₦airaland Forum

When Negors look down on fellow negroes based on color yet feel bad when a white man does the same thing. Blacks are funny as hell. We hate our blackness, we mock our African features and feel disgust at them yet we act all black and proud when a whitey says something about negroe feature or praises his own above the negroes.

GavelSlam:
It's a mental illness.

Doubt he can be treated but you should consign him to a psychiatric ward.

Always excuses when the abuser is a man.

That police officer that said the community must say where the man is not well trained.

Be wise when helping people oooo. Why open your doors to total stranger.

Looks like the work of Fulani terrorists

SillyeRabbit:
When a lady neither respect or fear you. You just disrespected your guy. No matter how pushed you are, never let a girl know your financial worth. None of them is innocent. Na their nature be dat. Indirectly they will be expecting too much from you.

Exactly. No woman is good. Did you notice how it was only men commenting how wrong she was under her post? Did you see how all the women on earth were cheering her on there too?

Perverted generation that converts the innocence of babies to sexual fantasy. That innocent girl was just dancing the way many normal healthy babies do

Did you try going to customize and arranging the pages ftom there?

Shior! As if he is a saint. Can he say he has not loed to her to go somewhere or meet another woman before? When dem play them you hear women are trash....

They should both repent and change.

Millenniumlady:
The best thing that could ever happen to a lady is to get disvirgin by her husband on their wedding night......... I can't wait sweet serene.......Futuire hubby

If you marry man wey no value you if you like make your virgin sef be virvin ontop of its first virgin, you will still not have value in that marriage. Do you know how many virgins were tricked into marriages by playboys simply because they are virgins and as such would be naive and controlable by the player? Your ex olisho friend with the good husband would be having everyday as the best thing that could ever happen in her life while the blind virgin who thinks virginity is all it takes will have only her disvirgining day as the best day for the rest of her married life. So as you are saving it please add wisdom join am. Even bible talked about foolish virgins. May you find the best man for you.

Millenniumlady:
The best thing that could ever happen to a lady is to get disvirgin by her husband on their wedding night......... I can't wait sweet serene.......Future hubby

If you marry man wey no value you if you like make your virgin sef be virvin ontop of its first virgin, you will still not have value in that marriage. Do you know how many virgins were tricked into marriages by playboys simply because they are virgins and as such would be naive and controlable by the player? Your ex olisho friend with the good husband would be having everyday as the best thibg in her life while the blind virgin who thinks virginity is all it takes will have only her disvirgining day as her best day for the rest of jer married life. So as you are saving it pkease add wisdom join am. Even bible talked about foolish virgins. May you find the best man for you.

Badgers14:
Why the guy no tear slap give the white guy na only the black guy hin see

Anyways, this is all coming from the śhitty Nigerian government. The government dont care about the masses why should foreign entities respect Nigerians

Before you quote me, have you ever worked for Indian, Chinese Lebanese boss Too condescending set of people, they do whatever they can and get away with it because our dear government don't care.

There are regulations in place for delayed flight, flight delayed for 7 hours, the airline gotta compensate them.

They treat people badly why dont the people quit in solidarity? The oyinbo we praise gave limbs and lives for their country to be the way it is today. If Nigerians say NO Nigerian will work in those shit hole companies until something is done and they all stand with one voice those Ogas would have no choice than to reach an agreement with the staff. So yeah! Unity is key even when govt pretends not to see. The masses have the power.

How I wish it was the Istanbul staff that got beaten. Those ones need beatings from time to time.

sleit:
Thanks a lot.

Welcome

Normal, natural instinct. She has a crush. It is part of growing up ans left for the adult to caution and guide her. Unfortunately some would jump at the oportunity to have sex with her. Funy thing is when sje grows up and remembera how she was dying in love she will be like "what did I see in him sef"

Earthbound:
I don't know you, but I'm sure you have skeletons in your closet too. I find sense in what the op said even though I don't quite agree he should make a post about it. Please don't quote me again

I have NO skeletons in my closet since I gave my life to Christ. Plus if I had some past sins I am not proud of I will not come on NL to boast of them. This man is not about skeletons he is hiding, this is about decorating his front porch with his skeletons for all to see and proudly so. So abeg don't compare sins one is repentant about to sins one is boastful of and happily indulging in.I also listen to wise counsel when given one. So you saying everything is not about Jesus and satan is a great deception.

dannyrhymes600:
how do u preach about jesus and have king of vahala as ur dp. of all places y vahala

That is a username on NL. I was campaigning for that person in one of the past Mr Nairaland. So cool down. Vahala means nothing to me. Jesus is King over all

But if he stole maggi he will be burnt to death. See the value a womans dignity has in Nigeria compared to the value of Maggi.

sleit:
Hi.
I am a lady of 22 years, will be 23 by January next year. I just
graduated and I've been with my guy since 200 level. We are in a
no-sex long distance relationship. In fact, we are both virgins. We
are kind of S.U.ish, if you understand the picture I'm trying to
paint.

