₦airaland Forum

donbenie:
Conjectures and Conspiracy theories..
Nothing but a flight of fancy..

U no sabi africa
No lele

GraciousGod190:
Well am not igbo, custom's and traditions varies.
southerners don't behave that way..... you can inherit property as far your great grand mother's side through your mother.

You are Delta igbo right?

GraciousGod190:
https://www.nairaland.com/7080619/father-dragging-moms-property-me


Reading all the abuses I got from nairaland, from fellow nairalanders calling me a bastard, ungrateful son all because I was fighting for what was right and not material things.

My mom before she left us, the properties were passed down to her from her parents,(which some they inherited from their Grandparents) she didn't really have to do nothing a full time house wife.. because only the house rents alone she receives from tenants a year from different buildings kept her okay.... some were used for my education, I was made to understand here on nairaland that those properties belong more to my dad, so he can sell it out any way he deem fit... since he married her,. Even though they are ancestral properties.


But, I still don't agree....


So I reported my father to the most senior man in my mother's kindreds, from her father side. I went there on Saturday evening and narrated everything to him...the first thing he said was


YOUR FATHER NOR FIT (in our native language)

He was so angry that he had to call another man and told him everything on the phone, I went back to my house..... and got a call Sunday afternoon to come back around, to my surprise I saw my father there with lots of extended family members and they gave him a stern warning not to try anything funny with those lands.

That our trybe don't sell family lands, house.. inherited property.. that what even gave him the right to think about doing something like that in law for that matter... while my mom has a son...they even said I as the son can't even sell those lands talkless my father.

They ask him, if it was financial issue that gave him that thinking, at first he wanted to deny about selling before he admitted it...my father is not poor, a retired nnpc staff receiving his pension steadily.....he just likes having a lot of money to spend anyhow.... and seeing those lands available he thought he could sell them... but the family proved him wrong and there's nothing he can do about it.

I haven't called my mother kindreds from my my mother side, still observing.. while we Left the meeting, my dad was cold all through..I know he must have narrated to some of his educated friends..let's see if he will take this to court.

This doesn't have nothing to do with me again, but with my mothers kindreds.

You sold your dad!
They (ur maternal people) will come for you once they see that they have been able to encircle and scare your dad, they will take you out and it will be a work over with your dad. Cos ur parle go run once him see say them fit nack u commot. Then they shall have full entrance into the properties.
Abi u think say their eyes no been dey the properties

Richsteemit:
Good evening. Have been praying for God to give me a good wife and job. God answered my prayer I got a job last month. But I'm in love with d boss of my work place. She posses everything a woman suppose to have. Guys should I shoot my shot? I know it is very risky. Money is not everything. May be God wants to answer the two prayers at a time

Your hunger subsided for just one (1) month pere!
and you want to challenge your Chi to a wrestling competition?

WesternOligarch:
I think the 0su caste are located all around Iboland but majorly in imo state. But from what I know about ibos, people from anambra are considered "higher" ibos, followed by enugu people, then ibos from abia, followed by imo and lastly ebonyi....... you'd hardly see an anambra man marry an ebonyi or imo woman. It's really fvcked up

Ignorance is bliss indeed!

ovieigho:


But I don’t think it’s own “Rotimi “ is that Yoruba name that means “durotimi”( Rotimi) o
I think rivers has names like “ ebiitimi “, ndutimi “rotimi…etc ….which might be different meanings

No you are wrong
His rotimi is actually the yoruba version.
His dad gave it to him based on personal (dad) love for the famous yoruba lawyer - Rotimi Williams

cj1900:
Hi guys,
I won't take much of your time. I have a very delicate matter in my hands and I need diverse opinions please.

Background
I don't live in Nigeria but me and my wife both have a very comfortable 4 bedroom duplex in Nigeria. We have a one year old baby. I have been in Nigeria for 5 months now and I will be returning to UK in a few weeks.

Ever since I've been in Nigeria, my cousin (mid 30s) has been with us. Quite frankly, it is not very easy for him at the moment and i do care about him as a brother. He is in the process of processing his visa, so its not as if he is loafing about.

The plan is that both me and my wife will be taking turns in visiting each other for the next 2 or so years until I return fully to Nigeria.

The problem
The problem is that I do not feel comfortable leaving just him and my wife under thesame roof whilst I return and he is not showing any signs of leaving when I return to my base.

So, this is my situation and I don't know if I am being insensitive.

I married a very good wife and under most circumstances, I trust her. I am just not comfortable leaving my wife with any man atall under thesame roof.

I need your opinions pls.

