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Thank you Lord for not giving me this type of woman. If I didn't appreciate my lady b4, I think I really do now!!!

Ewwwww, The thot of it is disgusting enough,

Nothing at all, Age is nothing but a number (well as long as they are both in the adult age of consent)

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Cheating is wrong, no matter the person or situation. If you can stand a cheating partner, you got no self respect. If ur S.O. really loves you and knows you'll never condone cheating, he / she won't do it. If they do, kiss his / her ass to the curb, and don't look back for any reason.

Whoever makes me happy is who I choose. In my experience, cultural differences make interracial relationships tricky but I've seen lots of cases where that can be overcome easily. My only preference is that she be female ( sex changers not allowed)

People don't change, Really

Grow a pair! Ur man card has been revoked. When you start acting like a man, the men would vote to give it back to you.

Big red flag!!!! He wants you cuz and he wants her now!!! If ur cuz is already hiding her relationship from u, be rest assured there's something going on behind your back.

Dump his ass! But b4 you do, ask for his bestfriend's no, or his brother, whichever one he'll feel most threatened with (single or player would be preferrable). You better start flirting with others when you r around him. It will keep him in line

wtf? Go ahead, who knows, you might get lucky with her! However don't feel bad when karma comes knocking on your wife's door in future.

R u comparing nja babes vs American nja babes or just oyinbo / akata?

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I read ur posts b4 I replied. I still got the same response for you!

You are just scared of her getting pregnant? Seems you don't mind having sex with her.

People like whats desirable. Being attractive is very desirable.

Beauty is skin deep, Ugly gets to the bone

If you can't get a woman, maybe you should broaden your net. Have u tried men?

It's tough on you when your innocent world gets shattered in such a way. I read the background post and I know you must be going thru a lot on this issue. I'll play the devil's advocate for your ex-bf ( i assume) on this one. My assumption is he is innocent of the date rape on both of you, and somehow it seems that way.
You've got to realise that if he was a virgin b4 that incident, his sexual life has been shattered also. Its easier for a guy to hold on to abstinence when he has not had tasted the forbidden fruit. After the incidence, it was probably much harder to hold it in considering the fact he probably knew how it felt. Also whats the point of holding on till marriage since you've lost your virginity - to him, of course.
His sexual urges make him an easy prey to your conniving roommate. She doesn't care abt him and he doesn't care abt her. Its just straight sex. He understands your position on being rigid. You guys should hv talked abt what to do sexually after the incidence and be open abt whatever urges you both might feel and how to handle it.

If you still care abt him, you should forgive him and have a nice talk. That is if he is also interested in that. If not, anyone would understand your decision. Keep in mind that even the best of us (men and women alike) are fallible.

PS, Revenge makes you feel better temporarily, and then you feel empty. Sleeping with your roommie's guy (assuming she cares abt him) wouldn't solve anything. It will only make things worse. You might not be able to live yourself or just might earn the name of slut in the name of revenge. On the bright side, the other guy gets to enjoy free sex, and possibly revenge.

As much as you r hurting, my sympathies lie with the lady and I think you deserve the hurt. No one is forced to be in a relationship with anyone. You should hv left the relationship as soon as u realised you couldn't marry her or she offended you to the point of hitting her! Didn't your mama teach you that you[b] NEVER [/b] hit a woman? Let this breakup and hurt be the lesson you need to help you with your future relationships. Treat a woman with respect and love and she would reciprocate it. If she doesn't, LEAVE. Its not by force.

To help with how u r feeling at the moment, keep busy, focus on other aspects of your life. Time heals all wounds.