₦airaland Forum

@OP
It's obvious from your narrative that she's not going to share responsibilities with you. She appears to be self centred. If you're okay with the fact that you'll bear the burdens of marriage alone without complaining, go ahead and marry her.

You should have brought this up in the course of your relationship. This isn't something you bring up at this stage if you want to hear the truth and see her change without pretence.

Maybe it's time to regulate herbalists, traditional healers and the like. Some of them are the ones encouraging this false belief that human parts bring money.

We continue to thank God for Dangote Refinery. Such a huge blessing in these crazy times.

At least, unlike some other countries, fuel is still easily available albeit at a higher cost. It's still cheaper than what obtains in many other countries.

May God soften hard hearts so the world can live in peace again.

We didn't hear of the fighter jets when the military base was being attacked. Now they've mistakenly bombed the wrong set of people.

If our soldiers know where the bandits are, why do they wait for them to attack so they can fight back instead of taking the battle to their base in the forest?

I don't understand that type of war plan.

Yet he ignored BOS in Lagos.

Trump talks too much!

press9jatv:
not really. Most imams and Alfa's want Ambode to complete his term in office. They want Ambode to do second term in Lagos State.

Same Imams who didn't want a Christian to succeed Ambode back then?

Anyway, you may know better. I'm not a politician.

crossbreedwears:
If they allow Ambode to perform without interference, he will out perform the current governor. Man knows how governance works.

Ambode who derailed from the Masterplan?
He performed in some areas but he also disrupted the development plan.

The rail transport system for instance was put on hold during his tenure. The hospital projects in process now could have been done when he was in charge. The waste disposal system wasn't good enough. He had street lights powered by diesel which is quite expensive to maintain. He rebuilt bus stops though.

One thing I like to remember him for is how he handled the insecurity problem that was persistent around the Ikorodu area. A one time solution that crushed the militants/terrorists. If only this was done when the Northern bandits first raised their heads.

press9jatv:
not in Lagos truly. Faleke is just in Hamzat camp, he's just trying to create much popularity for Hamzat here. Ambode has been affirmed since last year.

A Muslim will be the next Governor if rotation prevails. Ambode is a Christian.

I don't understand why our security agencies seem to respond to their attacks but never attack them though Gumi said they know where the bandits are.

Is attacking known criminals against the law?
As things are, we're leaving our rural dwellers as sitting ducks for persistent ambush, kidnapping and killing by the bandits.

Well deserved!

The man dodged a bullet though it came with a huge loss. Marrying this type of lady is a suicide mission. The man will keep running from pillar to post trying to please an insatiable and mentally shallow lady. Dishing out 3m to shut up the sellers shows her level of ignorance. The value of land is in the same range in any given environment. He can easily confirm it.

The most annoying thing is buying yeye wigs. Using capital funds to sort out personal expenses. Financial literacy is necessary for every adult.

Undisciplined staff! Adults who should be teaching their children and younger ones how to keep their environment clean and how to be people of integrity.

Sonofgod1990:
I'm a soldier serving in borno. The incident is not funny

May God guide and protect you always. 🙏🏽

badoh:
The money that each of these politicians stole from Nigeria treasury is enough to lift millions of Nigerians out of poverty. If Nigeria has a strong institutions, all of these past leaders in ADC, PDP and current leaders in APC are supposed to be serving sentencing for one crime or the other. These are leaders that were not accountable to the people and became wealthy by siphoning public funds. The kind mind weh dem get to come back and be campaigning again for elective positions needs to be studied.

They come back because there will always be gullible followers around them.

Very sad for the parents and family. May God comfort them.

May his soul rest in peace.

naptu2:
THE GREAT JAKANDE SCHOOL DEBATE

This is my November 5th, 2014 post. The Tolu School Complex is one of the "Jakande Schools".

