₦airaland Forum

Most of te politician's wife too Bleep some small boys.

Urban legend.

How many you don see?

In a country where Senators pick up girls in UNILAG, Cheaters will be as fruitless as Crime-fighters

Funmi claps for Eldee, His prayers has been answered.

All the guy has bto do after being "caught" is say his wife is a witch or she's barren or she has only given him female children and the Nigerian society will be sympathetic and that would be the end of that.

True, just like cheating women in America are given the opportunity to tell who the Bleep cares that they cheated because their husband was mentally abusive, neglecting them or was absent but the same media will turn around to nail a cheating man to the cross without asking him why he cheated.

But, that doesn't mean that there are women that will not create a scene if they catch their husband.

i will say it runs in da family.

You can't say for sure. Why not lay aside your bitterness and see the good side of them? The Obasanjo's are humans with body and soul like you and me only that they are extra blessed by God to achieve greater fame and success.

One has to cheat before bringing the 2nd/3rd wife home!!!
The affair musta started, the husband musta knocked the woman up before deciding to bring her HOME!!!
Cheating is widely accepted in Nigeria which is why i love the country.

The Clinton/Monica Lewinsky scandal wouldn't have moved anyone if it had happened to Abacha or OBJ.
That is how insensitive Nigerians are to extra marital schitzo.
As long as a woman uses her legs to visit a man in his den. . . . .anything that happens after then is HER FAULT.
Sad but TRUE

Look at how you are rejoicing and praising God for such barbaric practice in Nigeria, ; With the high incidence of monogamy obtainable in the Nigerian urban society, cheating is slowly becoming a factor. Haven't you seen men in Naija being disgraced by their wives b/c she caught him in a hotel with another woman?

You mean to say that is what they want to make u blv.

Well, Gbenga sounds like a raving frustrated lunatic to me. I'm not judging either one but his fathers story sounds more believable besides, like you claimed, none of them were proud about the incidence.

Dont you have to cheat first before polygamy can take place?

What's really the difference?

A society that accepts polygamy will not consider it cheating but the bilateral nature of Nigerian marital laws will make the show more useful to monogamous people. I guess that ibo people will be hit worse in this case.

Guess your TV show will have to have a female spin-off too
Nah . . . don't worry, there's SHARIA

Oooh yeaaah; if you cannot keep your legs together as a woman, you'll be disgraced. This show may even turn out to help good Naija men better than hurting them because they'll have the opportunity to know how faithful their wife is.

No matter how u catch a Nigeria man, they will find a way to make fame out of it, see Obasanjo, he rules nija and have no descency to go and carry ashewo, but his own son's wife, now anmalistic can it get.

I though that matter was later cleared? He never slept with her, rather, it was her father that molested her all along.

Cheating is widely accepted in Nigeria. . . . . Thats the fundamental error u are making.
A society that allows polygamy will not raise an eyebrow on issues of extra marital activities.
The same country where a man can take a woman home unchallenged and tell the housewives to prepare a room for her ASAP.
Gosh. . . . I love that country. . . . .I am relocating in few years time to enjoy whats left of the male dominated society.

Isn't that the more reason why we are still in the pit hole?
Again, did you say cheating is accepted in Nigeria? Polygamy is a different case.

Sometimes you try so hard to ignore people because of their myopia but they keep standing in front of your face just to be noticed. Anybody that read through page one would've seen where i acknowledged that cheating is a two way thing but men are neck deep into it more than women.

Proo212, your handle says you are male. Whatsup with the "rolls eyes"

Because he is,

Women are the main accomplices cheating men use . . . take it or face it

What about the rising cases of men cheating with men? How did we come into that equation?

Anyway, DeepZone, how has programms such as "cheaters" help to curb the habit and dissuade American men from cheating? Did they stop cheating or did they devise another way for it outside of the reach of "cheater"s cameras"? Prostitutes have madams that act as their matrons and chaperons and help setup contacts and appointments. Who is the predator and who is the prey here, the men or the women, the madam or the client?
You are chasing a mirage on a desert road my friend!

It's like asking me how sending criminals to jail has helped to curb crime. Won't you personally be happy to see men that patronize prostitutes disgraced nationally, being the gentleman i think you are?, Unless you are an undercover LovePeddler.

Go and start the TV program in Nigeria. . . .and letz see if your employees won't get BEATEN to a pulp!!!
A lawless country like Nigeria where slapping someone openly is as acceptable as a handshake cannot augur well for your program.
Ma wifey understands the kind of man i am. . . .as long as i come back home to eat her FOODshe doesn't give a rat who i ball!!!!

Now you are promoting violence. You think we wont have body guards? You are a chief will not save you from this impending disgrace. Zip up or get disgraced!

I guess these inane hairsplitting is what helps you sleep at night - whether girls or women, members of your gender promote such silly behaviour, making pointless distinctions will not change that.

