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TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 5:48pm On Jul 29, 2016
Hello House, please I am in a dilema. I want to change from Dr. F to Dr. D, but still using the same hosp - Houston Methodist. My major reasons are 1) Dr. F doesnt take pre-payment, 2) I understand Dr. F is rarely available to take delivery, 3) I cant book an appointment until my arrival, so what happens when they want to confirm at POE, 4) Dr. F is sometimes not available to pick calls when he is contacted at the POE, amongst others.

I am more concerned because I am applying for my Husband and daughter's visa and their interview shld be after my arrival and i need them to take along evidence of payment to the interview. Pls note that I used Dr. F has my contact in my DS-160.

What do you suggest? Thanks for your responses.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 9:43am On Jul 29, 2016
Congrats.
Harjeehbaday:
Our baby girl arrived Thursday afternoon at about 2:08 pm at Houston Methodist Sugarland. Dr Amajoh was around for delivery and the nurses were nice and courteous.
Everything went well as planned....Chilling and waiting to start processing the necessary documents.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 3:08pm On Jul 28, 2016
@firsttymum, who should be their contact in the US, Thot i cant put my detail since i dont reside in the US. For my application i filled d doc's. So who shld i fill for them?
firsttymum:
1. The hotel or accommodation
2. Yes
3. Ur daughter won't help you out tho. Lol
U can put that but I think u shld add vacation. For ur daughter it's vacation. To some extent for ur husband it's vacation too.
In my opinion I wld say vacation and witness / assist my wife during / after the delivery of our baby.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 2:33pm On Jul 28, 2016
Pls, my people, I am trying to complete my husband and daughter's visa application online, pls help me wit the following questions?

1. who should i put as their contact in the US?
2. the address where they will stay in the US should be where i am staying? since i will arrive US b4 them? I am renting an apartment
3. purpose of trip? to help me out and witness the birth of his baby? does it make sense?

Thank you again
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 5:24am On Jul 28, 2016
Maybe u shld use N300/$1, cos of d flunctuating interbank rate.
Lajoie33:
Honorable members! Remain blessed
Biko it just occurred to me that I dont know what exchange rate to use for my budget sheet. I had done one with N289/$1. Am I on the right track? pliss epp me
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 11:46am On Jul 27, 2016
Good news. Got my visa this morning at 10am, Lagos.

Transcript below.

VO - Why are travelling to the US
ME - To have my baby
VO - Where are you going in US
ME - Houston
VO - What do you do?
ME - I am lawyer
VO - How long have you been in practice?
ME - About 6 years
VO - What does you husband do?
ME - He is also a lawyer
VO - Is this your 1st child?
ME - No, 2nd
VO - Have you travelled before?
ME - No
VO - Have you contacted a doctor?
ME - Yes (hands over the doc's correspondence)
she read through, page by page and continued typing)
VO - How much is your budget for this trip?
ME - About 16,500
Hands over the white paper and said i should pick up my visa on monday.

No bank statement, no budget sheet, no payslip, nothing. Got the biggest surprise of my life this morning. I read this forum from part 1 to 4, prepared as if i had Jamb exam. Had all my docs, hubby and I's bank statements, letter of sponsorship from hubby, letter from my office, my payslip, marriage cert, change of name publication, budget sheet, doc's correspondence, evidence of accommodation etc. VO didnt ask for a single doc other than doc's correspondence.

Meanwhile, they were just issuing blue paper to people today, even families going on vacation and those going for conference. I however observed that they gave visa to alot of elderly people.

Soo happy that a friend directed me to Nairaland and thank you great people for helping me out in this uphill task. Hoping to hear more good news.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 2:07pm On Jul 19, 2016
I am laughing out loud here. @wapu, transcripts of what transpired during your visa interview or POE interview, not ur Uni/High sch transcripts.
nefertitiram:
*falls from palm tree*
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 1:39pm On Jul 19, 2016
Thank you. Just out of curiosity and to take as much as possible.
LadyGuinivere:
Check what other people have carried.
If its just a general letter and you have no underlying medical issue, I personally dont see the point. It dosent establish anything
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 12:49pm On Jul 19, 2016
For visa, pls do i need to obtain doc's report from my naija doc to show ow long i'm gone, ANC etc, to show dat i am undergoing care here but just want something better?

