₦airaland Forum

Realhommie:
I understand, but we don't really know for sure... Yours is pure conjecture at best.

I judge based on what I see, you judge based on what you think. Yet you say my opinion na pure conjuecture. Anyhow, make dem try. Na their marriage, na their beating, na their makeup too

Realhommie:
But he doesn't have to make that public, you don't know for sure if he's been calling her to apologize, or do you

Then why make this one public? He is publicly telling her that she is making a mistake not remembering where they started from. But not publicly making her know that she was right to be mad at his violence towards her? If he wants to say sorry, let him say so instead of painting the picture of her not appreciating his being with her when she was a nobody.

Organized religion is a scam

He has tried.

So that justifies his beating her up? Typical tactics of abusers. They abuse you and then tell you how important you are in their lives.How you made them mad leading to their action. I dont see any sorry I beat you message there.

Elbizzcklinz:
he picked the one with white bkg cos what he is using it for is all whit...., but i like the one with black bkg.

Oh, I had the feeling he would pick that one. That was why I asked you to let us know. Glad you delivered happy sales in future. I see more comming.

Shior! She really entered deep into his nest. By the way sef, were are all those people who benefited from my prophesy on NL? E never reach time when una go tell me thank you with gifts?

Elbizzcklinz:
ok, i've delivered the job on three different patterns (gray bkg, white bkg and black bkg)........It is left for my client to make choice. I think he liked all. Thanks

Please do let us know which he picked

OLAJADON:
this is off what am talking about. generally, I know some guys cheat but in this scenerio, the lady cheat first and instead of the guy to act like a man he is behaving like a weakling.
in a relationship a man must always be a man,if things are not working out he leaves either with fore warning or not
Also I was expecting the ladies to scold the female,they are busy calling the guy immature for playing with the girl's heart. I will never support cheating in a relationship from both spouse and we can curb it in the society beginning with me and you but these ladies are not helping issues with these kind of thinking.

Yeah, the ladies would have told her she effed up big time. The boy too na swegbe! Why beg a cheating partner? Wrongest mistake

So his point is that they should not treat his case like he is the kidnapper ba? He is just the negotiator

donmayorgroup:
Buhari Is Like Your Father, Pray For Him, Please!!

It's obvious that freedom of expression allows everyone to express his or her thoughts, feelings, opinions and ideas. And since the inception of the social media like Twitter, Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram etc, people have been afforded the opportunity to express themselves without reservations.

Sometime last year, my dad fell Ill. I was devastated. Despite the fact that money was an issue, I was more concerned about his quick recovery. While I looked for where to raise money for his treatment and subsequent management, I didn't relent on prayers. My family and I prayed, fasted and wished him quick recovery. And by God's grace, he is doing fine now.

Same last year, I visited a federal teaching hospital to see a friend of mine who was admitted there. I met an elderly man who was almost on the verge of dying. He was being attended to by a young and inexperienced boy. I noticed he had troubles reaching out to the cup of tea placed before him. So, I went over and moved the table closer to his bed. He was full of appreciation. Right there, he placed a call to one of his sons telling him that a stranger has been showing him love in the hospital. He equally took my contact.

All these instances and many more, is just to bring back to us that consciousness, that spirit of love and hospitality. That show of empathy extended to an ailing person...no matter who is involved.

Mr President is a father and father to the Nation. Can you imagine the amount of pains he must be going through in his present condition?

Why will any loving Nigerian with the spirit of God in him/her, pray or wish him death? Is that how you wish your father death when he falls ill?

Mr President has the love of the Nation at heart. It might be difficult now. But the end justifies the means. Let's pray for Mr Buhari.

Let's pray for Nigeria. It's high time we stop spreading falsehood and death wishes on the social media.

These media should be an avenue to propagate unity, love and peace. Not a means used to cause division, hatred and backbiting.

Show your love for the President by praying and wishing him well. God put him there as the president. If it weren't God's will, he wouldn't be there.

Help in your own little way to aid his fight against corruption which is Nigeria's no 1 enemy..not the President.

Regardless of party affiliations, we are one Nigeria.

#PrayForBuhariToday

http://www.michaeldoosblog.info/2017/05/buhari-is-like-your-father-pray-for-him.html


Cc: lalasticlala, mynd44,seum

If this was GEJ, last year before ellection, would you have prayed for him?