Much as I'll accept the fact that some women help promote the behaviour but majority of the playee(women) being played by these playas do not know the players marital/relationship status from the onset.

I guess you have never heard of the downlow brothas. They mostly believe that if they mess a dude they are not gay because they are the top. or if they get head from a dude they are not gay because they are recieving.

D/L brothas are real.

Don't mind him. I suggest Nigerian women should stop all their husbands from hanging around with those "buddies" they hang around with either to drink beer or watch English premiership because they may be doing more than that. He can drink the beer and watch the game at home.

I'm not even married yet so whatchu on??
Abeg answer his question and stop dropping names jare

BTW how's your Ijesha houseboy/boyfriend

He's fine, do you have a thing for him?

The fact that women don't come here to brag about CHEATING does not mean they don't CHEAT!!!!
Afterall, i know about 20 women that have cheated at one point or the other on this forum so whatz the fuss??
Besides, the society frowns at a cheating woman. . . . .A cheating man is a Player(it is well accepted). . .Street credibility n macho status. Cool

Here comes our resident ashawo. Pray tell they don't start that TV program in Naija b/c I'll personally give your wife money to hire them so i can laugh and fart loud watching you being disgraced on national tv.

Nigerian men are too bold to be disturbed by showing them on national TV for cheating, they will even be the one to call their friends to watch because they will be a nation TV.

Roflmao; What if they were caught patronizing prostitutes? I guess they won't be proud again to call their hommies to take a look @ channel 14 .

They keep talking about men cheating. . . are the men screwing fellow men??

Yesooo, it happens a lot these days. How many women have you seen on this forum bragging about cheating? But you see the likes of 4play, Eldee, Hannibal and Sly broadcast theirs as if they won the olympic gold medal.

Get a show on those who patronize prostitution, while you're at it, reveal the mothers and family members who forced their kids into such just to build mansions like the Agbaneje's next door.

Ohh for sure.

Getout there,

So true. esp. if it's in their gene.
Does this say much for all the naija men, reasons why they cheat?
The trait is now becoming an uncontrollable epidemic.
sad

You also believe it's in their gene? They know what they are doing and keep doing it. The annoying thing is that some women are following suit these days in the name of vengeance.

fear ke? Cheesy

Like I said, naija men will not be deterred by such, if they want to cheat they will. Tongue

Ok Hotfunmi, men cheat because they are greedy and wicked. . . . is that a new discovery or what? Undecided

Get over the bitterness and move on.

Ok, that was my opinion. What is your own opinion on why men cheat? Besides, mine has nothing to do with bitterness, rather, it has more to do with insecurity with respect to the rising HIV cases across the globe among black people.

Man can't help cheatin just like a shark can't help killin, puttin them to shame on national telly will NOT deter them from cheatin.

I disagree, what about those men that don't cheat? How did they achieve that since they were originally created to cheat? This boys will be boys thingy is getting tired in my books.

If men can't help their cheating problem, how come they are always very loyal and loving to their wives anytime they are poor? Why does the cheating spirit manifest mostly when they have some money to spare. Do you fart only when you have some money in your account? i guess no b/c it's a natural thing that you do everyday, so cheating in men is never natural, they just chose to be greedy and wicked.

Real men my foot. Tongue

I'm saving my cash to go and compete in the Osun State Olympics next year Grin Grin

You are welcome as long as you don't come with performance enhancement juju. We are never scared!!!

Why would I be scared by the proposal? Naija that men cheat and bring women into their homes as second wives? Do you think they even care about being caught? The only thing that would happen is that men would begin to compete - 'how many times have you been caught? Me i be champion o, I don appear for that show like 4 times already'

You are a trip, I'm beginning to lose this war on saving Nigerian men. The more you try to pull them out of dung, the more they devise ways to sink deeper. Imagine bragging about being shown on TV 4x for cheating on your wife? Thank God some decent ones still exist,

I also want a show that will bust those that patronize prostitution and let me see whether they'll also brag on that one.

Who are they? Are they popular in Nigeria? Preety lady tho.

what's new?

Africans all over have been taught to HATE EACH OTHER.

It's working quite nicely

Taught by who?

64 topics with 60 of them directed at male bashing. . . .you are close to exceeding your limit madam Wink

Most Nigerian men my foot.

Homeboy, are you threatened by the proposal? I thought you went to the olympics where the real men are?

Now, those who are dead amongst them, their cases are with Allah Almight alone. For those who are still alive among them, I pray that they desist from this unislamic thing.

Deepzone, do you notice that the muslims on Nairaland are not in support of it, while the Christians are the ones who started this wierd thread and have supported it, in one form or the other? That includes the guy who feels naked without a cruxifix hanging from his neck

What is this fatwaist doing here?