Lagos State has always been blessed with very good governors. In my view, the best are:

Mobolaji Johnson (Itoikin Bridge, planning the Ring Road system [including Eko and 3rd Mainland bridges], Badagry Expressway, etc)

Lateef Jakande (LTV, Lekki Expressway, Lasu, Low Cost Housing Estates, etc)

Raji Rasaki (Adiyan Waterworks, completion of 3rd Mainland Bridge [Babangida ordered his secretary not to allow Rasaki into his office again, because Rasaki was always disturbing him about the 3rd Mainland Bridge], Lagos Horizon Newspaper, Opebi-Oregun Link Bridge, etc)

Mohammed Buba Marwa - Eko FM, LASUTH, Direct Labour Agency [which patched the roads that were left in a state of disrepair by Mr. No Bitumen ], Marwa Gardens, Eko FM, Operation Sweep


Bola Tinubu (Lasambus, BRT, Kai, Office of The Public Defender, Lagos Emergency Points, Millenium Schools, Lasuth, LASTMA, reconstruction of roads that were left in a state of disrepair by Mr. No Bitumen and patched by Governor Marwa, etc).

Raji Fashola (Okota-Itire Link Bridge, Lekki-Ikoyi Link Bridge, Lasu-Iba Road, Lasmi Cabs, Traffic Radio, LRT, Lagos HOMS, expension and modernisation of the Lekki Expressway, Lagos State Security Trust Fund, etc)


Governors Otedola, Akhigbe (Ikeja flyovers), Mudashiru (rehabilitation of Jakande schools), Kanu, Lawal and Ukiwe also did well. I won't rate them as the best, but I'll say they did very well.

The lone exception is Colonel Olagunsoye Oyinlola (Mr. No Bitumen) who did absolutely nothing. He sat and watched as Lagos roads became filled with ginormous craters, hills and valleys. Awolowo Road was an eyesore at this time.

However, if you tell some people that Governor Johnson did a lot, they will direct your attention to Eko Court and the armed robbery edict. If you tell them that Governor Rasaki was an action governor, they will remind you of Maroko and Ilado. If you tell them that Marwa was very popular, they will tell you that he served Abacha, that Operation Sweep killed many innocent people and they will ask you where he got the money with which he started his airline (some will even tell you that he was one of the people that delivered the parcel bomb to Dele Giwa's house and they will also remind you about Bagauda Kaltho's death). If you tell them that Tinubu transformed Lagos from the huge refuse dumps and bad roads of the 1990s to a clean place with smooth roads, they will tell you that Tinubu owns the whole of Lagos. If you tell them that Fashola brought back sanity to Oshodi and continued the progress started by Tinubu, they will tell you that Fashola is elitist.

But the argument that I find most fascinating and which was revived upper Sunday, is the debate about the tenure of Lateef Kayode Jakande (LKJ).

I believe that Baba Kekere is one of the best governors that Lagos has ever had (you'll see why in a minute), but I also acknowledge his flaws. However, it's very difficult for most people to assess him objectively. They either love him dearly or hate him passionately.


LKJ implemented the progressive/welfarist manifesto of the UPN to the letter. The LSTC was still running at the time that Jakande was governor and he converted some of the LSTC buses (including some of the air conditioned buses) into Scholars Bus, buses that were specifically designated to convey primary and secondary school children to and from school for free.

He utilised the Lagos State Development and Property Corporation (LSDPC) to build low cost houses/flats, which low and medium income people could buy via a mortgage scheme (they paid back in instalments over a 10-25 year period).

Jakande endeared himself to the people by using his private car, a Toyota Crown (or was it a Cressida?) as his official car, rather than one of the long wheel base mercedes limousines that were common at the time. (He used that same car as his official car when he became Minister of Works in the Abacha Government, but his motorcade looked funny to me because the official Peugoet 505 Evolution that was meant to be his official car was often driven behind the Toyota).

Governor Jakande revived the Lagos Metroline plan which had been abandoned by the previous military government. The system had been originally planned by United Nations experts that were advising the Federal Government in the 1960s, but successive governments were not serious about it. Governor Jakande was very serious about it and the right of way had already been demarcated by the time he was removed from office.

