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Why isnt the woman using that same stability, encouragement and support to help herself when she was single or employ the same tact when she was married.

Many guys are already on their way up the ladder before they got married without any woman to "support"

I'm sure Zuckerbergs wife in the next few years too would tell stories of how she supported and helped him retain his money.

Its a known fact that marriage slows down a lot of men, You can no longer take financial risk because the barbie at home must eat.

If the tell 2 men to go to Malaysia for a business opportunity, the single hops on the plane but the married one wont be able to go.

Many employers nowadays actually prefer the younger and unmarried ones who wont have the "My wife is waiting " mantra everytime a serious issue needs to be tackled.

Yet she wants to get half of what your effort did, while keeping hers?

On Thursday 24 March 2011, FC Bayern Munich AG board directors Karl-Heinz Rummenigge and Karl Hopfner, and director of sport Christian Nerlinger, held talks with Jupp Heynckes. The meeting ended with the following agreements:

Jupp Heynckes will become FC Bayern head coach on 1 July 2011.


The contract will run until 30 June 2013.

Following the talks with Heynckes, who has already coached Germany’s most successful club on two occasions (1987 to 1991 and 2009), Karl-Heinz Rummenigge expressed great satisfaction. “Jupp Heynckes was the candidate we wanted,“ the FC Bayern chairman commented, “we’re delighted we’ve reached agreement with him on a two-year contract. I’m convinced our partnership with Jupp Heynckes will be a successful one.“

Heynckes, who will remain Bayer 04 Leverkusen head coach until the end of the season, said he is looking forward to working with the players and staff in Munich: “Quite apart from my excellent personal relations with the senior officials at Bayern, I have always been exceptionally impressed by the utterly professional way in which the club is managed. I have already coached Bayern twice, and always valued the working atmosphere and climate there. Obviously, as Bayern coach, you have a certain duty to deliver success. However, I regard that as an appealing challenge, which I am delighted to tackle together with the team over the next two seasons

http://www.fcbayern.telekom.de/en/news/news/2011/28824.php?logout_redirect=true

I have a colleague at work naija guy who married an American.

When they got married the woman was working. When she wanted to have her first baby she said she would drop out of work to take care of her baby as she doesnt want any nanny to care for her baby, the guy obliged.

10yrs later they have 2 kids a 9yr and a 7yr old both now in sch.

The woman has refused to get a job after that Cos of the convenience. All she does is to sit at home and flip channels while the kids she used as excuse are all in school.

Its so bad that in that 10yrs she didnt even get any degree or certificate just sit at home. I wonder how some women would have such sense of entitlement?

The man dare not get a divorce because of the potential alimony and Child support he would be slammed with.

^^ Why wont Dayo be here

When some of your fellow women while their mates are schooling, working hard to make a living they are looking for men to fleece on.

The basic rule of life is to reap where you sowed, If the couple run a joint business its logical for the woman to take her part but in a case where they both work independently of the other? What sense does it make?

A man who got married as a manager in a bank, The compensation he receives as a manager comes from his education, his level headedness ability to stay away from bad gangs and crime and the diligent work he put in as a fresher up to manager role which the woman didnt contribute to.

How would the woman now claim half of his fortune because she cooked for him(The man provided the foodstuff), She slept with him (They spent equal time on each other and derived commensurate benefit from the fork) or for what reason

Shouldn't the man be compensated for providing the woman with a roof, financial security, donating his semen for childbearing and numerous orgasms she had during the marriage and her feeling of completeness, contentment and fulfilment as a married woman, Her bragging right as a responsible woman who had a husband when her friends cant lock down a man?

Nekai:
In a union there is no need for you to feel like your wife/husband is leeching off you if you have found an equal partner.

An equal partner that doesnt feel she needs to feed off another mans sweat. Unfortunately most women cant do this. Even in ordinary relationships you see them complaining and demanding financial and material items from guys when they contribute absolutely nothing

Agreed. Neither party deserves a reward for doing their part in a union, but in the event of divorce neither party deserves to be punished to the point of being thrown out on the street either.

How would you be thrown on the street? You would surely leave with what you worked for, No one is telling the man to take all the money you worked for from your bank account, Take only what you brought or contributed.

Yes! We can't win either way. If we go to school for many years and build a career instead of accepting the first marriage proposal that comes our way, we will suffer. If we pursue our carrers and money while we are married then our husbands complain that the housework is neglected, or the kids need more minding, or there isn't enough kids, or we are too tired for intimacy.

