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If I look Yoruba Muslims, I would agree with this but when I look Northern ones, I will say this writeup is deceptive

itzmoni:
Mmm,bro I feel ur pain,trust me..yahoo na devotion o..and Bleep all dey say bout juju n all,I have bin running street for a long time now,and I have Neva don any voodoo or related stuff..just believe n do wat ur mind tells u...u all u got nigga..wen u broke no one here is gonna give u moni or wen ur mama needs a new cloth to blend in with her age group for some church program no one here gonna help u out...u ar in dis alone..so man up and do all u can for ur family,bleep d damn world...hustle till ur last breath bro...just hustle..if its street u wanna run do it with all ur will n watch d moni coming in...wen u make d moni d ones telling u shit here will wanna be like u ...just don't mess with d spirit world for no reason... Don't just be a waste...refuse to be wat nature wants u to be,refuse to settle for what life gives u...work hard so u gonna scream I made it...hustle till ur mama sitted in ur house with maids helping her wit cooking n all n drivers ready to take her anywhere she wants ...n also show her d whole damn world...

Nna, no be by hussle alone o. If say na by hussle and running street, many area boys go don turn Billionaire by now. Take it from me. Na turn by turn. When his time comes, as long as he is not lazy and has not given up, even if he dey for monastery, the thing go waka come meet am. Yes he should hussle but no be by hussle person dey take make am. If Life say na for 45 him go hammer, if he likes let him start hussling at 16 he will hussle for those years until when life don agree say the one has reached. The advice I will give to him is, he should first of all, remove the self pity, then do what ever legal thing he can to make money.

DeepSight:
Such a typical African answer to an educational issue.

"Progress" paining somebody?

You must live in a hovel.

No cry again. E too pain you. The girl is living her life, you are here crying blood. Call me a village person but the WHITE man's advance society you so cherish is the one producing this child which makes me wonder why you are busy calling me hovel dweller for supporting her.
I love my hovel and I support and encourage those who want to develop skill and knowledge in my HOVEL no matter their age.If a one month old loves the sound of guitar and starts wanting to handle one as soon as he can hold his head upright, I let him knock himself out playing the guitar.
You the city dweller on the other hand, likes to kill dreams under flimsy exuses. I don't want to live in that your fake paradise.

tollahni:
She eats almost every junk food I know...but refuses stuffs like rice,spagetti,nd other good meals

Lol, she knows hat her stomach wants
Okay, maybe you should stop giving her those grains and processed foods. . Please seek second opinion. She may be reacting to some chemical found in grains so try to see if she likes eba, soups including the oyinbo soups, beans, yam, potato etc.
Sometimes not adding pepper or using a particular spice to cook may not sit well with the child. I know a boy who throws up if the mom doesn't add enough pepper to his food

cleanstar:
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I did not see this message on time. Please do send me a mail through NL and I will reply

true2god:
It was narrated from Anas that :
the Prophet (ﷺ ) bought Safiyyah for seven slaves. (Sahih) (One of the narrators) 'Abdur-Rahman said: "From Dihyah Kalbi.'

Vol. 3, Book 12, Hadith 2272 (sunnah Ibn majjah).

This sunnah above can be collaborated with the hadith below by bukhari (one of the greatest Islamic journalist and historian):


Narrated Abdul Aziz:
Anas said, "When Allah's Apostle invaded Khaibar, we offered the Fajr prayer there (early in the morning) when it was still dark. The Prophet rode and Abu Talha rode too and I was riding behind Abu Talha. The Prophet passed through the lane of Khaibar quickly and my knee was touching the thigh of the Prophet. He uncovered his thigh and I saw the whiteness of the thigh of the Prophet. When he entered the town, he said, ‘Allahu Akbar! Khaibar is ruined. Whenever we approach near a (hostile) nation (to fight) then evil will be the morning of those who have been warned.’ He repeated this thrice.

The people came out for their jobs and some of them said, ‘Muhammad (has come).’ (Some of our companions added, ‘With his army.’) We conquered Khaibar, took the captives, and the booty was collected. Dihya came and said, ‘O Allah's Prophet! Give me a slave girl from the captives.’ The Prophet said, ‘Go and take any slave girl.’ He took Safiya bint Huyai. A man came to the Prophet and said, ‘O Allah's Apostle! You gave Safiya bint Huyai to Dihya and she is the chief mistress of the tribes of Quraiza and An-Nadir and she befits none but you.’ So the Prophet said, ‘Bring him along with her.’ So Dihya came with her and when the Prophet saw her, he said to Dihya, ‘Take any slave girl other than her from the captives.’ " Anas added: "The Prophet then manumitted her and married her."

