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lilvicky68:
If I say you should leave him now..

Who would be supporting you financially??

hhummm

Iyaebe:
Epistles upon epistles,as far as Adam made a move to touch Eve on sighting her so shall his descendants do same to Eve's descendants, you can't change anything, men can't do without women and sex even the so-called redpillers loves sex and can't do without it.So just shushhh it

abi oo

englishmart:
20 TYPES OF GIRL YOU MUST USE CONDOM ON�

1. If she has a tattoo.... Use condom

2. If she drinks beer a lot.... Condom!

3. If she is the first to take your shirt off....
Condom bro

4. If she turns off her phone when she is with you.... Condom!

5. If she has short dyed or sprayed hair....
Condom!

6. If she doesn't ask for condom.... My brother condom!

7. If she wears tight jeans.... My brother condom

8. If she doesn't sigh when you touch her.... Use condom

9. If she lives alone.... Condom please

10. If she works in a hair salon or bar.... Condom

11. If she is a student at Unilag, UNN, Uni Jos, Unical, BSU, and Benpoly.... My brother condom

12. If she wears g-stringe.... Condom

13. If she has stretch marks on her boobs... My brother condom

14. If she wear beads on the hip... Condom

15. If she has a lot of male friends on Facebook... Guy, condom!

16. If she support an influential politician and want to do politics... Condom

17. If she has a ring on her nose and chain at the foot... Double the condom bro!!

18. If she likes to say that all men are the same... Put condom pls

19. If her name is Blessing, Maggie, Favour, Amaka, Naomi, Precious, Jennifer, Princess, Chidimma, Jessica and Linda..... Condom bro!!

20. If she take this post personal... Triple the condom my brother

orisirisi

TheGidRedpiller:
So yea, i'm 10th of october and yea the photo below is a legshot of me which is also my new profile picture but NO i'm not jumping up and celebrating like i would paint the street red anytime soon if i had the means.

Over the years i have learnt that Happiness is not a feeling, its a state of mind, you don't need something to get you happy, you have to be happy within you by default. I lost this special character years ago and since then its always seemed like something external has to compensate my internal state to make me happy but all of this is all in my head and i keep lying to myself!

I'm taking this stuff to the next level, i'm not gonna let some biittch destroy the life of another boy and then end him up like me, i have been working on something since last month that i went off. One of them is getting a better stressfree conversating interface between me and men out there which is currently in my signature now...

Still Typing...

eku ojo ibi oo

freeman95:
There’s no advantage

at all

Sonnobax15:

Regardless of the advantages and the disadvantages,no child deserves to be a victim of it..... Personally, I'm speaking from experience prior to my mom's death, leaving my popsman to raise my younger brother and I alone...

u are right

Davash222:
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Maybe she managed to buy half kilo of chicken and she wanted to impress her Facebook friends about her cooking skills.

Too bad.

Risk avoidance remains the best way to manage risk.

it happened few days ago, she was crushing on her natural hair when the explosion occur

MrWondah:
0
Done. Check your DM.

But wait o, see how we derailed this guy's thread.

For real, some awkward moments could turn beautiful

lol hes not online

Preciousppearl:
rule number1 never continue a drink or meal u left behind in presence of people, thank God for him.

Abi I can't even open shop,I'm really tired

MrWondah:
Should I call Righteousness to be our officiating minister? Anyway, I'd like to send you a pm, if that's ok by you. I like your charisma and friendliness.

call him oo ..no probs

MrWondah:
You should not walk alone. In fact you will never walk alone again. I'll hold your hand and make sure you don't fall not falter.

lol

Macsjebs:
Well, sorry about the lost of the pregnancy, marriage is beautiful, put God first and let love lead, the bond did grow with time

me too, this people are discouraging us jawe

Sonnobax15:
please he shouldn't... do you want to spoil our day?

he we will add graphic na

Sonnobax15:
Because I care for your well-being,you say I be yeye

orisirisi

Sonnobax15:
please you're too precious,that I can't afford to see you facing the consequences

yeye I'll do it over nd over again

Sonnobax15:

No be true Before? Can any good looking banny stand in front of ogun shrine and swear that no man is bankrolling her?

I can, no man has ever bankroll me

God saved my brother from bad people thiis week, he went to cafe to check his Portal nd got can malt he opened nd sip little nd left the rest he came back nd drank the rest not knowwing there was hard drug inside the malt, it was God that revived him til now we are still on it..

MrWondah:
Oya na
Find your own bridal team.
Make I go find my own groomsmen

it just me my friends are married nd I don't v sisters, na boys full my family

Ammishaddai:
They belong to a group of seductresses that believe in luring men through ornaments. My advice is that you stay clear from such ungodly people

that's a lie, I use waist bead nd don't expose it,in fact boought From my neigbr.