Don't spend extra money helping one person (ur cuz)
You should get another relative that has accommodation issues and put in the house since it is a big house. The 250k would go a long way to cater for their feeding and wellbeing hopefully.

What you need is peace of mind. You can't stop your wife from cheating. It is left to her to cheat or not.

And by the way do you cheat on her in the UK or not? Why the fear son ?

SOFTSKILL:
In your skewed analysis you would have made more sense if you had based your discussion on the potentials of revenue inflows the theatre could generate from those insightful proposals you made but then the hatred in you for a particular tribe and religion was brought to the fore by making particular reference to a particular religious adherents in a particular tribe as criminals whereas your homeland is permeated by those people who bear Paul, Peter and John yet form the bulk of the regiment of the nefarious unknown gunmen causing mayhem and despair to people. Perhaps the theatre should be move to that your place since unknown gunmen have better appreciation of government edifices. We will continue to point out the congenital hatred in you for the tribe that has been so accommodating to you so that people will be aware and stop taking you serious when you discuss other people. I wonder how you sleep at night with this load of hatred for people who don't care about your miserable existence.

You would get a proper response on your one year old birthday on Nairaland.

For now, run along and play in the Internet mud as the Internet kid that u are.

Lol
What renovation means to Nigeria is repainting and putting tiles in bathroom.

That entire compound should be sold to shoprite and a mall made out of it.

Theatre is not a 21st century thing for a 3rd world country. It can never generate enough to maintain itself aa a Theatre. 3rd world citizens see no crime in buying pirated movies and listening to cracked version of music obtained from the Internet. They will never be delighted to pay for performing arts or see beauty in watching exhibitions in a gallery.

A thearte at Igamnu!, u must be kidding right?
What concerns toheebu or mukaila with oil-on-canvas or steel mosiac acrylic? Why would baraka be elated at the sight of the fake festac mask on display knowing fully well how much he would make to rob you at costain roundabout Outward abebe village road on your way exiting the art gallery?

History teaches us nothing, take a look at the housing project at iganmu towards apapa. The fear of area boys wouldn't let people occupy those structures. Abeg make I rest, half word is more than enough

obiekunie01:
Many a man thinks bread before freedom.

Assurance of having their pay over some period of time makes many prefer to be slaves than masters.

That's why we have more workers than bosses.

You lie bro
There is no guarantee that that key will open the lock, but it is 100 % that the bread would bring nourishing value to his body.

Did u notice the bread was closer than the key?
Lashing the bread to the stick gives a longer pole to pick the key....

Una go just open mouth whaaaaaaa!

kristonium:
Still wondering why the police haven't arrested him till now?

You will be surprised that there is no official report of the case to the police.

People don't know in most cases if there are no reports the police wouldn't Start investigation.

Shetemi12:
Osinbajo is a TRAITOR...



You can't tell me otherwise..

Which book is this?

Sorry Joe
Not everyone is in the gutters
If they ever had respect for you, you would be allowed allowed to wallow in the gutters of Lagos

richeeyo:
If actually they have Intel on her
Lots of Nigerians go against the law thinking they know the law,,,,,,

Intel without a warrant on a private property...
I am very sorry.
You are just plain uninformed and fuggly ignorant.
The Nigeria state has completely messed u up to the extent you are not aware of your right to life as a human being.

richeeyo:
See stupidity at its best
Person dey untop government road in a car
Falana Wana be they talk private property ontop government road oo
Baby lawyer
Charge and bail
Online chambers owner

Sorry to remind you that that road was built with Tax payers money.
like i said, u have being so impoverished by the Nigeria state that you do not know thw difference between public property and personal property. let me remind u again, should incase your memory had packed up!
the property in question is her bag not the public road!

very good
something different
something specific
sports university
we honestly need to tackle our problems specifically for specific results.

atarapa:
no body lives around the area. You only have offices and one church directly opposite the bridge

Obviously you are not a lagosian
People live right beside that bridge
All those 3 storey apartments painted by minimie chin chin and schnapps aromatic are being occupied indigenes

laiperi:
I could not believe it too. He might have been misquoted by trouble makers.

But if it is true that Soludo said that, it points to how low we have descended in this country. Children of the next generation are watching.

Precedents are created and followed. If you cannot focus and enjoy a solemn occasion like that, the next clown is waiting to upstage the previous one.