Thabit asked Anas, "O Abu Hamza! What did the Prophet pay her (as Mahr)?" He said, "Her self was her Mahr for he manumitted her and then married her." Anas added, "While on the way, Um Sulaim dressed her for marriage (ceremony) and at night she sent her as a bride to the Prophet. So the Prophet was a bridegroom and he said, ‘Whoever has anything (food) should bring it.’ He spread out a leather sheet (for the food) and some brought dates and others cooking butter. (I think he (Anas) mentioned As-Sawaq). So they prepared a dish of Hais (a kind of meal). And that was Walima (the marriage banquet) of Allah's Apostle." ( Sahih al-Bukhari , Volume 1, Book 8, Number 367).

The prophet of allah was 100% involved in slave trade and capturing of women as sex slaves, according to the instructions given to him by allahh and alllah's command must be fulfilled.

allahuu acbaruu!

Clearly so. And since they believe his life is worthy of emulation, they will see nothing wrong in replicating it if given the chance. I believe religion as designed by the white man to distabilize the world. Yes. Same people created Islam and Christianity and many middle eastern region

Nice job

When they did it to Aunty blogger Kemi shebi people were hailing them.

This is sad. And India is as religious as Nigeria

Have you sought a second opinion? Does she throw up the junk? Does she eat only one type of junk or anything she can lay her hands on? If she doesn't throw up every junk you give her, then the problem is not her stomach but rather she doesn't like what you offer her.

dingbang:
u just said u never called women saints but here u are saying men are animals..



in essence, women are the weaker sex?

She clearly said SOME MEN are animals. Why are you excited that a man beat his wife? You sound like you hate seeing women marry rich guys. FYI the wife beaters I know we're men who married nice kind women. The woman stupidly listened to bad bele people like you. They thought it they left the poor idiots, they would be tagged bad women who dump their relationships due to lack of cash. They stayed on and one got beaten till she was blind, the other list a tooth. Both husbands were poor and the waves respected them but the men still beat them up. I have seen rich men who love their wives. Nice gentle men they are. So biko, wash the mentality off your mind that only rich men beatup their wives.

And amebos have been forcing Nigerians to fast and pray for him claiming he was on his deathbed. They should stop twisting story for his family jor

Me the hour following my bank alert

She fit come surprise say na porn movie role he want come naija offer her!

DeepSight:
This is worthless illiterate stupi.dity and I neednt waste my breath further.
Give children drivers liscences, the vote and rights to contract. Make them neuro surgeons.

My foot.
You are a m.oron.

If everything I have written hasnt woken you up from your morbid and illiterate inferiority complex and your warped perception of Education as mere reading of books, not even the combined efforts of all native deities in your antedlivuvian hamlet will.

E pain am

See grammar na.....

My foot.
You are a m.oron.

If everything I have written hasnt woken you up from your morbid and illiterate inferiority complex and your warped perception of Education as mere reading of books, not even the combined efforts of all native deities in your antedlivuvian hamlet will.
Emi nikan tan? Hahaha, aint gat time for this ish lol

Seriously sha.

This girl progress just dey pain you. But.......why?

bizme:
It wasn't the Church service of today that made me decide.
It was rather several pieces of disappointment and dashed expectations that forced me to make up my mind today.

Following my conversion years ago, I had spent a substantial part of my youthful life in the service of God. No amount of discouragement from my Dad and peers would slow me down in the pursuit of the love and service of God my Father. At a point I had approached my parents that I was considering opting for pastoral school instead of University admission. I had at the time been offered an admission into one of the leading federal universities in the country. Eventually my dad's voice of reason prevailed and I went to University. In University, I lived and conducted myself as a man whose singular hope and passion was the pursuit of God, roving from villages to villages every week, preaching and pastoring village churches. Away from the demands of my studentship.

But in the real world, the popular promise that God always has my back has been no more than a sale's man's quip which is often far from the reality on ground. I have asked fellow Christians questions, but they have failed to provide me with answers that don't refer me back to the usual call to patience and perseverance. If I do not enjoy God's promises in the time of my youth, what then is the point? What is the point in repetitively making the same requests for years without answer from God?

