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The woman claiming to be tear rubber while she be tokunbo. Women being deceiving Men since 20BC, during d days of Adam.

God save us Men from Karishakas!

str8talk1:
In ur dreams,boy.

lolling at ur post. Baby

Sincerely speaking is this the change we voted for? Goodluck Jonathan Era is better than what d masses is going through now. I pray these doesn't continue through out this tenure.

str8talk1:
Hmm!...voice of Jacob hand of Esau.
Is she also Iyá-òlójá of Southern & Northern Nigeria?

both

The numbers of Wailing wailers are increasing day by day...

Naija be like

Sold

Clean UK used superslim Playstation 3 for sale

good morning

Yoruba are very tolerant, if this kind of thing happens in d North. There wld more casualties.

zibi2:

what do u stand to gain by mocking d president this way!

Available

Great offer u can't afford to miss. Hurry now, before it's been purchased.

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stankezzy:
That is distant relationship

LOL

Tall girls are cute and lovely, but a perfect Match for Tall guys would be short girls


Most Basketball players Married short girls and its kind of appealing

Secretario:
Habits is a usual way of behavior: more importantly, something one does in a regular or repeated pattern {Merriam-Webster}. Your habit could be anything you love doing irrespective of the fact that it is or may be detrimental and carries a negative effect.

This is one reason why a kleptomania will see no wrong in stealing continuously and consecutively even if caught.

Habit can be inborn or innate and can also be picked up overtime either by observation or as an influence from our nearest environment. But the good thing is that you can overcome.

To be well placed and successful, you need to be able to put your negative habits in check and build upon the positive ones.

Without deviating, we are talking about your life here (no disrespect!) and I will put it to you that you are already struggling because you are not the master of all your habits and little wonder you get so depressed and dejected most times.

Every man has a negative behavioral imprint and I will show you some of them that will perpetually stand as a stumbling block to your overall progress, let’s get down to business!

DEADLY HABITS THAT WILL MAKE YOU UNSUCCESSFUL AND STRUGGLE ETERNALLY IN LIFE

Below I will outline some of the habits and possible solution to override their effects and also, I believe with the insight gotten from this article, you can do some more self-evaluation and come up with more and see if you can improve positively.

deadly habits that will make you unsuccessful and struggle eternally in life

YOUR DAILY ROUTINE IS NOT IN A PATTERN AND IS DISORGANIZED

The start of everyday for everyone is the onset of another struggle to stay alive and achieve more. It’s not just enough to wake up in the morning and think the day will set itself in motion.

Most of us have no routine and this makes the whole concept of time and taking control seem totally foreign. May I ask you the following questions?

When do you wake up every morning?
What do you do when you wake?
Do you plan your day?

70% will be answer in the negative and this is the difference between you and that man who keeps raking in all the accolades and success.

Always try to wake up at the same time every day, even if you are sleeping late, just try to sleep early to wake up early!

Don’t just wake at the same time but try to wake up very early each day, least 6am, this gives you an head start into the day before others.

Most important, plan your day and stop letting life take you by surprises and by the collar.

YOU ARE YET TO DEFINE YOUR SOURCE OF HAPPINESS

Do you know the power to do more and exceedingly, is in the ability to discover what makes you happy and ultimately pushing towards it.

Most of us don’t have a defined source of happiness and so, waking up each day becomes a hard chore because you have no source of inspiration.

Define your source of happiness and you will be surprised how well you will take on each challenge as they come, your happiness source could be a loved one, your job, your hobby and passion, your dream and aspiration… and if you don’t have any then make the RESULT OF SUCCESS your happiness source.

Always imagine the kind of comfort you will get if you can conquer and succeed, that alone will give you all the push you want with an unwavering amount of confidence to do exploit.

YOU ARE SURROUNDED BY NEGATIVITY AND ILL FEELING

Damn you my friend if the force and energy around you is dark. Negativity is like a malignant cancer and it will eat up at you from inside. Ill feelings are the behavioral locusts and they will eat at you from outside and at the end, you become a living cadaver.

No love lost, but you should learn to analyze your environment for any sign of negativity and discouragement that will put you down, strife and ill feelings will do you no good too.

Learn to always voice out how you feel at all times and stop bottling emotions up, you will implode into a paranoid with a degraded self-worth and esteem.

Look for places and people that always bring out your best and make you see positivity and light, stop self-pity and never ever compare yourself to anybody, not even ME!

SCARED TO TAKE RISKS AND LACK OF TRUST IN YOUR INSTINCTS

My motto has always been, “BEAR A RISK TO AVOID A RISK” sound bare but it’s a coded message if you can decipher.