He established the Lagos Television (LTV), the only state tv station (the previous state and regional tv stations had been taken over by the Federal Military Government in the mid-1970s). The NPN controlled Federal Government quickly established a youth oriented tv station on the exact same frequency (NTA2 Channel 5) and LTV was eventually forced to move to Channel 8 (it was forced to move again in the 1990s, when the Federal Government reserved the VHF frequency band for only Federal Government owned stations. It eventually settled on Channel 35).

He also established Lasu, a multi-campus university that was modelled after the University of California multi-campus system.

But, the most controversial policy of the government (and the policy that was the subject of Sunday's debate) was the education policy.

The Federal Military Government had taken over private primary and secondary schools in the 1970s. Part of the reason for the take over was the fear that most of these schools were, in one way or another, controlled by foreign organisations and people, such as foreign missionaries and that it was dangerous to leave the education of Nigerian children in the hands of foreigners. These primary and secondary schools were handed over to the states by the Federal Government (the Federal Military Government also took over regional/state owned universities and still owns and manages those universities today).

Governor Jakande decided that every child must attend school, that they (and their parents) must spend little or nothing to get an education and that this must be done on budget (that is, the government must also not overspend in order to achieve this). So the government created numerous schools (I don't think any government in the history of Lagos has created as many schools as Jakande did).

The scholars buses ferried children to and from school free of charge and the government also reached agreements with publishers to supply books to the schools at no cost to the students.

I took some of those books from one of those students at that time and below are pictures of one of those books.

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You can see that it has the Seal of the Lagos State Government on it. This notice is stamped on some of the pages of the book - "Property of the Lagos State Government. Not for sale" (the notice on the pages of another book reads - "Property of the Lagos State Government of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. Not for sale" ). The name of the particular school was also stamped on the books and it was a huge offence to sell those books.

One of my favourite parts of the policy and one that was hated by many students, is the part that was known as Center. Basically, students from schools in a particular area or neighbourhood would congregate at a centre in which they would be taught woodwork, home economics and other hands on subjects.

So, how can anyone have a problem with this policy?

1) Multiple schools: - Remember that most of these schools were seized from their original owners, most of whom were european missionaries. The missionaries believed in total, all-round education. They believed that it was important to educate the mind, body and soul. So most of those schools had large football fields, cricket pitches, basketball and tennis courts, chapels and mosques and even swimming pools. They also had farms for agricultural science and facilities for music, arts and drama.

Jakande was determined to get as many people as possible into school, so he built new classroom blocks on those sports facilities. Several schools were built in the same compound. You had "Government College, School 1", "Government College, School 2", "Government College, School 3" (sounds like a nollywood movie, doesn't it?) and so on and so forth. Many of the schools (classroom blocks) were built so close to each other that they were poorly ventilated. If you go round Lagos, you'd see a lot of these schools that were established between 1980 and 1982.

Someone complained, "What kind of schools were those? They had no laboratories, no sports facilities, no libraries, just blocks of badly built classrooms".

The original owners and ex-students of these schools were also very upset that their school compounds were being broken up in this manner (a visit to Igbobi College or Maryland Comprehensive Secondary School will give you an idea of what happened. The Aunty Ayo School system was divided into 3 schools!).

2) The buildings: - The quality of the new buildings was also another source of concern. I watched a documentary on Jakande's birthday, in which the project coordinator explained what happened. Jakande told her that he wanted X number of classrooms built at Y amount. She went, did her study and came back and told him that it was impossible. He replied that he had faith in her and he knew that she could do it and restated that he wanted X number of classrooms built at Y amount. That she should find out where she can make savings. So she went back and made some adjustments. Rather than using glass window panes, they used wood. They made other similar adjustments and were able to build X number of schools for Y amount.

This was one of the things that infuriated people the most. One of my friends on Sunday complained that, "I can never like that guy. I don't know why people are trying to whitewash and launder his image. That guy built chicken sheds in my school and called them classrooms!"

Many of those classroom blocks were very basic. Some had no coat of paint, some had wooden windows, no fans, no electricity, etc.

