₦airaland Forum

You cant blame anyone for choosing to live in any part of his country

Its the failing of the govt to provide security that should be addressed.

We are one country like Azikwe wanted us to be, Until we separate, then no one can stop the other from living anywhere

chika98:
Most women in Nigeria! Even then that's overly and grossly exaggerated. Let's not forget that marital status in Nigeria is pretty much everything. Although the westernization going on there has upped the divorce rates and such but still. For a greater majority, being married and staying married is of the utter most importance. Society frowns upon the idea of single parents etc so women there "tend" to stay and accept behaviors in marriage.

I highly doubt that women in our(you and I) generation who has come to this country; educated here with a good job and got something good going for them will now come and chill while some dude is out there sleeping with anything/ everyone? Seriously does that even make sense to you? Because dem wan save face?

Most Nigerian chics I know are very much independent. They aren't waiting for some dude to come and take care of them. Obviously there are exceptions to this of course. Basically this isn't limited to anyone really. Your life is what you wanna make of it.

Dont you think with the statement in bold you are agreeing with me?

Lemme ask if you are independent and can take care of yourself would you take such treatment from any man in the name of marriage?

Maybe some would but not the majority

Op,

Do you have a boyfriend? If not I would introduce you to Mr Cork, he is very rich

Charge him heavy dowry and use to money to get accomodation

Frosbel, and co,

Pls this is a serious issue, lets leave the Frosbel is not Igbo thing for now or take it to culture section bikonu (I am ibo too  )

These are ppl getting killed in "their own country" where they have a President who claims to know the killers sponsors but would not reveal

coogar:
it's far deeper than what you have stated above.
there are plenty of women richer than their husbands and still accept infidelity from their husband.

the simple truth is women want to stay in their marriage.
in a society like nigeria, women in marriage command more respect than single mothers so most of them would endure any hardship in marriage than going for a divorce.

Who is more likely to stay with a cheating spouse, a richer woman or a dependent wife?

The richer wife would only stay if she wants to. but the dependent one, by the time she thinks of what to eat tomorrow, she would just overlook it.

I am not saying the societal outlook to it is not a factor but look at societies where women are made dependent and see the abuse going on there. Look at other African countries and especially Arab nations and see what the women go through there.

^^ Regardless of the self worth, When someone holds your meal ticket you would in most cases take BS from them

Human beings regardless of the self worth would take crap from someone who "feeds" you

Cases of marital abuse are more prevalent in societies where the women are economically incapacitated

Think Arabs, think Northen Nigeria think Africa

Ok oo

Na wa o

Mr President what next?

These are Fulani Islamic Jihadist parasites from the North North

Na lasinoh I stalk reach here oo

freecocoa:
^
Come closer let me whisper it into your ears.

If I come closer, I must to touch something oooo

Takes care of you financially I mean mostly

Because if I feed and pay your bill 100% most likely you cant question me. even if my girlfriends are calling or visiting me you wont have the guts to challenge because it might have huge effect on you if you are not financially independent

So what do you do?

Tell me in confidence

Na wa oo

Maybe they were telling yu in parables

The Israel might be Jerusalem on high

The same SNG that fought the cabal to make Retardeen president

He forgot to add that he also had no brains

Bayelsa? that ACN state located in the North North

Abeg they are parasites

ifyalways:
[size=18pt]The woman is a parasite and huge liability.she brings in nothing,depends solely on the man for any and every thing.She's stuck in there and would gladly accept/endure,warts and all. . .so long as he keeps providing for her(and kids).[/size]

This is what makes most Naija women accept infidelity.

I have always said it that the best way to enslave anyone is to make them dependent on you 100% and any woman who accepts to be a housewife in this day and age has just sold herself short

Do you know how many women turn a blind eye on obvious adultery jus because they dont want to lose their meal tickets?

They would be like, If I leave him because of adultery, who would take care of me. Why would a full bodied adult depend on another human to take care of him or her?

Any human who takes care of you reserves the right to do as he/she pleases

Our folks who live in the Ipswich area How far na

Abeg you help us see one of our friends?

What comes firstsubsidy removal or improvement of mass transit

And can we use this buses to power our generators too?

[quote author=Bandit C. link=topic=839387.msg9903938#msg9903938 date=1325806510]Nah. You never called anyone out you just exposed how naive and d.umb you are in arguing and reading comprehension.[/quote]Naive is when you claim Geography is the sole reason for placing states in Geo-Political zones

Dumb is when you persist with such argument even when evidence contrary has been shown

[quote author=Bandit C. link=topic=839387.msg9903913#msg9903913 date=1325806147]You never win an argument based on what you believe your opponent ''assumes''. That single highlighted quote about Edo, south-south and south-south south, should have made it clear to you that i find the whole terminology idiotic and baseless but i guess good comprehension isn't really your thing based on your record here so i might as well be arguing with a m.oro.n, of which i never delve into such.[/quote]When you make statements beffiting of a leprechaun on the internet you would always be called out for such senselessness

This is the www. Not a village

na me you dey follow talk

Enu e ma ya de eti ninu odun yi.

You better apologize before I make my own wish. hint below

[size=4pt]Idowuogbo must marry Mr Cork this year[/size]

Are we not copying subsidy removal and fuel pricing from them? Are we not copying democracy from them, Are we not copying Science from them, even our language and dressing

[quote author=Bandit C. link=topic=839387.msg9903805#msg9903805 date=1325804455]Edo is no south-south. Maybe they didn't teach you directions, positions, compass usage and how to read maps in school. Only in Nigeria would an uneducated military man like Obasanjo term a state, situated where Edo is, south-south and every body would swallow it. Take a look one more time at the map of Nigeria and tell me that based on geography, Edo is a south-south state. If Edo is south-south, what does that make Bayelsa? south-south south? and Imo? south-south east?

All these educated illiterates.[/quote]Ohio is categorised as a Mid West state

Below is the map of the United State

What makes Ohio in red Mid west?

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/5/58/Ohio_in_United_States.svg/800px-Ohio_in_United_States.svg.png

^^ Logic dictate that since you said Edo isnt South South, That must mean there are some states that are genuinely South South as evidenced from this part of your post

Take a look one more time at the map of Nigeria and tell me that based on geography, Edo is a south-south state. If Edo is south-south, what does that make Bayelsa? south-south south? and Imo? south-south east?

Since the basis for you discrediting Edo as a South South is based on the Geographical co-ordinates

[quote author=Bandit C. link=topic=839387.msg9903805#msg9903805 date=1325804455]Edo is no south-south. Maybe they didn't teach you directions, positions, compass usage and how to read maps in school. Only in Nigeria would an uneducated military man like Obasanjo term a state, situated where Edo is, south-south and every body would swallow it.[/quote]

All these educated illiterates.

Now judge who is the illiterate

violent:
The ministerial seat is not a political position, so technically, ministers are not hired by "the people". . . .

I think since the salary the she is paid is from taxpayers(the people)

Tottenham has Scot Parker, Livermore, King, Sandro, Lennon, Gallas, Huddlestone, Jenas

^^ And in your own Geography, Is there any co-ordinate called South-South?

Idowuogbo:
Dk I wish you came a woman walahi

Kilode?