U aint a kid anymore Try to be useful to yourself & the society this year
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redon12: My fiance blocked me on WhatsApp three years ago, I couldn't reach her on phone either. I couldn't reach her mum and two sisters, trying to understand why she blocked me and why I couldn't reach her Family.
Two days later I saw her traditional wedding pictures on Facebook. It was the cruelest thing that ever happened to me.
I didn't have much money then so I could understand why she left. But I spent every dime I had on her, the sex was good and I was always there when she needed me.
All this happened three years ago, I felt that because she left me abruptly her life was supposed to be miserable, but she really is doing well, I have been stalking her all the way, I attended her wedding and her graduation, though quite conspicuous in the act, she drives the latest cars now, the last time I heard about her she was leaving the country to the UAE to deliver her second child. And still nothing bad happened to her.
I still can't get over her my life is miserable. But then all those years she left and I had time for myself to think clearly and learn web development skill, I was able to build my self a site that quickly transformed itself, it had a fast growth, an e-commerce/fintech company, which i am now officially it's CEO, with a company size of 11 people. I just got a seeding of 1.2 million dollars, to buy riders for dispatchers and also for advertisement.
But with all these she's thriving and she's doing well, It makes me wonder if life is really fair, I still have pictures of the day I proposed at ShopRite, the kisses, the hugs, the time we spent together, I still can't believe she forgot all that.
I am doing well now I have my own house and two cars to it, and a thriving company. But I can't stop stalking her, because of her I moved to Enugu where she lived. Some days whenever I come back from work Early I give this secondary school boys small cash to go to her husbands mansion to see if there is any activity there, then come back and report to me.
I believe she doesn't know I am still unto her, almost any day I am coming back from work, I drive through her beauty spar just to catch a glimpse of her.
I convinced my kid sister to move to Enugu, also convinced her to enroll her child in the same nursery and primary school my fiance's child goes to.
No matter how hard I try to meet other women, I always see her face on the wall behind them. I have tried to meet women from different countries from some of my trips to Dubai. No matter how gorgeous they never appeal to me.
Even till today I still see her as my fiance, I don't know what to do or how to get over her.
owukpa: Popular Nigerian transwoman, Miss Sahhara has some words of advice for those who wish to transition into womanhood.
Taking to her Instagram story, Sahhara disclosed that she spent the night in the hospital after undergoing corrective surgery with the drains still attached.
She advised those prospective trans-genders against rushing into making decisions for their body because to become a woman is a marathon and not sprint.
Read what she wrote below ;
I spent the night in the hospital after the surgery with the drains still attached, the surgery is to correct some pain and mistakes I made during my journey into womanhood. We go through hell to be our true selves, it’s a shame that some people trivialize our identity without knowing what it takes to be us.
I hope they never go through what I have been through.
To my trans sisters, I see a lot of you making the same mistakes I made in order to fit into society. Please be patient, don’t rush into doing things your body will produce naturally. Becoming the woman you truly are takes years, it is a gradual marathon step, not a sprint.
Don’t destroy your life out of haste and desperation.
I am staying in the hospital until I am deemed strong enough to go home. Thank you all so much for your lovely messages.
Recall that in an interview with IDOMA TV, Oche's father, Chief Agbo Ella had said he is proud of son, who was once his son and would welcome her with open arms if she chooses to return home.
He denied ever disowning Clifford Oche, now Miss Sahhara, stressing that he would gladly accept bride price from any man who is willing to take his daughter to altar.
“Provided they can live together, why not? I will accept,” he said when asked by IDOMA TV host, Naomi Oboyi. Watch the full interview below.
This yoruba demon, u have refused to have sense abi?
Ok o, continue.
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What’s the delusion here! Reality I put straight in your front.
When you either of the Hausas or Fulani, you lots are not matches. You just loud empty barrels. We do it and make it happen. You work all your life’s pleasing us.
Nothing of such! Rather you can say both have conquered Nigeria. You accusing people who hold both hood your future at hand. People who determine whether you live to exist!
It’s always a joke when you bring topics like this forgetting you served for same people for over 50 years.
Those before you served and you are presently serving! And that’s how it will continue….
That region is the only region in Nigeria binded by religion, language, culture, trade and ethics. Why you see that in their differences, they are United! An Hausa will never betray a Fulani for a Yoruba or Igbo.
Take that lesson to the bank. They United against all odds. Their differences, has never been a point to divide them
olawonder: Just my curious observation that we hardly see properties, land and otherwise, available for sale in the North like Nasarawa, Gombe, Jigawa or even Bauchi! Aren’t there Nairalanders from these states who are into property and estate agencies?
The fake ass fool who has never protested against killings, banditry, and the many evils ravaging the zoo, is announcing protest because a sport channel commentator said something...
With all the crises crippling this sh!thole, the fool actually opened a thread to rant about a sport channel, and u too are here foaming in your mouth.
Did you read the original post?Why are you so pained? This is why no nation gives you visa to leave Nigeria .You MUST build the country by force or by fire
You didn't ask nigerians to protest the killings, banditry, corruption, planned fuel price hike etc.
It is a sport channel u are mobilizing protests for...
O boy receive sense
cl0r0x: How can an entity like bein sports be so biased toward a football team? I spend heavily on bein sport subscription only to watch my country playing and hear their commentator say inshallah (God willing) Egypt will win and also should alhamdullilah when Nigeria miss. I charge all Nigerians to protest on bein social media handles. This is really childish. I am cancelling my subscription, I rather watch pirated iptv.
So you did not see the signs before marriage damage?
When Faith Oyedepo said DON'T EVER MARRY A PERSON WHO DOESN'T HAVE THE FEAR OF GOD, you thought she was kidding?
He who finds a wife finds a good thing...
You didn't find a wife, you found a knife. Very sharp knife aka slay queen.
Now that she has started slaying you, your testimony has changed.
Pele o
Fred166: I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).
My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.
We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.
I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.
3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.
I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.