they're waiting until Christians begin to revolt before they realize that Christians are part of this state. The fact that Christians are silect should not be mistaken for stup1dity. Tinubu and his ACN cohorts should better thread carefully.

Lagosians are not complaining, So why are you taking Panadol for another persons headache, In simple terms wetin consign you

So Igbos are scared once again. They are scared of their Hausa Lords?

I really feel for you cannibals

Because tinubu achieved what the greatest Igbo man couldnt

Tinubus party won the SW and Edo

Ojuku couldnt even win elections on his street and was roundly rejected like the corpse of Clifford Orji by his own ppl