I consulted widely, reading books and studying other peoples' experiences and I have come to this conclusion: that I am on my own in this world. That God probably finished His part when He created me; that the entirety of my fate and experience will hereafter depend on me and my societal factors. That all the praying and singing and clapping in the church are no more than a desperate attempt for most of us to believe in a God who has got no better job than bailing us out of our miseries...

Well, it has been years now and He hasn't bailed me out. My life, the experiences of it, has not been any better than that of those who have refused to acknowledge God or to serve Him. Henceforth, I'm going to turn my time and attention to more product things than church attendance. My woman isn't going to like this, but I feel like a fraud sitting there in Church today and refusing to say the prayers since all those I had said these past years don't seem to have been answered.

This is no feast for atheists. I don't have enough faith to be one. This is simply my step of courage to step outside profitless religion into personal effort to take my own matters into my own hands. And you don't have to agree with my conclusions, if you look at it carefully you will realize that I have no obligation to live my life based on others' experiences. Just mine.

Look, if God wants you to learn something, no matter where you run go, you will still face the same wahala. There is GOD. Not the way they paint it but there are powers that control this earth. I can tell you this; calm down, tell yourself there is a lesson the great creator wants you to learn, release yourself to the flow, be focused, do not fight for anything, you will see that you shall come out victorious. I believe that the most merciful energy on earth is a feminine energy. I know some would not like my saying that. But that is what I FEEL. You are not the first man to go through this, so keep faith and let mother nature guide your path.

Corner cutting is in the blood of many Nigerians. They dont care if people die as a result of their devlish ways

The gods are angry

Nukilia:
Don't waste your energy responding to people who have been psychologically affected by the failed Nigerian system

Let's wish them quick recovery...

E tire me

StephenJobs:
LOLZZZZ......the guy no try at all...bros abeg u dey wrong as far as her undies is Involve....next time just stay indoors n pretend u didn't notice any thing......

But truth being told, A married Woman no suppose dry her undies outside now, haba....Even me way be guy no dey dry my boxers outside sef...

Hahaha, I weak o If she knew she would not be home, she shoulkd have removed the pants to save her good neighbour this embarrassment na!

DeepSight:
My friend, no one is pouring water to kill any spark, and where any spark is seen, it must be nourished: and such nourishment is possible in an abundant array of ways obviously unknown to you, other than rushing the child into a doctorate. Sure a child can acquire skills but there is an appropriate level of maturity required for certain levels of learning, because the student can then combine a certain level of worldly, social and emotional experience of the world with the hard skills being taught and understand how to be a rounded professional with both soft and hard skills at play. Certain lessons are also best not absorbed without a certain degree of understanding for the importance of certain other things. It is on this level that one might appreciate why it is counter productive to teach a child medical skills of a neuro surgeon at an age that the child can never grasp the humanistic subtleties or ethics at play.

I will not even countenance the nonsense you wrote about allowing a child who is smart at contracts enter into contracts. That alone shows what a small minded non-thinker you are. Sad, because one shouldn't even need to be a good thinker to see the pitfalls of that.

What did you study, might I ask?
And also, how old are you?

No offence - these are serious questions.

Go sidon for gutter. You are too foolish to exchange words with. You chose to see what you want to see. Bad belle is your problem. If a child can be crowned king under the guidiance of an elder, why cant that same child sign contract under the guidiance of an experienced elder? What is the big deal that a child is allowed to pursue her dreams? Those child stars, dont they enter contracts through their guardians? Why is that a taboo that she should be allowed to gain knowledge if she so desires? Why is it a problem with you? She is advanced above her years, you on the other hand have a very limited mind. You only work withing the box. This is an opportunity for you to reconsider your archaic belief and take a second look at how she beat the odds and is coping well within the achademic environment. But NO, you can never leave the box. Life can only work the way you belive it should. Asking what I studied, it would not do you any good. No offence my foot. I am 10 days old, how does it help you?
I liken this to.....because a child shouldn't walk before 8 months. And here comes a baby trying to walk at 4 months but friends of the parents get offended that the parents refuse to stop the child from walking claiming she would miss parts of her baby stages. The child loves to read books instead of playing and is succeeding at it with the parents support. Clearly she is passing and forging ahead in her chosen field. She did not bribe the lectures to get promoted unto the next level. That shows she is dedicated to her pursuit. What is your problem again? That they should block her and force her to go play mom and dad in the sand box with her friends?

smartty68:
Oops! Sorry if I sounded hash on you

Its all good. I am not angry, just to remove my hand for the iwe

You go pack married woman pant? in naija where to smile at one casn cause marriage to break, naim you go carry her pants?

smartty68:
Story for the gods...