Governor Mudashiru, who took over from Jakande, had to spend a lot of money to upgrade some of the classroom blocks.

3) Interview: - Like I said earlier, the missionairies and the colonial government believed in total education. They believed that they should not only educate the mind, but that they should also develop the body, social skills, behaviour and spiritual needs of the child. So there were sports activities, plays, musical performances, etc.

Thus, prospective students were interviewed and investigated to determine their suitability, not only academically (which would have been determined by the entrance examinations), but also in terms of character.

Jakande's policy dictated that school districts were divided into catchment areas. Principals of secondary schools had to accept students from specified primary schools in their catchment areas (so long as the student passed the G2 primary school leaving certificate exam [one of the easiest exams you could ever take). It was also very difficult for the principals to expel these students, except the student failed promotion exams twice.

The result was that many unruly students were admitted into these schools. Discipline broke down. It became quite normal to read stories in the newspapers about students beating up teachers and even principals. This was also one of the reasons why the old Principals Cup Competition was suspended. Extreme violence often accompanied these football matches. Secondary school students went to school and football matches with axes (known as UTC), cutlasses and other dangerous weapons.

4) Carrying capacity: - The policy led to a dramatic increase in school enrollment and this put a huge strain on facilities (despite the rapid increase in schools and classrooms). Most schools, pre-1979, had a student-class ratio of 25 or 30 students per class. This changed during the Jakande era and it was not unusual to see classrooms with 60 to 100 students.

5) Shift system and boarding facilities: - Jakande's aim was to provide education to as many people as possible, so it was very strange that he abolished the shift system.

Pre-1979, people who were unable to get an education when they were younger and those who could not make it into the regular morning session because of space constraints, could enroll in the evening school system. Most schools had both a morning and an evening session (usually using the same school buildings, but sometimes using separate buildings). Jakande abolished that system and the morning session became the only session. For example, the facilities that were used for St Gregory's College's evening session became the Government College Victoria Island (GoCoVi). The shift system was initially created by the civillian and military governments of the 1960s, when the launched "universal education" policies. The facilities overstretched the existing facilities, so they had to introduce a shift system.

Jakande also abolished the boarding school system. The government planned to demolish the hostels and build classroom blocks where the hostels previously stood.



Now, certain families have a tradition of attending the legacy schools in Lagos. The legacy schools include:

CMS Grammar School, Methodist Boys High School, Methodist Girls High School, Anwar-Ul Islam Model College (formerly Ahmadiyya College and before that, it was known as Saka Tinubu), Anwar-Ul Islam Girls High School (formerly Ahmadiyya Girls College), St Gregory's College, Holy Child College, Baptist Academy, Kings College, Queens College, St Finbarr's College, Our Lady Of Apostles Secondary School, Maryland Comprehensive Secondary School, Aunty Ayo International School, etc. (All of these schools, except Kings and Queens College, were taken over by the State Government. Aunty Ayo was divided into 3 and 2 of the schools were taken over by the State, while one remained private).

I know a family which has had at least one member in a particular school every decade since the 1920s. I know another family in which the tradition is so strong that the children are brought back to Lagos, from wherever they are in the world, to attend a particular school (or its sister school). These families were very angry at the way that Jakande was "destroying" "their" schools. The Catholic Archbishop of Lagos, Anthony Okogie, launched scathing attacks against Jakande in the newspapers. He also instituted several lawsuits against the Lagos State Government. The families made several attempts to stop the LASG's attempt to "destroy" their schools. The Old Boys of Igbobi College stopped funding the school at a point, because they were depressed by what was happening to it.

It became an insult to be referred to as a Jakande boy or Jakande girl (they were synonymous with the word "thug" ) or for someone to say that you attended a Jakande school.


However, like my other friend would point out, this policy enabled many people who would probably have been uneducated and a problem to society, to get an education, get a job, feed their family/be independent and contribute to Nigeria's development. Cricket pitches, football fields, etc are a small price to pay in exchange for that.