Why not focus on how to make money for yourself? Or why did you bother getting an education if the idea of making it is to live off another human with brains just like you?

If you think any of the above would hinder you from achieving your goals of making your own money then dont do it, I am sure the guy would find other means of achieving his goals without a parasite to milk him

Shinatu:
We are the same people who will condemn and be ready to crusify the woman for neglecting her 'roles' as a woman.

What are these roles that stops her from using her brains to make money?

She went into marriage for money or what.

Dont you think marriage also inhibits the man? Or why should the man? Not able to stay out with the boiys, screw any female he wants, enjoy his freedom without being questioned?

Both make equal sacrifices in marriage and should leave with what they put in. Unless they run a joint business together as partners

E tun fe lo do ara yin lori messenger?

^^ How about both parties using their intellect and brains to make money for themselves. And not leeching off the other?

Unless you are saying one party is brain dead and a complete m0r0n who cant think and make money for themseleves rather look for unsuspecting victims to milk

Mckenzy99:
@Odunnu,hw r u doing?can we chat?

Odunnu the jazz you are using is very potent. I must confess

Criteria for a Bayern coach or captain is that they must speak German.

Neither Lippi nor van basten does

Why cant these women use all their supportive skills to support themselves and make money for themselves

Everyone knows that a good man can be made even greater by a supportive wife. Being a wife and mother is a 24/7 job and some women give up the best years of their lives to rearing children and helping create a peaceful home. How much money is that worth? That's a double overtime job with no time off. No woman wants to end up a divorcee especially with children in the picture. 9 times out of 10 it's the man who sends the woman out because of his cheating behavior.
Must the woman be thrown out on the street after all the hard work is done putting a household together and rearing the children?
I applaud every woman who has a cheating/abusive husband and managed to get half of the estate she has contributed to.

Typical gold digger.

Why didnt the supportive woman use her support to enrich herself? Or doesnt she have a brain and the needed skills to make money for herself?

Juup Heyckenes appointed Bayern Munich coach

Its already on bayern site.

Thanks Louis van Gaal for the great time

Would post it when the news is on Bayern website when its in English

Lock him in the bathroom and take the keys away

Hannie

What you dreamt of is the reality on ground

He should think twice before rigging this election

I am Yoruba from Oyo state a xtian and I support Buhari

Lets rid this country of corruption

Who are the South East leaders in the article?

Did someone mention Robben in comparison with these disabled players?

Expo for common entrance for where?

In the 80's? Expo? as a 9yr old?

You funny o.

fstranger3:
I finished the whole of Odiaka paripari. Still na, i no get into KC or Ijanikin!

Oh well, life isnt fair

I memorized all of Odiaka, I was even targetting KC and Ilorin. During my set they cancelled the Interview after the main exam

Next thing we started getting letters throwing us all over the country,

FGC Ikot -ekpene, FGC Jos, FGC Azare dem dem

[quote author=Kilode?! link=topic=590933.msg7981319#msg7981319 date=1301018659]Lol@ Katsumoto

Damn DK saw plenty o![/quote]Omo no be small thing o. My eye see plenty.

Did you also read Lolly in school? Did you use Odiaka for National Common Entrance?

[quote author=isale_gan2 link=topic=590933.msg7981294#msg7981294 date=1301018294]See ara-oke proper.  [/quote]Maybe the remote looked like a vibrator

Katsumoto:
Who be ajebota? Mo le je go mo e lori fun nka to so yen. 

What is Egbo?

Can we go back to English cos the spirit of Aare latosa would strike your computer with the Egun you wrote as Yoruba

Egbo: Is a meal made from corn that you remove the corn bran and cook the maize till its soft like rice

[quote author=Kilode?! link=topic=590933.msg7981240#msg7981240 date=1301017327]I will buy the Mr Bako and family story if you have it.

You remember 88 Olympics? Bros I hail o  

Egbunike of Nigeria?[/quote]Seoul 88, Na that time I believed so much in Nigeria I even believed Chidi Imoh would win 100m before he pulled a muscle.

Seoul 88 was one interesting Olympics that was when the favourite Ben Johnson won the gold and was stripped of his medal for steroids,

That time my favourite footballer was Okwaraji before he died.

