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deor03:
OP is the real Demon here. Enslaving a 11 year old child !!.

We are too wicked in this part of the world, yet we fast , pray , night vigil yet we commit the worst of atrocities !

I wish you knew more details. Your opinion is based on the scanty details I provided. No qualms.

patrickdarlins:
i never really expected less from all dese ladies comments....

wetin op do una ladies now.....

oh....so u guys thinks the op is using the little girl as slave or using her to do tedious work??

nah...u guys are wrong.....

THREAD CLOSED!!!!!

Bro, you won't blame them for their opinions. I believe and accept my choice of words were wrong in the initial post, hence their anger and frustrations with me.....I still respect their objections, though.

I was literally BULLIED by these girls today. There are a very detailed folks, used to reading in between lines, will always pick out loopholes against you. You can't win them in an argument.

Concerning the matter, I have decided to wave it aside. I believe she sleep walked.

aisha2:
Whats all these colouration? She is suddenly a ward, we love her like our daughter lie lie lie, will you send your own daughter to be someones househelp? Please spare me. Get an adult and if you want to help help without conditions

There's no point explaining myself any further on this issue. My initial description is working against me. That's life. You have formed an opinion that's difficult to erase. That's life.

I simply wasn'tcomfortable wit an event, and sought to bring it here.

Nice meeting you here. Ur thoughts show how individual we are.

Summary: There's a man seated in the heavens, who shall pay everyone with their own coin in due season.

I appreciate all your points.

Sophyrocks:
Cool.

Yeah. Thanks dear.

Sophyrocks:
You could have added those details still because the post has portrayed you to be non chalant about her age and people are already screaming murder in the thread. They are not distracting. rather they are what it is.

How nice. My name ends with an 'e' though.

Very correct. My choice of words didn't help. Well, this isolated incident WONT affect our love and care for her.

As per the name, sometimes I address my daughter as Sophie, then other times, Sophia.

chaircover:
I dont like rubbing things in especially as you seem to have seen your fault. . . .
However what I tend to see is people "upgrading" the people in your life when you are introducing them to others
It is strange that you downgraded her and called her househelp instead of calling her your ward and you her guardian.
Anyway, treat her well.
I beg you, for your own good too, treat her as you would your your own daughter
God sees all and he is a Just God
Whatever you do good or bad, you will reap
Always remember that!
If your wife had found your own daughter in the dark alone in the living room at 11.57, what would she have done?

Sensible. She's our daughter.

mutter:
In the first post he called her his househelp . SO THAT IS WHAT SHE IS FOR HIM!
Even if she were the quuen of Sheeba. She is being treated as a househelp in the home.

And OP spare us how nice you are to her and what you do for her. That is no justification for abuse.
Hell that kid could get killed with this witch accusation!

My dear, you have no idea who I am. Yes, I shouldn't have used that word, but she's a daughter to us all.

I can't say more. Your contribution is still welcomed and appreciated.

Sophyrocks:
O.k. Thats commendable and heartwarming. I know you mean well. but please be more assertive in your objection. It would appear you want her as a maid in exchange for all you are doing for her. which is what her mother wants. you know whats right and wrong. Keep being a source of immense help to her.

U see the reason I was happy when I saw you on board!

I couldn't have added call those details in the original writ. It may appear distracting to some people, and drive them away from the thread.

Dear, my daughter's Sophia.

aisha2:
An 11 year old is supposed to be growing up playing and not having a care in the world not in your house taking care of you.
Why won't she stand in the dark when you have made her own life dark by denying her a childhood. Wicked people scared of their own shadow.

Get a grown up abeg, if your wife is scared of you cheating thats her problem you dont victimise a child because you feel the need to protect an adult.

Very irritating

U have no idea. Typing nonsense is cheap. Emotionalism!

Sophyrocks:
Ask that girl questions on what she was doing in the dark.

And please, find an older maid. An 11 year old girl used as a maid is child abuse. If you are to render help to an 11 year old girl, its not a must she must be used as a maid.

Nice to hear from you once again.

My dear, I objected but the mum prevailed on me.
I do not pay her a dime. I simply pay her fees, send her to school, and planned for her to grow up with us. That's all.

Yes. I must admit it's really wrong to have such a very kid as a ward in the home. I wasn't particularly comfortable with it till i met with the mum who, due to hard circumstances, approved of it. But what's wrong remains wrong!

U guys have given me a new paradigm to this own saga. That's a story for another day.

To those who suggested she may be sleepwalking, I will also look into it. This girl has so far hasn't given us any challenges. Meanwhile I will be much vigilant.

Mynd44:
She got the need to urinate and she went to urinate except she did it while still sleeping. It is not so odd jare.

And your maid is 11? Child abuse man

Lemme leave before the deliverance crew comes in

Nope sir. She's fully treated with much regard and respect- exactly the same way my kids are treated.

Things are rough with her parents.