My friend, let me open your eyes to the guarded secret of life,

“THE BEST THINGS IN LIFE ARE FOR THOSE WHO CAN TAKE RISKS AND TRUST THEIR INSTINCTS.”

Trying to be simple and tethered is great but the feeling of been free and able to explore all risks is heavenly. I am not advocating you engage in ventures that are dangerous, negative or that you already know the results will be dead on arrival.

Don’t hold yourself back, smell the coffee and fly to the stars, the worst is that you will fail but hey, you are experienced now and you will only get better.

Do not be a mediocre because of fear, or do you want to keep licking the icing without been able to eat the cake?

YOU DON’T KNOW YOUR SELF WORTH, POTENTIAL AND CANNOT CONCENTRATE

No one is worthless in life and I believe you already know this, then what is the problem? You cannot concentrate and discover your innate potentials.

No one is a mistake, inasmuch as you are on planet earth, you already have a great purpose to the grand scheme of things, the only issue is you don’t value yourself high and how do you want others to?

Why not sit and try to know what your strong points are, what purpose you want to drive to and what potential is in you that can be set in motion to achieve more.

The only way to do this is to learn to concentrate better, stop having divided attentions and put all your focus on one course and see if you will not do exploits!

YOU DON’T MAINTAIN CONNECTIONS AND ARE NOT APPRECIATIVE

How appreciative are you? I guess not, because you have a low concept of the idea behind maintaining connections and working as a team.

No man is an island, and I am not saying you should make friends with everyone but align with people with the same drive and motive as you and see if achieving great things will not be a piece of cake.

Connections will always prove beneficial in life and at any stage you find yourself, so start to build them now and learn to be more appreciative for any little thing been offered to you.

The test of man is in little things and you will know how he will handle larger things.

Meet with people of like minds and share dreams and aspiration and this will ease your struggle in life.

CONCLUSION

These habits are ultimate hindrances to your success and the purpose of this article is not to scare you but to tell you to get bigger and better.

Most importantly you just have to be yourself and change from negative to positive!


SOURCE: http://collegereap.com/deadly-habits-that-will-make-you-unsuccessful-and-struggle-eternally/

Secretatio

Applying all these without God might not guarantee you success. Every man's blessings is in d hand of God that created him. Seek God u get your blessings from him

That bitchh is always seeking for cheap attention.

She thinks she can drive traffic to her blog and social media handles by saying all this trash.

vizkiz:
so he had a record label already

Smh... This is another case of dbanj and don jazzy. One will keep flaunting money and valuables while the other will keep being a "father" to "his children"

The way this" beef" is going in 2016 I wouldn't be surprised if seun starts beefing lalastic.lala because all the babes on nairaland are screaming his name up and down

Guy u re funny. What has beef got to do with seun...

Ekeeyhandsome:
Lol
u actually killed Micheal Jackson..abeg who send who??
The person no send u make u go kill shekaue and the rest destabilizing our lovely country naija.. na M.j wey dey give us hit songs back to back u go kill..
E no go better for u..

Don't mind her jare, if she want cheap attention, she should just come and collect it.

condralbede:
Every throw was a hit back to back,from water to beer to red label to monkey tail to kparaga,iyalaya drinking taking over d stage.

If u want the Stage and Microphone come and collect it...

kilode100:
Adultery is For Adults!!..


Be Guided!

While Fornication is for teenagers...

What I see on this thread is a case of a son denying who his actual father is!

Every tom, dick and Harry knows that (Ile ibinu, bini) Benin originated from Yoruba.

There is not thing to argue about, from cultures and traditions alone, one can tell that Yoruba is their father anyday, anytime.

Keep Blaming GEJ............

Benin came out of Yoruba land. Oduduwa son oranmiyan was d one dat found Benin Kingdom according to reliable source of history.

This is one of d reason dollar always rising against naira. We import everything in Nigeria from toothpick to clothing, from shoes to handbags, from biscuits to chocolates, from frozen turkey to frozen chicken. Now we are importing Ciara when we have our own tiwa savage and yemi alade readily available to give us good songs

wendycindy:
Why not nicki minaj na

u re so point. Nikky wld have made a lot of sense, but she is quite expensive. Not less than a million dollar

shamecurls:
Diz short butter tingy forming sturbborn


If na so, All Shomolu and Bariga boys for don hammer pieces

he channelled his stubbornness to something positive dat is d difference btw Davido and shomolu, bariga boys

Not everybody will understand d word stubbornness. I think what Davido is trying to say is that mental toughness and tenacious ability brought him to where he his today.

Oga Lai Muhammed keep blaming Jonathan for everything.

Okwuo to ekene Eze! That is how is done in IBO land.

But am amazed seeing OBj of 82 years old postrating for 42 years old Oni of Ife


Yoruba culture is really deep and endowed.