See the publicity on Radio Nigeria and we came back without 1 medal

I think Egbunike was in 1984 iirc

Katsumoto:
Check out stories; just a few I can relate to.  

See ajebotas. I remember then when I first got to High school I was quickly initiated into "buka" food.

We had one boy who would eat Egbo 90k, Ewa 10kobo.

I started saving money meant for bus and lunch and my first saving I used to buy Guardian newspaper for N1

naijababe:
Haba! Doki, dat one no be yab now, na just itasi 

My name is naijababe, I be the real naija babe and an Arsenal fanatic, i no get the liver to renounce (abi shey na withdraw be the right word) my support despite six yrs of heartbreak, maybe I'm a glutton for punishment

Masochist?

Hmm Interesting I like.

So Dr Kit sef dey play Jeun jeun?

[quote author=isale_gan2 link=topic=590933.msg7981165#msg7981165 date=1301015189]Planta?  Was that the margarine or the butter?  I hated margarine.  Yuck!  Yeah,  We bought our butter from UTC or Leventis, where we also got those addicting England comics with the cute girlie stories (not the violent marvel or DC comic ones from America - except Little Lotta or Richie Rich).  hehehehe. Sometimes, each of the girls would have her own butter. Cos you know, butter is so awesome.  

But I went to the worst schools, mehn!  The closest muslim primary school within walking distance.  And, I could vomit thinking about my secondary school.  [/quote]See Ajebo lifestyle.

For me na NOEC ENglish textbook we read with Mr Bako and Family travelling all over Nigeria.

Who read "Lolly" under the school desk here?

One day I went to visit my aunt who had a color TV and remote control. I didnt know what a remote was. So the housegirl was messing with us and changing the channels at will.

The girl sabi lie. I told her the Nigerian team that played USSR in Canada 87 and mentioned one Baba Jubril and she immediately said the boy is the son of Jubril Aminu!!!

24yrs after I still view her as a liar.

naijababe:
^ I've always said that the 80s were the best. Great TV shows, correct music and most people were still sane. Now, it takes a degree of madness to survive naija  

The only time I stayed up late watching TV was when I was watching Canada 87 finals live it was shown around 11pm and we lost to USSR in the finals. I cried so tay and even plotted to kill the ref.

That was the last time I cried over football.

I remembered Seoul 88 Olympics, and the games fell during school hours I stole my dads transistor radio to school to listen to live commentaries and my Ghanian classsteacher seized the radio. come see another beating


Who here watched Feyikogbon?

naijababe:
^ How could I forget Ajan? My dad banned us from watching the rest of the series after my kid brother memorised all Ajan and Abija incantations. The old man no sabi say VCR dey record even when the TV is on standby  . So we'd put the TV on standby and record and watch on Monday afternoon, great times  

VCR for where?

Our own TV na one big Black and white that had doors like wardrobe. Who remembers that TV here?

Me I be pakororo

naijababe:
@ DK , you dey craze o , kosi inu tani? Abeg I no wan born ebora  . That song was from Koto Orun right?

Crazily in love with you.

naijababe:
^ So you  be softy after all! There was a time B.C.O.S would air Indian movies on Saturday nights, my dad would just decide to spoil show and order us to bed. Of course we'd go to bed and return 20 mins later and one of us would be on standby remote control duty, if a fly so much buzzes, the TV is switched off from the remote and we'd all be as quiet as mice until the coast is clear

I must be in bed by 10 else na beating.

The following morning my friends in school would tell me the movies on show last night usually chinese with Actor and Boss. The guy could narrate one movie for a week, He would even draw the actors and each of their fight scenes.

Through him I knew Bruce Lee one on one

[quote author=isale_gan2 link=topic=590933.msg7980904#msg7980904 date=1301008835]What's my thing, sis?  Please do tell.  I am loosy-goosey and welcome all comments.  [/quote]You thing is that part wey I wan waya badly

[quote author=isale_gan2 link=topic=590933.msg7980810#msg7980810 date=1301007629]DayoK, I'm still waiting for an apology and for you to do the right thing as per the posts I previously made to you.  Last chance![/quote]Oya come here make I give you cunninlingus as a sign of my apology. Last chance.

Nijababe, You try.

In Opa Aje have you forgotten Ajan.

Also Koto Orun with Koledowo, Oyiboyi, Ogunjimi etc