Thanks.
LadyGuinivere:
If only to say kudi dey the work grin
This kain hungry president cheesy
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 12:29pm On Jul 19, 2016
@Lady G, God bless ur strength, wisdom and effortless ways of addressing our issues, they are unimaginable. I am coming back here for my testimony very very soon.
LadyGuinivere:
Sorry bout the refusal.
Ist Its imprortant to reiterate the fact that the vos make their desicion from the ds 160 AND the interview and sometimes a transcript may not give a true picture.
You said he looked thru your passport? Maybe he wasn't impressed with what I assume is no travel history. Some VO's place a premium on that. I don't know how much you earn and how long you have worked . The vo may have considered that vis a vis the 13k you quoted.
2ndly I wish we wouldn't be using that 'my friend said' answer
Why Houston? Is basically why do you want to born in Amrica and why did you pick Houston ?
If you look at it that way? Your answer falls short. Always lead the interviewer to your areas of strenght
If it were me I'd prolly answer
A: Because I have had so so so and so issues in the past and after my research I discovered that Dr XYX in Houston has a good reputation of handling such matters and even when I mentioned it to my ObGyn he also was of the opinion that Dr XYX would handle my case better because of their facilities.
I don't know why we always give one word /short answers. With this answer I gave above it is only ntural that the vo will pick on one of the issues there and ask more questions. For egs : is it only dr xyx that can handle your matter?
Are you saying your obgyn is not good?
Tell me more about this your health condition.
Show preparedness. Own the interview. Yes its good to read the thread but don't cut and paste.
Be that person that the vo remembers at the end of the day because you stood out.
As for expedited date, read the last page, somebody just asked that question and was answered. God's grace
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 4:05pm On Jul 18, 2016
For visa, pls do i need to obtain doc's report from my naija doc to show ow long i'm gone, ANC etc, to show dat i am undergoing care here but just want something better?

Thanks.
ccemordi:
debby516:
Hello House, Lady G, 1sttymmum, feddy, justwise and all other mothers, well done.

Please i need you candid opinion/answers to a few questions.

During visa interview, when i am asked why am i travelling? Can my answer be for childbirth only and not with vacation, cos i applied for a B2 visa and truthfully, i am going alone leaving my husband and toddler behind and my only purpose is childbirth, not with vacation anyways. I have seen quite alot of transcript that reads childbirth and vacation.

2ndly, when asked about previous travel history, i dont have one and i intend to answer that i have had no cogent reason to travel, schooled, trained and work here in Nigeria.

3rdly, wen asked why Houston/this doc/hosp, can my answer be squarely on friend review coupled with my research and reviews i have read about the doctor/hospital. In addition to the fees which is within our means to pay.

Thank you.





I concour .. This LadyG too sabi Abeg!! NUMBER 1 grin
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 1:52pm On Jul 18, 2016
Thank you.
LadyGuinivere:
1. Yes. Childbirth alone should be your reason. Shows candid-ness (oyibo cheesy) and sets the tone for the interview. Note: You can lead the interview to how you want it if you give the right answers.
2. Travel history abi the lack therof only is not a barrier to visa issuance. Your reason is ok. But be sure not to sound defensive.
3. All of the above mnus the cost part. That may tick the vo off wrongly that you are working on a budget and likely to resort to medicaid once any extra expense exceeds your budget.
#myopinion o
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 11:28am On Jul 18, 2016
Hello House, Lady G, 1sttymmum, feddy, justwise and all other mothers, well done.

Please i need you candid opinion/answers to a few questions.

During visa interview, when i am asked why am i travelling? Can my answer be for childbirth only and not with vacation, cos i applied for a B2 visa and truthfully, i am going alone leaving my husband and toddler behind and my only purpose is childbirth, not with vacation anyways. I have seen quite alot of transcript that reads childbirth and vacation.

2ndly, when asked about previous travel history, i dont have one and i intend to answer that i have had no cogent reason to travel, schooled, trained and work here in Nigeria.

3rdly, wen asked why Houston/this doc/hosp, can my answer be squarely on friend review coupled with my research and reviews i have read about the doctor/hospital. In addition to the fees which is within our means to pay.

Thank you.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 10:38am On Jul 13, 2016
@Temyb, our song is - ur name is Yahweh x2 u re the miracle working God, ur name is Yahweh.
damidamsel:
Congrats.
Isa 54:4 "Do not fear, for you will not be ashamed; Neither be disgraced, for you will not be put to shame........Joel 2:26-27 Joel 2:26 "You shall eat in plenty and be satisfied, And praise the name of the Lord your God, Who has dealt wondrously with you; And My people shall never be put to shame.Then you shall know that I am in the midst of Israel:I am the Lord your God And there is no other.My people shall never be put to shame".......I am inspired by your Faith and I join my Faith with yours this morning, believing in God and declaring that over your children and over this trip you embarked on, you will NEVER be put to shame IJN. It's well. We all await your mega testimony.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 10:36am On Jul 13, 2016
Congrats. Such a bold step.
lobus:
It is with great joy i announce that my wife's Visa was approved today after we were denied last week. This forum has been of great help and it is only appropriate that i share our entire story.

