nazablossom:
They will look like their parents because it's their eggs and sperms.

The point is that she have twins with her DNA, case closed.

She have twins with her DNA. what does that mean? Those kids are her flesh and blood. Her eggs, her husband's sperm. Congratulate them and be happy that God has answered her prayer. Maybe He will consider you when you stop your bad belle

It will shock Sowore most. Lol.

newdawn2017:
Which lie? But dis is d truth.

It is not the truth. The babies look like their parents. One exactly like the mum and the other like the dad. Go check their photos and stop the unfair rumour. Make una dry fear God o.

When you look for money in strange ways you end up being a stranger to humanity and God

Disgusting.

daddytime:


In your mind you just made a comment...tuehhhh
lalasticlala, dominique, mynd44

I tried to admonish you. Watch what you say and show empathy. Anyone can fall including you. You have not repented. Go back to God for forgiveness again. This time pray and fast for 21 years.Maybe He will reconsider.

daddytime:
ls suicide truly the way out of all of one and life's troubles? Me thinks not and I'm sure those who opt for this route will still tow the line of committing suicide when they arrive wherever they are going and ultimately realize they had committed suicide for nothing. That is to say...once suicidal, will always be suicidal so long as the issues remain unsolved, just like the saying '' once banged can always be rebanged so long as it's in the mind of the bangee and the bangor''.

For the last shot....

What kind of play was that person talking about playing with the deceased a day before her transition??

You sound very silly. Someone dies you are likening that to bang. Bang is all you spend your daddy time explaining to your wayward children obviously. Daddy time indeed. I know you your daughter gets this kind of comparism when she finally takes her life. Very unreasonable.

Egberi dreamer cumming comedian

Pained Delusional Party

God bless you boy.

We are grateful to God. RCCG is praying for you

Where is Elder001? See your life outside. When will you stop yelling your tonsils off when it involves doling cash on our babes?

Sick man. Reminds me of the evil that exists in our nation.

Hilarious. Her husband no dry see bigger ones for road about?

Baby looks like her uncle aycomedian

Fine woman.

This is Wicked.

Why bleach so much. Yoruba actresses? Nauseating!

Pretty woman

olsome:
When a woman cheats, men get too angry like they should destroy destroy destroy... Imagine if your wife was sleeping with gate man & then when you come back, she pampers you with sweet egusi soup to cover up. Then one day you discover that your last child's head looks like the gate man's own, and the way he smiles is so wide like the gate man's mouth. You go for DNA test and it is confirmed the child is not yours...You ask your wife, she cries & say it's the gate man and that the gate man has been a brother..

I know of a guy with bow leg that impregnated someones wife....

if you don't want women to cheat, don't cheat....


Don't cheat ooooh!!!!

I agree jooh!

She should thank God she didn't die after her cosmetic surgery in Turkey. Her kids would have been badly affected.

I've been thinking about this man's case for the past few days. Although it's ideal; reality came and spoiled it for me. What he is offering is a full blown baby daddy and baby mama situation with the "feelings" which seem more cold. One has to put into consideration the fact that one might meet someone else and start a family.

What about the child?

This can work only if only one is able to put aside his selfish needs for love. If one is able to decide they want a number of kids, agreed, with this person and they would dedicate their life to those kids. It has to be for the sake of having children only.This can't be a selfish choice. He would have to start as he means to go on.

So, daddytime; are willing to sacrifice love to have children?

You can't live and bond with one family and have a child outside that circle of trust. It's too much to ask for.

If you are meant to have kids then you need to have a loving relationship first that is the natural order of things. Unless you're willing to sacrifice your heart for the fruit of your lions.

He has no selfish needs for love. He only needs a woman to use and once the baby arrives, he flees

In essence, you're looking for a babymama that you may or may not be serious with

You want to bring an innocent child into a dysfunctional family structure? you're selfish!!


you men should continue spoiling our family values because of your selfishness and wickedness.

God bless you. Once he is done achieving his aim. He will dump her like a dirty piece of rag. No wise lady will fall for this crap.

Elder0001:
Bride price payment, is a widespread practice in many African societies. In traditional African societies bride-wealth had some positive aspects but mostly negative consequences, for it stands at the foundation of patriarchy. In traditional African societies, bride-price was related to goods and services that a bridegroom and his kinsmen transferred to the family of the bride.1 Traditionally, this transfer involved the delivery of livestock by a suitor to the father or family of his prospective bride.

The negative consequence of bride-price is clearly seen in the debate on terminology. The term “bride-price” has the connotation of a purchase or financial transaction. Though it is always claimed that what we actually have is bride-price, in present day society it is more like a financial transaction. Bride-price has been highly commercialized, leading to many negative consequences such as women treated as property, the idea of daughters as investment, come-we-stay marriages, forced marriages, enslavement, family conflict, inferiority and dehumanization, and gender-based violence.
Each of these several categories will be described briefly below.



Women as Property

Commercialization of bride-price started with the introduction of the cash economy. Bride-price is paid to individuals in cash, as opposed to livestock. Cash is a symbol of sale, so women are seen as articles of sale. This leads women to be seen as property and chattel. Parents put a price on their daughters; in many communities the standard payment apart from cash is a grade cow, water tanks, or other unofficial payments. The payment becomes even higher if the bride is educated. When women are treated as property, they have no dignity. Such treatment as property is clearly seen in the way the transaction meeting is held, with haggling and bargaining, but without the input of the women.




