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What a long thread, indeed!

She will regret it at old age. Unnecessary youthful exuberance.

Hey @ Op, I don't know you, however, I decided to chip in something to you because I believe you are still naive.

1. You are in lust, not love. The girl in question may have some good physical attributes that make you crave for her. Equally, because of her "settings", you want to marry her as to show-off and be proud in the midst of your friends that you married such a "gorgeous lady".

2. You 'alledgedy' engaged her and she still has the effrontery to misbehave. Its not just as you see it. This is revelation!. You've been blind.

3. No girl that has dated a 'white guy' will EVER forget the reminiscence of the good life they had. She is open to unfaithfulness forever.

4. May you leave the lady!. She has multiple patterns aside you. For now, it is easy for her to change men and she has no iota of respect for you.

5. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Often, I write in parables but now I am very blunt in saying this so that you get my message clearly: DO NOT MARRY THAT LADY.

6. To her, you are nothing. She has her time, she wants to follow men hence, you can never be respected and told the truth. Your lady is in multiple relationships. Please, don't bring fire to yourself. Marriage is not as you think - flashing sexy lady. She MAY come back to you afterwards, PLEASE DON'T ACCEPT HER BACK. Either she has been disappointed by other of her guys or she has got a disease and needs to go to 'who has been craving for her' - That's you. Call her now and tell her you've accepted her broken up with you. Forget whatever you must have lost. You will replenish.

7. It will weigh you down for sure but please leave her. Pray to God for a LIFE-PARTNER, he will surely give you one. GOD intentionally showed you this at the begining so that you will leave but if you insist, mark my words, YOU WILL REGRET. I don't pray bad to you but I am in a very vantage position to advice you. Please never ever say you love that lady again. A stitch in time saves nine.

Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs

I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......


Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).

Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.

After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......

She's just been fruustrating my life.

One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.

Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.

Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".

I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...


I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........


Pls advise me.

When you see any strange occurrence happening in Africa, just know it should be in Kenya. Weird things happen there a lot. Even without seeing the place that this occurred, I have already made up my mind it must be in Kenya.

As young as this Timi Frank is, he still doesn't have a rare gem characteristic. Nigerian law is too soft for corruption if not he wouldn't get the mouth to talk. The law should never be a respecter of personality nor political affiliation. Please, Frank let the law take its course. I am just disappointed in a supposedly "youth - leaders of tomorrow", saying this.

I hope those are not the Chibok girls.

Irrelevances everywhere. The original writer that brought this to public view suffers some malfunctions. Who else is supposed to open a bottle of water for the person that wants to drink of it? Some people's conception are down below average. I hope you didn't see Obama hold an umbrella to contain himself and his wife against the rain as they visited Cuba. Mental slavery is the worst servitude - such a low mentality, though.

I think he may have some hearing problems so he adapted an external ear and mouth piece for his phone in that form. He just wants to hear clearly!.

That's simple and nice. Maturity has got a way it brings out beauty from (mature) people.

Refund what? This is just like saying that a Lebanese Company overpaid tax to government. May God save us from manipulation in this country!

Lol. May be the reason they engage in all risk-affair. Ok oh.

Mbediogu:
What greater risk than marriage?

Lol. God will bless your hustle.

timilehin007:
Which construction company you work bro. I work with Lopek engineering and construction company Ltd I pull concrete mixer and can use dumper

In as much as this may seem unique in its way, yet it was a serious risk venture. Payloaders, back-hoes and (infact) all hydraulic-powered machineries are not meant to carry load over a long distance/time. (It can fail at any time via bursted hoses). Their operation is usually regimented and continual (not continuous). Whosoever approved of this, did not indulge in any risk analysis before the performance. Thank God no happenstance that would have led to injury/death occured as a result of that action.

If you watch, the daughter's own has started coming up. By the time she will grow up to the mum, her clothes will stop at her tommy.

No place in this world is as corrupt as in Russia. If they check both their footballers and basketball players all will test positive to banned substances. Na their way.

In this fuel scarcity that they have supply of up to 2000 litres of PMS. Who sponsors these guys

Lion dog. Are you sure lion didn't mate the mother.

Oh, this is good. What caught my fancy the most is that though he contested the governorship election with Willie and lost, he still has the depth to acknowledge and work with the governor as to move his state forward. This is commendable and not common with Nigerian politicians. More power to your elbow, Ifeanyi Ubah.

Hahaha. He is not bleaching; he is toning. But the toning burnt the melanin in the skin. The fingers though.

Turn by turn jare!

Your wish should always be her command, irrespective.

okomogo:
Lols but I think stopping it now is better so that she won't grow up thinking I'm her real dad.

#Jumping chicken

.........he said from London. #Irestmycase.

A starting point though. In the next five years, I believe improved versions will be delivered.

I hope this incidence happened in india. If not, you have put some life in danger by releasing this dangerous animal to go scott-free. In fact, if it happened in nigeria, go and recatch/recharm it, Nlanders will help you kill it. The death won't be on your head.

@op; It's neither your fault nor hers. The girl needs a 'father figure' in her life. This is one of the demerits of single-parenthood to the life of a child. Stopping her abruptly may affect her pschologically. You would have initially stopped it a long time earnestly. You need to get married, bear your own child/children so that she will vividly and clearly connote whose daddy you actually are. For now, continue to be buying biscuits.

@op; It's neither your fault nor hers. The girl needs a 'father figure' in her life. This is one of the demerits of single-parenthood to the life of a child. Stopping her abruptly may affect her pschologically. You would have initially stopped it a long time earnestly. You need to get married, bear your own child/children so that she will vividly and clearly connote whose daddy you actually are. For now, continue to be buying biscuits.

Let's always discuss rationally. I can say any thing about bribery allegations however it's only banks in Rivers state that are closed. Once can equally transaction in neighbouring Imo/Abia/Delta/Bayelsa etc.

That girl resembles Olajumoke. #justsaying.

What happened is that the lady may have a chequered past but it shouldn't worry anybody because God makes king/queen to whom He wants. We all are children of the Most High and God's grace is indiscriminately sufficient for all and sundry. NB: God does not choose the qualified rather he qualifies the chosen. The lady in question has not claimed to be unblemished; she has been sober so far - if you are keen to observe. In as much as her husband, the king accepted her with all his heart, that's what is needed. Then, may God hear their supplication for a successful reign.

What happened is that the lady may have a chequered past but it shouldn't worry anybody because God makes king/queen to whom He wants. We all are children of the Most High and God's grace is indiscriminately sufficient for all and sundry. NB: God does not choose the qualified rather he qualifies the chosen. The lady in question has not claimed to be unblemished; she has been sober so far - if you are keen to observe. In as much as her husband, the king accepted her with all his heart, that's what is needed. Then, may God hear their supplication for a successful reign.

Did he say what is not the truth? Use you tongue to count your teeth.