TRUTHISLIFEE:
So I met this girl around my area and I kind of liked her. When I approached her, she was playing hard to get. After a long while, she told me that the only condition for her to date me is if I will not interfere in her relationship as she has been engaged, and that I will let her go peacefully anytime she gets married.

It was a difficult one for me but I gave her my word not to interfere in her relationship and to let her go. Even my elder brother warned me not to spoil that relationship.

We started making out and I kept my word of not interfering in her relationship. Most times we are together and the guy calls, I tell her to pick his call, if their conversation is getting longer, I will simply excuse myself from the scene to allow her talk with her guy freely.

There was a time an old acquaintance of hers showed up and asked her out, She lied to me unknowing to her I was tracing her to the guy's house. When they entered, I called her on phone to enjoy herself that I know where she is. I also let her know that I pity her man as I have nothing to loose in this whole thing/

Fast forward to today, she came to my house and asked me my plans for her, I told her I don't understand as she is engaged. She told me to forget the engagement that I should not use it as an excuse. I told her I will keep to my word and she left angrily. since she got home she has been calling me to agree to marry her.

Make UNA see me see wahala.

Don't even think of taking her back. She's a hoe! And you can't make a wife out of a hoe!

AdolfHitlerxXx:


Greedy typical Biafuro mentality

Coming from a m*oron who has Adolf Hitler in his profile name. If you were intelligent you won't associate yourself with that name!

PhilipReigns:

You are very correct. In my own case, because I was bitten by puff adder also, I stood right on top of the snake barefooted after coming down from on top a pearl tree I had climbed to plug pearl. My cousin brother had been under d tree, with d snake, picking d pearl am plugging into a bako bag all along yet wasn't bitten.

Yes. as long as a snake doesn't feel threatened it won't bite. In fact, their first instinct is usually to escape.

SangoOlukosoOba:
Lies!

Kemi always paid to twist stories!

She has track records of twisting stories.

IPOB / ESN killed Gulak, and it was under the instruction of Mazi Kanu

Give evidence of your allegation or shut up!! Continue focusing on ESN and IPOB while your Fulani slave masters snatch your lands, rape and slaughter you people!!

How many of you now are refugees in Benin Republic? Soon Sharia will be established in your land!

the businessman was first taken to Hope Specialist Hospital, Mokola, where he was rejected before he was taken to Adeoyo State Hospital, Yemetu where he was confirmed dead.

Only an idiot would think this makes any sense!! Why should a st*upid police report be needed BEFORE treating an emergency patient?! Why can't hospitals proceed with treatments while the patient's people obtain the f*ucking report! Many Nigerian have died because of this moronic killer policy!!

Even if a patient is an armed robber, is saving his life not appropriate and important for police investigations? (I guess they're too incompetent to conduct investigations) What kind of barbaric policy is this in this useless country?!

In civilized countries they try to capture a criminal alive and even give medication treatment to wounded captured criminals in order to extract any intel. from them!

But in this zoo called Nigeria, they murder both criminals and innocent citizens. Those who are lucky enough to be alive are brutally tortured for them to admit a crime, whether they actually committed it or not! That's how these animals "solve" crimes!

I don't feel anything when a police or military officer is murdered in this country!

AdolfHitlerxXx:


His kinsmen probably killed him out of jealousy.

Very very common.

They should arrest any of them close by

Dumb typical Nigerian mentality!

This is a politicial assassination. Those who knew his itinerary did this.

Simplyleo:
Ipob pigs can't chicken out.

They have been celebrating the ugm for a job well done.

Why chickening out?

Is it because Arewa youths have given ultimatum?

What is your stupid arewa youth doing about the be terrorists and violence in the North Oops! I forgot arewa supports the Fulani terrorists and Boko Haram!

She might be the one who has the money. She needs to lose some f*ucking weight!

Nature is wonderful. All creatures are intelligent in the their own way.

Nobody sent anything! Nigerians and their cavemen mentality. When a tragic incident happens they seek out someone to blame!

Snakes don't attack humans unnecessarily. He probably stepped on this viper or walked too close to it. Snakes only attack when they feel threatened. Unless a large Python or Anaconda that would actually see you as a prey.

The guy died because he didn't receive proper medical attention! Be careful while walking in the bush or farm.

SimplyFacts:


I have your size, but I would give you this.

Twisting my text in your stupid response to make it seem I said something else is a dumb and juvenile thing to do.

You can't even stay true to yourself! And you just confirmed my point about you!

maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

Your complaint lacks some basic details like if you two already living together.

Anyway, your man is not sincere to you. He behaves like a cheating man. No honest and responsible man behaves that way and he doesn't care about how you feel about it.

It may be a red flag warning that's he not fully into you. In other words, he's not in love with you. You better find your way now and stop wasting your precious time with a man who doesn't give a shit about you!

Don't continue to be in a bad relationship simply because "you and him have gone a long way"! That's a recipe for disaster!

Think ever think he will change when you guys marry. If at all, marrying you is on his mind. Just end it and move on with your life!

Northerners are using Yoruba muslims to take over Yorubaland. They've already taken Kwara and continued more encroachment.

Unfortunately, Yoruba will forever be enslaved by the North if they don't do something now! Sunday Igboho is now opening Yorubas' eyes.

The North can't try this nonesense in the South-East!

goodnessme1:
Where is Ebubeagu?

You mean EbubeOKE? It's ineffective.

Guerilla warfare is hard to win.

SimplyFacts:
The sleep paralysis I had few days ago was scary. I could feel/see something playing with my manhood, as if she (couldn't be sure of gender) wanted to use her mouth on me. With so much anger, I wanted to rebuke it but I was so powerless - couldn't talk or raise hands. I later woke up with fast heartbeats & said some prayers. It was in the daytime.

