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Everybody is canceling the wedding up there.
This is a very sensitive matter.

I will have to sit her down and find out why she did that.

What if she was being blackmailed
by someone who wanted to reveal her past life by demanding for sex?
(Peharps she was a prostitute and the guy knows and threatened to reveal that with pictures and she wanted to seal that with sex)
(bad move many will say but what if she doesnt want the hubby to know at all)
I am sure that many of us guys will prefer not to know
that our wives were prostitutes rather than forgiving them.

What if she did that just to secure your future relationship with her
which could be in jeopardy if she didnt do that?
A lot of strange things happen in our imperfect world
and thats why i advice that people should be cautious
when they make decisions that involve other human beings.

You are a very considerate man. Prolly one in every 10M men in Nigeria.

Let her do the same thing if she wants.

Get ready for that now because your weenie is restless.

The utterances of people like Saraki ([size=14pt]"I am Abubakar Olusola Saraki, but that has not made me a Yoruba man. I speak Yoruba because it is my mother's tongue" make nonsense of an ‘Hausa-Fulani’ identity.
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That a man can claim in public, with gusto, that the fact that his biological mother comes from an ethnic group does not make him a member of that same group reveals one thing: the paternalistic, condescending attitude of Fulani elite to other peoples in their domains, a sense of cultural superiority. It is similar to the caste system in India. A child from a high-caste father and lower-caste mother defines himself by dissociating himself from his mother’s group.

Olu Saraki probably made such comments for political purposes. He's even more foolish than I think. I mean, he doesn't have to berate his mother and her people because of politics. Nonsense.

But in doing so the power brokers forgot that Agboola Gambari has got his own name and reputation to protect as a world- acclaimed diplomat. Born with the silver spoon in his mouth as a Fulani prince of the Ilorin Emirate which is ranked number 4 in order of importance in the Uthman Dan Fodio Caliphate, Agboola has a lot of clout, leverage and reservoir of goodwill not only in the North, but the whole of Nigeria. He was born to a Yoruba mother and a Fulani father who was the Emir of Ilorin. Agboola is married married to a Yoruba woman. He is therefore tempramentally acceptable to both the North and the South and he speaks fluent Yoruba and Hausa in addition to one or two foreign languages. Agboola Suleiman Gambari, as a Fulani by birth, has a lot going for him as a Nigerian. He is a hardworking, intelligent and educated northerner who is far more qualified and exeperienced and probably better connected and far more influential that President “Go Slow” himself, if the truth must be told. If Agboola lives long enough, he could one day aspire to the presidency without any question. He has had an amazing career and profiles which will be difficult to match or surpass by any of his fellow northerners.

Thank you, good to know.

eh eh please quote where I stated that so I can see for myself, c'mon, this is a day before my weddding!

I can remember clearly that you once preached the gospel of forgiveness when your guy cheats but not up to 3x. may be am wrong, ma bad.

Uhunnmmmm, what is he/she looking for in an hotel room before he was caught by the bride/groom
which means say na the same both of them wan do,perhaps deh do self.
man post some thing reasonable some other time have read and heard bout this same old story.can't even remember.

Local man; You forgot that most couples that wed out here operate from a hotel room even if they live in town.

Cancellation Mehn! Fa Realz!

But you once claimed here you'll forgive cheating to a considerable extent. If that was his first cheating, what happened to your much publicized forgiveness?

I'd cancel ma wedding if she cheated 3 seconds before i say "I DO"

Will you expect her to do the same to you because you are capable of such behaviour?

Your wedding is tomorrow, your kits and kins from far and wide are in town for the wedding of the century, distinguished members of the royal families and govt dignitaries, old school mates,professional colleagues etc are painting the town red just for you. But, while exchanging pleasantries with few friends in a pre wedding party, he/she disappeared to Bleep an old fling. You walked into your hotel room and caught them butt naked in bed. Will you cancel the wedding because of that or will you let it go and continue the wedding?

What if the cheater is the man, do you think your family and his family will find it funny that you are canceling the wedding because of that after all men unofficially obtain cheating licenses in Nigeria.

They may pay you heavily but certain positions are reserved for them but I don't blame them for that afterall we dey doam for Naija.

Thank you.

@deepzone

and your basis for arguement is what? you don't know you don't know period

the gambari family are fulanis who have been ruling the emirate of ilorin since the fulani jihad and if i may add gambari is a fulani name not hausa,not arab and definitely not yoruba

as for saraki you may do well in reading the mans profile and family lineage instead of sitting there and assuming,i suppose you think the name saraki is also yoruba or arab abi?

If Saraki is Fulani, how come his children have Yoruba names? Did I also hear you say AGBOOLA gambari is Fulani?

and for those saying gambari and saraki are yoruba yoruba because they have yoruba names should know that [size=14pt]saraki is actually fulani,it is his grand mother that is yoruba from ogbomosho,gambari is also fulani,[/size]some of you should understand that because of the mix of culture in kwara you find fulanis bearing yoruba names and speaking the language fluently and vice versa

Big lie. saraki and gambari are Yorubas but quasi yorubas like most Kwara people claim. Whether they like it or not, they are Yorubas.

Olabowale? Is that not the one marrying queenisha? how come his wife is chritian and he's moslem?

Lol, I think they are inlaws. may be he's married to her sister or cousin.

They should deal with that nasty bushpig, Mercy Johnson first

That girl has the best body in Nollywood.

Deepzone, instead of continuing to argue unnecessarily, why not point out what this wish of mine happens to be? so far you continue to claim I made one but you have yet to actually point out what exactly the wish is. If you are not a bully, at least show present some substance to back up these accusations? Or is FREEDOM of SPEECH foreign in your world?