Daughters as Investment

Parents see their daughters as a means of getting rich. Africans view their daughters as an investment whose dividends can be gleaned periodically. A daughter is like a bank account, and it seems only right to many that her father should be able to draw from her from time to time.


Enslavement of Women
In Africa, bride-price has always been paid in exchange for a woman’s productive and reproductive labor. The woman is seen as a source of labor for the family and also a machine for giving birth. As a result, if the woman does not give birth, the man can demand his bride-price to be repaid or mistreat her. By paying bride-wealth, men have legal rights over the ownership of children.




Family Conflict
Most heavy bride price marriages are founded on bitterness and suspicion, which leads to conflict. This is mainly due to the unreasonable demands of parents before the marriage. These demands lead to loss of respect and, in some instances, the couple pays the money requested and then breaks any relationship with the bride’s family.


Inferiority and Dehumanization
Since men pay bride-price , there is a notion that the girl has been bought. This gives women an inferior position; they cannot be equal with the buyer. This is dehumanizing because whatever little the men pay is not equal to the value of a human being. The whole of the man’s family has a notion that they are participants in the purchase. The man’s sisters have a notion that the bride-wealth was used to purchase the brother’s wife, hence they have a stake in controlling her. She is not even consulted on issues which affect her directly. She has low self-esteem, and even the language used of her is demeaning.


Gender-Based Violence
As objects and possessions, women are abused both physically and psychologically. The language used by most men is that they are disciplining their wives. Wife beating or battering is rampant, and most people accept this as normal. Even professional women are beaten by their spouses. Bride-wealth is also seen as paying for the productive and reproductive labor of women. This implies that, when the woman becomes married, she has to add several hours of work to her day, hence as p’Bitek says in his epic poem, Song of Lawino, an African woman becomes a beast of burden. Secondly, through bride-price a man is seen as having paid for the reproductive labor, hence her sexuality itself is bought. In many instances a woman is viewed as a sex object. First, a woman’s major role is to give birth to and take care of babies, especially boys. The man controls her sexuality and demands sexual satisfaction, whatever the situation. A woman does not have control over her sexuality. As an example, people claim that there is no such thing as rape in marriage.


https://www.cbeinternational.org/resources/article/priscilla-papers/negative-consequences-dowry-payment-women-and-society



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Your contribution will be appreciated

You banned me for two months because of my anti gigolo beliefs. Na mortuary you go dey for 2019 if you dey involve in my ban . If my truth dey pain you go and hang. Rich woman o poor woman o. Sam! You no go find. GIGOLO.

Na only God know who go make am. No matter how greedy you are for wealth or the good things of life, at the end you lose it all because it was never your destiny you only cut corners and will be left with absolutely nothing. Work hard pray hard. Don't become a parasite to a woman and hope to make it because you may not come out alive . End of story.

This guy is young and intelligent.

MaziEDOZIE:





What do you know about Corruption? I weep for people like you with no vision and poor mentality, please grow up my brother and understand how things move. Your so-called Saint and Messiah (Buhari) happens to be the most corrupt and inept Leader Nigeria has ever witnessed in her life as Country,if only you will put off sentiments and reason properly,you will see reasons why this lifeless and corrupt man(Buhari)needs to be shown his way out of that office come 2019.

According to reports Atiku spent 46billion naira to become flagbearer. We know he can spend another 460billion to become President . At the end of the day he still won't win the election. Vote your Atiku let me vote my Buhari. The truth shall prevail.

babythug:
She may be genuinely fed up and just managing that man . That’s how she feels we can’t take it away from her.
The man should search himself and see if the situation is worth salvaging or not then do the needful.
He has to speak to his wife anyway and hopefully things can be resolved amicably

He should also improve in the areas where she may have complained about his short comings

Ode you sef dey advice. ;DPained Divorcee on the prowl.

Pipedreams:


Exactly when my ex wife told me she hates me on three different heated arguements..Dem no need tell man to run! Before i start viewing nairaland comments beyond the grave..God forbid

Ex wife. Tell us why she told you she hates you. She caught you drilling your fellow man from behind Who no go hate you? I sure say your pikin sef hate you. Baba God hate you. Anofia. It is frustrated fools like you that come here to write rubbish hoping to make us all end in hell like you did. You are in your own. No wonder you are dying of frustration and bitternes. You go die in loneliness. Ashawo kobokobo. Na because of toto you leave your marriage, leave your pikin and na dat toto go kill you last last I swear. I see your frustration. Case closed, divorcee.

Pipedreams:


Il give ur daughter N500 transport. Im being to generous with 2k sef. Hoes dont deserve love

Thats why your hoe of a mother will die of poverty for staining earth with you. Only an animal born by a hoe has your kind of attitude. Na rapist go kill your wide pussied hoe of a daughter. Continue to dey knack your fulgly daughters future away. Na yourself you dey do.

Pipedreams:


So ur daughter is already taking dicks from sugar daddies older than you and ur very proud. Shamless Afonja am not suprised

As long as the dicks are not the dicks of a messy 2k poor and wicked mentalo like you. My daughter no be your daughter wey go open her wide dirty punna to garbage drilling dicks upandan including her hopeless papa. God punish you for thinking you can deal women so bad and you come out with your stupid tales by moonlight lies