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With Mrs Chima and co virgins,I guess I am one too cos my experience is not up to 1/200th of theirs.

Blackteeth:
whenever a guy conquers a hard-to-get chic, he breaks the news to his friends and brags about it, and the chic will be a laughing stock for the guys behind the scenes for being conquered after all the hardness. To make it worse, the guy will break her heart and dump her within months of being conquered. Damn!!!

That is the immature part in case you were wondering. Why will a girl be laughing stock cos she agreed to a guy's sexual proposal? That is detestable. If the guy can not treat her with respect b4 or after, it might explain why they all seem hard to get to you. Probably your reputation preceeds you.

I agree with you. What is the point of playing games if you know you already like a guy well enough.
All that said, no point in opening your legs for every guy out there.

Nothing good ever comes from that. Try having an open frank relationship instead.

She doesn't have a true colour yet! Infact she doesn't even have a colour. She is just forming one now. They all start so innocent this way and they life turns them to vampires

She is still your sister. Inbreeding in your family I see.
It is wrong, and you know it.

Yeah, they all claim equality et al. Yet they do no hv the balls to ask guys for their numbers cos they are afraid of rejection! How do you think a guy feels when he approaches you in the club and all you do is reject and embarrass him sometimes.
Or they expect men to make the approach all the time? Equality my yansh!!!

2buff, are you in calgary or edmonton?

If you don't like her as a friend, then stop talking to her other than the occasional hello, hi when you bump into each other.

Your attitudes and personalities have nothing to do with your delta or her yoruba tribe. No need for the extra info except you are planning on making it into a tribal based theme.

goat leg:
believe me, he doesnt have a phone!

True, he is not into technology

Make sure you sleeped with another friend if she comes again

Nothing. Goodluck

^^^^ You are just a thug. You think everything is hitting a guy in the balls? I pity your husband o. And I pity you when he reacts cos Igbo men are very strong.

Dogs like bones too. It is long lasting and a plaything.

The patient dog gets nothing. The fastest eats the meat, and the sharp fast ones get the bones.

I'm tired of this topic already.
All your women fighters, Yes we will beat women who hit us. What can you do about it, absolutely nothing, afterall you know where the exit is. Now shoo and move on.

She makes it your duty to wash her panties

It is too jelly to cuddle but I lick my honey just to taste it before cooking.

She wants him to ask her out. But she also wants assurance from him that he will not break her heart bla bla bla. You know all those crazy things women do when they are vulnerable.

She acts like she detests you.

Nah, no friends or family. If she brings her mum, or friends, I will just leave her to enjoy her honeymoon with them instead.
Go find my own paddy to enjoy palmwine on my last days of being single - cos I obviously still am.

If you want his number, ask for it and stop waiting for him to ask for yours. He might be shy or not good at closing deals

PS: your green light sucks. Not to worry, most women suck at giving green light to men. Instead they choose to blame men for not understanding the greenlight.

I will forgive 0 to unlimited times. Depends on the crime.
When it's over, you will know its over, that is assuming you are using your head.

90% of the time , once a cheat always a cheat. - Your gf is in the 90% - shine your eyes cos it is in her behaviour and pattern.

99% of the time, when you cheat once on a person, you will do it again.

It is easier to stop cheating when you have moved on ( and date someone else) from the person you cheated on. Afterall, there was something missing that led to the person cheating in the first place. Or just plain greed that don't go away.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=594713.msg7633446#msg7633446 date=1296397012]you were wrong

not intentionally so

but her response to accept your suggestion - turned it so - it turned you wrong

u DEFINITELY need to apologize

also when u are wrong don't combine your wrong with his previous wrong towards you - keep issues separate

this is your relative whom you will see 60 years from now - keep the next 60 years harmonious on your part - this isn't about a simple mouth exchange of food items - this is about how you react and conduct yourself in ALL SITUATIONS that will replay itself continuously in your life in different scenarios in the way you treat yourself and others.

everything you put out in the universe - NEVER FAILS TO COME BACK TO YOU OVER AND OVER AGAIN.

you will have a girlfriend that you REALLY LOVE and someone will offer something to her via mouth - how would you feel in that situation my friend?

make the adjustment in your thought

and

correct this situation with your relative

before

it comes back to bite you[/quote]I agree 90%.
The other 10%, on the issue of your previous 'galfriend' - Dude he did no wrong since you organised it for him. No harm no foul!
Poster, you are still wrong for not recognising there are limits when dealing with other people's partners whether they are friends or family.

Why don't you tell us the entire story. Bits and pieces don't cut it.
Just cos you dated someone for 8 yrs doesn't mean you have to marry the person. That is life. If the lady cheated then wasting her time for that long isn't that big a revenge IMO. Infact wait till she is past menopause then leave!

@topic
No biggie. It's normal and I am used to it by now.

1. You decided to have one and only one relatonship in your life and you chose a long distance one? You are a joker!
2. Long distance relationships characterized by phone calls etc make it easy to mask one's feelings, actions and reactions. You see that anger you are surprised at? that is her personality. SHe has been able to hide it all this time. That was just a momentary slip. May or may not happen again.
3. The real reason for the anger is frustration. She is getting bored of all the call only type of relationship. Your relationship lifetime is panning out with her. You can tell by the fact she wouldn't even call you when it was all free for her to do so. Were you expecting she will all over you with a phone cos she has the ability to
4. She may be tolerating you only cos you are working, and sponging off you a little. Maybe not at first, but right now. Money or not, Working or not, you should always give people a chance to show their love and commitment to you. Dont make up excuses for them and decide to show all the love on your side cos of circumstances. abi you think your gf don't call other people ni? - including other guys.

goodluck with what is left of your relationship with your perfect selection

Zahnda:
There's giving your man a beat down till the neighbours call the cops and you score yourself a restraining order. And then there's highly charged pushing and shoving kicking some azz right into a mighty joyride. The latter's my kick, none of that lame butterfly feathery kisses to some ish, And of course I'm attracted to like minded people and they get it.

And what is the motive behind the above bolded? Is that pre-intimacy or you throwing your tantrums?
Yeah, the restraining order folks started where you are today. I will still give you a double highly charged pushing and shoving kicking . Then hv rough sex with you after that. Kick you to the curb after that cos you are way too charged for me.

One thing I have learnt so far, when a guy tries to steal a girl from you, and she is willing to go, let her go. If she goes, she is not worth it. There will hardly be trust btw them anyways cos he will feel she will keep bouncing from place to place. What will be will be - if a girl wants to stay with you, she will stay. No need to bother yourself. Take time off for yourself. Believe they are doing you a favour - after all you know how much stress it is to be with a woman. There is always something better round the corner.

In my rating of women I will rate both women in personality and looks as follows:

Ex's look 7
Ex's character 4

New gfs looks 9
New gf's xter 9

See I got a sweat deal, which didn't look like so. I mean two yrs after, someone still ask me weeks ago, how did you manage that feat?

LMAO this is what happens when kids date. Your gf is frowning and you are getting angry by throwing tantrums. Geez, you must really hate from frowns that you prefer to see tears, fear and sorrow.

Listen if you were losing her slowly b4, you are defintely losing her way faster. If she is frowning, then smth isn't making her happy. all you hv to do is give her a little TLC (not fight or b*tch like a gal). She might loosen up and confide in you.

Just in case you were born 12 yrs ago, TLC means Tender Loving Care!