OLAJADON:
I just finished reading a trend about a guy that dated a girl for 9 years and I think he is obsessed about the girl. there is a part in his write up that talking about the girl cheated on the guy by kissing another guy in his front instead of the guy to act like a sharp guy and just play along and make the girl his side chick, he is busy begging the girl.
in the comment section I was expecting opinion to be based on criticising the guy for been a lady's puppet but instead the women where jumping on the defence of the girl, calling the guy immatured for playing with the girl's feeling.
how can a girl first cheat on her man and the man be beggingthe cheating spouse while other ladies try to justify the actions of their fellow gender.
GOD PLEASE HELP LOVERBOYS SOUL.

Is that not the same medicine women have been forced to swallow through the years? E pain you because na boy be victim in this case ba? But, I cant stand a cheating woman sha. Cos me I dont cheat

The quick fix........ Mention Billions stolen! Of course na fake acct

mazimee:
People go out of their ways in marriage. You don't know what the next neighbour is putting up with. It all boils down to individuals and what they can put up with.

She clearly said she can not put up with it na. This ish mostly happen when people just marry for the sake of marriage.

Let what ever would happen for the greater good of Nigeria happen. Shebi na GOD dey control all things?

mazimee:
Every marriage has its own wahala, being able to manage yours makes it look close to perfection. In marriage you have to bend and compromise your Standard just let it work.
Actually yours is not really a big deal, If that is the only issue you are having with him and what it takes to keep him.

So she should send him? If your wife asks you to send her nudes would you do it? Abeg let us try to advice some men na. If na man make this complain, would you not insult the wife for not having patience till he returns home?
The guy doesn't mean well for her. She better use her brain. And why the hell do some women marry absentee husbands sef?

Where dem dey sell the #1800 atire abi outfit? Make people fit go buy their own. No wey even sewing sef pass #1800. We never talk of the material o.

So he means that Osinbanjo would ruin naija should he take over the reins of power?

Kings dey eat and drink for public?

pat1612:
Its here

Choi! na wa o. It just blended like it wasnt there.

fam24:
Someone was telling me that some companies/organizations do not consider exemption letter from NYSC. Is it true?

They should not reje t it as long as it is given by the govt.

Elbizzcklinz:
What do u guys think about this pattern

I prefer the first one. Just make the gray parts black

adam500hr:
I really want to thank you all for your comments. Whatever happens to a man and he brings it over to social media, in the end, the wisdom he has inclusive of some positive comments here will actually be the outcome of what I'll decide to do. In the end, my decision is what matters.

I'll like to address some misinformation here, and the first is the repeated quote from hungerbad where praises for his intelligent post is seen on here. It was not a shop she was gonna rent, its a space for creche, which she is running at the other place I rented a year plus now. Also, I have to the realization that even if your guts feelings tell u that ur wife is cheating, without evidence, one needs to chill, and if need be you want to uncover the truth take your time and investigate. Trust me yall, its not easy to observe things that would tell u ur woman is cheating and you'll sit still and be looking like lukmon, there are many reasons I have observed that I wont have time to share here.

Also, I would like to address the issue of paternity test, truly when trust is not fully established, and you see further reasons to doubt the paternity of your child, then a DNS isnt a bad idea. I'm actually 100% sure of my first born, apart from the sparkling resemblance, which in most cases is not an asssurance of ownership, the bloodily bond is there, I can feel it deep down, I wont even need to do DNA, and the same goes with my second as well. I dont want to go into that, even if on eof them arent mine, they already call me daddy, where do I want to land the fate of whichever isnt mine if discovery is made?

I loved my wife when we started courting, the plan for pregnancy was mutual, the love making was mutuall and real, it was just a mistake on my path that you dont sleep with who you dont know if by knowing that u guys arent compatible you wont be able to marry her. However within the last 5 and half years, We both have tried as much as possible to make things work, though she still seem to be the one lagging behind with issues of respect, obedience and loyalty and signs of infidelity.

Another thing is first business is successful, infact there isnt enough space to contain more children, but the major problem is accountability and management, shes 0% in those aspect, meaning no savings to pay rent, profit is spent without proper accounting, thought I understand most parents dont pay their wards fees at the appropriate time which causes imbalance in trying to accurately account for what comes in and whats going out. The only reason why she stated she wanted to move is because the baby's moving from age 3 are heading to a proper school, and she'll lose them, meaning she would start over by sourcing for new babys', so if she can secure the other side, she'll just move them to the new nursery and preschool without having to lose them to other schools. I told her i dont have the cash now, she needs to exercise patience, and she should be hopeful that kids will leave and new ones will come, at least thats how she started.