I'm not your highest contender here but you just want to engage me in a war. You just relax for America dey enjoy the hard work of Jefferson's, Lincoln's etc but simple wish the people you left behind at home good luck, you'd rather argue over your freedom of speech and 5th amendment rights. You be correct drama king. May God deliver you from negativity.

From 'Middle Belt is core North' to 'Middle belt is closer to North than South'. . . a perfect definition of Abracadabra

Lol, you beat me to it. He tends to forget that some parts of middle belt are closer to the west while others like southern kogi and Benue states are closer to the east through Enugu and Ebonyi states,

I believe what they mean is that the title should say

US Varsity Appoints A Nigerian As A Vice Chancellor. Not a "Nigerian Vice Chancellor", one would think the person is presently in Nigeria.

This explanation would've saved us lots of stress but it just came too late. 5 stars.

@ Deepzone My sentiments exactly. Whats so special about given a nigerian a job as a vc in the us ? Mind you, i am not saying he doesn't deserve it but whats so special about it when you practically have to live and work there for a long time. They could have given it to a ghanian, senegalese etc and i wouldnt be surprised. Are you saying that there are no academicians in nigeria who cannot hold their own or do you honestly believe that every nigerian university is a village. When i saw the heading i was proud that one of our own had made it only to find out that he had been living and working there for a long time (which is not a bad thing). Please in the future don't come out with guns blazing at anybody. One love

First and foremost, I don't know why you guys are trying so hard to strip him of his Nigerians citizenship. There is no place in the article that said he was born and bred in the US, he prolly came here as an undergraduate like most of us, so why strip him of his citizenship because he's been here for long besides, being an ibo man, he must've been keeping touch with his home soil all these while(Lol, at least during xmas).

He vehemently worked for it and am preety sure the university is a predominantly black one. Imagine the politics and how difficult it is in Nigeria to be a VC by an indigene, how much less a non indigene. How many Hausa professors have you seen heading UI or UNN by election? How many yoruba professors have you seen heading Bayero University or Unizik? How many ibo professors except Eni Njoku that was the 1st Unilag VC that has been a VC in Ui,Ife or Unilag? I never said there are no qualifies lecturers in Nigeria for the job but it just don't work that way. How many oyibo VC's do you have in Nigeria? Then imagine an oyibo/foreigner to be a VC in Naija?, he must've taught and worked in the school for years, beaten all odds and still stay high. So, it's a big deal and a landmark achievement. Even though he's a naturalized American citizen, that foreign stigma will still be following him for the rest of his life unless he loses that accent.

A huru m na unu n' ami owe unu obera.

Stop speaking chinese here please.

Thanks for the info. The girl is one hell of a singer and I think she deserves a grammy.

'CHINEKE OF UMUWANYI' . . that part was funny as hell

I know chineke is God, what of umuwanyi?

[size=14pt]Olabowale watches TBN regularly.
One day one day,God go capture am[/size]

In Jesus name. I know the day he'll give his life to Christ is very very near, nearer that you and I can imagine. Huxley will also be converted. i'm sure the Jesus will arrest him very soon. If He did it for Saul, why can't He do it for Olabowale and Huxley?.

DeepZone is severely stupid.
She is just feigning ignorance here. . . she cannot tell us here that she didn't get kinky with her juniors in Ilesha grammar school.
Funmi herself got fingered by her seniors in her junior high so what is she talking about??
There are more lesbos in Ilesha than the whole of California

All we are saying: Stop killing our girlssssssssssssssss!!!!! If you must chook and there is no honey pot around, try your dummy horse or the hole in your kitchen wall.

they now even have a church in nigeria dedicated to homos

Check the church membership and see how many women that are members.

If I say you're daft, Hannibal will tell me I'm wrong
How dare you say sumn as stupid as that??

Have you gone to UNILAG before?
All the years I lived in Nigeria, I never saw two men kissing
I've seen ladies tonging in Galleria, 11:45, Mighty(at Igbinedion), on my street
I've heard of 'em in Secondary Schools too, and here you are openly displaying your stupidity

Go to Ebutte Metta and Idimu my friend and see Gay men at every corner. Dem plenty for Festac too, Just make sure you wear nyash guard if you dey cross that area before them go rape you. Dem dey rape guys for Naija now.

if you want to talk about supply and demand of ladies, then, i will say the supply of ladies are more than the demand then, and the supply of men is not enough to service the supply of ladies, and that is making ladies to fight over the little that out there.
good men are taken, the rest are either in jail or HIV +

Lame economics. If they replace Soludo with your type, we'll be the poorest country in the world under one week. Relate 42% women and 58% men to your law of demand and supply and see the marginal errors.

.That should be some good news to ESUT and UNN students.

I thought UNN is at Nsukka? Is Nsukka in Enugu state or Anambra state because my dad graduated there and it's anambra state.

Why do you think men rather pull a gun
Then fight with their fists
Because they aint nothing put low timers
Who are punks, and know they can't fight
So they will pull up a gun to show "power"
Utter stupidity to me.

I concur!!!!!

Flaming onanist!!

What is the meaning of onanist? i've not heard that word before, Sounds more like MouthAction.Eeeeeewewww

You have a weird vocabulary database,

You wonder why we have more gay men in Nigeria now over lesbians? Some men especially the poor ones had to resort to another man's behind just to exhale and release stress. Hannibal knows what am talking about but he's fronting here because somehow, somebody gave him a job as the image maker for men. i suggest women should be allowed to carry guns in Naija now.