DENIAL INTERVIEW- July 8
VO: Good morning Madam
Wife: Good morning
VO: Are you both applying together?
Wife: Yes we are. *Hands him our passports
VO: Why are you going to the US and where are you going?
Wife: Houston, Texas to have our baby
VO: What do you do for a living?
Wife: I am a managing partner in xxxx company owned by myself and my husband. We are into xxxxxxxx
VO: How much do you have budgeted for this trip
Wife: Hands him our budget sheet and doctors correspondence. *noticed that he was only looking at the budget sheet.
VO: Will you be staying in a hotel?
Wife: No. Will be staying with a friend
VO: *Typed for several minutes*. Sorry you are not eligible for the visa

The reason for denial was due to insufficient ties.

After several brainstorming and thinking, i was advised that my wife should apply alone but then the challenge was that the next available appointment was not until August 24 by which my wife would be past 35weeks. We had to apply for an expedited interview on July 9, attaching Doctor's report (Nigeria), Doctors's correspondence (US), Budget sheet and account statements as supporting documents to justify our request for an expedited interview. The expedited interview was granted on Monday July 11 and our interview scheduled for today Wednesday.

APPROVAL INTERVIEW: July 13
VO: Hello
Wife: Hi
VO: What is your reason for going to the US?
Wife: To have my baby
VO: Where is your final destination in the US?
Wife: Houston, Texas.
VO: What do you do for a living?
Wife: Presently i am the managing partner of a company owned by myself and my husband. We do xxxxx and have annual turnover in excess of Bleep
VO: So your husband works in the company also?
Wife: No, he is only a director. He works in xxxxx as xxxx
VO: Have you been in touch with any Hospital
Wife: Yes, both hospital and doctor. *Hands over the correspondence
VO: Any idea how much the trip would cost you?
Wife: Yes. Handed over the budget sheet.
VO: Would your husband be going with you?
Wife: No. He is indisposed at the moment, tied down with loads of work.
VO: Is this your first?
Wife: No. I was actually here last week. *Thought she meant if it was my first time applying for the Visa*
VO: I meant if this is your first baby. But what happened last week?
Wife: I applied with my husband but we were denied due to insufficient ties. I intend making the trip earlier and as a result my husband would not be coming with me because of his schedule
VO: Oh Okay but i meant if this is your first baby
Wife: Yes
VO: Congratulations your visa has been approved. Pick up your passport on xxxxx *Hands over the white paper

Thank you guys.

Houston bound mums for first week in August should please reach out.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 11:34am On Jul 12, 2016
Thanks for the quick response. Are you suggesting that a previous bad birthing experience is not a cogent reason plus the subsequent complications after birth? Just thinking aloud so as to know the next step to take?
LadyGuinivere:
A burden of proof is whatever one feels will convince a VO to grant you a visa. There is no exhaustive list of what to carry. I can't speak to the mind of a VO. I can't even g'tee the vo will look at the documents.
But my advice remains the same, too much is always better than too little. I mean if you have birthed in naija before and you and baby dey ok, don't you think you need a compelling reason to go the us now?
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 10:51am On Jul 12, 2016
Dear LadyG, pls if one is applying for b2 visa, i thot its sufficient to show the VO ur doc's correspondence, burden of proof such as estimated budget, bank statement, strong ties e.g. my work, hubby and daughter and take along their pics, since i am travelling alone. Do i need record of my previous birth? cos i intend to just tell d VO that i want better healthcare for myself and baby, avoid the complications i had during my 1st pregnancy and didnt want to risk my life for the 2nd time. Do u think i need evidence of my previous birth? cos that will be a long thing for me now, how to get the doc's report and wat it shld contain. Pls ur advice.
LadyGuinivere:
The CS should have been your reason for travel
To the US and you take along proof of why you want better care this time. (Doctor's report gbo gbo e)
Lots of people have been denied and gotten visas afyer they cleaned up their acts and reapplied. So the ball is in your court. Is it a risk worth taking? Are you willing to go back to Part 3 to jack transcripts?
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 2:36pm On Jul 08, 2016
Hello House, Pls i am in need of close by accommodation in Sugarland, I am using Houston Methodist. I have checked airbnb, confused. Pls anyone who is travelling early October to December or knows of any available accomodation around that time should pls help, Thank you. Pls help a 1sttimer, ejooo. cry
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 10:45am On Jul 03, 2016
I am sure they ve read my post, let me give them a chance to repent. I'll refrain from naming dem. Thanks Justwise and a job welll done, dont ve a quarter of ur strength and patience
justwise:
Name them? grin will be nice if you can but if you feel otherwise fine.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 11:33pm On Jul 02, 2016
Hello House, just to report dat i ve gotten a couple of pm from agents offering all sorts of services for dis my missionary journey. Lets be careful nd wise, dey re lurking around. With dis exchange rate, i dont ve extra dollars to share around abeg, spare me ur services.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 5:42am On Jun 29, 2016
Thank alot dear.
LadyGuinivere:
1. Personal letter head
2. Personal bnk statement
Much as he owns the business, 'the business' is not sending you abroad. In my opinion, it shows there is a clear structure in the business.
Though u can also carry proof of your husband's business and networth.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 4:40pm On Jun 28, 2016
Hello good pple,