I just didnt call her a hoe from the secret calls and the mistaken statement of "blw job" It was based on the phone conversation I overheard from the bug i placed on her phone, where I found out that she was seductively talking to the dude in a sexy tone that I never heard her talk with, after confronting her and advised her to cut ties, she had another convo with him where I was being slandered and my wife refered to me as guy in the convo, thats what made me bad and resorted to calling her names, the scope of having her confesss to what I dont know is because if a woman ,talkless of a wife can discuss you with another male, it could probably mean they have had sex, or they are about to, whichever way round, out of anger, such woman might be called a hoe.

I had provided the evidence of the call, she cried and apologized that the dude was a old friend that she didnt want to make him feel bad while trying to cut ties with him, reason why he had to say such things about me, I asked if she respected his feelings more than the man that chose to marry you out of all that i have met, she said she was sorry. I tabled down a whole lot that I never thought would come off my mind, but due to the fact that I have sat her down to thrash issues out b4,, and nothing ever changes, I decided to have her embark on some strict rules which she quickly accepted, because I will not tolerate any more of this same instance or any other related as I want to live long.

I hope ot works well. If una need someone to talk to, I can hook you guys up with someone.

ikp120:
Bros abeg forgive him. LMAO

Abeg no kill am o. No be his fault; na his keyboard fault.

I no vex again o

Ewlery:
Thank u for your kind words bt this is hard, too hard i hv prayed countless times and days of fasting for God's intervention bt nothing happened

Last year I process a visa but it failed even despite all my prayers. I took this as my final hope because I see no other option

Well, I know it is hard. Very hard cos I am just managing to burst through my own hardtimes and boy was it hard. I actually did what Job did not do; I cursed at God and Satan alike! Google "Dark night of the soul" not the musicians o. it is hard but now is the time you need to calm down, wash your hands and heart clean, dont look down on the job you manage to have now, if only you knew howmany people met great minds while doing lowly jobs with trust that things only get better. I know many. One even met the boss(owner) of a new generation bank in corncord hotel owerri. He was a waiter and the supervisor was insulting him for something which was out of his control. He was doing the job for almost a year when the last insult happened. The top banker withnessed the situation and called him after the whole ish, asked what happened, why doesnt the boy look for another job, if he would love to work with him the guy said YES! (He did not even know the mans level in society. The man then gave him his card, that was how he got a better job. He prolly was praying for years too but see when his help came? Take this time to learn, to mature, to grow and keep faith. Of course I will keep you in mind and if I hear of any opening I will let you know. It shall be good take it to the bank,

Ewlery:
I said it before I have a job but it is not going to take me anywhere in life I am stagnant. I am 25 years old and nothing is working for me

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Now you have arrived. Okay. Life is like that sometimes. You are just 25 good thing that you have woken up to reality this early. Use your talent from now, do not dispise the importance of little begining. Keep those hands clean and do not hesitate to market your main skill even in your little office. Ie, if you love to design websites, but at the momnent you are a sales boy, print flyer and keep in your shop and hand out to custoners as they patronise where you work. It may sound strange but if your hands are clean, sonetimes Gods greatest gifts are unanswered prayers. When your effort pays off, you will be glad your prayers werent answered when you first prayed .

dingbang:
if u can't help him, u shut d fvck up

Thunder strike you lame. That someone instead of asking for help to secure a meaningful existence is asking if he should go ahead to do crime. Like a woman comes here to ask if we think she should go do ashawo cos she is broke.

Ewlery:
there are people doing it an they are 500 times better and more successful than I am. They are providing for their parents and creating businesses. I think you don't know how I feel

I know how you feel. You want quick money, you are willing to do juju for wealth as long as you dont have to answer to anybody. You hate steady progress, you hate the time it takes life to teach you patience. Inshort, you are mad at God for having humanity struggle before they succeed. You want to wind back, enjoy babes and bales from YESTERDAY

Ewlery:
Should I take dis step

Yes. Tke it, add drug smuggling ontop then carry gun and rob banks. If you still broke go into kidnapping and if you need more money, start bursting pipelines and if you still aint satisfied join somalians and become a pirate.

Imagine what he is asking me? If he should do 419.

Only Buhari is allowed to make comments or demands on others haven't you heard?

To advice you for?