Those of us who grew up in LKJs era know that he went the extra mile to make life easier for the poor and the middle class. Many schools exist today because he dared to create "cattle sheds" (as the elite would say), which were subsequently upgraded into proper schools. He had no other choice because he chose to end the evening school shifts across Lagos.

The housing estates, mini water works, Lekki expressway ( which in my opinion could be named after him), and all you have listed lends credence to the fact that he was outstanding.

Tory don get k leg. More confusion.

PO and Atiku should have registered a new party.

Na wa! What happened to their agreement or settlement which was supposed to bring about a ceasefire?

Aww! Clarus clarus.
Those who brought smiles to our faces in our younger years are leaving now.

May his soul rest in perfect peace.

May God comfort his family. May they always know joy, love, peace and progress as they prosper in God's goodness. Amen.

ZaddyJ:
Do they have a website?

Yes. Search for Federal Mortgage Bank Nigeria.
https://www.fmbn.gov.ng

Eriokanmi:
He's destroyed a lot of infrastructure in Iran today already. Like I said here yesterday, if Iran's current regime would embrace peace, at least, for the sake of their people, they should embrace peace cos America is a destroyer. They can destroy you now and re-build you later but can life ever be the same again ? Accepting the ceasefire agreement is a step in the right direction.

We know Iran is a threat to the world, both to Christians, Muslims, istrael, gulf nations and pagans alike. Saudi will never forget the shege this country had done to them in a hurry...and which they're still planning to do. Anyone seeing the ongoing war as a religious war needs ti visit yaba kiakia.

Yes, Iran is a threat to the world but Trumps approach is not the best. Iran or let's say IRGC may prefer to keep fighting irrespective of the consequences on their people. A government that has killed thousands of young protesters wouldn't care a hoot about whatever Trump says or does.

It seems the people at the grassroots love Adeleke. They're aware that he was deliberately denied LG funds to make things difficult and to impact negatively on his performance.

Despite that, he has managed to pay workers and pensioners their full salaries including debts owed by the last government. He has also done a lot of projects across the state according to them.

ZaddyJ:
I’m based in the USA and I want to invest in it.

Contact FMBN Head Office or Lagos Office directly. I think they now have a plan for those living abroad.

How do they move so many people unseen like ghosts? Reports make it look like they appear out of nowhere and disappear with their victims into thin air. Yet, we see videos of them moving in large numbers on bikes with their guns like they're unstoppable.

It's so worrisome knowing what these helpless people will go through in the hands of the heartless terrorists.

We truly need divine intervention and the blessing of our efforts.

A good addition to health facilities in the State for the people's benefit. Kudos to the Governor.

I learnt that the packages were distributed across Churches, Mosques and at Ward levels. I guess someone just decided to make a video of this one.

It's unfortunate that these experienced politicians can't get their acts right. It would have been better to form their own political party.

AAADE:
I disagree with you. Looking back at where we were coming from, Ojulari's regime is quite exercise openenes and integrity than Mele kyari's regime. At least telling the whole Nigerian that continuous repairing the refinery is a complete wastage of resources is an applause to him. This is the refinery we will repair with $5m but we will not realize
$1m doller and the refinery is down again

Yes, unlike others, he told us the truth. I hope his plans work out to bring full recovery and a growth era for NNPC. Profitability is key.

AAADE:
I disagree with you. Looking back at where we were coming from, Ojulari's regime is quite exercise openenes and integrity than Mele kyari's regime. At least telling the whole Nigerian that continuous repairing the refinery is a complete wastage of resources is an applause to him. This is the refinery we will repair with $5m but we will not realize
$1m doller and the refinery is down again

Yes, unlike others, he told us the truth. I hope his plans work out to bring a full recovery and growth era for NNPC.

Parents taking the spotlight at a children's event.
Not good at all.

The focus should be on the performance of the kids while creating a fun filled atmosphere for them. Parents used to be simply dressed spectators cheering up the kids in the past.

Some modern parenting styles are baffling and creating problems for proper child development.