What Nigerians needs now is empowerments - skill acquisition...

And stop wasting funds unnecessarily...

Hian, make una tell them na! Me I only mentioned what I believe they are trying to do. I am not debating if the step is right or wrong.

DeepSight:
Stop personalizing the issue, you are tempting me to believe you are not properly educated on anything.
It has significant societal connotations when growing children are denied a proper childhood in a bid to super-excel the development level of their peers. Mind you this takes nothing away from making special provisions for Gifted Children. Right here in Nigeria we has a special school for Gifted Children (I hope it still exists). However fast-tracking a 13 year old to PHD studies will surely take away very important aspects of the Child's natural development which are very crucial for growing into a balanced and well rounded adult. I say again, Education is much more than reading books but I am surprised that this is lost on you. Perhaps you think people go to University only to read specific courses and nothing more.

Aside from those very obvious humanistic concerns perhaps you should avert your mind to the simple questions I hinted at, when you advocated making 15 year old neuro surgeons if they have the "ability". Ability in your mind is obviously an academic issue alone and just knowing that about you saddens me, as it is also true of the thinking of many parents eager to see their child more brilliantly acclaimed than any others. It is a shallow, ignorant and irresponsible attitude to parenting.

So just answer the questions:

1. Why not give a super talented 10 year old driver the legal right to drive?

2. Why not give a super talented 10 year old political analyst the right to vote?

3. Why not give a super talented 10 year old legal mind the right to enter into contracts?

Please just show me that you have an education by providing quality answers to these which should help along your view that you may thrust the responsibilities of a neuro surgeon on a 15 year old as well.

Don't worry about what I will do with my child prodigy - if at all I ever am blessed with a child. Just answer the above for now.
Thank you.

Why stop a child from aquiring those skills even if he would not be permited to use them now? And yes, why cant a child vote? Why cant a young child who is skilled and smart enter into contracts? Those rules were set by man not God so go figure. Kings can be crowned at age 8 to rule people even though they are under the guidiance of someone mature which was exactly what I stated before. Why cant young knowledgeable kids do same? I said she should be allowed to learn if it is what she wants and someone mature should take her under their wings until she can function legally. What is wrong in that?Why must you pour water to kill their spark?

Maybe it is their way of creating new jobs?

DeepSight:
This is irresponsible.
There is a reason there exists an age of majority for heavens sake.

Or do you think that is nonsense too?
And here you are advocating that children who are not permitted to drive, to vote or to enter contracts - should be allowed to take up such advanced medical responsibilities as even neuro surgery.

You are being both irresponsible and ignorant.

When your chilld shows such skills, knowledge and passion, feel free to dump water on his/her fire and kill the spark. Leave this one, her degree no affect you in anyway.

DeepSight:
Have you considered the various ethical and complex emotional decisions a neuro surgeon has to wade through, and do you consider that a 15 year old may have the maturity to handle and balance such, as well as the stamina to witness trauma professionally?

Do you think such can be acquired by passing exams by fifteen?

I fear it is you who has not considered this matter carefully.

Like I said, if she can, why not? Broaden your mind. Nothing is set on stone in life. If she is matured in her brain and mind and she willingly dedicates time to do it, then why stop her? Most that should be done is to put her under the tutelage of a qualified master to guide her until she can be trusted to handle things unsupervised rather than stopping her from pursuing her dreams and goals. I a sure if she had won a rap contest or some mediocre competition that adds nothing to the developmental guage of society, people would have been ooohhing and wowing by now. That mediocre complaining would have posted her stage performance video and title it AMAZING. Isnt it the same level of dedication it would take for her to be a movie or sport super star? TTT And other Big brother house mates are celebrated by the fed government for sucking dicks and boobs ? Romman goddess and Bobrisky are talk of town too.yet this man is angry over a girl dedicating her time to aquire accademic excellence?

Wetin do the men accounts? Discrimination no good o

See how he is basking in his stupidity sha if she likes it, is passionate about it and has the skills to become a neurosurgeon by 15, what is his business there?

World dey find how to progress Nigerisn youths dey find how to marry more wives and have more sex.

Well, it goes to prove what some people belive is the black mans passion


Sex
Dance
Sports
Music.

Somebody vexed for my previous comment so I will modify it and say......



Thank God o