He graduated ahead of me, and now has a job and is comfortable enough
to get married. So he's been asking for us to get married before
February next year. This guy is caring, wise, matured, faithful and
crazily in love with me (at least that is what he keeps saying).

Now, the problem?

I am not in love with him. I definitely do like and respect him, but
no matter how much I try, I can't just seem to fall in love with him.
So, you might ask why I kept the relationship for so long?
Well, I broke it off once, but he still came back and said we can put
in the effort to make it work.

He is a kind of person that doesn't condone sex out of marriage. Now,
he says the sexual pressure is quite high on him. And since he is
financially okay, he wants us to get married before he travels out for
his masters abroad.

I really have to give him an answer now as that will determine his
plans when leaving the country by February.

Would you guys advice me to accept the proposal of someone I know will
be a great husband and hope love will come along down the line later? Can a marriage start with just respect and like?
Or should I let him go and hope I will meet someone later? (I keep hearing a lot of scary stories about guys on nairaland and I'm
actually scared that if I let go, I won't get a keeper like him later.)

P.S.
I am a highly introverted person, and to make things worse, I work
remotely which means I hardly see people. I am always in my room with
my laptop.

C.C. Bukatyne, LadySarah, Shookonekilla, Ishilove, Sisisioge, Acidosis, TooNoisy, Eketem, Eyinjuege, Dominique, Eketem, KanwuliaExtra, Wilfredpat22, Tintingz, Babythug, Treasuredlove, Clarathomp, Cococandy, Nutase, Antina, Delishpot, St.surreal. (I've seen you guys give some opinion that I respect, need your say on this also. Thank you!).

Love can come out of respect. If he treats you right and has no character that may cause you sorrow in the future (Many turbulent marriages show signs before the parties tie the knot but those signs are ussualy ignored because of love) then yes go ahead and marry. If you feel like you will NEVER warm up to him let him know so that he may start looking for someone who would treat him right.

Earthbound:
Everything is not about Jesus and Satan.

In your case it is. Devil is still telling you it isnt. How can a full grown human be proud of sexual immorality? Christ is still waiting. God still cares.

Chiadikaobi:
Take heart my brother. All is fine

Rest in peace Dad.

Bros, pls check your mail.

Chiadikaobi:
It's been God's mercies and Grace. He kept me.

Happy birthday to me my brethren.

His Grace is upon me

Bros. I sent you a mail. Pls respond my brother.

What did he tell her that made her tell him her own. Did she just wake up one day and say..... Okon....I am just managing you! Wetin bring the talk?

Devil has built a city in your body and soul. Jesus still loves you and can set you free. Just repent and call on him. God can destroy the city and give you peace. It is a sad life when your dick controls your life.

When they keep marrying beasts in men skin that are aboundant in Nigeria today.

franchasng:
thanks to failed leaders like Mumumadu Buhari

Many of them past and present are sellouts. They exchanged their peoples development for personal wealth. They are caged by the smart elites who trully run the world.

Amo shine when amo shine

franchasng:
The wall looks so dirty like one Ajegunle street club

...and Wizkid too looks so dirty and unkempt despite his money/fame, iyama...I wonder why ladies flock around him with his dirty looking skin with patches, money sha

Rome has really fallen, mhen everything in life has its shining time and gloomy days.

The Great Europe is gradually going down...go to Amsterdam airport, very dirty

Go to London Heathrow airport and see white caucausin ladies working as toilet cleaners, something white people never did in the days of European reign, but today, European citizens find it hard to even get a good job

Greece struggling to survive, Uk surviving on last lifeline, it is well.....America should prepare o....and if not for African useless leaders, it is time for Africa to take over from them and shine too

China is buying out Africa.

So she tried to poison him and he still continued to live with her? So he was banging a side chick while preaching at the alter to his sheeple? I still dont get the story.

Slay king AKA Sweet Boy! Women when will you have sense? Even Nigerian wives are thinking of using protection for their comunity p€nis they married up and down all over naija talkless of ordinary girlfriend. Talk about living in sin and dying in it.

Nigerian slay kings will start doing this to their slay queens Those hungry sweet boys will take them out and the boys will eat like no tomorrow even if slay queen orders for only Ice water. slay king will fill his stomach full and ZAP!

Girls Open your ears and hear. Me I will not read any Whatsapp chat of you and a dead beat Baby sweet boy daddy o.