He was actually referring to the comic relief online not that he enjoyed it at all


Bloggers at work

lol

Nairaland is so slow.....................
after a news must have trend and vanishes
only then would it make a front page new here

NAIRALAND is just like NTA

BIG FOR NOTHING

MsJanez01:
Honestly. My friend still did it last weekend and it was so smooth. The good thing like uve rightly mentioned is, it is not an illegal thing. Immigration at the boarder will even tell you what to do once you tell them you want to flagpole. It took my friend just 30mins. I don't think it's as deep as described for sowp. Dont know about other type of status

No one said its illegal or impossible
Just make sure u don't get caught up in between.
It's just like every other PoE instance, not every that arrives a PoE gets admitted into a country despite your papers

PrinceAdeAde:
Further to deepwater clarification, you would have exited canada before u can appear before US immigration to complete flagpoling.At that point,u are in what is called "no mans land" i.e u are not in canada anymore and neither are u in US

If US then denies u entry,the only option for u is to return to canada i.e if u still have valid papers for canada pr u apply fot entry to canada which can also be denied

If u are caught in this loop then they(not sure if its US or canada) would deport u to country on ur passport

Thats why flagpoling is trickish and its best to consult a Canadian immigration expert/lawyer before initiating such

Someone with understanding spotted

OtunbaTee:
Not as hard as you're describing it. Someone did it recently. And there was no issue. All u need do is inform Immigration officer at Canada border u Wana flagpole ,they'll direct you to the right place, and if it's not possible they'll tell you right away, obviously you still have you Visitor's permit or any other legal permit Valid.
Immigration officers will tell you what to do, so you're not gonna fall in any " no man's land" 1, 2 ,3 , 4 5 etc people have done it successfully. If you know anyone who was caught in no man's land, pls tell the person to come explain himself here, and no speculations.

Thanks �

U lack understanding

MsJanez01:
Please I'll like clarification on what you mean by being caught. It's a legal process, so why is one being caught? And one what grounds can one be unadmissable to the US?

if u dont qualify to be in / visit the USA you obviously would be unadmissible to the USA.
Hence it is paramount one checks his/her admission status to USA before embarking on that journey
Does it make sense now?

DamilareOla:
Is the option of flag polling still available when a dependant enters via Visitor's visa??

Read about flag polling this past few days.

Can Gurus enlighten us about Flagpolling

Thank you.

You have to visit the US as part of the flagpoling process. If you are not admissible to the US then you will not be able to complete the flagpoling process. There is also the risk of being caught between both countries, denied entry to Canada and the US.

no it doesnt
it remains what it is....
Actually speaking the quality of the camera in the smartphone does not degrade it remains the same from the time it is purchased. The main thing what degrades is that the maintenance of the smartphone which degrades with time.
it is pertinent to note that camera clarity on a Smartphone depends not only on lens and sensor. It also depends on many factors. One of them is the phone’s processor. You know the rest
Another thing to consider is that as time goes by newer technology emerges which makes the users get used to more modern technology
so when u use an old tech it appears to have lost quality, alas! u brain had switched / inclined to a newer tech.

howevere multi media stored digitally would lose its quality with time, thank God for science as there are machines this days to enhance old multi media, hence our generation can watch WW II in color on Netflix

oluseyiforjesus:
Nigeria get dis kind weapon Just asking

yes, we have plebty of it as signal barracks in mile 2

This is bad
What about the loans out there?

lol

please learn to think outisde the box
the invite says you should come with copies of your updated resume.
like they do not have your updated cv so how did they qualify you for an interview ?
they dont know you,m they only purchased your data and details.

even the write up self.....well jus ok for a company beside a carwash


but how many companies are there in that particular address self?

CountVersailles:
Only you? I have two questions for you. Is there no food at all in Canada or are you going to a camp in the bush and are packing all you need to survive? Secondly, you want to open an African store in Canada?

alaye just better come back to NIGERIA!
CANADA is not good for u, and this is obvious already from the bitterness that comes through your write up!
better come back, before u take frustration kill yourself over there.

living in canada, sleeping on Nairaland venting frustration on every post!
shame no dey catch u?

was canada made for u only ?
na ur papa get am ?

this same ego problem of urs caused problems with your brothers wife.....

u seriuosly need to be whipped back into line. enough of this madness!

this guy is a fighter
he understands the languages of war
he beats the drum of propaganda but on the enemy lines, his home fronts, allies and that of anticiparted supporters...
he knows what he is doing and how reverse psychology works...
all is fair in war...they say!

Ibadan people

judecares1:
Kindly note that the BRT along that road is always short, from Oriental hotel even b4 law school do dey have BRT Lane? From lekki1 to toll gate is there BRT Lane?
Please type with backup

@bolded, y are u aggressive?
i asked u a simple question
I have never been on a BRT my whole life
not everyone even lives in Nigeria.
take am easy abegg