Pls, my husband runs his own law firm and he is sponsoring my trip, is he to write the sponsorship letter on his firm's letterhead or the letter should be written on his own personal letterhead i.e. his name.

2ndly, can i rely on his firm's bank statement or his personal bank statement or both.

NB. I'll also take along my bank statement.

Thanks alot for the help
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 8:19pm On Jun 24, 2016
Pls, i'm interested in the accommodation too. Shld be in Houston by early October. Thank you.
Annim:
I will be in Houston Sept. Got the accomodation that comes with meals but was too expensive and would prefer making my own meals. Got a cheaper one that is convenient and affordable. You can pm me for details
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 6:54pm On Jun 17, 2016
Congrats dear. Looking forward to sharing my testimony come next month. And thanks for sharing teh budget sheet... on point for those of us studying for this JAMB exam.. grin
jbikes:
My wonderful ppl !!!To God Be the glory... DH and I got our B2 visa today ( Lagos 7am appointment) after 4 mnths of B1/B2 rejection. I have decided to share my testimony because I used other ppls info here to keep my faith going .However, I prayed like never before and visited the motherless home with my seed for this purpose. My B1/B2 story goes...... Got married Nov 2015 and we applied in January and interview in February 2016 B1/B2 for honeymoon and to celebrate my upcoming birthday which was 2mnths and some weeks after wedding and God being God I took in immediately after wedding but that was confirmed some days to the visa interview(although what I had in mind was to use it for child birth and vacation if I had gotten it because i went for my honey moon after wedding but needed to tell an attracting story to....... ) so on the process of the interview the VO asked if I was pregnant(immediately I remembered advise from my friends and this site that is good to say the truth ) and I said yes, that I got to know some days after applying and he asked if am giving birth in US and I said for now no plans because we just got to know but I will wish to and the decision will be after the honeymoon vacation and the VO asked again u wish to give birth....and I said yes. So he rejected us then told us to apply for B2 and make available doctors correspondence and also our financial .i was still trying to convince him that I have not made any plans so we can get the visa but he insisted and gave us the blue paper. So we left and I was sad. I talked to justwise and he gave me his advice .Then in march we started sorting for doctors correspondence and i got info here true a good friend i PM that sent DR Fs email ( God bless you thou cant remember ur name again) that i used to get correspondence for doctors F fees and hospital ( Chi St Luke’s Health hospital) and also report from Nigeria hospital and financial. Then we reapplied in May 18TH and Our transcript today:

WE: Good morning with a smile
VO: (A lady)Good morning ..passport Please..... we gave her.
VO where are you going ?
Me :Houston Texas
VO :For what
Me: child birth
VO: Any documents.
Me. Immediately pass the doctors correspondence from Dr F and also letter from my hospital in Nigeria and budget sheet ( well prepared with colors ). and she started typing . really can’t remember if she went through the documents
VO: Why Houston
Me ; because I got a better offer from the hospital and doctor through two ppl I know used same doctor.
VO: where do u work
Me; blaaa blaaa blaaa ..
VO; To DH were do u work .
DH bla blaaa blaaa
VO : What's your budget for this trip ?
WE; Immediately told her the budget sheet was with her ,
VO: She went through and said good. and then typed then asked us to go pick our passport and was advising on the need to pay bills at that point my mind done reach Texas so I no even here wetin she talk again. lol

I thank God for his favor … it was indeed a miracle , No bank statement was checked ( but pls go with yours o!) or any other apart from budget sheet .From my observation, I believe they had already made their decision and then Gods Favor, also the colorful budget sheet !.....what would i have done if not for the budget sheet idea I got here .Thanks alot to all that took out time to answer my questions, and all that has kept posting info to get us updated and more thanks to greatie ( u r a sister)/ justwise you guys rock. Please be honest when applying. i attached the budget sheet for ppl that needs it too.

Regards,
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by debby516(f): 4:15pm On Jun 16, 2016
God bless you. You are a life saver. smiley
Juxen:
Check part 1, pg 105. You will see a sample.

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