Back to quote: I'm still troubled Bro. But you do have a point there. .

patrickdarlins:
heheheheh......this is terrible...


you already know what to do....

mr man..act fast bfore your boy turns of deir own....

dis aint joke.....

deliverance on d boy....

Bro, thanks. I'm not taking it lightly at all.

misterh:
Wow... an 11 years old house help? Meanwhile, does the house help sleepwalk?

I haven't seen her sleepwalk before. I'm really troubled.

Good morning, my good people.

As I type, I'm still in the office; just concluded my night duty.
Around 1157pm, late last night, I received an urgent and somehow troubling call from my wife.
He said, she was awakened to consciousness by the loud shout from our son; our first child. Frantically, she rushed down to their room, and grabbed him, and pampered him. She said his bladder was full, and wanted to use the toilet.

But the shocking thing was that, she didn't meet our house help, an 11-year old in their room. She became troubled and headed straight to the sitting room, where she found her standing alone in the dark sitting room. He looked shocked and confused as my wife quietly sneaked into the parlour and put on the light.

This singular event has created some confusion in the house.

What was she doing alone in the dark? At that odd hour?

She told my wife she had gone to use the toilet. But why would she stand in the dark, all alone, and unconcerned with the scream from our son?

She was employed to assist us in the home.

Brethren, I'm a little bothered. A little troubled. My kids are very important to us, and their safety must be ensured at all times.

What should I do when I get him? Am I being fearful? What should I do?

Please, your inputs are welcome.

Thanks, and Shalom.

Thanks for this message, my dear. Indeed we need to pay more attention to our mind. We need to feed it the right message, and in the right proportion.
Prov 4.23. Guard thine heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life

Just as your physical body becomes weakened when you take in improper and inadequate food, so becomes your faith when you eat the wrong spiritual food.

Now, start eating the RIGHT spiritual food in the right QUANTITY. That food is the Word of God.

CAPTIVATOR:
Let God explain what he meant by death

" And to Adam he said : " In the sweat of your face you will eat bread Until you return to the ground, for out of it you were taken. For Dust you are and to dust you { Adam} Shall Return"" Gen 3:17- 19 !!

But Did Adam died the day he ate the fruit ... YES !! A day with God is 1000years , Adam spent a lifetime of 930 years , from Gods sight he didnt use a day , thus he died within a day and the curse of death overtake him and he finally returned to dust . Gen 3:19,

NOTE : durin that 930 years he fulfilled what God has foretold that he will bcom many ! Thus gave birth to sons and daughters before death finally snatch him away .

Very deep. I will have to read it again.

Of course it means spiritual death. To be cut off from fellowship with God equals death.

Besides, the pair didn't immediately drop dead after the act of disobedience.

Those verses apply to LEADERS, not THIEVES.

Had to rush my wife very early this morning. We shall be discharged soon. Thank God for her wellbeing. That's my reason.

I fear for the UK.

Frankmishael:
do I look broke like u? for ur info I'm happy in d ministry being part of d gospel. Im an engineer work with ExxonMobil u can have my pin to confirm 7E1D2D4C I'm not like u

Bro, your EGO is bigger than Mt. Everest.

A very interesting letter written with a sense of love, empathy and concern.
Indeed some recent happenings within the Body of Christ have left a lot to be desired, but I believe things will get better. No MOG is above sincere and humble correction.

Digress: The mods here are very partial, and sympathetic to Islam.
Many of us complained about the recent Charlie Hebdo terrorist attack in France not being moved to FP, and these folks never cared.
Now they move a thread about an MOG to FP with the speed of light. Una well done.

olufemi26:
Just wondering why these Charlie Hebdo news never made it to front page

Dear, it's a shame. I even opened a thread in this regard yet the mods did their master's bidding.

She looks gloomy....

Wow..

And we're the most religious people on the planet.

Ironical.

We aren't a Third World nation for nothing.

Any consequences? No.

HKCOMPANY:
At op is right, that is how I was scammed 750k,even though I don't have any bad
intention to this girl,I just want to have a good relationships and marry her,I don't even demand sex,she quietly scammed me. Since then I don't love again. Now any girl that ask me even 100 airtime, I will not look at her second time . The girl nearly run my life

That was very awful, but that's life. Life goes on, and learning never stops. You deserved someone better.

Move on sir. Karma is a bitch.

adabeke12:
Nna, dont ever change you good heart because of what someone did. If i were you i will try and get her back and laugh last. I would not treat someone else wrong for another persons 7uckup. Just pray to have a more discerning spirit. And for every obanje wey wan come your way to miss your road o.

Dear, you're right: others shouldn't suffer the consequences of what they knew nothing about.

However, it's also my rule never to discuss money at the beginning of a relationship. It's petty, primitive and defeating.

nma24:
That's Good...

Na so e be. There's no qualms in assisting someone in need.....everything na wisdom na