MufasaLion:


Boys are bad, few of us are in between.

abi

MrWondah:
How serious do you want me to be?
Ok pick date time and venue

here is good den

MufasaLion:
LMAO

So hilarious! You got banned because you asked "Why?"

swear I screenshot it

tuboi:
He’s a foolish boy. How on earth did he not see the woman’s stomach?

love is blind

FreeSpirited:
The pvssy is sweet...and the woman deceive him to think she's the best pvssy he can ever have free access to....
And guyman na mumu inexperienced who thinks because a woman is giving him sex means she has the best for him...#cashcow

small small na ..as a lady I can't rush into marriage o,there was a time my friend older bro was asking me to marry him i was still thinking about it when he beats our neigbor, his temper is just too much nd he talks like a woman,I. Left without saying good bye, op should just accept the baby nd divorce her after birth.

MrWondah:
Aha!

Let's get it done today here on nairaland, we don't need too many guests.

u are not serious

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

Their is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we starts dating

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me.
later she got pregnant for me.
She start disturbing me about marriage rights

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already
All that day I wasn't myself I wake her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discourage me and said I should thank God for revealing this early
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.


Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

why will u rush into. marriage wthoutt knowing the woman u want to marry ehn

Lol

SmartPolician:
I feel women can only get bolder because we are racing to embrace everything the West does at the detriment of our culture.

@debbydams, that's not entirely true. When you are married, sex is no longer fun but a responsibility. A man may not be in the mood. However, whenever his wife touches him in bed, he must do something. It's a two-way street.

At that point, most men begin to understand that they do all the work during sexual intercourse, while the woman watches like a log of wood and moans at the top of their voices.

it is. Well

Sonnobax15:

lol

MrWondah:
Let's get married already �

oya pick date nd venue

Whizzy080:
Please I'm seriously at cross road, mostly I bring my personal problem here for your advice for some reasons and nom 1 is privacy.. I know normal people no plenty again but please I'm not here for attention I just need your advice, no need for insult abeg � forgive my grammatical errors

I met this lady years back I think between 2017, she has always been my main girlfriend tho I never display her because I had intentions to move things further, I knew her through my friend's girlfriend, she's very beautiful.let's call my friend's gf (Yemisi) and my gf (Ola) I and my friend went to see Yemisi where I saw Ola, Ola is related to Yemisi boss. While chatting I told her that I liked her friend, she said over her dead body she can't allow me date her.. At first it was funny maybe due to how she knew me and mostly hears our conversation with her guy. Fast forward...I mount pressure on Yemisi to help me through she said on one condition, she immediately went into sobber mode I knew something wasn't right I enquire to know what the problem was. According to her Ola is an orphan, she doesn't want a guy at the moment that she specifically made that decision to save her life because if a guy hurts her the chances of her committing suicide is very high, if I want to date her I should always remember that if something happens to her I'll be held responsible(she loves her and I know it) .. Okay fast forward... Yemisi and Ola came to my place we vibe and get to know each other I realized everything Yemisi told me was true..I was surprise how a pretty girl like her could survive every guys request..I can swear that even if I'm dead ola won't remarry and I love her too she told that until she met me she never enjoyed sex and she always in pains because she dated her ex out of frustration, never comfortable with him.if we are trekking she always held my hand very tight she said that since her parents demise she never been so comfortable with anyone not even her brothers but when we're together she barely remember her pasts.the phone I'm using now ola bought it for me brand new plus other good side of her
Why I bring this now is that there's this behavior I don't seems to like from her, I am a very clean person I love my environment super clean every time, matching on a grain of sand can make me do sanitation in entire house and she know it. Ola has been at my place for almost a month now (sometimes I tryna understand maybe she didn't have the privilege of good parenting) mostly I'm the one that cleans the house without minding I will just tell her to sit on the couch while I bring down everything to dust n mob she will just sit still and watch TV if maybe I'm tired and asked her to help me clean she only sweep the part that's visible to her eyes, my appliances are filled with sand because she sweeps like a mad person. Within sec she's done. what pains me is that I told ola to clean refrigerator after cleaning the inside I ask her to use the water and wipe outside also to prevent rusting this girl refused saying they don't clean outside fridge even the interior she cleaned I could see some food particles, brethren to say less I was so sad had to do it myself and she saw the difference and apologize
my question is, can she changed? Will she ever learned? what can I do to help her? I really love her but if i marry this girl with this attitude or should I say laziness divorce is sure
Thanks

she will change,I was once like that, I started learning when I was writing ssce nd after, stayed with different people m, I picked one or two things. Nd its really helping me now
I learnt how wash cloths when I was staying with my friend at ipetu ijesha

I learnt how to sweep when I was staying alone in osogbo
I hate washing dishes I learnt it when I traveled to abuja recently..I wash before going to bed every night, woke up very early to clean everywhere...I can do all house chores perfectly

emetisuccess:
Were we even dating? Oo sorry, i didn't know ooo

omorr this one is strong o