Could that be a spirit wife? I think I need to go for deliverance.

You better go for a serious mental checkup because you're absolutely insane! Honesty, you're! Nigerians' cavemen mentality pisses me off!

Any health scare that happens to informed and scientifically illiterate Nigerians like you, instead of visiting a doctor, you claim spiritual and seek out who to blame!!

Sleep paralysis is a health condition, a temporary inability to move or speak while falling asleep or upon waking. It most often occurs in people who have narcolepsy or sleep apnoea, but it can affect anyone.

The main treatment is improved sleep habits (sleep hygiene) including going to bed at the same time every night, ensuring a comfortable sleep environment free of distractions and avoiding caffeine before sleeping.

Nigerians celebrate European clubs more than Europeans! It's really insane!

Kaypeeboss:

Go spiritual...for a little fee,baba ll come and drop the money with abeg

That shit doesn't work.

Worthless award for an incompetent tribalistic nepotistic murderous Fulani jihadist dead-man-walking, Buhari!!

Northern borders are as open as a desert while the idiots in power only focus on the Southern borders!

The Northern borders help the North to smuggle in illegal guns to cause mayhem and get foreigners to vote illegally in elections.

bcomputer101:
Let's discuss...

Is it a sin for married couple to have sex before going to church?
What's Bible position about this?


Biblical scholars, please enlighten us on this.

What kind of imaginary god do you've that doesn't want married couples to have sex before going to church?

I thought your Bible "approved" sex for married couples! Did your imaginary god put restrictions on when a married couple can have sex?

Religious people sef! You guys are delusional. Even atheists know the Bible more than you guys!

Emeka71:
I did.

If you did, you would have read where I wrote,

The only way to add image is via attachment which doesn't place the image in the post.

So your suggestion was totally irrelevant and redundant.

Having a porous border is bad for the communities nearby, State and country as a whole.

But I don't understand why Southern borders are closed while the Northern borders, where terrorists and illegal foreigners come from, are as open as a desert?!

This is what happens when you have an incompetent tribalistic nepotistic dead-man-walking idiot (Buhari) as president!

This Umahi idiot thinks he's a dictator! You can't force anyone to open their shop if they chose to close it! You don't have that right!

Their shops are not yours, you didn't pay for their business capital, you don't pay for their rents and they pay taxes! In fact, you contributed nothing to their business, so shut the f*ick up and go read the constitution! You idiot!!

Emeka71:
Of course.

I guess you didn't read my post.

Emeka71:
Try uploading.

You mean attachment?

Davido may not be happy about this. Burna (especially) and Wiz don't need auto-tune to sound good.

igwebest23:
This is too much for me. I have had enough. I got married to my wife last year October 2020. I did both traditional wedding and white wedding, spent a million plus. I work with ministry of health.

My wife has been insisting that I disclose my salary to her from day 1 but I never, I just told her that am earning 100+. Before I met my wife, she already learn Fashion designing. Then while was rushing around, preparing for wedding, she was pestering me to open shop for her. I specifically told her that d money I have now is Solly for wedding and traditional rite, which cost me fortune.

Then after much pressure, her people contributed money and paid for d shop (Remember I have paid her bride price then). I have swallowed red pill. How can I open shop for a girl I have not finished marrying. Then when she opened d shop, I equally supporting her with other things like buying protector and chairs. Every day she is going to shop, I drop pocket of 1k. Some times she asks me money to buy tailor materials which I give.

Now within a space of 7 months my wife now has 14 apprentices. She collected like 30k from them. Then all the money she made in her shop, she put all in her account, she doesn't contribute anything at home. Infact decided not to apply for ATM card. Some time, I may go to. ATM to get money and d tell me no network, if I come to my wife to ask her for ordinary 1k, she will say she doesn't have it. I never asked her to help in our home finances before, and I don't really care about her money.

But now found out through her Facebook chat that she sent her male school friends 7k. She hid it from me, she said d guy needed d money to treat her father in d hospital. I was shock. Cos my wife always complained she does not have money. Now she is complaining that I don't support her in her shop. That she can do whatever she wants with her money.

This morning, she was raising her voice to the hearing our flat neighbors, that am a useless husband, I feel insulted. Am embarrased. That I don't support her. She said her shop rent has expired that I should give her d money but she have enough money in her account to pay it. While is asking me. Am d one that pays for house rent, I buy food stuff, I give her transport every day.

I have had enough. I will call her mum to come over and carry her daughter. I can never beat her. The last night I shouted at her she fainted not to talk of beating.

You should have suspended the wedding indefinitely when she was pestering you to get her a shop while you were busy spending for the wedding! That attitude was a huge red flag!

She never contributed to the household expenses, never gave you dime even when requested a mere 1k and always claimed she had no money and yet gave her so-called school friend (male) 7k!! That's a gaint red flag!

You married the wrong person for you. She isn't a team player, which is vital in marriage. She's a selfish self entitled brat and you don't need someone like that in your life if you want to live long!

Dump her as*s now, cut your loses and move on with your life. There are better ladies out there who will love and cherish you. You're a good man.

Courtship before marriage is paramount. It gives you an important opportunity to know if the person is right for you.

Good luck!

I hope this thread would be on front page for nairaland webmaster to see.

I want to report that the image insert tag [img][/img] doesn't in work.

The only way to add image is via attachment which doesn't place the image in the post. I want to have full control of where I want the image to appear in my post.

This below tag supposed to work but it doesn't;

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